Truly beautiful how every story post and photo gem captures Steve’s spirit, his silliness and his massive heart for Carolyn, Meghan, Cole and other lovelies. The man operated with humble intent; to bring big laughs, happy times and ultimate joy to the every day. What better life purpose.
I will remember Steve’s talent for elevating the ordinary to the extraordinary. A casual conversation, a car ride, playing with toys, even a trip to Costco were transformed from the banal to the surreal. His comical teasing voices, iconic Cheshire Cat grin, and childlike personas "You said doodie!" always left me in giggles (my cheeks are sore from smiling as I write this). His inane pleasure at driving his navy blue Jetta in super low gear at high RPM, leaving nothing but jerking passengers in a fit of giggles, is still vivid. And as if exclusively cooking a turkey in the turkey deep fryer was not adventurous enough, in went dill pickles and red liquorice too. I recall one potato gun experiment by the mad scientist Steve and the Ronchka bro-conspirators leading to lobster shells flying over Halls Lake. A trip to Costco resulted in some in-store creative play with mini red Babybel cheese rounds – forever changing my perception of this product. Truly, doses of joy whenever Steve was around.
Apart from the incessant fits of laughter, I am grateful for how Steve made me feel. His innocence, compassion and natural empathy balanced all shameless shenanigans. In a moment of silly stress, I once burst into tears in his presence. He quickly responded with genuine concern and kindness. Same response when nervously trying jet skiing for the first time and sailing too. His respect for and his ability to value the needs of others was a true gift. Lovely to read that others have received this gift too. Thank you, Steve.
And to Carolyn, if there is one inspiration that perhaps comes close to capturing all that is Steve’s spirit may it be the song you both chose for your wedding: Over The Rainbow/What A Wonderful World Medley by Israel Kamakawiwo'ole. Playful, joyful, and steeped in love. The reverence and adoration you shared for one another will ensure that Steve’s enduring spirit will continue and will be celebrated. Sending to you, Meghan, Cole, and to all who loved Steve, a hug for now and always.