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Ronald Earl Ricker, M.D. passed away is Los Angeles on February 22, 2020.  Ron was a psychiatrist, psychoanalyst, humanitarian, innovator, philanthropist, lover of the arts, gardener, collector of many things, sailboat racer, but most of all, a lover of life.

Born October 15, 1941 in San Diego, CA, Ron was the eldest son of Earl Ricker and Esther Tiffany Ricker.  Ron grew up in Arcadia where he spent most of his childhood being chased by the guards at the Arboretum as he would cut through the gardens, and hanging out at the stables of Santa Anita Racetrack or betting on the horses.  He attended opening day at Disneyland, enjoyed watching the Dodgers at the Coliseum, annually watched the Rose Parade from the bleachers, except when he marched in it with the Arcadia High School band, and annually attended the Rose Bowl since his father, Earl, was the announcer for the Rose Bowl.  Always industrious, Ron landed his first job as a newspaper delivery boy at the age of 10 by lying, saying that he was 12.  Racked with guilt, he called back to confess but they still gave him the job.  By the time he left for college, his various jobs included Door to door salesman of Christmas cards, Bowling pin setter at the bowling alley, pharmacy delivery boy, gas station attendant and day laborer for Mr. Shirley with whom he helped build Chatsworth High School and JPL.

Despite confiding in his former teacher that it might be time to settle down when he entered the 7th grade, Ron went on to attend UCLA and lived at the Phi Gamma Delta House.  He often likened his time there as similar to those depicted in the movie “Animal House.” Let’s just say, one time the police found Ron naked, chained to a local radio station door. (Might I add, he probably deserved it if only for tricking the sorority girls into believing that they had made the cheerleading squad.)

Despite being offered a spot at UCLA Medical School, Ron transferred to UC Berkeley to finish his undergraduate degree and follow the girl he had had a crush on since high school.  At Berkeley, things didn’t work out with her, but he developed an even greater relationship with Dr. Sontag, who became a great mentor and friend.

Ron attended Tufts Medical School, where he assisted in a research study that proved that animals were capable of developing antibodies against their own cells. (Note this is extremely relevant today) (Ricker, Ronald and Stollar, B. David. “Antibodies Reactive with Specific Folic Acid Determinants” Biochemistry Vol.6, No. 7, July 1967) Ron completed his residency at LA Children’s Hospital and then completed 2 years in the National Institute of Mental Health, as Program Director of the Men’s Prison Unit of the Federal Prison in Lexington, KY (better known as The Farm).  He returned to UCLA to complete a residency in psychiatry and studied to become a Psychoanalyst at the Los Angeles Psychoanalytic Institute.

In 1981, Ron founded The Linden Center.  It was his greatest accomplishment.  The Linden Center was a multifaceted mental health treatment center for children and adolescents.  At its peak, the Center was treating 110 children from throughout the Los Angeles area, in its 3 special education schools, 6 group homes and foster family program.  Ron remained its Director until 2014 when it closed.

The Linden Center was always a family affair.  All 3 of Ron’s children participated. Jed worked as a teacher’s aide. Seth and Jenny both worked in the main office. Phil, his brother-in-law, was a teacher’s assistant and met his wife at Linden Center as well.  Ron and I met when I started working at Linden Center in 1995.  We married and worked together until the bitter end.  While Ron was always the final say, the Center was a collaborative effort that was more powerful through the efforts of all those involved.  It was not just a group of like-minded individuals whose purpose was to help others, but a family that supported each other much in the same way we supported the children we served.

Ron always gave 110%.  Ron loved being a physician.  He loved talking to people.  He had a way of talking to people that made them comfortable, whether it was a patient in his office or a stranger in a coffee shop.  He was especially talented when it came to talking to kids, especially those who were hardened and disappointed by the system. He advocated for his patients, staff or whomever.  He often spent hours on the telephone during his “vacations” checking in, whether that meant standing at a payphone on the pier in Avalon, using the sea to shore operator to call from the Pacific Ocean (before satellite phones) or Skyping from Grenada.  And before laptops, he would carry his Classic Macintosh on “vacations.”

