mike and i was at a store today and a lil lady came up and started talking to us out of the blue ,and as soon as she walked away from us we said gosh she reminds us of aunt pat. I call her aunt pat because she always protected me like an aunt and gave me good advice . my son is 14 now and when he was little he couldnt say aunt pat so he would call her fat pat .. rip. we will miss u