May your sweet soul continue to rest in peace with your Lord until the resurrection morning when we shall meet to part no more.

I am still in shock since I heard this news just two days ago! Very difficult to take in. However, we are confident that you are in a better place and out of pain.

You are now in the blessed arms of our Lord Jesus Christ. The One you loved and served so faithfully.

I remember our days together in Niger Basin, though so many years ago, they are still such fond memories.
You were so helpful, hard working, and welcomed everyone in your very gentle, calm and soft spoken way. You were very highly placed in the Authority, yet you treated everyone with so much respect. A woman of integrity and humility. It was such a pleasure to have worked with you and I give God praise for your life.

This time of separation is painful, but we believe God that we shall meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ. The Almighty God will keep and uphold your lovely family.

Thank you for being a faithful friend and colleague. A life well lived for Jesus.

Dear Sister Lara, I find it so difficult to write this tribute because I just don't have the words to articulate my feelings on your passing on to glory at this time. I thought that with the passage of time, it would be easier to write but it is not.

Anyway, I want to first thank God for the time He allowed us to have you with us. You lived an exemplary life and I thank God for the legacy you left behind. You were gentle and soft-spoken, an inspiration and a role model to me and I believe to many others.You were generous and radiated so much love. I had not seen you in decades until May last year when I visited home. You gave my father some money when you visited me, a testament to your generous heart!

I am so glad that I was able to see you again later in October when you visited the US. I have a busy work schedule so social visits can be very challenging for me. However, wild horses could not stop me from coming to see you and I thank God that I made that trip. We had such a lovely time together and I cherish that visit so much as it was the last time I saw you.

I take solace from the scripture that admonishes us not to grieve for those who sleep in the Lord like those without hope ( I Thess.4:13-18). I look forward to seeing you again on the resurrection morning with our Lord Jesus Christ so dear Sister Lara, it is not goodbye but see you later! Until then, I will continue to cherish and honor your memory in my heart.

.

The first time I met mummy was during the wedding of her Son femi to my sister Kemi

Her charm immediately imprinted on me . Mummy will forever be remembered as being Kind, soft spoken, humble , gentle, super generous n a woman of faith to say the least

She fought the good fight and we are rest assured she is resting in a much better place.

May her gentle soul continue to Rest in Peace.

Anti Lara, I miss your beautiful face and smile, quiet and gentle disposition. We rejoice with heaven knowing that you are in a better place. Sun re o. We shall meet again someday.

From your friend, Mommy Gana.

Anti Lara, I miss your beautiful face and smiles. You

I cannot believe that i am writing a tribute for Lara. Wow wow, the frailty of life!!! The diagnosis of any serious illness is always heart breaking but i never thought it will end this way. This is because Lara was not only a prayer warrior, she was surrounded by her children, family and friends who are also prayer warriors. This is why I believe in the words of angel Gabriel
to Mary in Luke 1;37 that nothing is impossible for God to do.

So, Lara's passing is really shocking to me and i know that she will always be in my mind because love is greater than death.

Lara was a woman of faith who remained faithful to her belief till the last minutes of her life. You were buried with Him in baptism ,you will also be raised with Him through the power of God who raised Jesus Christ from death. Colossians 2:12.

Few days ago a friend of mine in Minneapolis asked me to lead the Catholic Prayers of Service of Songs for the mother who passed away at the age of 105 years. As i was preparing the words of encouragement, i found out in 1 Thessalonians 4: 13-18 that we do not to be unaware brothers about those who have fallen asleep ,so that you may not grieve like the rest who have no hope for if we believe that Jesus died and rose, so too will God through Jesus bring with Him those who have fallen in Christ.
I also reflected on the word of St Paul to the Romans14: 7-8 which says that none of us lives to oneself and no one dies for oneself. For if we live, we live to the Lord then whether we live or die we are for the Lord.
I found out that i was not only ministering to the bereaved family but to myself and was strengthened by Gods words.

  Lara and myself were classmate at the Queen of Apostles Secondary school in Kaduna in 1968 where we both stayed in the  dormitory until 1971.
We also found out that our villages were a few miles apart. Her parents lived in Ilorin where i also spent most of my holidays and we have been friends since then. " Larascoco" was my fond name for Lara, and she would also call me "Jemiscoco". She was such a gentle soul, never ever angry, a prayer warrior and a good example of a daughter of Christ.

She was in Austin Texas last year November to see Kunle and his family. She took time to visit her sister Yemisi in Virginia, both of them took a 5 hours bus trip to New York to see me and my new grand son. I thank God that it was our last fun time together. When i thanked her for the visit, she told me that i am more than that to her - What a great self giving love.!!
 I visited Lara in Seattle, Washington while she was in the hospital, we prayed together and remembered our old school days. In spite of her pain and suffering, she sent her sister to get me some gifts for my 70th birthday. What a compassionate friend with a very grateful heart. As i was leaving Seattle, not knowing the outcome of her illness, Lara expressed her gratitude to me for coming to see her at a time when she needed me the most.
We spoke about 2 weeks before her passing and she told me she was improving and thank me again for caring about her.

