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This memorial website was created in memory of sisters, colleagues, mentors that are Nigerian Feminists and Women's Rights Advocates. We will remember them forever. Between Year 2000 till date, we have lost the following:

Bilkisu Yussuf, 2015
Bisi Olateru Olagbegi, 2016
Obiagelli (Oby) Nwankwo, 2017
Sumbo Odebode, December 2020
Esther Uzoma, January 2021
Adebanke Akinrimisi, February 2021
Hauwa Shekarau, September 2021
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Our dear sisters being remembered here were truly priceless gems, committed and dedicated to women’s rights. Thank you for all you did and May the goodness of the Lord continue to abide with you.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Dr O, as we fondly called you back in UNIFEM. News of your passing was so unexpected, you will be solely missed by friends and family. We are grateful for your contributions to women and girls and your service to the UN. We pray the Good Lord comforts your loved ones and lights your way with Love and Grace!
January 19, 2021
January 19, 2021
Our sisters Sumbo and Esther will be greatly missed.

I had the opportunity to work closely with Sumbo on the Nigeria spotlight initiative. God fearing , humble and kind.

Esther was courageous and fearless and a delight to watch on television. So full of life.

May their families be comforted and may their souls Rest In Peace

Dr Eleanor Nwadinobi
President
Medical Women’s International Association
January 19, 2021
January 19, 2021
Dear Sisters,
you left legacies of diligence, excellence and hardwork. You are missed.May your souls continue to rest in peace. Amen
January 19, 2021
January 19, 2021
Esther the news about your passage is like a bad dream and I'm still trying to wake up. May your soul find rest.
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October 19, 2021
October 19, 2021
Hmmm its sad that I did not meet most of you in person but going from their antecedents they are powerful women that worked assiduously for women Inclusion and equity in all ramifications. May their souls rest in the bosom of their creator through Christ our Lord amen
September 30, 2021
September 30, 2021
Adieu, Hauwa. The measure of a life is not so much about how long it lasted but how well it was lived. Yours was a life well lived and there are many who will always treasure their memories of you. Rest In Peace.
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Remembering a Great and Beautiful Soul Hauwa Evelyn Shekarau (nee Luka)

I choose to unearth fond memories of Hauwa in celebration of her life. I have known Hauwa Evelyn Shekarau (nee Luka) since 1986, when we were both at the College of Advanced Studies (CAS) Zaria for our A levels. She and the second Hauwa Evelyn (Yusuf, nee Paul) were close, and she it was who first told me Hauwa had passed. At CAS, literature connected us, as I did a social science course, and the two Hauwa Evelyns did Arts. In CAS, I admired the grace, courage and confidence of Evelyn Luka, as we called her then. She could stand up to anyone, make a solid case without a need to raise her voice. It was just strong and clear. She had an answer for every question, which she would submit with a rueful smile. And she only got better through the years.

I admired Hauwa for all these things. Her physique also excited me. Hauwa was shapely and well endowed. She was a black beauty who proved that beauty comes in different hues and sizes. To skinny me then, she was gorgeous with her sometimes braids, sometimes locks, hairstyle. She had a subtle sense of humour. Once, about seven years ago, at Area 10 old parade ground, we jammed for a Saturday workout. I was fast walking the track circuit solo and came upon her in a cohort that was also jogging- she was a people person. As I passed her and said hello, Hauwa called after me, ‘ah my sister Amina, how now? jeje – don’t break something o. And we all laughed as I continued, counting my skinny steps, determined to finish that circuit before exhaustion won.

Hauwa had a passion for causes. She would seek your option about injustice but only rhetorically because regardless of your opinion, she had made up her mind to do something about it anyway. Hauwa taught us to create our space and own it, but also to share it. Our last conversation in 2020 or early 2021 was about raising resources for Women, Law and Development Initiative (WOLDI). Since she was not a stranger to MacArthur through her past work, we agreed Hauwa would join a virtual conversation to introduce her new work to the team, COVID-19 and all, permitting. That was never to be.

I am ashamed I did not know she had been ill. She had such quiet but effective energy; it is hard to imagine she had that big a battle to fight. Running for office as NBA Abuja Chair – the first female to attain that office, running FIDA-building on the work of her predecessors, leading the team at IPAS- it is easy to imagine this was a superwoman who needed nothing. But feminist sisterhood should always ask questions, prod, inquire and offer support. Are we doing enough for each other?

As I write these lines, I am listening online and inspired by the tributes pouring in from sisters and brothers on the continent and as far as the Caribbean. A beautiful feast of words for a beautiful and great soul. I want to thank the sisters like her namesake and the brothers who were there with her and lent her the support she deserved. May we never walk alone. I pray strength for the family. May Hauwa Shekarau’s rest be complete. May her legacy endure.


Amina Salihu
Sept 27 2021
Abuja


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Ode for Hauwa - A Life of Commitment, Passion and Purpose

September 21, 2021
I have known Hauwa for more than a decade  from her days as FIDA President, iPas Country Director and many more. A few months ago, our paths crossed again and Hauwa and I began a conversation bothering on the establishment of special courts for the prosecution of GBV cases in Nigeria. So deep was her passion for this that despite my initial reluctance, she in her usual calm demeanor managed to convince me about her idea. She was so excited about the prospects of partnership with Ford and finally as the grant was awarded, we scheduled an inception meeting which sadly never held. Hauwa called 24 hours before the meeting to ask that the meeting be rescheduled due to a health emergency. Unfortunately, we never held that meeting. You left before we got the chance to fully set in motion this dream. I am confident however that your legacy will not die with you and that WOLDI will thrive and your dream of special courts to expedite justice for victims and survivors of gender based violence will come to reality.

Rest In Power Hauwa! For Amazons don’t die, they only pass on the baton..

Stellar Banke

March 22, 2021
Banke was a stellar human being
Warm, kind, gentle, trusting, trustworthy, industrious, respectful, and respected.  A fierce feminist and prayer warrior. A totally detribalized Nigerian, I enjoyed speaking Hausa with her, which was a second language  from growing up in Kaduna, and her Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria days. It was an honor to have reconnected and worked with her under the MacArthur Foundation's On Nigeria project on tracking the National Home Grown School Feeding Programme (HGSFP) in Ogun State. The CEWHIN team, under her charge, was a worthy member of the Ogun and Kaduna HGSFP tracking cohort. Her work enabled school children to get the promised meal a day and supported women vendors to have a voice in the feeding process.

God rest my sister Banke's soul in peace and grant her many families grace. I salute our sisters Atinuke and Sunbo, and other sisters, and brothers, for their love and friendship at this time and for honoring Banke’s memory. Ojo a jina sira won. May Banke's legacy endure.

Sunre, ore min atata
Amina Salihu  
Abuja

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