He was often like Sisyphus rolling the boulder up the hill. He was always interested and wondering, asking questions and not assuming.  He had no problems fighting an establishment that refused to see its own inhumanity and injustices.  He believed in everyone’s individuality and rights.  He fought against UCLA’s proposed dress code because he believed he and everybody else had a right to wear yellow and blue striped pants and poke-a-dot shirt.  He established what was known as the “Ronald E Ricker Memorial Women’s Health Clinic” at The Farm in Lexington, KY to help provide contraception to the female inmates, when he noticed the inordinate number of pregnancies.  He started Linden Center in response to the lack of services available to children and families with mental health and special education needs.  He wrote articles for the Huffington Post arguing against different issues ranging from the medical community’s reliance on drugs and lack of proper research and training, to the stupidity of CA’s bullet train.  For a brief time, he also wrote a blog about Adolescent Psychoanalysis.

And interspersed in all this, he found time to race sail boats, tend his garden, can tomatoes, pickle vegetables, re-finish furniture, travel the world, play poker, collect cars, art and wine.  He loved life and lived it to its fullest.  He played basketball at lunchtime with the janitors at UCLA, he raced to Cabo in hurricane force winds, shared a bottle of rum with other riders on the bus from the Costa Rican coast to San Jose, loved wine tasting in his best friend, Carl’s wine cellar, and would escape work to learn all the in’s and out’s of the old air conditioning system from Irnie, in the Linden Center school building.

Ron was loving and supportive but demanding.  He did not coddle and wanted you to strive to be the best and do the best you could do.  For example, Ron was called to the school when Jenny was about 8 and had hit her head on the jungle gym bars.  She had a cut on her head and was bleeding.  Ron picked her up from school, took her home a few blocks away.  Jenny recalls: “He took a Bic and shaved my hair in the area of the cut, took a needle and thread from the house, stitched me up and took me back to school.  He didn’t even wash my hair.  I looked like Pippi Longstocking, my hair was so red.”  Typical Ron.  I have taken care of you. You are fine. Go on with life.

In closing, I think he would say enjoy life, be interested and have curiosity in both things and people, ask questions, do not presume, and fight injustice and inequality where ever you find it.  

He will be sorely missed by all who knew and loved him.  He is survived by his wife, Dung Bui, sister, Ruth Ricker Murray, eldest son and wife, Seth and Nancy Ricker, middle son, Jed Ricker, daughter, Jennifer Ricker, and two grandchildren, Joshua Ricker and Annalisa Ricker.





October 15, 2023
October 15, 2023
I wish you were here to celebrate your birthday.
I reflect on our numerous conversations and use the your wisdom often. The harder the situation the quitter I get so I can still hear your guidance.
Today I will celebrate your birthday and my gratitude to the many years having you and Zoom in my life.
February 22, 2023
February 22, 2023
Thinking of irreplaceable you today, Doc. It hit me at around 2 a.m. that this must be the anniversary, because it was a sharp reminder that things aren't right. Miss you, still and always.
October 15, 2022
October 15, 2022
Thinking of you. Tonight a toast of good wine to you for your Birthday. I appreciate what you taught me about wine. I think you’d like this bottle.
April 2, 2022
April 2, 2022
I knew Dr. Ricker for many years. He was there for me when my daughter was going through some though times. He and Zoom were always there for me. Days turned into months then years. He was one of the most intelligent men I had ever met. He cared deeply and I felt it always. I loved our conversations which at times could last for a couple of hours. His support and encouragement were the most important thing ever. He had a personal style that was so him, wild side, courage, dedication, and his humor makes me smile now.
We was the last of the good Docs. His stories would just kill me. I can’t put in words how deeply he and Zoom touched my heart.
I think of him often and still at times find myself going to call- then reality hits.
He is greatly missed but never forgotten.
Thank you firev
October 15, 2021
October 15, 2021
Happy Birthday Dr. Ricker! I am sure your at peace, however, I am thinking about you on this day of October 15, 2021. You will always remain in my memory as an amazing doctor and a good friend. You are truly missed.
March 15, 2021
March 15, 2021
In an attempt to see Dr. Ricker for post traumatic stress with the passing of my mother, I came across this news of his passing.
The world has lost an amazing psychiatrist, father and man.
I actually looked forward to our sessions because Dr. Ricker, would talk to me like a friend. He was never judge mental and at times he would make me laugh after telling him what I had been up to.
We always had a doctor patient relationship but his way of cutting through to the real issues was quite impressive; I could never get away with my excuses. My love and condolences go out to his family. He was a great man who is dearly missed.
November 6, 2020
November 6, 2020
I really miss my uncle Ron , he showed me his corvette and he let me sit with him in the car, he was an amazing person I know, his sister Ruth will miss him so much, I loved him so much and I will definitely miss him.
June 4, 2020
June 4, 2020
Ronald E. Ricker was more than a friend. He was a father figure for me just as he was for so many others. Brilliant, caring, generous, and hilarious - he made my life fuller with every interaction. Even our disagreements ended with a better appreciation for one another's point of view and a tighter bond between us. I miss him. But I'm glad I knew him. And he knew me.
Rest easy, Ron.
May 29, 2020
May 29, 2020
What a beautifully written tribute, Zoom!

