ForeverMissed
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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Sylvia Wise, 87 years old, born on October 17, 1934, and passed away on January 1, 2022. We will remember her forever.
October 17, 2023
October 17, 2023
Happy Birthday, Nan. I'm planning to get some roses in the spring for you. I love you.
March 7, 2023
March 7, 2023
Can't believe it's been a year already. Had a dream of you and dad together with me in a strange kitchen and you weren't arguing at all, it was amazing and wonderful. I am so glad you are together again and happy.
January 2, 2023
January 2, 2023
I can't say it better than your Granddaughters. Miss You.
January 1, 2023
January 1, 2023
One year. I still haven't home since so it's hard to believe sometimes you're not still there. I'm planning on planting some roses in my garden for you. Alisha and Mum found these lovely little nail wraps and I wish we had in time for me to do your feet with them. I know you loved that. I found myself trying to figure out what to get you this Christmas...miss you.
January 1, 2023
January 1, 2023
How has it been a year? A full year without you and it still feels unreal sometimes. There are some days that I really can't believe this is our new reality. I still expect to get little texts from you every so often to remind me to do something, or just to tell me when you saw something silly. I still expect to be able to visit you and give you one of those bear hugs that you loved so much. I turn around sometimes expecting to see you following me around with your walker to keep talking. I still expect to be able to sit and talk with you for hours and lose track of time. But I can't do any of these things with you anymore, and that hurts more than I think I can express with words. It's like there's a hole where you used to be and I don't think I'll ever be able to fill it. I miss you so unbelievably much and I don't think I'll ever stop. There's still so many things I wish I could tell you. Thank you for always believing in me and loving me despite my flaws, and for always being my cheerleader when things got rough. There's nothing I wouldn't give to be able to talk to you or hug you just one last time. I love you.
October 17, 2022
October 17, 2022
Happy Birthday, Nan. We're doing alright and so is Tyson, neurotic bugger that he is. You're missed, even down to the way you prepare a cup of tea.
February 5, 2022
February 5, 2022
When we were deciding to come to the USA, we had to persuade Mum and Dad to come with us. I prepared an argument for Dad, and wrote a letter as a follow up. Zena found the letter while packing up Mums things. We didn't know they had kept it. It is nice to know that they didn't regret moving here.
I have placed a copy of the letter in the gallery.
February 5, 2022
February 5, 2022
Goodbye Mum. You left us when you were ready. You were having trouble sleeping that night so I put you to bed and sat with you until you fell asleep. You looked like you were asleep in the morning. I am glad that you passed peacefully, which is all anyone can ask for.
I will miss you.
January 22, 2022
January 22, 2022
Nan,

I am grateful for having the opportunity to get to know you, brief as it was. I'll always remember your stories, your sense of humor - and your wonderful frog collection. 

There is a time for everything,
and a season for every activity under heaven:
a time to be born and a time to die,
a time to plant and a time to uproot,
a time to kill and a time to heal,
a time to tear down and a time to build,
a time to weep and a time to laugh,
a time to mourn and a time to dance

You will be missed. I hope wherever you are, you can once again take some time to laugh and to dance with Dennis. 

May you rest in peace. 
January 20, 2022
January 20, 2022
So sorry to hear of Sylvia's passing. I regret that I did not see her and Dennis as often as I would have liked. However I do recall my visits to them fondly. They were always so welcoming and my memories are invariably of happy if whacky occasions. One occasion, if I recall correctly, Dennis and Sylvia's being surprised when they introduced an aggressive fish to their fish tank, and all the other fish disappeared . I also recall when they came to my wedding with Christine, Dennis broke his toes when he knelt in church.
I am sorry we never made it to USA.
With much love.
David and Christine Wise
January 15, 2022
January 15, 2022
My deepest condolences to the Wise family.
Whenever I think of Sylvia she was always laughing and joking, she was kind and generous and always had a smile on her face.
Sylvia will be greatly missed by me and everyone who knew her.
God bless you, rest in peace,
may love travel with you.
January 14, 2022
January 14, 2022
Goodbye mum, I am glad you went quickly and quietly in your sleep and that you didn’t suffer. Rest in peace until you return and I hope you have a great time revisiting all the loved ones who have gone before.

I miss being able to call you up and discuss news about the Uk and the US. Both Tom and I have had moments where we have thought ‘must tell you about this’ only to realise that you are out of our reach.

Enjoy the peace and quiet and your missed family until we meet again.

