I've been trying to write this for a while now but no better day than today to write this. This is one of the few days in the year we will get to talk and catch up, after I would have sent you a message to wish you a happy birthday. Of course I got up this morning and the first thing that came to my mind was it's Odema's birthday and ran here.

Over the years we have drifted and drifted apart but I never forget the wonderful smile and you dancing a particular time at uni.. I'm sure you remember. You were such a pure and rare soul and you left a mark on everyone you came in touch with. That is who I will always remember.

Keep smiling dancing with angels beautiful one.

Happy birthday Odema with lots of love

My Dearest Odema,

I stumbled upon a picture of you, and it was so unbelievably sad to find out it was a goodbye message. I remember meeting you for the first time on a bus ride to my internship in London in 2008. We sat next to each other and got talking - you told me all about SEO London. I was super excited because my dream at that time was to start my career in investment banking (how times have changed), and you were already doing just that.

Odema, I was a complete stranger, but girl, did you take me on – you emailed me all the information I needed, recommended me, helped me in preparing for my interview, checked up on me constantly, invited me to your house days before my interview for final preparations, and sent me scriptures and encouragement while I was waiting to hear back. Who does all that for a total stranger? Only you, my dear, Odema.

I would later find out that you were friends with some of my friends from secondary school, and it was so good to see you at Ada's wedding after so long.

I remember sending you an email with the subject, "Where are you?" 

I am so glad I found you again after a long time and got to say thank you one more time.

You are light, pure, loving, and a great example of God's love for us here on earth. (You continue to be).

Thank you for everything.

I pray that God comforts your family, friends and loved ones.

You are loved.

With all my heart, thank you.

Toluwalola Kasali

You will be missed Odema. You were one of the kindest people I have ever met. I remember how many times you bailed me out when I was in Derby. I remember plenty laughs from our time at Edexcel. I will always remember your gorgeous smile and laugh. Rest well beautiful Odema. May God comfort all those you left behind.