June 2, 2014
June 2, 2014
Remembering Robby and his family and sending all prayers of love and peace and hope.
Pictures, Videos, Robby's rap: in Gallery menu, click on photo to view full non-cropped pic
Listen to Robby's voice:
After clicking below link, then click arrow > to play it
Robby's rap song he wrote lyrics / performed
or to play it you can click above gallery menu, then audio menu, then click arrow to play.
Robby did this 90 second audio rap tribute that he wrote the lyrics for.
It can also be played by clicking Gallery tab above, then audio tab, The music part of the rap is from a rap song that he liked by artist Haystack ("My First Day" on album Portrait of a White Boy) His prophetic lyrics are about a rehab friend William that a while after he got out of rehab he later overdosed in 2010. Robby's rap song also ended up becoming prophetic by describing some of his own six year personal struggle with substance use-disorder.
New website with Robby's story and essential info for parents and friends
"Parents For Opioid-Free Children"
https://pfofc.com
Empowering parents with quick and essential opioid addiction information with options, resources, tips, use of evidence-based treatments, detox, rehab facilities, & lessons learned.
If you have ideas for website pfofc.com improvements, changes or corrections, contact Robby's father George.
Photos and Videos of Robby, friends and family:
Viewing these photos, videos and audio is a good way to remember some of the times you once shared with Robby. Share a story with another friend when you think of him.
Click on Gallery tab, then either photos or videos or audio for his rap song. Then click on the actual photo to see the entire full size photo not just the cropped thumbnail version.
There are a few very short videos of young Robby also.
You can now add gallery photos, songs and videos directly from your phone or tablet. You can download a photo you like to keep or share on Facebook etc. by double clicking on photo to see full size then right click for options.
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Robby Andrew, who was born on December 30,1990 and died on June 2, 2013. We will never forget Robby. We will love and miss him forever.
The Services were held on June 8th, 2013 at:
First United Methodist Church of Winter Park
125 N. Interlachen Ave.
Winter Park, FL 32789
Thank you all for showering us with your warm thoughts, love, and kindness as we grieve over the sudden loss of our precious son, Robby. Please post any stories or memories you have of Robby. If Robby's life or death influenced your life, your story would be a great comfort to us and others that loved him. Thanks for calling, writing or visiting us.
George, Theresa, & Sarah
407 592-6026 GeoAndrew@aol.com
Listen to Robby's voice:
After clicking below link, then click arrow > to play it
Robby's rap song he wrote lyrics / performed
or to play it you can click above gallery menu, then audio menu, then click arrow to play.
Robby did this 90 second audio rap tribute that he wrote the lyrics for.
It can also be played by clicking Gallery tab above, then audio tab, The music part of the rap is from a rap song that he liked by artist Haystack ("My First Day" on album Portrait of a White Boy) His prophetic lyrics are about a rehab friend William that a while after he got out of rehab he later overdosed in 2010. Robby's rap song also ended up becoming prophetic by describing some of his own six year personal struggle with substance use-disorder.
New website with Robby's story and essential info for parents and friends
"Parents For Opioid-Free Children"
https://pfofc.com
Empowering parents with quick and essential opioid addiction information with options, resources, tips, use of evidence-based treatments, detox, rehab facilities, & lessons learned.
If you have ideas for website pfofc.com improvements, changes or corrections, contact Robby's father George.
Photos and Videos of Robby, friends and family:
Viewing these photos, videos and audio is a good way to remember some of the times you once shared with Robby. Share a story with another friend when you think of him.
Click on Gallery tab, then either photos or videos or audio for his rap song. Then click on the actual photo to see the entire full size photo not just the cropped thumbnail version.
There are a few very short videos of young Robby also.
You can now add gallery photos, songs and videos directly from your phone or tablet. You can download a photo you like to keep or share on Facebook etc. by double clicking on photo to see full size then right click for options.
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Robby Andrew, who was born on December 30,1990 and died on June 2, 2013. We will never forget Robby. We will love and miss him forever.
