To live in the hearts of others, is to never die

You are forever in my heart, Segun.

We spent a significant part of our young adult years together. We argued a lot in undergrad and then we became friends and eventually worked together.
You were my go-to person, a “chartered member of the analyst confederation” in IB. After I got my results, I was going to call you the next day to let you know that I finished well, and to thank you for encouraging me. Little did I know, I should have spoken to you that evening, even if it was going to be the last time.

The world has lost an extraordinary person. Sincerely, I feel cheated because I, among others, have been robbed of a gift, which was you. You taught me the virtues of temperance and friendship. You were patient, you were kind. I remember an exeat we both got just so we could go to a company from whom I needed data for my project. Oh! There is so much nostalgia - our NESA flashbacks, fond memories of our time in school, our ‘balancing balance sheet’ moments, our inside jokes during late nights at work… You made everything seem easy.

That I think of you in past tense is hurting me and I didn’t expect that this day would come so soon. I have been told to take solace in knowing that you are in a good place, and your needs are being met; you are no longer struggling, no longer bleeding, no longer crying for help, no longer side-hustling… But I just want you back, and I am tempted to ask people how they are so sure you are alright? What if you are hungry, alone and cold and you need a blanket?

Your death makes me wonder, what is the purpose of all this hard work if it can end in a second and then life just goes on? I want to blame someone for this, but it won’t bring you back. To say you were a wonderful person does not successfully encapsulate whom you were to us.

I don’t know when I will get back from this.

Guys,my take ad believe is my brother is still alive ad God will still work his miracles again and testimonies abound as long as u all believe..put on ur garment of praise and prayers ,join us in the faith.GBU ALL

Your only crime was that you worked hard to be successful and make a living; impacting lives and being so kind...

With this crime, we are not guaranteed of tomorrow. We’ll just keep on keeping on till our sun sets...

I will miss you Segun!

Rest on Segun, this isn't the kind of NEWS i expected upon seeing your picture.

You were so bright and full of prospects. I am still in disbelief.

Papa Segun!!! I loved him from the first moment I set my eyes on him in NYSC Mangu camp in 2015, he took me from there and brought me to RCCF Family House Jos North where he was the President (Papa) of the House...

He was so kind, loved by all, so sound in scriptures, highly intelligent, dresses so nice, yet 100% humble... His lifestyle was totally worthy of emulation!!!

We shouldn't loss him this early, what a wicked world indeed....
I will never forget you my Papa!!!

Segun my best guy!
Thank you for every single thing.
I cherished our friendship.
God bless your soul

Astute and Godly. We were both 2014 NYSC Batch B set in Jos. I can't believe he's gone. We discussed ideas, plans and his positive energy is unbeatable. Rest on Bro.

We spent a year in Jos during Youth service. Young, spiritual, perfect gentleman. You loved with everything, held onto nothing. You gave freely. This is unfair, but it is well.

This is so sad. I still can’t believe you’re gone. Rest In Peace Segun.

So sad. So shocking. Cuts really deep. Thank God for a life well lived. Short. Inspiring and impactful nonetheless. Forever loved. Forever missed.

This may be the hardest tribute to write yet... how does one write about the young, vibrant Segun Afolabi. It doesn't even make any sense.

I've been here everyday since this was created and I'm still unable to find the words. I hoped to come here today and see 'April fool!'

Rest well Segun. Your walk may have been short but it was full of light. YDI will miss you. We will miss you and remember you.

And when this walk is over, and we all cross to the other side, we will sing a song of victory to Jesus whom we adore. Till we get there, enjoy the rehearsals. Adieu!

I will miss you my dear friend.

...rest on Segun.

With tears i write this,about my brother,cousin and embodiment of knowledge..was so sad hearing this.i will miss u bro.

Rest in the bossom of the lord.

Love u bro

Segun,
*sigh*
It's hard to string together the right words. My heart truly bleeds and I will miss you greatly but I find solace in the light and blessing that you were.

Godly, humble, confident, diligent, kind, gentle, efficient and so much more. I never saw a 'smileless' Segun Afolabi.
Thank you for how you served God and others.

I pray God continues to comfort and strengthen your family.

Your gentle soul shall surely RIP Amen.

No amount of words can expressed how sad we are and how much your absence would be felt but i pray that your shortcomings are forgiven.

Thank you for what you did in your life time, your impact was greatly felt.

RIP

Ha Segun you were such an amazing guy. Never a dull moment with you.
I still can't come to terms with this. You impacted many lives. Your legacy lives on.
You will be greatly missed.
Rest in peace brother❤️

So sad to hear this. But God knows best. The short time I had with you at Edubridge was splendid. Great guy that knew his onions. He was also a soft gentle guy. Sure you're gone but your impact lives on. You've taught me to also inspire others with my talents while on earth. Rest in God's bossom Segun!

