Pat was a man who valued family and community above all else, lessons in life he not only passed on to his children but also encouraged in so many others he touched throughout the years.
One of the greatest joys in my own life has been my lifelong friendship with his daughter Kristy, and by extension the entire Wagener family. Across all these decades, Pat and Kathy have welcomed me into their home as one of their own, sharing the great warmth, kindness, and hospitality that is the hallmark of their family, always without hesitation or limit.
It is with gratitude that I remember the countless dinners I’ve shared at their family table, evenings of spirited laughter, delicious food, and meaningful discussion on topics spanning the heart and globe. No matter what life decision or teen angst might have troubled or inspired me at the time, with Pat at the helm there was sure to always be a kind word or a silly joke to lighten my day and encourage me forward. His gift for genuine connection, critical thought, and limitless compassion (and of course his bountiful humor!) are qualities I will forever admire and aspire to. He made it all look easy.
Pat brought a remarkable light to this world. I do not doubt there will be a great number of us out there doing our best to honor his memory by carrying that light and legacy forward.