The Services were held on June 8th, 2013 at:
First United Methodist Church of Winter Park
125 N. Interlachen Ave.
Winter Park, FL 32789
Thank you all for showering us with your warm thoughts, love, and kindness as we grieve over the sudden loss of our precious son, Robby. Please post any stories or memories you have of Robby. If Robby's life or death influenced your life, your story would be a great comfort to us and others that loved him. Thanks for calling, writing or visiting us.
George, Theresa, & Sarah
407 592-6026 GeoAndrew@aol.com
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June 2, 2014
June 2, 2014
We all miss Robby so much. His sweet, calm spirit will always be in our hearts. Love, Jen, Bryan, Max, Franny, and Ceci
June 2, 2014
June 2, 2014
thinking or robby today and praying for Theresa, George, and Grandma Wiz. went to mass for u all today, and hope to do the same tomorrow.
June 2, 2014
June 2, 2014
My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
June 2, 2014
June 2, 2014
Robby still lives in his loved ones hearts and in spirit. Saying prayers for peace until everyone meets again.
June 2, 2014
June 2, 2014
Rob, today I worked in the flower bed that you and I planted 2 years ago. It is "exploding with growth as summer is upon us" how I wish you were here to keep up with it. These moments though sad with your absence are cheerful too with the memory of our doing things we enjoyed together. Our walk is just that... being thankful for the gift of those precious moments we did have, those were good times and they DO outweigh all the struggle and pain of the other times. I will choose to always remember the laughs and the jokes we shared and too the hard work that drew an uncle and a nephew so close. I will meet you again Rob somewhere "UP" the path. Thanks again for PLANTING the wonderful MEMORIES they are awesome... from in the garden with...UJ and Rob
May 30, 2014
May 30, 2014
Thoughts of Robby are always with me. I think of him often when I see a tall slim handsome young man walking down the street. When we gather as a family, his absence is felt and I am very sad. When I often consider the immense void left in the lives of his mom, dad, sister and close friends and relatives, I am grieved. I am missing his gentle spirit, his loving smile, his spontaneous wit. I miss what was and what could have been in his life, on this earth. I will never forget my cousin, my nephew, Robby. He will always be with me in my lovely memories of him. I hope for a future in heaven when we will be reunited and take up where we left off, because I didn't get to know him as I should have. If you can see this Robby, I love you and miss you very much, and I will always remember you. Love, Aunt Colleen
February 25, 2014
February 25, 2014
Colby Nguyen was Robby's most loyal friend. Even though Robby went to rehab in Rhode Island, Colby stayed in contact with him until the day Robby died. Last night, Colby brought over a beautiful drawing of Robby and Sarah that he paid an artist to draw for us. It is the nicest gift we have ever received. Colby also brought over a birthday cake back in December to celebrate what would have been Robby's 23rd birthday. Colby's beautiful tribute to Robby is in the "Stories" section of this website. Robby was very fortunate to have a friend like Colby.
February 25, 2014
February 25, 2014
I posted the wonderful drawing of Robby and Sarah under "Gallery: photo." I miss Robby deeply. He was my precious son. I treasure the short time we shared together. Although my heart will always ache, I will love Robby forever.
January 28, 2014
January 28, 2014
What changes can you make to honor Robby's memory and redeem his lost life? Robby inspired be to write a letter to Dr. Andrew Kolodny, Chief Medical Officer of Phoenix House (akolodny@phoenixhouse.org)
I have posted the letter in the "Stories" section of this website.
I have posted the letter in the "Stories" section of this website.
January 2, 2014
January 2, 2014
Robby, i don't think there are enough words for how much i miss you. All of this, its just too hard to believe anymore. This is the first time i have gone on here, to your memorial website. That isn't even something i or anyone should even be able to say. I miss you so much, how funny you were, you would always laugh at my jokes and understand what i was trying to say (making fun of the adults in secret) looking at me thinking and knowing the same thing, our family is so nerdy. But we both still were the same, loving to be with everyone, hearing all the nerdy talk, we always had each other. All of this is so wonderful to think about, every memory i can remember with you, i cherish and ponder constantly. I love you so much and you were always the brother i always wanted to have. I just want you back.
eileen
eileen
January 1, 2014
January 1, 2014
Beautiful what everyone has written over the last few days. Words of pain, memories, deep love. I am in tears....Surely he was gone too soon. My heart goes out to all of you family members. I cry for your pain, but I also hope for the re-union you will have one day as you once again embrace your Robbie.
