Dear family and friends
On Thursday morning 19 May, Shirley went be with Jesus her Lord and Saviour, who she loved. And although it is a sad time for us, we feel incredibly privileged to have loved and been loved by such a precious wife, Mum and Nan.
We are thankful for the way God has used Shirley’s life to bless so many. As a family, we are very grateful for all your expressions of love and support; we have so valued your prayers and have been greatly encouraged by the tributes and memories you have shared with us.
In the last few days of Mum's life we read these to her. Your tributes were a beautiful gift, that reminded Mum - and sweetly surprised her - that her life was one of significance. It bought her joy and real peace to know that her life has impacted yours, and she feels very humbled and grateful, that God has used her life for great effect, and His purpose, in so many of your lives.
A celebration of Shirley’s life was held on Saturday 28 May, 2pm at Eastview Baptist Church, 559 Chapel Road, Botany, Auckland 2163
The following are links to Mum’s Service – should you wish to view it.
Part 1 https://youtu.be/mm83iznxqTo
Part 2 https://youtu.be/RSTTL58rSFE
Shirley's life story, & tributes from her Memorial service are now loaded in "Her Life"
Thank you all, your words and stories are a treasure and comfort
John, Peter, Bronnie and Sue and families.
Tributes
Leave a tributeMay you continue to be blessed, and comforted, by the wonderful memories of Shirley, and the love of our Lord, Christ Jesus.
:-)
Nan always showed us grandkids a God that was not imprisoned by the constraints of religion but a God that you journeyed everyday life. A God who engaged people in love, a God who was cheeky, a God that was present. It speaks volumes that a lot of us grandkids were lead to Jesus by Nan, she loved with a love that could only come from the throne room of Heaven.
Nan’s life's work will continue to grow beyond her lifetime. Leaving a legacy of lives that have impacted who in turn have and will, go on to impact the lives of others. That's a legacy that we get to share in and count it as an honour to be their grandkids and great grandkids.
Before Nan passed, she gave me all of the sermons she had written over her many years of ministry, and in this box of wisdom I found this poem hand written on the back of an envelope:
“The Light of God, surrounds me
The Love of God, enfolds me
The Power of God, protects me
The Presence of God, watches over me
Wherever I am, God is.”
Nan we love you, we cherished your love for us and we are grateful we were all your favourites.
As a family, we were so blessed to have known the love and care from Shirley and yourself, John. You welcomed everyone with your graciousness and friendship and the tributes speak clearly of the love and respect we all had for you. Our God is faithful, and He assured me when John was killed, that He would walk beside me down through the years. He has done so and will do the same for you all in the days to come. Blessings, Nita, Julie, Brenda, Sue and Lynda
Such an amazing person and contribution that lives on in so many including me and my children.
Muchas gracias.
Thank you both, for everything.
Indeed forever missed.
Our deepest sympathy and prayers to John and family
We were saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. We remember her always being so caring, supportive and interested in what was happening with our work at Forest Lakes and other Christian Camp sites. Her involvement in the Christian Camping scene and all she did with CCNZ has been a blessing to many. We know you will take comfort in the fact that she has gone to a better place with her Lord. Philippians 3:20-21.
With much love Bev Crighton, Denise and Warren Baillie and Grant and Liz Crighton
“Dearest Shirley and John
I wanted to take this opportunity to tell you how much you have meant to me all of my adult life.
Even though we have not spent much time together in recent years, you have continued to be an inspiration in my life through my experience of your love, warmth, generosity and passion for serving God.
I remember when I showed up at El Rancho in ‘78, we seemed to hit it off. You embraced me – helped me belong and grow strong roots of faith. I felt your trust and confidence in me, and that meant a lot to me. I felt like I was accepted as part of your extended family, and it has been a privilege over the years to celebrate many important moments in your family’s life.
I will be forever grateful for what you have invested in my life - and Esther and I will remember and cherish you always.
All our love
Mike and Esther Garland”
John and family, ATribute to Shirley'
Shirley and John, you are very precious to us! You made our time at Birkenhead such a blessing. You were always ready to be our friends, "a listening ear and so eager to help in any way you could. Your being with us enabled us to accomplish so much.
John and family: May the Lord bless you richly in this time.
we were sorry to hear of Shirley's illness and now passing. Are thoughts and prayers are with you. We thank God for Shirley's life and faith. Thank you to both of you for belieiving in us.
Our prayers go out to you John and the family.
Countless people have been blessed, brought closer to Christ, or won into the kingdom of God through your willingness to honour Christ with your life.
You have run the best race and fought the good fight. I would love to be there when Christ says "Well done, my good and faithful servant- enter into your rest".
Look forward to seeing you in heaven, with that gorgeous smile, and twinkle in your eyes :-) .
It was with a heavy heart that we received news of Shirley's passing. We also acknowledge though that she is in a wonderful place with her Lord and Saviour. What a life well lived and a legacy to make a difference in this world through service and love to others.
