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Progress through civility

June 24, 2019

These days when the norm seems to be shouting matches or at least hostile language, I recall the many , many time Stu Stein was able to lead a group of sometime VERY disparate people with strong opinions to arrive at a mutual agreement. He LISTENED a lot and closely. He had his own well-researched and well-formed opinions but he also understood that to move ahead to best practices together we all have to listen to each other, respect each other and work for the best we can for as many as possible.  I learned from him then and his example continues to instruct.  Let us remember Stu by emulating his example.

Five years ago...

June 23, 2019

Five years ago, we lost our beloved Stu Stein. Not a day goes by that his family doesn’t miss him and appreciate all he was to us. He will forever be an inspiration to those whose lives he touched, which are many. In this way, his legacy lives on. 


Thank you to all who have shared your heartfelt thoughts and memories about Stu. It means the world to us.

Three long years

June 24, 2017

Increasingly as I have gotten older, the time since some event in the past invariably seems less than it really is.  (Could it really be 10 yers since I was in Lisbon? It seems more like five.)  Stu's death is the one exception: He's been gone three years but he left such a big hole in our family and in my heart that it seems not half but twice that time. 

A memory of Stu

May 4, 2015

Within weeks of coming to Cornell from Harvard in 1982, Stu became one of my closest faculty colleagues. I had found someone who shared the same values on interdisciplinary education and collaboration in our field and who understood the importance of a broad view in solving urban design problems. Stu was very generous and advised me on negotiating complex administrative issues at Cornell as I held professorships in two colleges - CALS on the statutory side and AAP on the endowed side. Stu had a good grasp of these complexities and was a strong supporter of my approach to teaching urban design to planning and landscape students. I am indebted to Stu for always being there to help.

Lena and I also had some really good times with Stu and Sandy at local restaurants here in Ithaca!

Our thoughts are with all of you in the Stein family.

Roger Trancik
Professor Emeritus
City and Regional Planning and Landscape Architecture
Cornell University 

April 21, 2015

It was years ago that the delivery of Energy became deregulated.  That announcement was of interest to most of us in county government, but only in a general sense.  We did not make the connection that the situation allowed for the direct purchase of energy by municipalities...which could save our taxpayers a good deal of money.  The three people who did make the connection were county legislators from the Southern Tier.  Stuart Stein, Fran Leavenworth, and Barbara Blanchard saw the potential, studied the necessary steps to make it happen, and took the first step in the thousand mile journey, leading their counties and eventually many other counties and municipalities to a better place.  I can tell you that when they told me about the possibilities for Genesee County, I was very skeptical.  What sold me, and I am sure others, was the confidence that they exuded, which grew from the painstaking research and practical procedures developed. 

Others are in a better position than I to give the history of the growth of Mega from these modest beginnings, but each of these three individuals had something very special to contribute and they gave it freely. On this occasion, I just want to mention Stuart Stein’s legacy, as I experienced it.  Not all of us had the complete understanding of the Alliance, its purpose, potential, and parameters...certainly when we first became members, and then perhaps were privileged to serve on the Board...so I think Stu undertook our orientation.  Sometimes informally, other times it was a clear and necessary education session, but always graciously done, with a real understanding of where we came from and our constituency. He was so patient and persistent.  Then just when the light went on, and understanding came...he would introduce another idea, another road to follow...energy conservation, other sources of energy, other municipalities to participate, others to educate (the internship programs), his mind was a disco ball of ideas and strategies. At our Board meetings, he would report on the many activities he accomplished since the last meeting, and always ended with a new possibility to explore or a new and improved way of operating.  He seemed to take such joy in being able to do something positive for those in the MEGA Alliance, and worked diligently to expand the circle so that more could benefit. 

I am so grateful that I had the great pleasure in knowing Stu and working with him.  He mentored me, whether he knew it or not.  His work ethic, his dedication to excellence, and his endless curiosity will stay with me as shining examples whenever think of Stu.

I send my most sincere condolences to your family at their loss. 

Mary Pat Hancock   

April 6, 2015

Stu was a mentor.  He believed in me and gave me the opportunity and support to move forward and become the Sheriff of Tompkins County.  I will never forget him, his kindness or inspiration!  Peter Meskill

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