I thank God for you Lara and also grateful for our friendship of 55 years. Very few people have such opportunity to keep in touch with classmates especially since we were living in different  continents. I also magnify the Almighty God for you and strengthened by the numerous lives you touched with your goodness and kindness in your successful career and your spiritual witness.
I am eternally grateful for your children and siblings, the health care team, and social workers who took care of you. They gave you a great care. We loved and cared for you but the giver of life who has the final word wanted His wonderful and faithful angel back home. I therefore surrender you and everything to Him. May He pardon all your offenses, accept your soul into His kingdoms and grant you eternal rest. May the souls of all departed classmates and families through the mercy of God rest in perfect peace .Amen
      Where, o death is your victory?
      Where, o death is your sting?
My sincere sympathy to us all and especially the family on behalf of the class of 1967 of the Queen of Apostles College, Kaduna.

Rest in peace until we will meet again on the great resurrection day.

I Love you, my Larascoco.
Jemila Yakubu Ngwa.

Mummy Ade-Aina was a silent force to be reckoned with. Though gentle and gracious by disposition, her quiet spirit radiated a fortitude, equanimity and grace that few others can concurrently display. She was a woman of seemingly few words but undeniably voluble character. I loved her lovely and radiant smile that came from the light and depths within her, coupled with her ever-glowing and reverse-aging supple skin and good looks!

Beyond that, Mummy demonstrated the irrevocable power of love and the investments thereof - it was amazing to watch the unending stream of genuine love, support, goodwill, sacrifices, and passionate and undeterred fighting-for-the-best-and-her-life spirit her family displayed in the last few months of her life. For me, it was a great testament of a life well lived and an amazing legacy of love.

She was truly a woman of great substance and is indeed greatly missed. My heartfelt love, prayers and deep condolences go to the Ade-Aina and Ologe families. Thank you for sharing the gift of Mummy with us for the years we had her. Her legacy indelibly lives on in our lives and hearts.

May the God of all comfort visit the entire family individually and corporately and comfort them and give them peace like a River! May the memory of the righteous be blessed! May you rest in the blossom of our Lord Jesus!

You were a big part of my childhood, and it feels weird to know that Christmas and New year celebrations will no longer include visits to 'Mummy Fate'.
You were very kind and gentle and a big part of my family's support system, especially for my mum.
I'm grateful to have known you, and to have experienced your love and generosity.

Rest in peace Ma. Till we meet to part no more.

Temitope Kolade.

Mrs Omolara Ade-Aina was such a quiet, loving, humble and God fearing woman who brought up her children in same way, example we saw in the live of our dear son Babafemi. May her gentle soul rest in peace.

Lara Ade-Aina! My precious friend, a woman with a great and powerful family heritage. On top of that, Lara a child of God, a faithful follower of Christ indeed! Wow Lara! You so remind me of 1Corinthians 13:4-8 -Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.

A woman after God’s own heart. Lara, a soft-spoken, unassuming, full of warmth, gentle and powerful woman. Yes, very gentle but not weak. She was firm and blessed with wisdom. I met Lara during my National Youth Service in Ilorin. She accepted me so easily and brought me, welcomed me into her family with open arms and heart. Just like that! She remained loving and caring throughout her life, to me and my whole family. On behalf of my whole family, I say thank you.

My dear friend Lara, a woman of peace. A peacemaker who stood firm through the thick and thin of life. Lara always had a generous and compassionate heart. That is, a heart that even when others did offend, hurt, disrespect or insult her, would still go ahead and forgive. What a gem! Lara was aware of and acknowledged human faults but refused to focus on them. She instead always did her best to resolve conflicts between and among all.

Lara my precious friend, it’s been a privilege and honor to come across you in this life. Your life has thrown me a challenge and I take it - I promise to love God and all others like you did. This is a big loss to us all, but we know that you are with the Lord Almighty that you loved so much and served with all your heart. We take comfort in that, and we pray that all of us will love and serve Jesus to the end so that we will all meet again. Thank you, my dear Lara, for your love. The Almighty God that you served so intentionally is the God of all comfort and He will comfort all your loved ones left behind. In Jesus name, Amen.

Dear mummy ADE-AINA, as you go to heaven to rest with your Almighty God in death, I pray God to receive you in His paradise, forgive you all your sins and grant you perfect peace and rest in Heaven.

You were a simple,selfless,God fearing,respectful woman.
You had a beautiful heart.
You knew Almighty God, and served Him in faith, in charity and in love.

I pray the Almighty give the entire family fortitude to bear the irreplaceable loss through Christ our Lord.
Amen.
ADIEU.
Ariyibi omolara.

Aunty Lara, I met you in my adult days when I was visiting my friend Kike who was then leaving with you in River Basin Qtrs . You showed me love as a sister from another mother, you took my mother as your mother becos she came from Ejiba where your wonderful husband hailed from . My mother never missed her Sunday dinner at your place from Church Ecwa Fate/Tanke to your house. You always use your phone to video call and I will talk to her . Met you in London Peckham, in 2019 I never knew that was the last time . Oye Jesu. Suu re o a pade lese Jesu. Odi gbere odi arinako . It is well in Jesus name.

