Dad was married to Lynda Weiss. They had two children Bobbi (Hillen) and Scott Arboleda. My earliest memories of Dad was when he came home from his first tour of Vietnam. He was very quiet. I loved traveling with him. It was always going to be an adventure. One of our most memorial trips was traveling from Pine River, MN to Quantico, VA. We planned to stay in Niagara Falls so I could ride the boat by the falls. Our trip was delayed and we had one hour at the falls. Dad gave me a quarter to view the falls from a camera. I was crushed. Years later while in college I received a letter from my dad with pictures of dad, mom, and Scott enjoying their vacation at Niagara Falls. I will miss his humor, jokes, and stories.
In 1975, our parents bought a cabin on Norway Lake in Pine River, MN. It is a magical place. Our family and friends came to visit. As kids we made forts, ran in the woods, and played in the lake. It was great. I was able to fish with Dad until sunset or we were called in off the lake. He taught us many important life skills at the cabin; starting fires, weed whacking, fishing, priming pumps, cooking, shooting, and tree trimming. I remember Scott playing for hours in the tub filled with water. He made some of the best forts. Some of my best memories was sitting by the camp fire talking with family and friends late into night.
Travis and I have two children, Steven and Sean Hillen. Dad was an amazing grandfather. He allowed the boys to explore and do things mothers do not allow. Dad took them on several trips to Yellowstone and Canada. He bought them BB guns. I am not sure who wanted to shoot them more, grandpa or his grandchildren. While Dad was watching the boys, Steven almost "Shot his eye out". He fired the BB gun and the ball ricocheted. He put his hand up to shield his eyes and the BB embedded into his hand. Dad called me at work to let me know "Steven has been shot and was going to the emergency room" and the phone lost connection. I called Travis to let him know. We left work and started north breaking many speed limits. I contacted St. Josephs to give consent to treat him. The nurse asked where he was shot, I explained I had no idea. Around St. Cloud, we finally connected with Grandma. We found out he was shot in the hand. While Dad was in the ER he had to be interviewed by the Sheriff for a gun accident.
Dad lived with us in Burnsville MN for several years. The boys took turns staying with him at the cabin for the summer. I am thankful our boys had the opportunity to know their grandfather and share so many great times with him. I will always miss Dad, Travis, Robert, and the boys cooking Thanksgiving and Christmas dinner. Dad loved to cook and it was a blast to make chili with him.
Besides our children Dad was grandpa to many. He was fun and loved kids. Grandpa Bob loved to take kids out on the boat and had an infinite amount of patience. He made you feel valuable and always taught you how to do things. Time and attention is a precious gift.
I don't recall a time we did not have a Siamese cat in the house. My brother and Dad took care of Frost and Jasmine for us due to Sean's allergies. One summer he took care of our dog Mac. Those two were inseparable. Mac had his own pillow for the dad's car and in the trailer. Thanks to Dad Mac finally learned how to walk on a leash.
l will miss heading out on the lake early in the morning while the fog is still visible through the morning sun. We would grab coffee. Get on the boat. The lake is still like glass. We would search for the crappie beds. Once you found them, bait the hook, cast a line, sit quietly, listen to the water splash on the sides of the pontoon, feel the gentle rocking of the boat, feel the warmth from the sun on your face, and watch the wildlife all around you. In that brief moment all is well and peaceful. He was right. I will miss these simple moments with my dad the most.