ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Shelley Ann Black, 37 years old, born on March 8, 1973, and passed away on October 28, 2010. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Rayleen Black on May 9, 2021
Perhaps they are not Stars in the sky
But openings where loved ones like you my dear shine down to let us know you are happy!
Mother’s Day today and Rian and I have been to you today
Love to you Mumma
Rian & Mummy
Posted by Lyn black on March 9, 2021
It is wonderful for you Shelley to know that you are always remembered.
Never easy for your family but we are all thinking of you! Lyn & Cliff
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 9, 2021
Happy birthday our darling.  Red and pink roses are with you on your special day.  Rian has been with me to say “Happy Birthday”.
We love you always xoxoxo
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2020
We are all thinking and chatting to you on this day Shelley that we will never forget. I miss you and love you dearly my darling.
Love Mumma
Xxooxx
Posted by Lyn black on March 9, 2020
Happy Birthday Shelley! Your photo pops up on my screen every now and then and it brings a smile to my face as we shared some laughs together.


Your Birthday year is the same as our Kate and I am reminded of that regularly. Always in our thoughts!
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2020
Dear Shelley it’s your birthday today and we were with you this morning.  Rian was with you too.  You are still the brightest star in the sky and follow me in the mornings.  Keep watching and help us with Rian.
Hugs on your birthday xxooxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on January 31, 2020
My Darling
Rian starts at Rangitoto College today.  Rian’s wishes have been to go to Mummas school and this is now happening.
We love you always
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2019
My love we all remember this day,  Today you had a special person to see you with us.  Rian is with us now and Rian, Dad and me gave you nice flowers and a new memory bear.  We were together for you today and always now.  Rian is going to your schools and is living here with us as a family.  You are here also in our memories.
Love you
Mummy
Posted by Rayleen Black on August 1, 2019
Hi my darling
Your big boy has come home at last.  Rian now 13 and 5ft 8in is at your school Murrays Bay Intermediate.  Fun times at home now and it feels that Rian has always been here and now living with us again.  We just miss you coming home from workto make the family complete.
Love you xxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on July 19, 2019
Hi mum
I’m going to MBI skool and now we have got everything that we need to start the new term. I am going to Rangitoto college is another 6 months.
Luv u
RIAN
Posted by Rayleen Black on May 12, 2019
Mummy’s day
Love you Mumma
You’re beautiful your gorgeous
I love you
From
Rian xoxoxo
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2019
This morning you were shining so bright in the gloomey sky on your birthday.  You followed me all the way up the first tee at golf this early morning at 6.30am.
Happy birthday dear Shelley.
Love you forever.
Posted by Rayleen Black on December 6, 2018
Such news my darling Clayton today has had a little baby girl and Zeynep and Clayton have named her Ela Shelley.  Your beautiful name will always be with us.
Posted by allan black on October 29, 2018
Hi Shells.
Still missing you.
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2018
Shelley my darling it’s your day today but each Sunday I’m with you to chat.  Rian’s last chat with you he kept saying “Mumma I love you, you are beautiful, you are gorgeous, I love you.
You are our brightest star in the sky.  You shine on us every day and we watch you.
All my love
Mummy
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2018
Happy Birthday Dear Shelley
My Darling Daughter in Heaven
I Love You Every Moment of my day
Love you
Mummy xxxxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2017
As we sit here and whisper
“We miss You”
We know somehow you can still hear us
We love you, you are beautiful, you are gorgeous
Love Rian & Mummy
Posted by Rayleen Black on May 15, 2017
When it rains look for RAINBOWS
When it is dark look for STARS
And we find YOU
Happy Mummy's day
Love you always
Mummy
Xxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on May 15, 2017
Mumma
You are beautiful
You are gorgeous
I love you
Rianxxxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2017
Birthday gifts are being sent....
On the wings of the angels to where you went....
These gifts are of love
And things you can't buy
To celebrate your birthday in the sky

