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This site is for sharing memories of Raphael Allen, who left us much too soon. Ray was a US National Parks Service Ranger, a scholar, and a mentor. He enjoyed researching Ethnic Studies, Women's Studies, and numerous facets of history, and piecing together forgotten and seemingly disparate stories. 

Raphael's background and genuine compassion led him to listen to everyone, and his training in sociology taught him to consider and interpret how people interact. His curiosity led him to draw out his students, friends, and even perfect strangers with an encouraging "Yes, and...?" -- asking everyone to add to the story. Like the best storytellers and teachers, he was able to insert his audience and students into the story, as genuine participants.

Raphael Allen touched many lives with his gentle kindness, blazing intelligence, and passion for justice. His wife, Lauren, and his siblings, Brenda, Rose, and Cyril, invite you to share your memories -- big or small, funny or tender. We all carry a piece of his story.


October 22, 2018
October 22, 2018
I'm just heartsick over this, as I'm sure others are. He was the leader of Drinking Liberally when I first started going to Lukas. He was so smart, so insightful, thoughtful and kind. I only ran into him a few times after he left Drinking Liberally (one time at the Rosy the Riveter exhibit). I'm very sad that I won't have a chance to see him again.
June 8, 2018
June 8, 2018
from Lauren, Raphael's wife:

Dear Friends and Family,

Donations in honor of Raphael C. Allen (1958-2018) can be made to Outdoor Afro. Outdoor Afro inspires and celebrates African American connections to nature, helping people take better care of themselves, their communities, and the planet.

Raphael was an early and true supporter of Outdoor Afro. He went to their first training of eleven people, and today that group has grown to eighty leaders across thirty states, reaching over thirty thousand people. Throughout his life, Raphael helped facilitate interpretive engagement with nature and history, by researching and including the stories of under-represented people.

Please continue and enhance Raphael’s connection to this vital organization by making a contribution to Outdoor Afro:
http://outdoorafro.com/giving/

Love on ya,
Lauren Ekman (Raphael's wife)

"When it comes to my work, there are few moments that move me more, aside from nature itself, than when someone decides to generously share resources to help Outdoor Afro fulfill its mission and grow. When Lauren Ekman called me the other day in the middle of her grief having just lost her beloved, and my friend, National Park Ranger Raphael Allen, to tell me she wanted people to donate to Outdoor Afro in his memory, I did not care who saw me stooped over crying on Lakeshore Ave... My gratitude is so wide and deep, giving birth to more nodes of thankfulness for each gesture of generosity since her post. Thank you Lauren Ekman -- Raphael Allen lives on in all we will ever do in our work."
    --- Rue Mapp, Founder and CEO of Outdoor Afro:

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October 22, 2018
October 22, 2018
I'm just heartsick over this, as I'm sure others are. He was the leader of Drinking Liberally when I first started going to Lukas. He was so smart, so insightful, thoughtful and kind. I only ran into him a few times after he left Drinking Liberally (one time at the Rosy the Riveter exhibit). I'm very sad that I won't have a chance to see him again.
June 8, 2018
June 8, 2018
from Lauren, Raphael's wife:

Dear Friends and Family,

Donations in honor of Raphael C. Allen (1958-2018) can be made to Outdoor Afro. Outdoor Afro inspires and celebrates African American connections to nature, helping people take better care of themselves, their communities, and the planet.

Raphael was an early and true supporter of Outdoor Afro. He went to their first training of eleven people, and today that group has grown to eighty leaders across thirty states, reaching over thirty thousand people. Throughout his life, Raphael helped facilitate interpretive engagement with nature and history, by researching and including the stories of under-represented people.

Please continue and enhance Raphael’s connection to this vital organization by making a contribution to Outdoor Afro:
http://outdoorafro.com/giving/

Love on ya,
Lauren Ekman (Raphael's wife)

"When it comes to my work, there are few moments that move me more, aside from nature itself, than when someone decides to generously share resources to help Outdoor Afro fulfill its mission and grow. When Lauren Ekman called me the other day in the middle of her grief having just lost her beloved, and my friend, National Park Ranger Raphael Allen, to tell me she wanted people to donate to Outdoor Afro in his memory, I did not care who saw me stooped over crying on Lakeshore Ave... My gratitude is so wide and deep, giving birth to more nodes of thankfulness for each gesture of generosity since her post. Thank you Lauren Ekman -- Raphael Allen lives on in all we will ever do in our work."
    --- Rue Mapp, Founder and CEO of Outdoor Afro:
His Life

Raphael Christopher Allen, 1958-2018

June 8, 2018
Obituary by Cyril P. Allen, Raphael's brother

Raphael Allen (1958-2018) was a proud native of Oakland, CA, as well as a graduate of Saint Mary’s College High School in Albany, CA (1976) and Stanford University with a B.A. in Sociology (1990). His passion for knowledge never ceased, as he continued his independent graduate-level research in the areas of Women’s Studies, Ethnic Studies, and much more, including formal studies at Rutgers University (1995-1998). He found a challenge and reward in his ultimate career with the National Park Service as Interpretive Park Ranger focused on program development and community outreach. His areas of focus were the Rosie the Riveter WWII Home Front National Historic Park in Richmond, CA and more recently the Port Chicago National Memorial, located at the Concord Naval Weapons Station in Concord, CA.

Before and during his time at the NPS, Raphael also worked as a book editor with the tag “The Book Doctor.” For many years, he served as a developmental editor at the academic presses of both Duke University and the University of Michigan. Raphael was a tireless researcher, educator, and story-teller, both personally and professionally. He was especially proud of his involvement in developing programming and strategies for Outdoor Afro, a unique program focused on introducing African Americans all across America to the nature and culture which surrounds us. Please consider advancing Raphael’s efforts with this great organization by making a contribution in his name to Outdoor Afro (www.outdoorafro.org). The other causes and accomplishments which Raphael was personally involved in are too numerous to list here. He will be missed dearly.

Raphael is survived by his wife Lauren Ekman, his sisters Brenda and Rose, his brother Cyril, many, many friends...and five cats.

Stanford Years

June 8, 2018

-- by Cyril P. Allen, Raphael's brother

Raphael arrived at Stanford in the Fall of 1976, and after many pursuits and adventures, he earned his B.A. in Sociology (May 1990). From October 1986 to December 1987, Raphael served as a Student-Instructor, and was supervised by Prof. John Winkler, Dept. of Classics (deceased). He developed a proposal for a new undergraduate course (“The Social Construction of Masculinity,” a 200-level, lower-division seminar), bringing feminist perspectives to the study of men’s lives. He then co-taught this course with three other students in the following Spring quarter, March–June of 1987. Raphael was also a member of Stanford's Nu Sigma chapter of the Alpha Phi Alpha fraternity (Spring 1979).



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