It's hard to believe you are gone, but one thing is certain,your impact will live on.
Rest In Power Segun.

Rest in Peace Segun. This is so painful, a budding life cut short by the violent hands of death. We pray the Lord grants your family and friends the fortitude to bear your loss. You lived a great life Segun.

Segunnnnn! This one really hit me o. I can't believe you are gone. You were so young, full of life and calm. I still saw you two weeks ago and even spoke to you last week. HOW COME??? Why?
Not you now... 
I will miss you sooooooo much Segun. Thank you for all the lives you touched, thank you for giving us the opportunity to know you, thank you for everything.

I remember receiving a love SMS from you on my dad's phone when I was in Jss1 (my first ever romantic msg). Lol I made up lies to convince my dad Segun was a girl.

Segun we love but God loves you more.

Rest in peace my dear friend.

Hmmm... I do not want to believe that I am here writing you a tribute, Segun. I have been wondering what everyone has been talking about saying "Segun is gone" No!!!!!! Segun, we still had a lot to do!!! Segun, we had only just begun our journey. Why??? Segun, my heart is bleeding!!! I don't know how to accept that you're gone. I don't know how to comprehend that the last tease and goodnight were the last forever. How???? How, Segun?? Segun, where is my yam and egg sauce? Where is my powerhorse, Segun?? Segun, what's for lunch? Segun, why didn't you pick my call? Segun, what's happening this weekend? This is how I would always ask you so many questions at a time, constantly repeating your name after every question and you reply "Hadiza naaaa" I cannot believe that I would never hear you say this again. Hmmm. The pain I feel is unexplainable. Segun! you were an all-round GREAT HUMAN! A TRUE FRIEND! The world has indeed lost a special gem! My darling, I miss you so so much it hurts, I don't know what to do. I still wish I could wake up from this nightmare. Hearts are broken by your departure, Segun! I pray that God will comfort the hearts of your family and all those hearts saddened from this tragedy. You will FOREVER be in my heart, Segun. I will choose to always remember you for the AWESOME person that you were. You're totally and completely irreplaceable in my heart!!!!! ❤️❤️

don’t freak out Segun, Jesus will be there to guide you home.

Segun....Segeeeee. You were special. Your legacy lives on. I miss you and love you. Wanted us to be friends for many more years and had plans together. It hurts deeply to see you gone so soon.

I remember us spending the holidays at our homes when we were much younger, I’ll always hold on to the wonderful memories we shared growing up. It’s been hard putting these words together cause it breaks my heart that I have to come to terms with the fact that your life was cut short. Overtime we weren’t always communicating but my thoughts were always with you. Fam, I still remember you giving kudos to my song sometime last year & you said I’ll perform at your wedding, like am i meant to start talking about you in past tense so soon... you’ll continue to live on in my heart. I love you forever, rest easy cuz.

You will forever be missed.

Rest on bro.

This hurts....Rest on Segun

You were very kind and hardworking. Intelligent and helpful. Always available for me when I needed help on any of my courses. You were the best of us all.
Rest well, we are coming to live forever with you, SEGUN

As a child I had a very wild imagination and segun understand that more than anyone....he built me a massive paper doll house and we would both play with the doll house all day, during the holidays he would do his chores and mine because I was lazy...we were seat partners in secondary school and we were very mischievous as kids...we had each other's back.
I remember when I was at your house for the holiday we would hide our eba behind the tv because we didn't want to eat it and then throw it away after mumc had gone to bed.
I remember a lot of stupid stuff we did as kids and I just smile.
We really didn't talk much in university as we went to different schools...but when we finally spoke it was like we never stopped talking..and I went back to disturbing his life and everytime I came to him for help he was always ready to help me ...segun never said "Eniola you have come again" instead he would say "can you come to my office or let's find somewhere to meet" segun would help with my presentations, buy me food and check up on me...
I enjoyed making you laugh as I am known for saying the dumbest things... I wish you were here longer...we still spoke 2 weeks ago segun this was not the plan...
Our movie date unko....
My friend, gist partner, business adviser,and brother.
It was a pleasure knowing you. Thank you for taking good care of me. I love you forever segun

We will miss you Segun.

Thank you for living an impactful life.
You live on in our hearts. 

... I'm blessed to have shared time and space with you.
I'm happy you were a joyful soul.
I'm happy you were an impactful and compassionate person.
I'm happy you were a good man.
I'm happy that you would arise with the saints on the last day.
May God's comfort be with his family and friends.

Segun is (because it's hard to use was) a great guy, sort of person who gets on well with everyone and leaves a wonderful impression - smart, concerned, sensitive, generally a great guy! I'm so sad that we have lost you but yet so glad that you lived well. I pray for strength for now and always for your family, friends and colleagues. Rest on dear.

It's still very difficult to come to terms with your death Segun. You will be missed greatly.

