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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Roberta Holzer. We will remember her forever.
August 27, 2021
August 27, 2021
When I was a child, Mrs. Holzer was Amy's mother. She was also a very good friend of my mother's. She was bright and beautiful! She was kind and generous. I remember her inviting me to Amy's birthday party — I think it was when Amy was 13 and I was 16. She wanted it to be a smash! I remember taking my boyfriend from Philadelphia to swim at her house when he visited me in the summers between college years. Mrs. Holzer wanted you to have a good time! I remember her through the Log Cabin Book Store, and through her own college years. She was always busy with something!

Fast forward many years. Now I am caring for my mom. Mrs.Holzer was still a steadfast friend. Notes, visits…out to dinner, you could count on Mrs. Holzer to liven up an evening. She always lit up a room with her smile. When my mom was in hospice, Mrs. Holzer and Mrs. Harder wanted to see her. I was torn. But in the end I let them see her. They were friends till the end.

After my mom died, I still saw Bobbie. Now she was my friend! I took her and Beth Cherrington out to lunch several times; I treasure those times. She shared stories from growing up in Point Pleasant. She even dated Bob Evans once! Bobbie had a story for everything. I miss Bobbie, my friend, and my mom's friend, and Amy's mother. Her stories will live on and her wonderful smile will as well.
July 22, 2021
July 22, 2021
Mrs. Holzer s sister, Nedra lived in Pt. Pleasant & we visited alot. Then we would always ride around & she would show me where she lived when she was little (& had fell & broke her nose on the driveway) where they moved (beside Nedra, Barto & their family) where she went to school, Aunt Aurilla's & her grandparents home, her church & lots of other memories. One time, we drove to (don t remember the name of the town) but it was about 4 hrs. away...she had an old doll, Anton, that her cousin had been keeping for her. We stopped on the way to pick up a friend of hers...Mrs. Holzer was in her 80's, the friend, 90 & her cousin 100! Now, u think that wasn t a hoot!! Her cousin sat in the back seat & was giving me directions on how to get to a restaurant & all I could think was...we re gonna b soooo lost...but guess what? We went straight to it!  We also made several trips to Circleville to meet Amy, Alex & Karin...before we would start home, we would have to stop @ Tim Horton's!!!! Our trips to Walmart were usually her going one way & me going the other & we would meet later...well, almost always, I would find her just a few feet from where I left her, chatting w/ someone she ran into! She knew everybody!❤ She would always comment on the lil red kiddy car that was up front. One time I told her I had some quarters...did she wanna ride? SURE!!!! She really enjoyed it & I know the people in Walmart got a kick out of it too!!
Her home was like a B & B! Anytime the symphony was in town, she always had some of them staying @ her home! 
She went to a fundraiser for Barack Obama & the young man that was working on the campaign didn t live close by, so she invited him to live in her basement!!
She was a treasure to Gallipolis! As a matter of fact, ALL the Holzer family are wonderful! Where would our lil town be without them?!❤❤❤❤❤❤
July 22, 2021
July 22, 2021
I have so many fond memories of our "adventures" together...& we had ALOT!! One of my 1st memories was us going to Johnson's supermarket on 2nd Ave. The sky looked really menacing as we went in! Did we worry about it? NO!‍♀️ When we came back out, the wind was blowing like crazy & it had started to rain. We headed toward her house, but a huge tree had fallen @ the French Art Colony, hitting the fence & into the street! We were both totally confused, but quickly found out there had been a tornado!! And we were just out goofing off! No worries!‍♀️ She was always ready to help ANYBODY! ALWAYS! She had a heart of gold & I (along w/ all who were blessed to be in her life) loved her very much! She never knew a stranger!! Every year @ Christmas, she would make homemade pimento cheese. We would head out to the hospital (sometimes w/ elf hats on) where she would personally pass it out! I will always cherish our "running around" adventures! Sure do miss u Mrs. Holzer! I'm a better person from knowing you! Heaven sure gained an angel!❤❤❤❤❤❤
July 19, 2021
July 19, 2021
Bobbie is very close to my heart. I married her cousin Martha Brown in Australia and over many years we traveled to the USA to visit family and friends. In Gallipolis Bobbie was always there to welcome us and in later years we would stay at her house on First Avenue. I loved her great generosity, her feisty independence of mind and strong sense of compassion and fairness towards all those with whom she came in contact. Sometimes her ambition exceeded her capabilities. One summer my grandsons and daughters were in her pool swimming and diving and she challenged them all to do a somersault dive. After a couple of them tried and failed she said to me “David, show them how to do it or I will do it myself.. She was over 90 at the time. She had a beautiful soul and a strong spirit and I miss her very much.
July 19, 2021
July 19, 2021
If I were limited to one word to describe Mrs. Holzer, it would be "class". Class in every way. In how she treated people, in how she carried herself, in how she laughed at a joke or story, in how her eyes twinkled with delight when SHE told a joke or a story, in how she looked you squarely in the eye and listened intently to whatever you had to say, and in how she adored and reveled in her family. She lived a remarkable life in part because she decided that it is how her life would be. Such strength of character, such fun, such intellect, such love and compassion for others. Mrs. Holzer, you will be missed, but you have left a huge imprint on those of us left behind. Well done, you lovely human. Well done!
July 15, 2021
July 15, 2021
Mrs. Holzer was my other mother growing up. She was always so generous, kind, caring and loving to my family. She gave in to Amy’s requests to include and treat us in so many wonderful adventures—kings island, the circus, concerts, trips, festivals, and the Holzer Family home—as our other home, down the street.