Mrs Aduke Taiwo: inlaw

After the demise of Pa j ologe,you took over the leadership of Pa Moses odofin dynasty. You played this role effectively and with humility. you built bridges across the divides of the ologe's dynasty together with your loving husband. It was a rude shock when I heard of your demise. Iya Ayo as fondly called, we miss you, and we will continue to miss you. Rest in the Bossom of our lord Jesus Christ. AHUN MAREGUN MAWO. Yomi Osawu

TRIBUTE TO A DEAR LOVING SISTER, OMOLARA FOLASADE ADE-AINA

“…to live is Christ, and to die is gain.” (Philippians 1:21).
We have lost a precious gem, but heaven has gained a precious saint, a loving, quiet, soft-spoken, caring, fantastic mother, ‘my husband’, Omolara Ade-Aina.
 After an assuring message that you are getting better, you quietly translated into glory into the presence of your creator to take your rest. Shocking as your sudden departure is to us your loved ones, we grieve because we are missing you here. You have left a vacuum that is difficult to fill. But we rejoice because the Lord whom you loved and served has now gained you to Himself. All glory to Him!
 Thank you for standing by me all through, with your gentle smile, cheering words and love. I am missing you already, but I look forward to that day when we shall be raised in power, that blissful morning when we shall be gathered home, and we meet to part no more. 

Rest in peace, my beloved oko lika.

Mrs Janet Toluyemi

A sister like a mother: How does one refer to her in past tense?

I thank God for the blessing to be able to call you my sister, my mother and my friend.

You took me under your wings right from the early stages of my life, you nurtured me from childhood, you shaped and moulded me into the woman that I am today. You instilled in me the fear of God and ofcourse the love and teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ.

You made sure that you stepped up to fill the void created by our mother’s absence in my life at all times. You nursed two of my children even at your own expense; I am still in awe of how you were able to juggle the roles of a sister and mother so perfectly at the same time almost the whole of my existence till the 24th of August when you were called Home.

I am thankful that God planted you into our family to be the voice of reason. You were an embodiment of love, peace, patience, perservearance and a bridge-builder. You were not only a sayer, you were a doer; you lived by examples and never allowed your emotions to cloud your judgement. You were never to big to say sorry when you realise that you were in the wrong (or even just for the sake of peace); you thought me how powerful the word ‘sorry’ could be and how far it can go to make the world a better place; also, that “two wrongs do not make a right”, thereby the word ‘sorry’ does not take away anything from you. Your whole being reflected the true teachings of our Lord Jesus Christ.

I am eternally grateful that the Lord ensured that you were able to feel loved just like you have made other people around you feel while you were on this realm.

Though your physical departure may have opened up a huge void in my life, but I am comforted and reassured by the prophecies of 2nd Corinthians 5:8 that “to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord”. Therefore; while I deal with the pain of physical separation, I am consoled that you are in a better place, free from pain, sufferring and sorrow; and that, on the morning of ressurrection, we shall be reunited again to part no more at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ; as promised in Revelations 21:4.

Adieu egbon mi, Folasade Omolara: (antiyayamiii.. re bise miii): Iye Maregun Maawo.

Odigba o se
Ipade di ese Jesu
Ni bi ti a ko ni ya’ra wa
A o ri ra wa, a o yo mo’ra wa
Jesu yi o je alaga wa.


Yinka Macaulay: Sister

Prince Dr. J Olu Adegbite wishes Mama to continue resting in perfect peace.

Mama, you have indeed contributed immensely to me and my family when there are ups and downs....your tender support to my life is a tendency that you are a real mother in millions....

Adieu Mama Omolara Ade-Aina, Sun re Mama dada olufe awon omo re.

Prince (Dr) J. Olu Adegbite: Brother-in-law

Anti Lara, our last discussion was that you were going to rest for a while in the US and come back for you to attend my daughter’s wedding which was coming in December last year. You actually did and even booked an hotel at Aiyetoro and also arranged for drivers that will drive you. On the eve of the wedding you called me that you had problem with your leg and was even operated on. How on earth would I know that in less than one year I would be writing a piece that you cannot open your eyes to read. What a life!!!

After the demise of Daddy, I have always seen you as the patriarch of the family going by the roles you played when it comes to family issues, irrespective of your gender and marriage.  Now you are gone. Another pillar figure in Ologe family is gone, leaving with us a big vacuum. We console ourselves for the good life you lived and the legacy of good works and righteousness you left with us. “Amu olododo kuro saju ibi.” Today we are in deep pain and with heavy heart.

Words cannot describe our pain and tears. However, we know we will meet again where and when there will be no more tears, pain or sorrow. Adieu sister mi. Rest in Perfect Peace.

Matthew Ologe: Cousin.

My loving Sister in-law, I cannot bring myself to the reality that you are no longer with us.

How can you leave us so soon? You would always call to know the welfare of the family and ask of the children one by one. 

Mummy Fate, as you are fondly called by us, (based on the location of your residence in Ilorin). You have always cared and lent soothing words to us whenever we are in one distress or the other. You have never held back required supports for us materially, financially, and morally.  The vacuum you left will be too difficult to fill. Mummy Fate, may your gentle soul rest in perfect. Sun re o mummy.

Mrs. Mosunmola Ologe: in- law

Big mummy Fate was an amazing auntie, sister, mother, grandmother and friend.

It’s heartbreaking to seeing her go so soon, but it’s relieving to know that she’s at peace & in the bossom of her creator.

I thank God for the fond memories that we were able to create whenever she visited. I would cherish those moments forever.

Sleep well big mimmy Fate until we meet again to part no more in the morning of ressurrection

Alexis Adeyinka: Niece

"In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you"
(1 Thessalonians 5:18, KJV)

I give God thanks for the assurance that Sister Lara, though absent from the body is present with the LORD.

Thanks be to Jehovah Almighty for the life of my beloved sister, Folasade Omolara Ologe Ade-Aina.
We began as biological sisters and grew into friends but the LORD made it possible that we to become sisters in Christ,
which is sisterhood on the deepest level.

