This is a Tribute and Honor of our loving mother, Pauline Veronica Goral Lavery
Some of you may of known mom as Emma Garrell. Mom's mom, Anna Kachik and father, John Garrell renamed mom on her baptism at the age of three months old, to her "given name" as Pauline Goral. Or a few other nicknames mom went by were "Putch" or "Pauli" ... needless to say inquiring minds (her kids) wanted to know the history on her first name of "Emma" Boy did we ask Dad a lot of questions.. But to us kids it's always " MOM"
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Leave a tributeToday is the 6th Anniversary of your Heavenly departure. Time has gone by so fast, but still not believing it’s been that long. I hope you and Dad are golfing ️♂️ or whatever your doing painfree finally for you both. It will be a year in January that Dad joined you, family and friends in Heaven. How time is so precious and is going by so quickly.
I really miss you both and am always thinking about you guys.... Holiday season is here and it’s the loneliest time for me. Us kids always talk about the holidays at the house, even though you fought it every year, you were happy to see us all. I so wished you could of met you great grandson Connor and granddaughter Ellie Jo. They are the light of my life and have stolen this girls you would be so proud of Aubree and Joshua. They are really good parents and have finally experienced that unconditional love that you can’t explain till you go through it. Well sorry to ramble, miss you both with all my being and send you much love and kisses XO.. please come talk to me soon and shine high in the sky Mom&Dad
I know it’s late and I’m never late especially on your birthday. A lot was happening that weekend of missing you, your birthday, the house finally closing and everything else going on . But I’m a survivor and made this far. Thank you for sharing your love, inspiration and guidance with me and the rest of the family. Happy Birthday Mom! I miss you so much! ♥️
Life was not simple for you. You didn't take short cuts and supported the Family in so many ways. It's a wonder with so many levels of emotions of raising our Family with Dad that you stayed loyal to be an understanding and loving Mother to all of us so completely. I came to know and understand the frustrations you had through the years. I hope to finish this life with even just a portion of love you show me that I pass this on to my Family.
Love always, Wade
Sending all our love, hugs and kisses- from Papa and I. We’re doing okay and taking it one day at a time.
Sending you a beautiful bouquet of flowers and gardenia's t brighten you day! I'm calling you to wish you the happiest birthday ever. I'm sure Jojo will fill you in. I know you're around cuz I've seen a lot of dragonflies and hummingbirds. The orange tree is blooming like crazy. I've been calling Kenny or vice versus... he's on the road to recovery but I'm sure you already know that... he sounds good. You're always in my heart and definitely missed by all!❤️
Love you Mom. Love Deanna♥♥
Its been two years since your heavenly father took you to the big sky. Wish you were here yesterday...I decorated the living room with Christmas decorations on your anniversary. Thought it would lift your spirits knowing how much you love Christmas and the decorations. Dad was supervising in the process. He got a kick out of the wrapped picture frame along with the laser, blinking tree on the organ. Found some old metal decorations that I found in the wicker Santa. They were the"Twelve days of Christmas". As you know with my arts/crafts, finally finished a crocheted blanket~only took four months(smaller hook). Dad's doing good- hanging in there. In good spirits. Thanksgiving was a full house. Cooked turkey, first time using cheesecloth. Turned out really good along with the gravy. Dad kept saying what Uncle Joe would say " YOU ALL COME" or "HERE'S YOUR HAT, WHAT'S YOUR HURRY? Just to name a few. Like I said, full house. The boys got there growth spurts going on, even Ryan is taller than me. Its my turn to call Kenny. Thinks of you often and misses talking with you~ so I let him talk with dad then me to get him caught up. I look at you every day wishing you were here but thats not the case. So let me end with this...Those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day...unseen, unheard, but always near, still loved, still missed and very dear. Love and miss you so much. ♥♥♥
I haven't written to you to share about Aubree and Kyle's wedding. I am sure you were there for her on her special day. Mom she was absolutely stunning. Aubree wanted to wear something of yours to honor you on her day. I found a brooch within in your jewelry box. Asked dad and he said it would be fine, You would approve and be happy that you would be with her on her day. We made it into a haircomb so she wore it all day long and looked beautiful! They also had a picture of you at the table for the important people that could not be there but be there in spirit! A lot of compliments of how pretty you were in the day... It was an awesome day
Josh and Sarah are doing good. Josh has had a couple health issues but is getting through em. Wanted to say Hi, miss you, love u mom!!