Richard and I remember with gratitude the support and mentoring from John and Shirley early in our family life and what special role models they were in portraying strong Christian values and a life of generosity and the importance of community living. We still remember with affection Shirley and John's passion for camping, the outdoors and a vision that benefits so many people in offering a place of respite and reflection from the day to day busyness and complexity of today's society.
Richard and I look back at the rich foundation we were privileged to be part of as we now still carrying forward many of the principles and values Shirley and John portrayed into our present day work. Richard and I now live in Brisbane. Richard works in aged care and I work in early childhood and adult education. We still run camps and are very involved in community work, particularly those who are vulnerable and disadvantaged. We have never forgotten Shirley's amazing hospitality and her willingness to be a mother to many. We looked to Shirley and John on many occasions as parents and inspired by their example we have embraced extended family life in our own home and within our relationships with others.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
With love and best wishes,
Marilyn and Richard
Shirley, you taught me how to serve God on the days when things were tough. The love and trust you have for Jesus taught me how to trust him also. I loved to listen to you talk about praying and sharing the answers you had for prayer. I loved to observe you nurturing the leaders and bringing out the best in them. You saw strengths and gifts in us all that we did not see in ourselves. Thank you both for serving so long and effectively and being such great role models to us.
I remember turning up to El Rancho after a difficult time and ended up working there for a year and leading kids camps etc and how Shirley, John and the family took me in. Even after leaving, getting married and having children she still took a great interest in our lives.
Our thoughts are with John and the family at this time
Graeme and Gill
It has been a privilege to be part of dear Shirley's journey. She amazed me, each time I visited...the light of Christ just shone from her eyes. What a loving supporting family you are. I have been blessed by you, and am sure will continue to be as I meet with you at Summerset Village in the time ahead. May God continue to lead and guide you all as you travel life's journey.
Mrs Baker, your sense of fun, kindness and love to those who crossed your path is such a testament to the Lord in you. You are such an amazing lady, your legacy is really endless. I hope you find comfort in knowing your life was one so well lived, that has touched countless others who can't wait to give you a big hug in eternity!
Much love,
Alyssa
P.S. In asking around for comments, Jarrod Seaton who was a cadet back in the 90's had this to say: "I remember Shirley always being the one to slyly pass us cadets the wet towel or food to throw, and then standing back to watch the fun. Always in the mischief , always up for a prank. John and Shirley are my heroes to this day."
It is many years since I last saw you, in Auckland. However, you, John and your family have often been in our thoughts. You were both wonderful role models to me as a teenager, in Wanganui. Always, bright and cheerful and Shirley you always had a welcoming smile, that I'll never forget! Us teenagers never seemed to upset you and your home was always open to us. - you even trusted us to 'babysit' your wee ones! Thank you for your obedience to our Lord and allowing Him to use you to touch the lives of many Wanganui youth in the 60's.
God Bless you.
Till we meet again,
Your sister in Christ,
Lynn (Whitlock, née Britton)
You have always bloomed and smiled and loved. You have touched and encouraged the lives of many. And they in turn have touched and encouraged the lives of many more. I think Jesus is smiling. Well done.
Bessy Macotto
but a woman who fears the lord will be greatly praised.
31 Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.
Dear John and Shirley, how wonderful that we can share precious memories of you both on this page. Particularly to you at this time Shirley. You are leaving an amazing legacy not only for your own family but for many, many other families. You always show God's delight and joy in your life. Thank you both for the legacy you have shown to our family over many years. We love you heaps and pray that the stages of life to come are precious for you all. Ian and Joce xx
May God uphold you as you go on this journey. Garth has gone on ahead 7 years ago. The parting is not forever, Praise God! Evie
I count it as a privilege to have had you both as my "Mum and Dad" at that time.
As i write this all I can see in my mind is Shirley laughing the way only Shirley could.
Love you both
You encouraged us in our camping ministry,
Thankyou for being a wonderful lady
Gordon and Patty Campbell
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Friends forever
The Funny Book
Shirley, did you know you were the first entry in El Rancho's much loved funny book?! The Camp Bookshop was Shirley's pride and joy. One morning a distinguished looking customer from a conference that was in came to the counter with a book to purchase. Shirley lit up and commented on what a great book it was and that perhaps he would be able to start on the book if the conference speaker was boring. (cue shirleys grin and eye twinkle) He replied "Ma'am I am the speaker. "
Another time the America's Cup was on TV in the Baker's lounge and Shirley was trying to manage a stocktake with all its numbers, prices and lists, and keep an eye on the yachting. It was getting very exciting and Shirley rushed between lounge and shop announcing "KZ7's $1.20 ahead at the top mark!"
Once, on the phone, for a breakfast news and support call with Ben and Lynn from CYC the line suddenly went dead. It turns out whilst Shirley and Ben were talking his phone cord stretched across the toaster and it melted right through the wires!
I don't think I was on the end of any of your practical jokes but now I know why Chris and I got into so many scrapes - you passed the baton onto us!
By the way we are really sorry about that wild duck we released in your spare bedroom to teach those girl leaders (Judith and Michelle) a lesson. That duck pooh really does splatter doesn't it. Mind you that orange wall paper was pretty old. Thanks for going easy on us.
So many great and rich memories. Love you Shirley.