The raw pain of separation, (though temporary) attempts to cloud the great privilege of enjoying such close sisterhood.

In giving God thanks for His faithfulness I cannot over-emphasize Sister Lara's calm and gentle nature even when opinions/positions differed.
Her grace and courage when dealing with challenging circumstances was exceptional.
She loved her family and friends very deeply but the best part of her life was becoming a grandmother.
Even in physical discomfort, she prayed for each one of her children, daughters-in-law, and grandchildren by name daily.
That also included her sisters, nieces, and nephews.
To say I will miss her is an understatement, but the joy of reuniting in heaven nullifies the sting of being temporarily apart.

Sister Lara invested a lot of love in everyone within her sphere of influence and I am thankful that God ensured that she knew and received incredible love from far and near.

As one of His saints, Sister Lara's homegoing is precious in the sight of the LORD,
Precious [and of great consequence] in the sight of the LORD Is the death of His godly ones [so He watches over them, (Psalm116:15, AMP)

What a blessing that Folasade Omolara Ade=Aina walked so with Jesus closely, that everything about her radiated His fragrance, His aroma, and grace. The Resurrected KING has indeed resurrected her unto Him!!!

From Yemisi Ologe

Mummy Fate.. My beloved big mummy,

You were a lot things to me growing up. The story of my life could not begin, be it in the middle & till date be written without the mention of your tremendous imput.

Most of my childhood were spent with you, you nurtured me while my mum entrusted me with you, you made sure that I did not lack. Infact, I became the the baby of your house (last born) by default in the first 9yrs of my life as I thought you were my biological mum for a long time; I did not have a reason not to think you weren’t as I was not for a day treated differently, you & daddy protected me like the true baby of the house.

You continued to look out for my wellbeing, education & career even after relocating to join my mum in the UK. These are memories that I cherish now more than ever. I thank God for the times that we shared, it will be evergreen in my heart.

I will miss you dearly. Thank you for the lessons and memories sweet mother. You will live forever in my heart.

Rest on eternally mummy at the feet of your Christ till we meet to part no more on ressurrection day. I love you!

Folajimi Adeyinka: Nephew

MummyAyuze! as you're fondly called by many; I never imagined that I will have to write this piece in a very long time.

We all looked forward to celebrate with you on your 70th; perhaps, it pleases the Lord that you will be celebrating with the Host of Heavens. “God’s ways are not our ways, for as the Heavens are higher than the Earth, so are my HIS ways higher than our ways, and HIS thoughts higher than our thoughts”: Isaiah 55:8-9.

Sister Lara, you knew me from the day I was born, you supported my parents when I was born in UK in the 60's.

You have always been there for me throughout my journey in life, especially during my trying moments. How would I possibly forget how you opened your doors to look after my children following my husband's RTA in year 2000.

You were an advocate of peace, love and unity within and outside of the family.

You were indeed a woman of integrity, diligence, grace and patience.

You have been supportive to many and have impacted many young and old. The void you left is too wide to be filled; my consolation is that you're a believer and your faith remained unshaken till the very end.

I will try my best to be there for the family you left behind, you will forever be missed. I love you, but Jesus loves you more.

Sun re o my dear sister!
GOOD NIGHT ma!!

Pat Ologe-Adegbite: Sister.

My big mummy & grandma Fate,

I am sad that I will not get to see you again on this side; however, I am comforted that we shall eventually be reunited to part no more at Jesus’s feet on the day of ressurrection.

I am thankful for the bond I shared with you right from when I was told that you came to take care of me for the first six months of my life and that on my first trip to Nigeria, we were opportuned to have travelled together with my mum. 

You have been constant in my life all through my toddler years into the little girl that I am now. Your regular phone calls, love, care, attention, generousity made me feel loved and extra special.

You were up to par in your grandma duties, you ensured that my sisters and I did not miss the absence of our biological grandmothers. You were always thrilled by my response (geed!) whenever you asked me how I was~ you teased me as the “typical British girl”.

I will miss you grandma Fate, I am assured that you are resting now, painfree, you were loved and you knew it, that is all that matters to me.

Your memories will live in my heart forever!!

Zion-Moriah Tiwatope Macaulay: Niece

In loving memory of my dear sister, Folasade Omolara Ade-Aina (Nee Ologe)

My sister embodied obedience to our parents' in their lifetime. Her presence, a tranquil oasis, her words like a soothing melody, with a unique personality she radiated profound Christian faith. A virtuous wife, a nurturing mother, and a loving grandmother she was.

To us (her siblings), sister Lara was a treasure beyond compare. Her role in my life was immeasurable and profound; she took on the responsibility of raising my son, Folajimi with an unmatched grace from infancy to the of age nine. She was his guiding light, even into adulthood.

Though these words may not reach your ears sister Lara, but your memories remains vibrant in my heart. I had envisioned celebrating your 70th birthday with you by my side; yet, divine providence charted a different path. I cherish the precious memories we shared since I was a little girl and your roles as our youthful guide.

You answered God's call to unite our family with unwavering devotion. You gave your all, you fought valiantly and found victory in Christ. It was no coincidence that you chose to depart after your beloved husband's arrival;
an evidence that your life was meticulously planned, concluding on your own terms, as you intended.

Your passion for children was boundless, a wellspring of dedication. You invested tirelessly in their education, well-being, and spiritual journey; today, the sun shines brightly upon you sister dearest. Your children, both by blood and heart, continue to thrive in your honor.