You were one of a kind. You will be greatly missed. Rest on segun

Olusegun - Your life was a blessing, your memory a treasure.
You are loved beyond words and missed beyond measure. I can't believe you are gone. Rest on

Segun, rest well. Still can't wrap my head around the fact that you are gone forever. You lived a great life.

I remember the first day I met you in class. Your rough hair and unsteady gaze, then after a while, you settled to teach and each word you spoke reintroduced you as a calm soul. You would patiently go around and ask questions, offer tips and general support. We were not the closest of friends but I was aware you were one of the best ones out there. I remember when you held my bag and listened to me talk about what I wanted to do. You listened with no judgement. You listened with no words coming from you back and forth. And you smiled afterwards promising me I would figure it out.

I feel you were stolen from this world. I feel you were taken from us before your time. It is a sadness that fills me with so much hopelessness about what is ahead of all of us. But knowing you, you'd say, "Don't give up."

You are definitely one of the best ones out there. I wish this were a dream but I hope wherever you are - you are at peace.

Segun, you were a good man.

Ever smiling segun. Can't just believe you are gone. We can't question God.
I know you are not dead, you just passed on to glory.
May your soul rest in perfect peace cousin .

Just can't believe you are gone, the family wants you back

Deep sigh... I remember our FSTC days even in the same house “BENUE” hall and when our parents come to visit, you’re the one that still always has some money left when the rest of us would have blown ours. Although we didn’t keep in touch for a long while but I’m glad we reconnected this year.
Rest easy bro♥️

Oh Segun, your death really got to me. When I first got the news, I prayed to God that it wouldn't be true. I didn't know that the last time you dropped me off and we had quite a gist was the last time I'd see you, neither did I know that the last time we had a chat about CJ was the last one. One thing that gives me joy is that you're in a place free of hustle and bustle.

Though we weren't so close, but I'll really miss you. Rest on Oluwasegun Afolabi. Till we meet to part no more.

The fond memories I have of you Are always so beautiful and how intentional you were with life was very wonderful. The Segun I know was always a problem solver. My dad still uses you as reference. It’s been a while I always told myself, but my thoughts were always with you. Rest In Peace coz

I've never had a loss hit me so hard! I cannot begin to imagine what his parents are forced to live through! I pray for the family; strength oh Lord, strength!

Segun,
My very able President,
Being your vice was smooth because you made stuff work and work well.
You were selfless, always trying to help others in many ways, I remember the tutorials you organized in school, you don’t know how you help a lot of people graduate.
You were a great guy, I still hear your funny laughter in my head, how you gained interest in football towards final year, how you always walked around in your singlet when you cooked noodles in the halls of residence. I stopped everything I was doing when I heard the news, it did shake me. But our solace is that you’re with God, a place where there’s no pain, sorrow and no death!
Adieu My President,
Hold the forte till we meet again!

Segun, my facilitator turned friend.
Our friendship wasn't the everyday affair but hit up once a while and leave lasting memories.

Every memory will be cherished.
I'm glad you LIVED.
Rest well, Oluwasegun.

Words fail me, Still trying to comprehend what happened and why this happened!
I remember packing for you, Eniola and Seyi whenever you guys were going back to FSTC and how my Dad was always in awe of you....
Industrious, intelligent, God fearing, happy and so much more. You will forever be in our hearts Cousin...
It is well!

Segun Afolabi ! The news of your death was unbelievable.  I cried out loud, I wished it was a dream, i asked God why someone like you would go so soon. ..... We were'nt so close, but your departure from this world hurt me so deep. I wondered how your parents and siblings would feel, if I felt like that.
  On the 6th of October 2019, you dropped me off at my bus stop, we gisted for a while about you getting married , we laughed over your response, before I got off your car. Oh death! Little did I know that was the last time I would see you or speak with you.
   But I know, Our God knows best. If He didn't permit it, it won't happen. Nothing happens without His Knowledge. I know you are resting now at the feet of our Lord
        Rest on bro.  REST!!!!

Life!!!

Words fail me.

I reconnected with Segun this SUNDAY after a few years hiatus. We both went to CU and I had known him since 100L. Came to my church for the Baby Dedication of a friend/family. Introduced me to his wife to be.

Later on in the day, we a conversation about life, PowerPoint, marriage and the rest. Told him I'd hook him up with vendors that wouldn't dent his pocket for his wedding We had such an extensive conversation.

He was such a smiling and sweet person. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Segun always had that glimmer of light in his eyes, and having had discussions overtime, I am glad I got to know you. As painful as this is, I am overjoyed that you are spending everyday with Jesus right this moment. You will be missed brother. Adieu

I've cried, I have thought and asked questions, and I am comforted that we would need not be as pained if we knew of the glory you have attained. Thank you for your every act of kindness; your unsolicited investment advice (:)) your light check ups and jokes; your love for God and giving of your best. I love you and will miss your bodily presence. We will meet again I am sure.