January 1, 2014
January 1, 2014
We miss you Robby, but are reminded of what you taught us.
I can only agree with Emily on her 2014 resolution to be more like Robby and this reminds me of my words at his memorial service quoted below.
George and I are very close and Robby was sort of like the Son I never had (having three girls) – so I pray we can never forget what Robby taught us during his life.
To be gentle and kind spirited, and only use enough words to convey your message.”
I can only agree with Emily on her 2014 resolution to be more like Robby and this reminds me of my words at his memorial service quoted below.
George and I are very close and Robby was sort of like the Son I never had (having three girls) – so I pray we can never forget what Robby taught us during his life.
To be gentle and kind spirited, and only use enough words to convey your message.”
December 31, 2013
December 31, 2013
Robby, although you are physically gone from us, you are always in my heart, soul, and mind daily. Due to the 2 digital picture frames that run constantly, you remain in my sight as well. I shall always cherish your loving, quiet way & how you handled being with all the granddaughters. Also, I think of you whenever I see Steak & Shake & how cute you were in your uniform. You were always so generous when I needed your help with outside work. Thank you for being my one and only, unique, Robby! Love, Grandma Mary
December 31, 2013
December 31, 2013
Robby, I wish celebrating your 23rd birthday yesterday consisted of something other than writing on this site. I wish instead it was the whole family together again at your parents house, you running the grill with your dad and mine, cooking up some salmon and hot dogs, all of us finishing off a cheesecake or some tiramisu, followed by an overwhelming amount of family photos. Now such simple things as salmon and cheesecake, or a tall handsome young man with beautiful light blue eyes carry far more weight and pain than I could have ever imagined possible. I see you everywhere Robby, and as painful as it is, I am at least thankful for that because I know I will never stop thinking of you. My resolution for 2014 is to be more intentional about my relationships, be kinder to others, and to listen rather than speak in your honor. I love you Robby.
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Trac, George, and Sarah- we are thinking about Robby and all of you today on Robby's 23rd birthday. We miss him so much. We feel blessed to have the memory of the Christmas we spent together last year and we will always remember Robby the way he was one year ago, smiling and happy. We love you all. Jen, Bryan, Max, Franny, and Ceci
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Dearest Robby,
This would have been your 23rd birthday and I miss you so much. I knew you were on the way when your Mom gave me a gift on Mother's day 1990: a nested package and when I got to the bottom there was a scroll that said, "Happy Grandmother's Day." I wear your memorial wrist band every day and will never forget my first grandchild.
This would have been your 23rd birthday and I miss you so much. I knew you were on the way when your Mom gave me a gift on Mother's day 1990: a nested package and when I got to the bottom there was a scroll that said, "Happy Grandmother's Day." I wear your memorial wrist band every day and will never forget my first grandchild.
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Dear "T", Geo, Sarah and Wiz: As Robby's "inherited' grandfather over the past 10 years, I came to love him as my own, and ache with you as if he were my grandson by blood. There are no words I can think of that will ease your pain, but on this special day, I hope you concentrate on the things about him that make you smile. For me, that's a poolside discussion we had at 2395. I know things may not get easier over time, but I pray you will get better at handling it. Love you all.
Sal
Sal
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
It's a joy thinking of Robby & the time he spent a week in Dothan. He was my reason to get home from work early to spend time together. We even had a night out that amounted to a dinner date with his "Aunt Sue". For his birthday, I'd like to share that he had a spirit of faith, hope, & love that was evident as he shared a number of stories about life & what he valued most. He deeply valued friends & family, & had great respect, as well as a sense of loyalty to each of those. I pray for each of you who miss him & hope his memories will bring you joy!