To me, you were more than a sister; you were a motherly confidante.
Our conversations were cherished symphonies, your patience was boundless, you listened without judgment, spoke with fairness, and loved unconditionally. Your wisdom and guidance were invaluable etching lessons into my soul.

As my world crumbled with the pain of physical separation, I am consoled that you are in a better place free from pain, sorrow and worries and that time's unyielding march will carry me forward.

As life's brevity now etched deep within my being, I will never again take moments with loved ones for granted. The sibling bond, a sacred tapestry, forever weaved our characters together.

Your influence as the eldest, a beacon of responsibility, taught me the art of communication, compromise, and balance. Even in disagreements, you championed reconciliation, naturally nurturing, your love and protection were unwavering.

You were not merely a loving mother, but an extraordinary one. A virtuous wife, a skilled household manager. Your kindness extended to neighbors and widows, mentoring youths in your church, embracing them as your own.

Charitable and devout, you fasted and prayed unfailingly every Mondays and Wednesdays, seeking blessings and protection for our family. Life unfolded its beauty until the heart-wrenching news arrived, my beloved sister, Folashade Omolara Ade-Aina, forever etched in our hearts.

My sister, my mentor, my second mother, egbon mi atata and my children's beloved grandmother; as we mourn your absence, your legacy shines brightly, your legacy of love transcends, transitioning to loftier realms of glory.
Though we ache with the void created by your physical departure; your memory lives on, an indelible work of art.

Rest in serenity, dear mama, harmonizing with celestial choirs,
Sleep peacefully my beloved sister Lara, knowing my love for you endures eternally.

Abimbola Kikelomo Adeyinka (Nee: Ologe).

John Ologe

We are grateful for the time we spent with you and for the love and guidance you always gave us. Today we are sad beyond words that you are no more with us, you will be dearly missed. But we wholeheartedly trust in the promise of eternal life and hold on to the hope that one day we will be reunited with you in heaven. Rest in Peace.

Big mummy Fate (as I fondly called her) had always been there for my parents, siblings & I; infact she was more of a grandmother figure to me than an aunt. She really was the rock for her husband, children, grandchildren, siblings, nieces & nephews.

Her memories & legacies will forever be treasured & honoured. She was a wonderful inspiring woman and it is truly hurtful to write this so soon; however, I will rather cherish the memories of how she would take care of my sisters, cousins & I whenever she came visiting the UK or whenever we visited her in Nigeria. I remember the joy on her face at cousin’s Deji’s wedding, how she would be protective of me when my mum was upset with me or how she would pick and drop my sister & I to & from School in our Primary School days, I remember our Ikea breakfast dates during her visits. I will cherish all the fond memories that we shared with her & it will live forever in my heart.

I am glad that she was able to feel the love & care showered on her, particularly in the last few months because her whole being exhumed love, not only to we, her family; but a whole lot of the community of people who came in to contact with her.

Big mummy Fate, I will miss you greatly, but I am comforted by the fact that you will rest eternally in the bossom of your creator till we meet again at Jesus’s Feet in the morning of ressurrection, I love you big mummy Fate.

Jemimah Ayotomiwa Macaulay: Niece

I write this tribute to celebrate the life of my incredible cousin 'aunty Lara. Your death came so sudden though I'm yet to accept the reality of that fact, even at such a time you ought to be enjoying the fruit of your labour.

It is truly sad to see that your time on earth has been truncated, but it is quite fulfilling to know that your legacy which lives in all the lives that you have touched will forever remain.
You are forever a blessing and I'm glad to have you as a sister.  You are more than a cousin to me and more like a mother figure.
I have always looked up to you as a mentor and role model because of your selflessness, truthfulness, honesty, reliability, hard work and dependability.  Above all, you are a lover of God. Thank you for the love you shared for myself and my family.

As much as this saddens all of us we continue to hold on to the best memories we shared, how can we forget your gentle, loving and sweet voice as you always say "okun nisuru" whenever anyone is complaining or angry, you simply say "nisuru". We pray that your soul rest in perfect peace until we meet again aunty Lara.

Your cousin, Mrs Fehintola Kolade (Nee Ologe).

I never would have imagined what the month of August 2023 held in store for us. Here I am, filled with sadness, having to write another tribute for a loved one.

The bible says in all things we should give thanks to the Lord, so I am thankful. I am grateful to God, for your life mummy, and for the opportunity to have known you.

From our first meeting, the impression you left on me was one of your kindness and gentleness, sealed with your beautiful smile.

I have heard stories of people's negative experiences with getting a new mother, however mine was different. Your warmth and kindness enveloped me always, making me feel welcomed and at ease.

The value you place on family ties shows in how you relate with the family. Every week, you made sure to call to check-in on us. I sincerely appreciated the consistency with which you endeavoured to communicate with us, and keep abreast of our welfare.

I will cherish the months you spent with us after Darasimi was born. The way you willingly took care of us all. I admired your diligence to everything, even your daily walks to ensure you keep fit. I will forever treasure this period as we got to know ourselves better, and develop a stronger bond.

I will miss our regular weekly chats. I will miss having you around. Your grandchildren will get to know you through stories we shall tell them about their kind, gentle, and diligent grandma.

Thank you for all the sacrifices you made for us.

May the Lord comfort daddy and the entire family, he will also fill the void that has been created by your absence. 

We love you and will miss you mummy.