Missing you not just today being your birthday but ALWAYS
Rian sent a message.  Happy Birthday Mummmmmmmmma xoxo

Love you my darling
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2016
Dear Shelley
Being with you is easy I do it everyday.  It's just the pain of loosing you that never goes away.
We can't have the old days back when we were all together but secret tears and loving thoughts will be with us forever.
All our love we will always remember this day my dear xxxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on April 24, 2016
24th of April 10 years ago today a bundle of joy arrived in our family. Mumma and Rian cuddling and full of joy a gorgeous little boy had arrived in our family.
Shelley and Rian a complete little twosome full of love and happiness.
Xxxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on April 23, 2016
Oh darling Shelley 10 years ago today 23rd April you felt different and was determined you wanted to go shopping to St Lukes.  Oh no! Let's stay close to home. I wonder why!  Your darling baby Rian was ready to join us. So to keep you happy we went shopping to Takapuna to keep you busy! And when it was about this time 10 years ago the time was ready to get help to make Rian's arrival to our family safe.  We were off to North Shore Hospital!xxxxxxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2016
Dear Shelley

Though we miss you always each and every day
It seems to hit us even more because it is your birthday today

We send wishes to Heaven carried to you in a prayer
To the place where you are now
With sweet tender love and care!

Happy birthday with all our love   Xxxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on December 25, 2015
Someone is missing at Christmas!
Someone our hearts still hold on to!
Someone who made life special!
Someone who won't be forgotten!
How dearly our family loved our dear Shelley
And how Shelley loved us all.

Miss and love you everyday
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2015
If roses grow in Heaven please pick a bunch for me
Place them in Shelley ' s arms and tell her they are from me.
Tell Shelley we all love her and miss her and when she turns to smile
Place a kiss upon her cheek and hold her for awhile
Because remembering Shelley is easy we do it every day
But there's an ache in our hearts because we miss you today!
"Love you always"
Posted by Rayleen Black on May 10, 2015
Mumma ' s Day today Mumma

Rian loves you
Keep shining as the brightest star in the sky
Posted by Rayleen Black on April 24, 2015
Dear Shelley today your darling Rian is 9 years old.  Keep shining bright on your Rian.  You are Rian's wonderful Mumma.

Happy birthday to your darling Rian and Nana's Poppy!
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2015
Happy Birthday MUMMA

"You are Beautiful
You are Gorgeous
Love you"

Love and hugs Rian xoxoxoxoxoxo
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2015
Happy 42nd birthday my Darling. Always thinking and talking to you.
You are the brightest star in the sky looking after your darling Rian watch over Rian every day. Rian watches you and so do I every night.

Love you my Darling.  Happy Birthday!
Love Mummy xxx
Posted by Rayleen Black on December 20, 2014
Thinking of you Dear Shelley you loved Xmas time decorating, buying Xmas presents and eating, drinking and having fun with your Rian.

Love you always from Mummy
Posted by Clayton Black on October 28, 2014
Missing you everyday Shelley
Posted by Vanessa Black on October 28, 2014
Missing you and thinking of you all the time
Posted by Lyn black on October 28, 2014
Shelley! You will never be forgotten. Your Mum & Dad are doing a great job caring for Rian - you don't need to worry! You were lost to them far too early!  xx  Aunty Lyn
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2014
we remembered your day today mumma i love you always
i think about you lots

love Rian
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Posted by allan black on October 28, 2014
Missing you my dear every day every week every month every year
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 27, 2014
Sadly missed along life's way quietly I remember you every day. 
No longer in my life to share but in my heart you are always there.
Love you my Darling 'Dogsy'......from Mummy.