Her intelligence, hospitality, and engaging personality shined every time you were with her. I’m forever grateful for having had Mrs. Holzer in my/our life/lives...I am richer from it and she gave me the most wonderful sister, Amy...and her family, as my own-whom I will treasure and cherish, forever.

Thank you, Mrs. Holzer...our beloved angel in Heaven...I love you...until we meet, again❤️

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August 27, 2021
August 27, 2021
When I was a child, Mrs. Holzer was Amy's mother. She was also a very good friend of my mother's. She was bright and beautiful! She was kind and generous. I remember her inviting me to Amy's birthday party — I think it was when Amy was 13 and I was 16. She wanted it to be a smash! I remember taking my boyfriend from Philadelphia to swim at her house when he visited me in the summers between college years. Mrs. Holzer wanted you to have a good time! I remember her through the Log Cabin Book Store, and through her own college years. She was always busy with something!

Fast forward many years. Now I am caring for my mom. Mrs.Holzer was still a steadfast friend. Notes, visits…out to dinner, you could count on Mrs. Holzer to liven up an evening. She always lit up a room with her smile. When my mom was in hospice, Mrs. Holzer and Mrs. Harder wanted to see her. I was torn. But in the end I let them see her. They were friends till the end.

After my mom died, I still saw Bobbie. Now she was my friend! I took her and Beth Cherrington out to lunch several times; I treasure those times. She shared stories from growing up in Point Pleasant. She even dated Bob Evans once! Bobbie had a story for everything. I miss Bobbie, my friend, and my mom's friend, and Amy's mother. Her stories will live on and her wonderful smile will as well.
July 22, 2021
July 22, 2021
Mrs. Holzer s sister, Nedra lived in Pt. Pleasant & we visited alot. Then we would always ride around & she would show me where she lived when she was little (& had fell & broke her nose on the driveway) where they moved (beside Nedra, Barto & their family) where she went to school, Aunt Aurilla's & her grandparents home, her church & lots of other memories. One time, we drove to (don t remember the name of the town) but it was about 4 hrs. away...she had an old doll, Anton, that her cousin had been keeping for her. We stopped on the way to pick up a friend of hers...Mrs. Holzer was in her 80's, the friend, 90 & her cousin 100! Now, u think that wasn t a hoot!! Her cousin sat in the back seat & was giving me directions on how to get to a restaurant & all I could think was...we re gonna b soooo lost...but guess what? We went straight to it!  We also made several trips to Circleville to meet Amy, Alex & Karin...before we would start home, we would have to stop @ Tim Horton's!!!! Our trips to Walmart were usually her going one way & me going the other & we would meet later...well, almost always, I would find her just a few feet from where I left her, chatting w/ someone she ran into! She knew everybody!❤ She would always comment on the lil red kiddy car that was up front. One time I told her I had some quarters...did she wanna ride? SURE!!!! She really enjoyed it & I know the people in Walmart got a kick out of it too!!
Her home was like a B & B! Anytime the symphony was in town, she always had some of them staying @ her home! 
She went to a fundraiser for Barack Obama & the young man that was working on the campaign didn t live close by, so she invited him to live in her basement!!
She was a treasure to Gallipolis! As a matter of fact, ALL the Holzer family are wonderful! Where would our lil town be without them?!❤❤❤❤❤❤
July 22, 2021
July 22, 2021
I have so many fond memories of our "adventures" together...& we had ALOT!! One of my 1st memories was us going to Johnson's supermarket on 2nd Ave. The sky looked really menacing as we went in! Did we worry about it? NO!‍♀️ When we came back out, the wind was blowing like crazy & it had started to rain. We headed toward her house, but a huge tree had fallen @ the French Art Colony, hitting the fence & into the street! We were both totally confused, but quickly found out there had been a tornado!! And we were just out goofing off! No worries!‍♀️ She was always ready to help ANYBODY! ALWAYS! She had a heart of gold & I (along w/ all who were blessed to be in her life) loved her very much! She never knew a stranger!! Every year @ Christmas, she would make homemade pimento cheese. We would head out to the hospital (sometimes w/ elf hats on) where she would personally pass it out! I will always cherish our "running around" adventures! Sure do miss u Mrs. Holzer! I'm a better person from knowing you! Heaven sure gained an angel!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Her Life
July 13, 2021