Rest in perfect peace.
Your daughter
Lola Ade-Aina

I write this with a heavy heart but in total submission to God almighty.

Big mummy was a gentle, loving & kind woman with a large heart. In the very short period that I have known her, she embraced me with so much warmth, love and respect. I admired the way she lovingly nurtured her granddaughter and even nieces the last time she came visiting, she was always full of smiles.

My prayers are that the Lord will continually protect her husband, children, grandchildren, sisters, nieces, nephews & family at large, they shall continually be bond by love which she shared in her lifetime in Jesus name.

Sun re o mama rere, mama daada, mama jeje, mama oniwatutu, abiyamo tooto.

Funmilayo Omotayo Odumosu: (MamaT)

My dearest Folasade,

It's been 43 years, my love, since we embarked on this incredible journey together. A journey filled with love, laughter, and a bond that only grew stronger with each passing day. Your departure from this world on that fateful August 24th has left a void in my heart that seems impossible to fill. Yet, I find comfort in the knowledge that your spirit now rests in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father.

From the very beginning, you embodied the true essence of love and peace, much like the values of Jesus himself. Your grace and kindness knew no bounds, and you effortlessly wove our two families into one, creating bridges that united us all. You embraced my people as your own, and in doing so, you showed us the true meaning of family. Your warmth and generosity touched the lives of everyone fortunate enough to know you, and for that, you will forever be cherished.

As the Yoruba adage wisely proclaims, "Trees of value do not get left in the forest for long, they attract loggers." Indeed, your beauty, inside and out, attracted the heavenly realms to call you home. While I grapple with the profound sadness of your absence, I am reminded of the wonderful memories we shared throughout our years together. Those memories will forever be etched in my heart, providing solace and strength as I navigate the rest of my earthly journey without you by my side.

My beloved, I want you to know that missing you doesn't even begin to capture the depth of my longing for you. Your laughter, your wisdom, your gentle touch – all of these are now precious treasures that I hold close to my heart. But, even in my sorrow, I am consoled by the belief that you are in a better place, free from pain and suffering, and basking in the eternal love and light of our Lord.

As I bid you farewell, my darling wife, I envision you resting peacefully at the feet of Jesus, wrapped in His warm embrace. It is a comforting thought that helps me find peace in this trying time. Though we are separated by the veil of mortality, I am reassured that we will be reunited on that glorious day of resurrection. Until then, my love, please watch over me and guide me from above, for your spirit will always be a beacon of light in my life.

Rest in eternal peace, Folasade, my beloved. Until we meet again on that blessed day, you will remain forever in my heart.

With all my love,

Solomon Adekunle Aina: Husband

On August 24, 2023, heaven gained a truly exceptional woman, my beloved mother, Folasade Omolara Ade-Aina.

Mommy, you were not just a mother to me, but a guiding light, my counsel, my prayer partner, my bank. Your life was a testament to the scripture in Matthew 25:40, which reminds us that whatever we do for the least of our brothers and sisters, we do for our Lord. You lived this truth every day, generously supporting widows and orphans, opening your heart and home to people in need. Your legacy of love, peace, and selflessness shines brightly in our hearts. You are indeed a living example of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, where love is patient, kind, and always perseveres. Apart from giving financially, you gave spiritually by leading so many children to Jesus through your unwavering faith and dedication to Child Evangelism Ministries.

My heart overflows with love for you, mommy, and words cannot fully convey the depth of my thoughts. Although we say goodbye for now, we know that one day we will reunite, as promised in Revelation 21:4, where God will wipe away every tear, and there shall be no more death or sorrow. Until that joyous day, we are comforted knowing that you rest in eternal peace, and your memory is evergreen in our hearts.

Goodnight, my dearly beloved Ma, rest on at the feet of Jesus.

Babafemi Ade-Aina: Son

It is with a heavy heart that I bid farewell to a remarkable woman who touched my life in many profound ways. From the moment I met you, your love knew no bounds, reaching not only your children but also your daughters-in-law, and precious grandchildren. The twinkle in your eyes when you held us in your warm embrace is a testament to the depth of your affection. You had a heart that overflowed with tenderness, a heart that welcomed us all with open arms.

In you, I found not only a mother but a friend, a confidante who shared her wisdom and warmth without reservation. Your love was a shelter in the storm, a beacon of hope in moments of doubt. I recalled with fond memories our travel across the continental United States together when you came to nurse Yohan, your grandchild, I learnt a lot from from you.

As we mourn your departure from this realm, we also celebrate your life and the love you gave so freely. We are inspired to carry forward your legacy of compassion and caring, continuing to nurture the bonds of family you held so dear.

Though you may be physically absent, we are confident that your spirit lives on in the love that you have planted in our hearts. I am forever grateful for the precious moments I shared with you and the invaluable lessons you have taught me.

Rest on the bossom of Jesus Ma, till we meet again to part no more.

Kemi Ade-Aina (Nee Hambolu): Daughter-in-law

My big mummy was an amazing, kind, God fearing woman with a gentle demeanour. She made not having a biological grandmother so easy for my siblings & I, as she filled the void graciously while she was here.

There were so many amazing values that she instilled in me in her beautiful life that I cherish & thank God for. I remember when I was about 6 yrs of age, she would come to the UK every couple of years to visit us, on such visits, she would teach me specific Bible verses about respecting my parents (one of which is In Exodus 20:12, "Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land that the Lord your God is giving you").