Rian is our memory of you .... Rian will be with us today to visit you!
Posted by Rayleen Black on April 25, 2014
Mumma - Me and Annisha went on an easter egg hunt with Nana I found 56! easter eggs.   Mumma - I have been with nana and grandad for easter and my birthday. I am 8 I got gross magic to do tricks on you. On friday I went with grandad to see the Ak blues vs the warratahs.The blues won the score was 21/13 at eden park.Such cool fun staying with Nana - Love you xxxooo Rian
Posted by Lyn Black on March 9, 2014
Happy Birthday Shelley! I was remembering the day that you had to remove the dead Wombat from swimming pool. It was a funny day.
xxx Aunty Lyn
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2014
Happy Birthday Darling Shelley.  Rian and I have been to visit you with new yellow roses today.  Rian has cleaned up your pink bear which has always been with you.  We have wished you happy birthday today and it is so good having Rian with us today to celebrate.
Miss you always
Love Mummy
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2014
Happy birthday mumma we went to see you today on your birthday
I love you and miss you always
love from Rianxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxxxxxxxxooooooooxoxox
Posted by Rayleen Black on January 27, 2014
Mumma, Nana and Grandad have taken me for a big holiday over to the Gold Coast.  I missed you so much.  I did have fun on the most scariest ride of all which was the Sea Viper and the best ride of all was the Tower of Terror. We visited the Haunted House but I did not want to go inside.  Love you Mumma!
Posted by Rayleen Black on January 27, 2014
As promised My Dear we have taken your darling Rian over to Gold Coast to revist the theme parks that you enjoyed so much. You would be happy to know that Rian was tall enough now to go on one of your favourite rides The Scooby Doo ride.  He had so much fun!  We kept talking and thinking about you and when we were altogether at the Theme Parks. Love always Mummy!
Posted by Clayton Black on October 28, 2013
Thinking of you shelley everyday

Your loving Brother
Posted by Lyn Black on October 28, 2013
Hi Shelley I am pleased to say that I am cycling in a Mid-Amateur Triathlon on Nov 24 in your honour with proceeds going to Cancer Research. All my love Shelley xx
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 28, 2013
happy anniversary mumma love  you  xxxxxxxxxxoooooooooo
I have made you an nice picture xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxooooooooooooooo
think about you  lots always love Rian  xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxoooooooo.o
Posted by Rayleen Black on October 27, 2013
I love you, I miss you, I think of you every day.  I only wish you were here to be with us and enjoy your darling Rian growing.  Rian and I visit you and talk and tell you stories, laugh and cry and joke with you.  Every night Rian is with us we have a 'Mumma hug' one of your tight squeezes Rian remembers.
Love you my darling always.
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 8, 2013
Happy Birthday Mumma, I love you.  Nana and I visited you today and I painted you a special rock.  We sang Happy Birthday to you and clapped 40 times for your birthday Mumma.  Love and Hugs from your Rian oooxxxxxxxxx.
Posted by Clayton Black on March 8, 2013
Happy birthday Shelley, 40 years on.
never forgetting
Posted by Lyn Black on March 8, 2013
Have been thinking of Shelley this morning and remembered her coloured hairstyle. Also thinking of her loved ones and hoping that they are remembering the good times, especially Rian. I'm sure that he is growing up into a fine boy to make his Mum proud.
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Posted by Rayleen Black on May 9, 2021
Perhaps they are not Stars in the sky
But openings where loved ones like you my dear shine down to let us know you are happy!
Mother’s Day today and Rian and I have been to you today
Love to you Mumma
Rian & Mummy
Posted by Lyn black on March 9, 2021
It is wonderful for you Shelley to know that you are always remembered.
Never easy for your family but we are all thinking of you! Lyn & Cliff
Posted by Rayleen Black on March 9, 2021
Happy birthday our darling.  Red and pink roses are with you on your special day.  Rian has been with me to say “Happy Birthday”.
We love you always xoxoxo
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A day at the beach

Shared by Jesper Fuhlendorff on October 17, 2012

This photo was take 08 Jan 2005 at Maraetai beach. Shelly and i was there for a day in the sun with my 2 girls. Shelly did not like to have photoes taken so this was a snaeky one while she wasn't looking. A great day and great memories.

Jesper