Remembering Bobbie Holzer… Looking back on her legacy
Looking back on her legacy
By Dean Wright - Special to OVP



During her liftime, the late Roberta “Bobbie” Holzer served the community as a wife, mother, grandmother, supporter of the arts and healthcare in southeast Ohio. She was born and raised in Point Pleasant, W.Va. (Amy Irvin | Courtesy)


 

The late Roberta “Bobbie” Holzer is pictured spending time with grandson Alex Irvin. (Amy Irvin | Courtesy)


 

The late Roberta “Bobbie” Holzer, pictured, passed away at 99 years old on Dec. 23, 2020. (Amy Irvin | Courtesy)


 

GALLIPOLIS, Ohio — What does it mean to serve the community as a wife, mother, grandmother, supporter of the arts and health in a family whose name is a household word in healthcare in southeast Ohio?

The descendants of Roberta “Bobbie” Holzer can tell you.

“She was involved in everything with all kinds of clubs and art,” said Amy Irvin, Bobbie’s youngest daughter. “She was involved in entertaining all the doctors that Dad was interviewing who came to town to work at the hospital and their families… Her job was to make them feel welcome in Gallipolis and all its wonderful things and to maybe find out about some of their concerns.”

Bobbie died Dec. 23, 2020 at Holzer Assisted Living. Her daughter says she turned 99 in August, the same year.

The Holzer family became synonymous with southeast Ohio healthcare after Dr. Charles Holzer Sr. opened one of the earliest private hospitals in the region. Bobbie’s husband, Dr. Charles Holzer Jr., would go one to follow his father’s path in blazing southeast Ohio healthcare trails after graduating from Cornell Medical School and his surgical residency at the University of Cincinnati before returning to Gallipolis in 1947, said Irvin.

According to Holzer Health System information, the Holzer Clinic was founded in 1950, and the Holzer Hospital and Medical Center Hospital joined as well as the Gallipolis Clinic and Holzer Clinic in 1968. Then, in 1972, Holzer Medical Center and Holzer Clinic opened on Jackson Pike. The Holzer Health System today serves as one of the region’s largest employers and healthcare providers in southeast Ohio and West Virginia.

Bobbie was born and raised in Point Pleasant, W.Va. She was the daughter of the late Seth Chandler Wilhelm and Susannah Dixon Heslop.

Bobbie and Charles Jr. married at Christ Episcopal Church in Point Pleasant. on Sept. 4, 1940. They shared five children, Karin O’Neil, Charles Holzer III, John Holzer, Christiana Gallant and Amy.

Bobbie’s father and Charles Jr.’s father were noted friends.

“Mom and Dad would sit in the kitchen after (prospective doctors and families) left and talked about whether they thought they might fit into the community,” said Irvin of her parents. “So she sort of helped with the recruiting of doctors by talking about small town life.”

Irvin said that her mother was a skilled conversationalist and completed a degree in psychology from Ohio University.

Bobbie was noted for serving as an international student advisor for the Rio Grande College. She was a supporter of the Ariel Opera House and The Ohio Valley Symphony as well as the French Art Colony.

The French Art Colony moved to the former Charles Sr.’s home at 530 First Avenue, Gallipolis in 1970. Bobbie and Charles Jr.’s home was right across the street at 525 First Avenue. Irvin said her mother was among the founding membership of the French Art Colony.