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Dear Robby, I really miss you, especially not having you here today on what would have been your 23rd birthday. The sting of your untimely death cuts me to the core. Through my tears, I attempt to remember the things I loved about you and the good times we shared. In this way, I try to honor you and your memory. I miss your dry sense of humor, your quiet demeanor and your heartfelt smile. I fondly remember you and Sarah building your first snowman followed by a snowball fight, skim boarding in New Smyrna Beach, smoking your $100 Cuban cigar at the Anna Marie Island beach house, both of us getting massages at the Hammock Resort and later floating down the lazy river on inner tubes, playing tennis in the mountains together in Highlands, and how much you enjoyed snow skiing in Park City. I value our 24-7 time together during our get out of town excursions. Although part of me is relieved that you are finally healed and have no more pain or struggle, I am still deeply saddened and will forever miss the future life you could have had, including having your own family. I admired your incredible devotion and loyalty to our family and to your friends. You once told me you would give your life in defending us if a bad guy broke into our home. You even showed your mother how to make the shot gun loading sound to deter a burglar. I was extremely proud of you when you took the car keys of your intoxicated friend, putting your friendship at risk but likely probably saving his life and the lives of others. The impact of your life and death did matter and has since begun to change the lives of others. Your time here was too short but I was privileged to be your father and to call you my son. I will love you forever and look forward to one day seeing you again. DAD
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Robby, I miss you so much. I wish that my thoughts could be simply focused on where to take you out to dinner for your 23rd birthday rather than how to find the strength to live the rest of my life without you in it. In the weeks before you died, you talked about your dreams of overcoming addiction, of going back to school, of finding a nice girl to love, and of being happy living without drugs. I would give anything to be able to trade my life for yours, so that you would have a chance to fulfill your dreams. What keeps me going now is thinking “What would Robby want me to do?” and doing things that honor your memory and redeem your lost life. I wouldn’t trade the 22 years we had together for a lifetime with another son. Robby, I miss hearing the sound of your voice, feeling your tender embrace, being blessed by your kindhearted spirit, laughing with you until the tears flowed, and sharing a precious mother-son bond that will last forever. You will always be my beautiful boy.
December 30, 2013
December 30, 2013
Robby, I drive over an 8 mile causeway from Tampa to Pinellas county almost daily. Every time I cross a certain point in the bridge where the water is calmest you flood my mind and take me away to a very still and painful reflection for the remainder of the drive. Today on your birthday, when I crossed this place on the bridge and tried to understand why you weigh so heavily in my mind on this particular spot, I realized your spirit overflows in this place because you were the depiction of stillness and just being present which is so much more than so many of us. It's not fair we have to wish you happy 23rd birthday on a memorial website but I want you to know your calming spirit is needed here and we love you so much.
December 28, 2013
December 28, 2013
I have read through more of the stories today and just want you to know that my heart goes out to you. Only the Lord can bring you comfort. I pray you focus on the good memories and the ways in which your Robbie made this world good for others. This is a beautiful site. The gift he was to you can never be taken away and you will rejoin him in time- for all eternity. Happy Birthday Robbie!
December 25, 2013
December 25, 2013
Robby's birthday is upon us. I remember 23 years ago the joy and excitement of seeing Theresa and George with their first born... soon to appear. Such a gift and WOW what a joyful spirit God gave to us in Robby. This walk in life..... for some is longer than for others. It is not the length of time we are present but the moments we touch others that matters. Robby never gave up loving. He shared his gifts of bringing a smile and laugh to you even in the most difficult of times. We know the challenges were there and though Robby has gone ahead of us for now the memories are of the GOOD TIMES. Rob's laughter grows louder all the time. Yes he was the "hoot", prankster, fun loving and energetic nephew I knew and loved and will look forward to seeing again. Robby would remind us that yesterday was yesterday. Robby's hope and dreams remain a part of us. We live those "with him" now by expressing his love, his excitement, and too his happiness in all that we do. That is our Robby you hear when the laughter echoes and the sunrise appears for it is a day to GO FOR IT !!! We have eternity with Robby. Thank you God for this Gift today of your son Jesus and through that gift the opportunity to share Robby.................. forever.
UJ.
UJ.
December 22, 2013
December 22, 2013
Robby was one of the funniest people I've ever met. I spent about as much time at his house growing up as I did my own. We used to hang out on the porch so much we coined a term for it. "Porching it". I wish I could have just one more night on the porch laughing with him. Robby could turn my worst day into a good one. I still think about him all the time.
