Still missing you - will always miss you. This is a difficult year in that Giovanni will be graduating high school and setting off on his own life journey. You would be so proud of the young man he has become. The wisdom you shared with him in your inimitable way will serve him well.
I think of you often and think to myself, "What would Stephen do in this situation?" Mostly when I let emotion run away with me. Sometimes I agree with what I think you would do and sometimes I think, "hell no!" that's not me.

I cannot express how with each passing we find our generation missing the best parts of who we are. We are so busy rushing around that time just ticks by. When these anniversaries come up we need to pause and remember those who are going before us and what they meant to us. Praise for having the opportunity to share our lives together and have our lives filled with the "who they are". Love to you my cousin and say hello to all the rest there with you, until we will meet again.

Two years seems so short and yet so long. I miss being able to discuss things with Stephen; he never lacked an opinion. His perspective was usually logical-he was able to take emotion out of the equation when looking for answers. Mostly I appreciated this, but sometimes not. Stephen gave me so much in our life together-47 years of marriage went by too quickly. We speak of him often; he left us with many memories. He would be so proud of the fine young men his grandsons are becoming: Stephen loved being a grandfather. Missing him.

I am just learning of Steve's passing, almost a year late. I just wanted to leave my own tribute, albeit a late one. I worked with/for Steve at Remington Arms in Ilion. Steve was a great boss and I always thought of him as a friend. He openly shared his vast technical expertise and was always open to challenging technical discussion. He provided me with many opportunities along the way, encouraging my personal success and advancement.

Beyond the professional aspects of our relationship, Steve was always fun to be around. He enjoyed the shooting sports and was instrumental in helping my wife and me getting our handgun permits. He brought us to a local shooting range with a selection of his personal firearms, instructing us in their safe operation and allowed us to try them.

Even though its been 11 years since I last saw Steve, I feel diminished, knowing he has passed. Farewell, old friend!

Saturday was the one-year anniversary of Stephen's death. Our family gathered for the weekly family dinner (as we have been doing every Saturday since our daughter-in-law, Alissa suggested when we discovered that Stephen's cancer had returned five years ago.) That idea was such a gift and Stephen always loved having his family around him. So Giuseppe and I had 'dirty martinis' (Stephen's favorite cocktail). We all toasted to the man, the love, and the memories. We talk of Stephen often and the impact he had on our lives. He was so proud of his grandsons (he loved being a Pepe) - best decision we ever made was to live closer to the petit Ps. The two sisters with whom I live have made it easier to deal with the loss of my husband of 47 years. Blessings,

I was very honored to have known Steve, and have him as part of my life. What a unique and remarkable individual. 
I post a more lengthy entry in the "Stories" section.
Chuck Monty

I was sorry to hear of Steve's passing and I want to express my deepest condolences to you. Please know you are in my thoughts as you go through this time. Steve was a great co-worker and will be truly missed! He was always ready to go the extra mile for us! Know that he will continue to be thought of dearly.

I never met Stephen but through my son-in-law, Earl LaVallee III, I heard so many amazing things about him. Oh the camping stories Earl and the kids would share with us. He always spoke highly of him and they all loved being with all of you doing what you all enjoy. Stephen was truly a special person. I know he was loved by all whom he met and will be missed dearly. My heart goes out to all of you. Sending love to you all.

Shirleen,  I am deeply sorry to hear of Stephen's passing.  I am not a family member or a friend. So I have no story or memory to share. But I can vouch that you are the embodiment of amazing grace.  Always a pleasure to see. No doubt, Stephen enjoyed a life of abundance with you.   

You will always be loved and in our hearts Uncle Stephen. I am so glad we were able to see you this summer and spend time with the family. They are memories I will treasure forever. I guess my wine intake will go up to two glasses tonight, one for you and one for Grandmother. I know you two are together and at peace. Love you.

God bless Shirleen, Giuseppe, Allie, Matteo, Giovanni, Dawn and Robert.  I am so sorry that Stephen is not among us now. He left a true mark on our family and I thank him for being a part of our lives. He and my brother, Earl, were as close as brothers and that relationship played a huge part in our lives. 
I thank Stephen for his patience with me when I was a bratty little teenager and living with Reah and Tony. Thank you for being a part of my life. I know that Stephen would want us all to "live long and prosper". 

I will love this man until the end of my days! He was a father figure, a beacon of morality, and a teacher. I owe so many successes in my life, to the uncle that he was. I love you Uncle Stephen ❤️