I remember her so vividly she used to put on children’s bible stories for me on Youtube when I was younger, I will cherish those memories forever and endevour to pass it on to the younger generations that come after me, so that her legacies will live forever.

Goodnight big mummy, May her graceful soul rest in peace.

Hadassah Oluwateniola Macaulay: Niece

It was hard to write This
Anti Lara
When the cock crows on you the whole family, sister, friends, Neighbors all over the universe stood still.Why because you left everybody and everything gasping for breath about your departure.
Humble and gentle Rest In Peace Lara

            Iyabo Bello Adepeju

My dear sister/mother-in-love, there is never been a day since your departure that I have not had the cause to think of you for one reason or the other, no one to call me by my full name (Ibiyinka) anymore, I miss you so terribly and forever will.

Your departure from this side has left a vacuum in my heart. It hurts that I did not get to say a final good-bye and to tell you how much you were loved and appreciated.

You were a kind hearted, soft spoken, peace broker, a friend, mother figure (to me) and above all, a lover of Christ.

Mrs Folasade Omolara Ade-Aina (nee Ologe) was the best sister/mother-in-law anyone could as for. Her memories will remain evergreen in my heart. 

I am consoled by the fact that she is in a better place where there is no pain or sorrow and that we shall meet again at the feet of our Lord Jesus Christ in the morning of resurrection. Adieu big mummy!

Ibiyinka Macaulay: Brother-in-law.

TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF AN AMIABLE IN-LAW: MRS FOLASADE ADE - AINA

Oh! Death has snatched away from us an amiable, kind, gentle and loving in-law.
Dear Mama Ayo, you have left us too soon and we are missing you already.
You are the mother in-law that our daughter knows. You gave her no hassles. On the contrary, she received maximum cooperation and encouragement from you.
We are therefore pained by your untimely departure.
You have however gone to rest from all aches and pains . Rest in peace, therefore, till we meet again on Resurrection Morning.
May the Lord comfort Daddy Ade-Aina, your loving husband, your children and all family members mourning your loss.
Good night Mama Ayo! You live on forever in our hearts.

Chief & Chief (Mrs) Olateju Titiloye

Mrs Folasade Omolara Ade-Aina (nee Ologe)

So toughing how you left this world unexpectedly and no one could ever noticed you were about to go.

You were a symbol of peace and unity to say the least of all the Godly attributes you portrayed throughout your life.

I loved you so much but come to realize God loves you more.

Still with a broken heart I have to say good night good mother.

May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.

Laolu: Nephew

Your death came as a shock to us, we were praying and believing God for a miraculous healing but God knows and loves you the most.
You were gentle, soft spoken and kind hearted.
You shall be greatly missed l. Rest on our beautiful In-law until that resurrection morning where we shall meet to part no more.
We love you.

The Ipinyomis

Tribute to my cousin

Folashade Omolara Ade-Aina I will always remember you for your concern for me and my children. I pray that God will put you in his memory for ressurection so that I will reunite with you again, amen.
Pls my dear Cousins, your sisters, husband, children, and grand children do not sorrow for Omolara Ade-Aina. She had gone to rest for the Bible made this clear (Read Act 24:15; John 5:28, 29. John 11:39-44).
God through his son have done it (resurrection) before and is going to do it again, we are assured that Jehovah God hates death, he view it as mankind enemy. He Will conquer it by undo its power (1Corint. 15:26), we may sorrow now but there is hope. Therefore take courage and be cheerful of heart.

In loving memory of Mummy,

Mummy was not just a mother-in-law but a guiding light, a source of wisdom and strength. Her words brought comfort and joy to me.

Mummy was a confidante and a role model. Her strength, resilience, and grace were genuinely inspiring. She taught us the value of love, compassion, and unwavering support, especially for family.

Her legacy lives on in the love she shared, the lessons she imparted, and the memories I hold dear. Mummy, you will always hold a special place in our hearts.

Rest in eternal peace, dear Mummy. You will forever be missed.

Tribute to My Dear Friend
I feel terrible saying goodbye to my friend Molara after 50 years of good friendship. We were together from high school through married life and through the twist and turns of life. The Bible talks of a friend that sticks closer than a brother. To me Molara was that friend that was worth a dozen sisters. Although we were unprepared for her departure, we are grateful for the time we spent together.
Omolara was a wonderful woman, beautiful inside and out, gentle, soft spoken, tolerant to a fault, honest and caring. She was certainly a true friend and a confidant with unlimited capacity to love and support. She will call from time to time just to find out how I am doing at work and at home. That my calls were staggered and irregular did not seem to matter to her. She will call and we will talk and talk and talk. Molara remained a faithful friend to the end. I will miss her calls; I will miss our talks and more importantly I will miss her friendship.
In everything she does Molara was guided by her Christian faith. Through the difficult period and the uncertainty that surrounded her illness, her faith in the God she served never wavered.
When I visited her in April, she told me even if the end had come, she was ready. It is faith that challenges and inspires every one of us.
To those of us who were close to her, we will have lots of memories of love and friendship that will live with us forever. We will continue to treasure these memories of a beautiful woman, wife, mother, sister and friend.