December 21, 2013
December 21, 2013
"It has been six months since Robby died. His 23rd birthday would have been on 12/30/13. We want Robby's death to make a difference in this world. Over-the-counter naloxone (Narcan) could have saved Robby's life. See my letter to Senator Gardiner in the "Stories" section of this website. Has Robby's death changed your life? Please post your thoughts either here or in the "Stories" section. We welcome any pictures or video you have of Robby for the "Gallery" area. Your memories of Robby give us hope that his life will continue to touch our lives. Please remember Robby on December 30th. Robby, we miss you so much. Love you forever, Mom and Dad"
August 19, 2013
August 19, 2013
Dear George,
I am deeply saddened by the news that I just received today. I could only image the pain that you have experienced. From reading the previous posts, I know Robby is an extraordinary young man who is well loved! You and your family are in my prayers. With blessings and love.
I am deeply saddened by the news that I just received today. I could only image the pain that you have experienced. From reading the previous posts, I know Robby is an extraordinary young man who is well loved! You and your family are in my prayers. With blessings and love.
June 28, 2013
June 28, 2013
I found this note today in Robby's sketchbook: ("I'm sorry Mom & Dad for not listening. I hope you forgive me for all I've put you through. I am turning my life around. I love y'all so much and never wanted to let y'all down.") Robby, love
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. We will always love you.
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. We will always love you.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
Dear George,
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I am praying for you and your family.
Amanda
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. I am praying for you and your family.
Amanda
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
George I am deeply sorry to hear of your son passing. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers, no parent want there child to leave before, them again my deepest sympathy.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
George, Teresa and Sarah, My thoughts and prayers are with you during this trying time.
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
George and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless!!
June 19, 2013
June 19, 2013
George, I am so sorry to hear this news. I had no idea and words are never enough to express sympathies worthy of your loss. Please know my heart goes out to you and your family. Bless you and your son ...
June 12, 2013
June 12, 2013
George and family, I am so very sorry for you tremendous loss. Just reading these posts and seeing the wonderful pictures I feel like I know your beautiful son. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you. I hope it comforts you to know he is in good hands.
Cristy
Cristy
June 10, 2013
June 10, 2013
George, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sorry for your loss
June 10, 2013
June 10, 2013
Goerge, Theresa, and Sarah, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I had the pleasure of meeting Robby at Aunt Mary Jane's 80th birthday celebration. What a loving and caring young man! We are so saddened by his death. I know that he is rejoicing with our loved ones who are already in heaven. Love, Nancy and Ed
June 9, 2013
June 9, 2013
My heart goes out to you and your family during this sad and painful time. May it comfort you to know that he is now in the arms of our Father and all your family members that have already preceded him.
With my deepest sympathy,
Leslie Varhol.
With my deepest sympathy,
Leslie Varhol.
June 9, 2013
June 9, 2013
My sincere condolences to you all. My thoughts and prayers are with you as you grieve the loss of Robby. Love, Cousin Michelle (Brown)
June 9, 2013
June 9, 2013
You always put up with the 5 girls, being the only boy our age, and our playmate as a kid. I'll miss your quiet nature, and hilariously subtle sarcasm you contributed to our family. When us 5 were sitting in the courtyard yesterday after everything, I felt your presence with us. I'm sure listening & laughing to yourself AT us! Almost as if nothing changed. I'll miss and love you forever.
June 8, 2013
June 8, 2013
Our thoughts, prayers, and friendship are always with you Robby, Sarah, Theresa, and George, especially during these difficult times.
June 8, 2013
June 8, 2013
I met Robby only once, but was impressed. What a handsome, talented young man, athletic, sharp, and blessed with a loving family. Close relations were near that loved him as George and Theresa and Sara did. He had so much life ahead of him to experience and enjoy. All of his loved ones will miss walking alongside him and sharing his joys and triumphs and burdens. His loss is great.
