I have left this up on till now, but sincerely aunty, I don't want to come to terms that this is true. My Dear Aunty. Tears drop down my eyes writing this. Aunty you loved us your family so much. You made room for family. You made us know we were special to you. The kind of love you also have for my husband is so much. You dare not hear anything is wrong with Joshua. You do check on us and my children. You remember their birthday and specifically text me not to forget to come over to meet you in the children's church( a place you call your duty post) ; to get their gifts. Of course your darling Joshua and myself broke down when we heard the news.
What of my mum, the love you showered on her. You do call me to be sure I had all in place for my mum's care. Aha!!! Aunty !! You were my helper of destiny. You helped me countless times.
A strict person you were, but down that strictness was a heart who was loving and so concerned. Anytime you wanted to discuss an issue with me, you had your way of inviting me for a meeting to eat, and then you give it to me raw and then top it up with your loving words.
I still remember when we paid you a visit at your house and you made salad, with ingredients freshly prepared. I remember you showed me how important it was to have everything well prepared neatly.
When I scrolled through my phone at a time of need recently, aside my husband and mum , you were the person I rang and you responded and you kept in touch till things were resolved. When I needed your professional expertise, you were on phone patiently to guide me.
I am glad , I made you feel honoured when I appreciated you in my first published book. I could see the smile on your face when I handed the book over to you and you saw your name. I wanted you to know that I appreciated you and I am so happy you knew that before you left, because that is what really matters, letting those we love, know how much we appreciate them.
As usual, we will send Happy New Year Greetings but on this occasion this year, I sent you a text, you did reply but sincerely the response felt odd to me because my aunty Funmi's reply will be longer, with prayers, but I assumed another reason could be cause for the response...until my husband and I received that call. I have tried to put all behind me, hoping one day I wake up from the dream, but as the day of the funeral comes close and people talk about it, I get more sad, knowing it is true.
Just recently my husband said he saw someone who looked like you and he was hoping it was you and was walking closer to the person, until he had to call himself back........that shows how much we wish that this is all a dream.
My Aunty Funmi...I love you and will miss you.- Temitope Oyewole