“Mom could never sit still and she always had to be doing something and was sort of like a whirlwind all the time,” said Irvin.

Irvin noted her mother was involved in a variety of organizations such as Friends of the Bossard Library, the local Daughters of the American Revolution chapter, St. Peter’s Episcopal Church, Girl Scouts and more.

“Mom was very well mannered,” said Bobbie’s son, John. “She knew the social rules of the time… But Mom wasn’t snobbish and didn’t turn away from those less fortunate. She could almost always find a job around our house to help someone out.”

“Granmere was one of the most poised and eloquent individuals I have known,” said Bobbie’s great-granddaughter, Erin O’Neil. “She taught me through her own actions the value of intentional selflessness, quality conversation, and deep care and respect for others. Reflecting on her life as I witnessed it, she was always present and attentive with others. She took her time in conversation and carried herself both with respect, curiosity, and an open heart.”

“Mom loved to dance,” said Irvin. “She always said that when she married Dad he had promised her that they would go dancing every Saturday night, which didn’t happen of course. But when she and Dad waltzed, the whole room would stop and watch, giving them the floor.”

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Dancing Queen

August 23, 2021
Mom loved to dance. She would dance anywhere as the opportunity arose. Having grown up in the era of dance halls and dance cards, she would and could dance well with anyone. Her diaries mention many dance partners and who the good dancers ( and not so good) were in her high school  and elsewhere. She loved doing the Jitter Bug, the Charleston, and many others. When she started dating Charles E. Holzer, Jr.  she found her favorite dance partner.  She mentioned many times that when she and Dad got married he promised her that they would go dancing every Saturday night, and that her biggest disappointment was that they weren't able to because of his being on call most weekends.
Mom and Dad loved to waltz . Whenever they were anywhere at a dance and a waltz was played, they would start waltzing and the whole crowd would stop dancing and give them the floor. They glided around the floor with the greatest of grace and ease, completely in sync and joyfully moving to the music. It was a privilege to watch them dance, sometimes doing so in their own living room! 
I remember many stories about all the dances they went to over the years, but one in particular comes to mind. They were at an Elks Club Christmas Dance and Mom was asked to dance by a much older Mr. Knight. After she politely danced with him for a few minutes, she tried to signal her friend Gene Wetherholt to cut in and dance with her. He shook his head no. After the dance was over, she went over to Gene and jokingly called him mean for not "saving" her.  From then on Mom called him "Mean Gene", and has been used lovingly throughout the Wetherholt and Holzer families ever since. 
When Mom went to Holzer Assisted Living she really enjoyed dancing with the students from the career center when they came in the Spring for "Senior Prom". She was still cutting a rug until age 98, the last time with her walker to hold onto. I know that now Mom and Dad are dancing together again.  

Culinary Arts

August 23, 2021
I have been sorting through Mom's many recipe boxes, my mouth watering as I remember eating many of the recipes found there. Mom was not known to be a great cook ( she never came up with her own recipe for anything), but she sure managed to make others' recipes well! After her Mom died, she took over making the famous pimiento cheese spread that was loved by many in the family. I helped her make it every Christmas when I was growing up and helped deliver decorative cups of it to friends all around town. It became such a tradition that people missed it once she was no longer able to make it at home, I surprised Mom and a few of her friends a few Christmases ago by making it myself and passing it around. I gained new respect for Mom by making it, because the recipe only made enough to gift to 6 people, and I remember helping to make at least 75-100 cups of it every Christmas!
Another recipe she was famous for was her frozen English Toffee Meringue Dessert ( also known as Heath Toffee Bar dessert). She would make this every few months when I was still living at home, and would always have it available in the freezer for any guests who came, invited or unexpected. It is still spoken about frequently. I may take up making that as well!
I loved looking through all the recipes, as there are many from many of Mom's friends who are no longer with us. Their recipes live on, and my memories of all of the delicious food that was made in our home or brought to our home are unforgettable. 
July 21, 2021
Some stories of Mrs. Holzer will bring a smile or giggle to you...as it always has done for me...

When we would go out to eat, if Mrs. Holzer needed a server, she would wave her napkin and sing out, “You hoo!!!” 

When we were out and about with her, and she saw someone she knew, she would greet them with a melodic, “Hi, hi, hi!!”

When asking for a sandwich at home, she would ask for “just a half.”  Shortly thereafter, she’d ask for the other half!!

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