June 8, 2013
June 8, 2013
George, Theresa and Sarah, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Such happy memories of Robby and Vince, best friends for many years. You are such wonderful loving parents always there for Robby and Sarah. My heart breaks for your loss
June 8, 2013
June 8, 2013
George and Tracy, I have been thinking of you and praying for all your family all day today. I am very sorry for your loss and pray for the Lord's deep comfort in these next days and months. May your family and friends surround you with help and support.
I send my love, Sandy Collie
I send my love, Sandy Collie
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
Robby wrote us a note on March 2nd, three months before he died. Due to tribute length limits, I posted Robby's note in the "Stories" section of this website. I think it reveals the heart of my beautiful boy. Thanks for all your love and prayers for Robby and for us.
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray that "the God of all comfort" be with you during this difficult time and that His trustworthy promises sustain you until you can be reunited. I found the following scriptures to be of special comfort and hope you will too: 2 Corinthians 1:3, Acts 24:15; Isaiah 26:19; Revelation 21:4, Job 14:14-15; 1 Corinthians 15:26; Luke 20:38.
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Please accept my condolences during this very difficult time. This site is a beautiful tribute to his spirit and your love.
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
You two were awesome parents. You had Robby's back up until the very end. He felt your love and support. You gave him your all and there is nothing more we can do as parents. I can't imagine the pain you are going thru but these are the times when God calls us to lean on Him. I pray you'll do that. Love to you all and may God Bless.
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
My sincerest condolences. It's obvious that your family is surrounded by friend, love and wonderful memories; may these sustain them.
In sympathy,
Rene'
In sympathy,
Rene'
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
Robbie, you're like a brother to me. I love you man. So many good conversations and good times. I'll miss you forever.
June 7, 2013
June 7, 2013
My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Take comfort knowing that God is with you and will comfort you all during this time.
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December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
In “Time Does Not Bring Relief; You All Have Lied,” Edna St. Vincent Millay describes what it feels like to live without someone you have deeply loved:
There are a hundred places where I fear
To go,—so with his memory they brim.
And entering with relief some quiet place
Where never fell his foot or shone his face
I say, “There is no memory of him here!”
And so stand stricken, so remembering him.
Robby was such an important part of our lives that, although he has been dead for over 10 years, his absence can still feel almost as tangible as his presence once did.
I am grateful to all of you for writing tributes in honor of Robby on what would have been his 33rd birthday. And I am also mindful of the many friends and family members who also dearly loved Robby and who might not write tributes but, as Edna St. Vincent Millay so eloquently wrote, will often “…stand stricken, so remembering him.”
There are a hundred places where I fear
To go,—so with his memory they brim.
And entering with relief some quiet place
Where never fell his foot or shone his face
I say, “There is no memory of him here!”
And so stand stricken, so remembering him.
Robby was such an important part of our lives that, although he has been dead for over 10 years, his absence can still feel almost as tangible as his presence once did.
I am grateful to all of you for writing tributes in honor of Robby on what would have been his 33rd birthday. And I am also mindful of the many friends and family members who also dearly loved Robby and who might not write tributes but, as Edna St. Vincent Millay so eloquently wrote, will often “…stand stricken, so remembering him.”
December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
My only son Robster, would have been 33 years old today.
Two of your close friends, Timmy and Shea contacted us this week. Your mom and I met them and we all shared personal stories of you that brought smiles to us all. Although missing you brings tears, remembering the love and memories you gave us, continues to heal our broken hearts.
Two of your close friends, Timmy and Shea contacted us this week. Your mom and I met them and we all shared personal stories of you that brought smiles to us all. Although missing you brings tears, remembering the love and memories you gave us, continues to heal our broken hearts.
December 30, 2023
December 30, 2023
Rob
Happy Birthday! It is difficult to use the word happy when your absence brings heaviness in our hearts. But your presence in the 23 years you gave us is a gift that keeps on giving. We all Love ya and always will.
UJ, Britt, Wes and Korey.
Happy Birthday! It is difficult to use the word happy when your absence brings heaviness in our hearts. But your presence in the 23 years you gave us is a gift that keeps on giving. We all Love ya and always will.
UJ, Britt, Wes and Korey.
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Robby- I love this photo of you and your mom in Alaska. I miss your sweet self!