Your daughter Carole
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
A colleague sent me a sympathy text about my mom-in-LOVE passing away.
And I thought, that is so true. You ARE and forever will be my MOM-IN-LOVE
January 12, 2022
January 12, 2022
A wonderful lady. Ken, I'm so sorry for your loss but I must say, every time I look at you I will see and remember her. So with that, for me, she lives on.
Lovingly 
Allan H. Bredig

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October 17, 2023
October 17, 2023
Happy Birthday, Nan. I'm planning to get some roses in the spring for you. I love you.
March 7, 2023
March 7, 2023
Can't believe it's been a year already. Had a dream of you and dad together with me in a strange kitchen and you weren't arguing at all, it was amazing and wonderful. I am so glad you are together again and happy.
January 2, 2023
January 2, 2023
I can't say it better than your Granddaughters. Miss You.
Her Life

1934

January 12, 2022
FBI ends the careers of John Dillinger, Bonnie Parker and Clyde Barrow, Pretty Boy Floyd and Baby Face Nelson

Born This Year:
Brian Epstein September 19th
Sophia Loren September 20th
Peter Arnett November 13th
Yuri Gagarin March 9th
Hank Aaron February 5th 
Giorgio Armani July 11th 
Tom Baker January 20th 
Brigitte Bardot September 28th 
Pat Boone June 1st
Maggie Smith December 28th
Marty Feldman July 8th


Events:
The Flying Scotsman becomes the first steam locomotive to be officially recorded at 100 mph.
The Luxury Liner Queen Mary is launched in Scotland
Cats-eyes for lighting roads are invented in England 
Donald Duck is born.
Alcatraz federal penitentiary opens
Italy wins the Second World Cup.
Oswald Moseley and his Nazi Party agitating.


Major World Political Leaders:
Germany Chancellor - Adolf Hitler 
Italy Prime Minister - Benito Mussolini 
Soviet Union General Secretary - Joseph Stalin 
United States President - Franklin D. Roosevelt 
United Kingdom - Prime Minister Ramsay MacDonald

Her First Decade

January 12, 2022
Sylvia was the third child of Edward (Ted) and Marion (May- Nee Kingston) Mann.

Their first child Alan who died very young and was seldom spoken of as the mention of his name deeply affected our father.

The family lived in 12 Stanhope Gardens. Dagenham) until the outbreak of the war forced the evacuation of May and the children to Stockwood Hills, Bridge End in Wales with Ted staying on to work.

Later they then moved to join Dads sister Elsie Smith Norman and Josephine lodging with a Mr. Churchill at 10 Glasfryn Square, Pyle Wales. The children had a good time in Wales playing with the local children, the boys and a close friend Vincent often “bombing” a local river bridge by floating containers of miner’s lamp carbide which sank on contact with the piers and pitching the carbide into the river with “interesting” results. Sylvia or David told me the tale, but Norman cannot remember the event!

Regular use was made of nearby Morfa beach and Sker Point with many visits made to Porthcawl where winkle picking was a favorite pastime. 

The house is still there, and Vincent was alive when Norman and Joan visited it in 2015.

At some time in 1940 a wayward German bomber took exception to their Essex home and obliterated it, fortunately Ted (a London Black cab driver) was at work at the time, arriving home in the morning in time to find rescue workers carefully recovering the “body of a child ”which was in fact Sylvia’s three foot tall rag doll.

The Mann family must have returned to be re-housed in Massingham Street, Stepney Green some time in 1941-2 as I was born in Mile End Maternity Hospital in October 1942 and Janet in 1946, incidentally the maternity unit was housed in the Old Mile End Work House into which Great Grand Father Kingston had been admitted as a boy as mentioned in the Swaby Family History of which Sylvia has a copy.

The Smith family returned to their Old home(?) in West Ham area of London some time in 1945 and the two families remained very close, with the bond strengthened after the sudden death of Elsie’s husband Jim, when Ted became a proxy Dad to them

Her Second Decade

January 12, 2022
Sylvia attended Raines Grammar Foundation (originally a Raines Asylum for Girls) until, for various reasons, she left school at 14 years old to hoping to become a secretary.

After a family dispute she left home to live with Aunt Elsie and family in their West Ham flat and I suspect made a fearsome duo with Josephine. The pair being disapproved for befriending Italian ex-prisoners of war who were building “temporary” prefabricated housing in the Plashet Road area, which incidentally, the Smiths moved into and were living in until the 1960s.

What happened around the time Josephine left home to work in a Hotel in the West Country I am not sure, but she may have come home for a spell.

However, at some time later she found her métier when she joined the General Post Office as a trainee telephone operator eventually becoming a Telephonist on the International Exchange after an aptitude for foreign languages was noticed.

Sylvia said that she dated an American Airman called Tony who came from Ohio. She also talked about dancing with a Sailor during the Coronation (2nd June 1953). She claimed that that they danced into Scotland Yard and out the other side.
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