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No wonder you loved coffee♥♥♥ I know you're celebrating your birthday with family and especially your brother, Bill, sharing birthdays. Just wanted you to know dad sends his love too! I'm remembering all the fun and laughs card shopping-we almost pee'd our pants reading them. Sharing my laughter with you and know how much you'll always be our loving mother! Red stopped by today ~ must of known it was your b'day. Bought some candy and orchid. Miss and love you!!♡♡
It's been a year and so hard to believe. I talk to the kids earlier this week to see how we could honor you on this day. I know how much you always enjoyed me getting you a slab of Rocky Road from See's for your birthday, anniversary, Easter celebration, Christmas and other celebrations. I had to work today but took off early so I could meet the kids at yours and dads house. Josh and Sarah picked up a pound of Rocky Road in pieces at See's and I met them there. Aubree and Kyle were sick so they couldn't make it. When I got to the house said hi to Rob, he was visiting with dad and Deanna of course was there. Dad wanted to know what the See's box was about and I explained we wanted to honor this day with a piece of Rocky Road in your honor. He chuckled.. Miss you mom.. You know I don't like the rainy weather, but I do look forward for the sun to come out so I can look for that rainbow. When I see the rainbow I know your looking down from Heaven above smiling upon us and keeping us inline! I am sure your smiling now, did you get that tap on the shoulder not too long ago from your brother Steve? Your in Heaven with all your family; mum, dad, brothers and sisters... Dad misses you lots. When he and I were sitting at the table yesterday he leaned in and said "I miss your mum JoJo..." I said we all do dad vey much so! We all check in on him either by visits or phone calls.. You always said, "just pick up the phone and say Hi"
Wished you were still here with us, love you and miss you so!! Kisses and hugs from your number one daughter .. JoJo XO
We celebrated a toast to you with Rocky Road. Lol Everybody has been good checking in on dad. You are always on my mind... missing our days out shopping and going down the card aisle. We'd be laughing have a good time almost pee'd our pants. Love and cherish all the memories. You have a piece of my heart. I love and miss you so much, your daughter, Deanna
P.s. I made goulash tonight and your fav, pumpkin bread.
Just wanted to say Hi! XO
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Today is the 6th Anniversary of your Heavenly departure. Time has gone by so fast, but still not believing it’s been that long. I hope you and Dad are golfing ️♂️ or whatever your doing painfree finally for you both. It will be a year in January that Dad joined you, family and friends in Heaven. How time is so precious and is going by so quickly.
I really miss you both and am always thinking about you guys.... Holiday season is here and it’s the loneliest time for me. Us kids always talk about the holidays at the house, even though you fought it every year, you were happy to see us all. I so wished you could of met you great grandson Connor and granddaughter Ellie Jo. They are the light of my life and have stolen this girls you would be so proud of Aubree and Joshua. They are really good parents and have finally experienced that unconditional love that you can’t explain till you go through it. Well sorry to ramble, miss you both with all my being and send you much love and kisses XO.. please come talk to me soon and shine high in the sky Mom&Dad
I know it’s late and I’m never late especially on your birthday. A lot was happening that weekend of missing you, your birthday, the house finally closing and everything else going on . But I’m a survivor and made this far. Thank you for sharing your love, inspiration and guidance with me and the rest of the family. Happy Birthday Mom! I miss you so much! ♥️
Mom's Car(Blue Buick stationwagon)
All my friends knew this car as "The Bomb" but we as a family knew it as the "Polish Mercedes". This was MOMs car... driving all the kids around town with a red license plate frame letting the drivers know to get out of the way. Mom and I would adventure out in the stationwagon whether it be for groceries, shopping at Macy's, visiting friends and/or eating out. I called mom "Mrs. Mario Andretti" the way she would drive around the corners...Whoaaaa! Hang on for dear life! Always had good times with mom and driving her around once I got my driver's licenses. Everyone knew the blue bomb...memories to cherish and remember.