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June 2, 2014
by Katie Kazmi
Dear Robby,
How has a year passed by without you? I guess it doesn’t feel like an entire year because I really haven’t been without you at all. I still talk to you, feel your presence and see you everywhere. When I pray, I pray that you have met Chris’ dad and that he is guiding you and that you walk together, laughing and telling stories about us on Earth. When I’m really having a bad day or missing you guys, all I have to say is, “Robby and Ronnie, I really need your help.” And an instant peace will come over me. Then a memory will enter my head, something funny that makes me laugh out loud. For instance, I will remember you being a total goofball and doing anything just to get a smile out of me. And instantly you are there, wherever I am, I feel you next to me. I am so grateful for the time we had together. You are the only close friend I have ever lost. However, I want you to know that I will never say goodbye.
I love you and I miss you everyday,
Katie
A Naloxone Kit Could Have Saved Robby
January 28, 2014
Dear Dr. Kolodny,
We are writing to you because our only son, Robert George Andrew, died of an opiate overdose on June 2, 2013, two days after finishing the drug abuse treatment program at Phoenix House in Exeter, RI. Our son Robby was handsome, smart, charming, funny, loving and loyal. He should have had a very bright future and a wonderful life. If an inexpensive, easy-to-use naloxone kit had been provided for our son when he left Phoenix House, Robby might still be alive today. Please take a look at Robby’s memorial website and try to imagine our loss. This letter is posted there. http://www.forevermissed.com/robby-george-andrew
When you were the Director for Special Projects for the New York City Department of Health, you saved many lives by implementing a naloxone overdose prevention program. Now that you are the Chief Medical Officer of Phoenix House, we hope that you will implement a naloxone overdose prevention program for everyone who seeks treatment at the 123 Phoenix Houses for which you are responsible. By building on the success of your New York City program, you could create a lifesaving legacy and profoundly transform the outcome of drug abuse treatment at Phoenix House and beyond.
Thousands of teenagers and young adults, who in previous generations would never have become addicts, are being given opioid painkillers for sports injuries or wisdom teeth extraction, only to become hopelessly addicted. Young people who successfully complete drug treatment in rehab or prison are at high risk for deadly overdose once they are released. Providing naloxone overdose prevention kits to these recovering addicts can make the critical difference between life and death. A dead addict cannot be rehabilitated; only a living addict has the chance to fully recover from addiction. Robby will never have that chance. But others could have it.
Miriam Hospital in Providence, RI, 30 miles from the Phoenix House in Exeter, does have an overdose prevention program: Preventing Overdose and Naloxone Intervention (PONI). This program is in partnership with many organizations that help addicts. It should be in partnership with the Phoenix House in Exeter. A naloxone kit distributed by PONI costs around $15.00 and can reverse five overdose events.
You have shown exceptional leadership as the president of Physicians for Responsible Opioid Prescribing. We support your courageous effort to change the labeling require- ments for painkillers which will help reduce opioid abuse and overdose. In addition to this important cause, we hope you will consider the tremendous good you could do if you build on the success of your New York City naloxone overdose prevention program and champion naloxone overdose prevention kits for Phoenix House. Think of the countless lives you could save.
Respectfully yours,
Theresa and George Andrew
The Trampoline
January 2, 2014
I remember back when we had the big king size trampoline in our backyard and we had a family party for who knows which birthday. All of us kids, Sarah, Emily, Maureen, Robby, and I (the littlest and most forgotten) were all jumping on the trampoline and i loved tickle fights back then so i pocked the girls and they clearly weren't interested. So i bounced over to where Robby was and drove my finger into his rib cage, tickling him, as he showed his cute, fun smile laughing and chuckling. His laugh and smile always made me smile and laugh. It was one of those where you couldn't help but laugh too. So anyway, i kept pocking him and he never once said stop or "EILEEN YOUR ANNOYING STOP" like other people sometimes did, he just kept laughing and trying to fight back poking me. I will never forget that smille and squinted laughing eyes Robby had that night back when we were all so little. I miss you Robby, not a day goes by that i somehow don't think about you and your affect on me. You always understand me, i love you.
Love, Eileen