I knew him as "Doc," which only sounds like we had a new or distant relationship--RER was more than my doctor for 18 years; he was my advocate, my ally, my protector, my support, and my FRIEND. He was one of only a couple of people I've known who never needed my jokes explained or retold. He was absolutely brilliant, yet humble and witty enough to make a running joke that "15 items or fewer" just sounded kind of weird to him. He actually made an offhand, hilarious remark the first time we met in 2002 that I still tell people about today.

He changed my difficult life for the better, and it would be no exaggeration to say that I'm still here because of him. I will always love and miss him, and I offer my virtual hugs to the family and all else who are grieving. My fuzzy plant is finally growing like crazy, Doc!

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October 15, 2023
October 15, 2023
I wish you were here to celebrate your birthday.
I reflect on our numerous conversations and use the your wisdom often. The harder the situation the quitter I get so I can still hear your guidance.
Today I will celebrate your birthday and my gratitude to the many years having you and Zoom in my life.
February 22, 2023
February 22, 2023
Thinking of irreplaceable you today, Doc. It hit me at around 2 a.m. that this must be the anniversary, because it was a sharp reminder that things aren't right. Miss you, still and always.
October 15, 2022
October 15, 2022
Thinking of you. Tonight a toast of good wine to you for your Birthday. I appreciate what you taught me about wine. I think you’d like this bottle.
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April 19, 2021
I was hired by Dr. Ricker to work at the Linden Center when I graduated from college in 1983 I was only 22 years old. I worked as an elementary school teacher at the church on the corner of rodeo drive for 11 wonderful years. There were 4 residential homes that fed into that school. One was the Holt House, I cannot remember the rest. I met a lot of nice people working there and he was wonderful to work for. He had Xmas parties for staff at his house with great bottles of wine. He offered Kings and Lakers tix to his staff at the forum as well. I continued working as a teacher in the special ed field for the next 26 years. My first job at the Linden Center gave me a great foundation for those next 26 years with special needs children in the area of mental health. I am just about to retire now and was thinking about and decided to try to look up Dr. Ricker. I was very very sad to see that he had passed away a year ago. My sincere thoughts and condolences go out to his family. I was really hoping to give him a visit.

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April 19, 2021
I was hired by Dr. Ricker to work at the Linden Center when I graduated from college in 1983 I was only 22 years old. I worked as an elementary school teacher at the church on the corner of rodeo drive for 11 wonderful years. There were 4 residential homes that fed into that school. One was the Holt House, I cannot remember the rest. I met a lot of nice people working there and he was wonderful to work for. He had Xmas parties for staff at his house with great bottles of wine. He offered Kings and Lakers tix to his staff at the forum as well. I continued working as a teacher in the special ed field for the next 26 years. My first job at the Linden Center gave me a great foundation for those next 26 years with special needs children in the area of mental health. I am just about to retire now and was thinking about and decided to try to look up Dr. Ricker. I was very very sad to see that he had passed away a year ago. My sincere thoughts and condolences go out to his family. I was really hoping to give him a visit

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