Dad
It's been so long since I've seen your face or heard your voice that sometimes I find myself forgetting them. It's hard some days with my kids knowing that they'll never meet you or spend time with you I no we constantly butted heads and didn't see eye to eye towards the end I just wish I'd paid alittle more attention to you when you were trying to teach me things so I could emulate that with my kids  I know you always did your best and I guess that's all I can hope for myself. I'll always try and uphold and follow thru with what you last told me even though I choose not to listen at the time " you have a good heart use it and always try to help others when you can"

My darling Pat....you have been gone 14 years today and I Love you and miss you still. I grew so tired of being alone and no one to love that I think you must have had a chat with God and sent me someone to love and love me till it is my time to meet God. Dennis is very similar to you in many ways but also very different. I love both of you and I know you are happy that I am no longer alone. I hope you are looking down on us and smiling. Love you always your Baboo

My darling Pat. 13 yrs ago this was and is the worst day of my life. I still miss you horribly and think of you every day. You would be so proud of our 2 boys. You would spoil Johns 2 children if you were here. I keep trying to hang in there and keep going in life but its not the same with out you. Hope i have made you proud of me. I will keep trying to do my best until God calls me home and i can see you again. I will love you forever! Love always your Nelda.

Love you and thinking of you everyday. Time has not changed that. You should be here to see your kids now grown and play with our grandkids. Hope you are proud of all of us. It has been so hard without you. Love always

Happy Birthday Honey. It has been 11 yrs since you left us and I still miss you like it was yesterday. Bet you are having fun up there with my pparents, your Dad and Sherry. Think of all of you often. Will be putting rose at the cemetary and releasing balloon this evening like i always do. Miss you and live you always. Your Nelda

Happy Birthday my love. I still love and miss you everyday as if it were just yesterday that you left us. Think about you always and still can't talk about you or write on this site with out crying. Ifeel you near at times.  Love always your Nelda

Pat, it has been 10 years but still feels like yesterday. I miss you so much. Someone else tells me now tha he loves me but is so hard to think of starting over with someone else. I will always remember and love you no matter what the future may bring. Love always, Nelda

You are my best friend, husband and father of my children and I miss you as much now as the day you passed away. No one was able to understand the real you as much as me and no one can understand me as well as you did. You were always kind and thoughtful to others and put them ahead of yourself. I look forward to the day that we can be together again and until then you are in my heart.