This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved son, Ricardo Padin-Chiha, 2 and a half, born on June 19, 2014, and passed away on February 27, 2017. You were taken away from us too early, Mommy and Daddy will love you for the rest of our lives and beyond sweet baby boy. We will all remember him forever.
My Son
It broke my heart to lose you,
But you did not go alone
A part of me went with you
The day God called you home.
A million times I've thought of you
A million times I've cried,
If loving you could have saved you
You would have never died
Forgive me Lord, I'll always weep
For my son I loved so much
But yet I could not keep
Sweet Dreams My Angel
Little Richie (Ricardo Antonio Padin-Chiha) was born on June 19th, 2014 to Rubi Rodriguez-Jaimes and Ricardo Padin at the UNC Children’s Hospital. We knew Little Richie was going to have major heart complications beforehand. His original condition was d-transposition of the great arteries, pulmonary atresia, heterotaxy, dextrocardia, and total anomalous pulmonary veins. After his first surgery, Richie came home to us and we enjoyed a relatively normal few months. Eventually, Little Richie had to go back for another open-heart surgery where he received a bidirectional Glenn procedure. When Little Richie came home to us, we could tell things were not the same. Out of fear that he would not make it, I reached out to the doctors of Bostin Children’s Hospital for a second opinion. Our doctor’s at UNC eventually agreed with us after determining that there was dextrocardia with ventricular inversion. There were also relatively small pulmonary arteries, a complete Atrioventricular canal with a large inlet ventricular septal defect and the aorta appearing to arise off the right ventricle. We were able to have him medically flown through a snowstorm to Boston Children’s Hospital to undergo emergency heart surgery. Dr. Baird did an amazing job and was able to save his life. While at the Boston’s Children’s hospital, we were told Little Richie had pulmonary vein stenosis disease, a rare and serious condition in which there is an obstruction (blockage) in the blood vessels that bring oxygen-rich blood from the lungs back to the heart. It can be isolated to a single pulmonary vein, but most often occurs in multiple veins simultaneously. Initially, we were told there was nothing we could do and that he was terminal. However, a special department working on finding a treatment for the disease approached us and told us Little Richie would be a candidate to start a trial of special chemotherapy that could slow and possibly stop the disease. We agreed and every 3 months would travel back to Boston Children’s hospital to follow up with a catheterization of his pulmonary veins. The medication seemed to work and slowed down the progression of this disease. During that time, we had some close calls but we made every day count. Richie lived a happy life and we celebrated him and made him as happy as we could. He always smiled and loved to love. He was a lot of work, but Rubi and I worked around the clock to give him the medical care, medication, and abundance of love that he needed. We were told Little Richie would need a surgery called a Bi-Ventricular repair to help him. We were told that this procedure may also help with his disease. We were excited and scared; we wanted more time with him but knew it would be risky. Dr. Marxx wanted to postpone the surgery as long as he could because he feared that doing the surgery while Richie was small would make it harder to access his heart for his quarterly catheterizations. While we waited, Little Richie’s disease progressed and his veins shrank threw his stent causing in-stent restenosis. This was a very bad condition and something that we were told was a bad case scenario. Eventually. Little Richie had the surgery. Although Dr. Baird did everything he could, the in-stent restenosis made it difficult and Richie lost too much blood. He was put on an ECMO machine, a type of machine that circulates your blood in place of your heart. While on ECMO, Little Richie suffered numerous blood clots to the brain. Dr. Baird tried to perform another surgery to take him off the ECMO machine so his heart could beat on his own. We were allowed to sit and watch the surgery. We realized that even if Dr. Baird was able to bring our son back, the brain damage and trauma was Too much. Rubi made the decision to stop the attempt and I agreed. The surgery team closed Richie’s chest and prepared him so we could say our goodbye’s. Thanks to Dr. Baird’s attempt, Richie’s heartbeat for a while longer so we could hold him, kiss him and let him pass in our arms. Later, we found out that if Dr. Baird was able to do the surgery before the in-stent restenosis occurred, he could have created a port to make it easier to perform catheterizations. It was an oversight that cost us the chance to have our child a little longer. It was hard, but through all this, Little Richie touched a lot of lives. His life helped me become a better man and through his passing and because of his memory, Little Richie’s Smiles was born. My mission now is to help local families that have children with serious congenital heart defects. Eventually, I hope to grow this into something that can do better and help children with Little Richie’s condition all over the world. For now, I know that Little Richie is smiling down, happy and proud. We love you baby boy, 06/19/14-02/27/2017