Dr Sarah Omotunde Alade

TRIBUTE!!!.
DARKNESS  ENVELOPES US:
Mrs.Folashade Omolara ADE-AINA was a good woman.She was a woman of disarming simplicity and integrity..She was a good listener who valued Christian Ethics of Faith, Love, Gentleness and Charity.
Her presence commanded respect . She was a woman of vast knowledge and great humility who channels her energy towards changing her environment.
We thank God that Mrs.F.O.Ade-Aina, was not lost to the devil, but she is sleeping to wake up to her divine spiritual investment entrusted in God's hands. The dark envelope has been removed and because Christ lives we can face tomorrow.
Mrs.Folashade.O.ADE-AINA, you have joined the Church triumphant.
Mummy, goodnight ma.

Mr.and Mrs. Boaz.O. ANDERO.(Nigeria).

You were precious, a gift from God, so much beauty, grace, love and patience you possessed. A vessel God used to touched my life in so many ways. You have never lost hope on anyone, and your admonitions are genuine. Indeed an Angel you are sent from Above and now you have returned to your Creator fighting the good course. With memories of your tutelage I know I could go through this life stronger. Good night mummy!!!

Tribute to my Mother

In loving memory of my dear mother, Folashade Omolara Ade-Aina,

Being your first child has been an incredible privilege that I will forever cherish. Your unwavering love, guidance, and sacrifices have shaped me into the person I am today. Your strength and resilience in the face of life's challenges have been a constant inspiration.

You were not only a mother but also a friend, a confidante, and a source of endless wisdom. Your warm smile and nurturing embrace provided comfort in times of need and celebrated our joys. Your love was a guiding light that illuminated our path.

As we bid you farewell, the void you leave behind is immeasurable. Your absence will be felt in every corner of our lives. The memories we shared will be a cherished treasure, and your legacy of love and kindness will continue to inspire us.

Though you are no longer with us in person, your spirit will live on in our hearts, reminding us to be strong, compassionate, and resilient, just as you were. We will miss you sorely, dear Mum, but your love and legacy will endure eternally.

Rest in peace Mum, knowing that your first child Ayodele (as you named me), and all your loved ones including Dad, my brothers, and your sisters will forever hold you close in our hearts.

As I bid you farewell, I am reminded of the countless memories we created together – the laughter, the lessons, and the unconditional love that flowed from your heart. You were not just a mother but also a friend, a confidant, and a source of boundless support.

Your absence leaves a void that can never be filled, and you will be sorely missed by everyone whose life you touched. Your legacy of love and resilience will continue to inspire us all. Rest in peace, dear Mum, knowing that your love will live on in our hearts forever

Your Son

I don't even no where to start. Mama Ayo as I always call you. My soft humble gentle inlaw. You left so soon may your gentle soul rest in peace. Good night.

Deaconess. Mosun Ajibare (JP).

TRIBUTE TO A REAR GEM (Grandma Fate)

"In loving memory of Grandma Fate, a true embodiment of love, kindness, and gentleness. She was a beacon of warmth and compassion, always ready to extend a helping hand. Throughout her life, she demonstrated a remarkable ability to find solutions and make things right, even when faced with challenges.

As a matriarch, of not one, but two families, the Ade-Aina and Ologe, she led with grace and wisdom. Her legacy of love and unity will continue to resonate within these families for generations to come.

Though she has left this earthly realm, her spirit lives on in the hearts of all who had the privilege of knowing her. We take solace in the words of Psalm 16:9 and following, which says: And now my soul rejoices and my spirit is glad, even my body shall rest in safety for you will not abandon my soul to the dead not let your beloved know decay. For you will show me the joy of thy eternal gladness , at your right hand happiness forever.
Finding comfort in the knowledge that her soul rests in safety, free from decay, and rejoices in eternal gladness at God's right hand.
Rest in eternal peace, dear Maregun Princess. You are greatly missed and will forever be cherished in our hearts.
Sun re o iye likalika

Abimbola Titiloye-Ologe: Sister-in law

Tribute to my Mother

As I sit down to pen these words, my heart is heavy with a mixture of gratitude and grief

Dearest Mum, your legacy lives on in the way I face the world, in the decisions I make, and in the love I carry for you in my heart. You were more than a parent; you were a bridge builder, a fierce protector, a mentor, and a wellspring of love(
Your favorite quote was "Let brotherly love continue"). As I bid you farewell, for now, I hold onto the lessons you've imprinted upon me and carry your spirit forward, as a testament to the incredible person you were.

Your guidance was a compass that always pointed me toward what truly mattered. Through your words and actions, you showed me the value of kindness, empathy, and integrity. You taught me to see beyond the superficial and focus on the depths of compassion and understanding. You helped me discern meaningful pursuits amidst the distractions of life, and for that, I am eternally grateful.

Though my heart aches at the thought of your absence, I find solace in the belief that you are now in a better place, free from pain and suffering. I may wish for more time with you, but I also recognize God's greater plan that transcends our understanding. As you taught me, I submit to the will of God, finding strength in your example even in these moments of sorrow.

Rest peacefully, knowing that your memory will forever inspire me to be brave, kind, loving, and resilient, just as you were. Until we meet again at the Feet of Jesus.

Your son,
Ayokunle

My dear 'Lara, when Yemisi sent me a message that you just passed on. I was lost for words. It was a great shock to me; and I asked her many questions.
Your calm disposition really gave me the drive to relate with you. Your love and fear of God is a testimony and a legacy.
I pray for comfort on all sides for your immediate family and also my dear Yemisi , your caring Sister and my friend.
We will surely miss you.
May your sweet and gentle soul rest in eternal peace, in Jesus name.
Joana Omonogun.