Another year -- I miss you. It's eighth grade for your nugget. She is such a handful. Can you believe the next is high school? Went to put new flowers and clean up. The day was beautiful.

She's 13 -- and she is a pistol. She keeps us on our toes. We went to see you -- had the pizza, went to a movie and talked about you. I miss you -- she asked me about you and I was glad to remind her about how much you love her. We talked about the doll eyes and the make up. She needs to work on her grades right now -- so help her stay focused. I love you -- take care of mom and me and her and everyone. I'll be thinking of you.

We went to visit where you are buried on Saturday and the day was beautiful. Not a cloud, not too cold or hot -- the kind of day you and I cherish. Our daughter was with us and she picked up a stone to let you know she had visited you. You would be so proud of her. She is opinionated, talented, smart -- a mini-you. We talk about you -- but not enough. I want her to know how lucky she is to have your genetics, your heart -- please look over us both. I love you and I miss you. I wish I could hear your laughter and your voice.

It is hard to believe that you have been gone for over 4 years. I think about you when funny things happen, when I need encouragement, when our daughter is misbehaving or does something so you. I think about you when I want to gossip or when I find some new product I think you'd like. I hope you think of me often, and that you look over me and our daughter. I miss you, I miss you, I miss you.

Still missing you... your daughter is a peach. I love you.

Sofia will forever be vibrant, funny, energetic and present in my mind

Sofia is gone far too soon, such a beautiful and vital woman. She will not be forgotten, and her precious little girl will always be a special testament to her. Rest in peace, Sofia.