i think about Reema almost daily. To this day, Reema is still and always will be, one of the best friends and person I've been blessed to touch my life. Will love and miss her for the rest of my life. Susie

I'm lighting a virtual candle for Reema today - Diptyque, I imagine she would like. It's a gift to see Eva grow and keep a bit of Reema present in our lives. I hope also that all of Reema's wonderful friends are doing well and living life as fully as she did. I have been wearing a sweatshirt of hers a lot lately because it's better than any of mine. I realized yesterday that I have worn it more often now than she would have, and at that moment I think I heard a voice whisper with great sarcasm, "You're welcome."

Dear Alan and Eva, there is scarcely a week that goes by that memories of our experiences with Reema fail to bring a smile. We are fortunate to have shared some time with someone so caring and lovely. Sending grateful hugs, Kelvin and Cheryl Mark

Reema is always in my thoughts. Sometimes something or someone will remind me of her. Her friendship and presence is greatly missed.
Happy Birthday Reema.

Your friend,
Susie

Another year has passed that Reema is gone but not forgotten. To her good friends, I hope you all continue to weather the ups and downs of life with the same compassion and humor that she had described to me. We will celebrate her upcoming birthday with overpriced and trendy sushi in her honor. Cheers to all who love and remember Reema.

Thinking of Reema. Every beautiful Indian woman I see, I think of you. Miss you so much.
Susie

I miss you now just as much as I did the day you left your earthly body .... the way we laughed so hard I would almost fall off my chair... the way you always greeted me with “ my Sanjini”... I will forever have a hole in my heart. Today I received the news that I will have the opportunity to interview for anesthesia school ... I missed you ... you were the one that was suppose to guide me through this - you were the one that was going to teach me how to sneak snacks into the OR
There will never be another you .... forever missed ... forever loved

I miss you very much Ree. I miss you in the operating room. And I miss your unconditional friendship.
Forever missed. And Forever in my heart.
Susie

We miss you every day, Reema. You were a happy fixture and a lifegiving force at Alhambra Surgery Center. You brought levity, compassion, and professionalism to our workplace. You made Alhambra a better place to work. Patients, surgeons, and staff all loved you! We all so miss you dearly. Personally, you were a close friend to me both in health and when we were REALLY sick. Somehow I'm still here, at least for now, but that's at least in part because you gave me strength and inspired me to get up and keep fighting. You were super strong and always with that wry sense of humor. Because if you're going to suffer, you might as well do it with grit and attitude! You definitely made LVAD a fashion statement. Nobody looked better slinging that device than you. I draw a tear for you, Reema, every August 11th that I'm still here and every time I think of you, which is often.

There isn’t a day that goes by that we don’t think of our daughter Reema, whether it is the thought of having lunch or dinner with her or going out somewhere or just planning the future that did not unfold as expected. We are reminiscent of several painful surgeries, followed by extended follow-ups that she endured very valiantly. We admire her will to overcome her serious health problems. She kept her spirits up by attending peaceful, uplifting retreats and listening to positive stories.
We will always remember her perseverance to overcome these obstacles for the love of her daughter Eva. Eva is a splendid example of good genes and nurturing. Loss of a parent has profound and lasting impact on a child. Experience suggests that she will miss her mother even more when she grows up; our thoughts and best wishes are with her.

Today on Reema's birthday we miss her no less than two years ago when she was forced to leave us. I remember her in happy times, Eva, like the first time we went to Disneyworld, on travels around the globe together, and when she graduated from medical school. I remember also her happiness when her life grew to include your dad and later you, like the first time she introduced me to your Dad, and when she told me they were expecting you, and of course the laughter and cuddles she loved sharing with you anytime. Eva, let her courage be an inspiration to you in difficult moments, and know her love for you guided her and gave her strength in her difficult times. Alan, through Reema and Eva you will always be a part of our family. We wish you well as you continue to make your way in life so unexpectedly without your life's partner. Much love from us all.

Dear Alan and Eva, rare does a day go by where Reema's memory does not cross my mind. Such is the loving nature, with levity, humor, compassion, and caring, in which Reema indelibly touched me and so many and continues to do so. We miss her so deeply, wishing that she could be here to continue life's adventures. Eva, you are your mother and father's most true treasure. Your happiness is their happiness so continue living the best and most meaningful life that you possibly can. Your friends, Kelvin and Cheryl

Eva,

Aunti Jen and I didn't know Reema as well as we wanted to. We moved to California shortly before your mom got sick.  The times we did spend together were enjoyable. She was a gracious host when we were invited over. She was a warm and friendly person and had a sharp wit. We will miss her.

Uncle Dan

Dear Alan and Eva, words are insufficient to express the depth of our sorrow at your loss. Unimaginable and immeasurable are the many ways in which Reema had touched so many lives and will continue to touch through the legacy of caring and love that she leaves behind in this world.  Eva, we came across these photos of Alan and Reema at your baby shower. Is it not amazing to see your mother's and father's picture when you were growing and before you were born? Without a doubt, one can see the hopes and dreams for your every happiness reflected in your mother's eyes and smile, and in your father's beaming demeanor. Life is perhaps the most fragile treasure that we can encounter. You are your mom and dad's true treasure. We are confident that you will remember and honor your mother every moment of every day by living the best life that you possibly can, always remembering that when you are happy, so too are your mom and dad. Your happiness is their happiness. With Love, Kelvin and Cheryl

I will always remember the beautiful girl with the big brown eyes that made my son happy. Now that happiness can continue with their precious daughter, Eva.

Dearest Raj Uncle, Sushma Aunty, Alisha...
How I would have loved meet Reema's husband and daughter and enjoy reuniting after so many years. I thought that would happen when we reconnected not very long ago. I was so excited to be in touch...I had no idea that she was battling something so big. I have my memories of being so young and each other's company at dinner parties and our friendship through what could have been a tough teen experience: freshman year in high school! Thank goodness we endured it, hand-in-hand, together. If it weren't for her wonderful humor, I don't think I would have had a good start at all. Her attention to fashion and how she always seemed to walk a catwalk, even though it was a high school hallway. The many sleepovers that were spent laughing and giggling into the wee hours. Many innocent secrets kept...it was always nice to have that confidante that I had in her.
My deepest and most sincere thoughts and prayers to the family.

Alan and Eva and to all of Reema's family and friends: I am sure I am echoing what has been said and what will be said about Reema by all who have known her. Such a bright light and a true inspiration as the wife of one of my closest friends. As we travel through life we are fortunate to cross paths with someone of such intelligence, grace, humor, courage and compassion. Thank you Reema for all you have touched and for being what you became: a wonderful person.