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Theodora Jane Long Hodges, ("Teddy"), was born May 8th, 1922, in Springfield, Massachusetts, to John Franklin Long and Amelia Agnes Hall Long. She died peacefully on June 19, 2022 in her home in Berkeley, California, shortly after her hundredth birthday.

Teddy was a respected academic and the matriarch of a large family.  She was married to Joseph Lawson Hodges, Jr., a professor of Statistics at the University of California at Berkeley. She is survived by five children: Grace Eleanor ("Lennie"), Nancy, Joseph, John, and William Alexander "Sandy" who live in California, Idaho, and Arizona. Her eleven grandchildren and sixteen great grandchildren live in California, New York, and British Columbia. She is also survived by her sister Helen who lives in Massachusetts, and to whom she remained close throughout her life.  Their youngest sister Nancy was lost to cancer in her fifties, a great loss to Teddy and to the whole family.

For most of her childhood Teddy lived in Brockton, Massachusetts, where her father was a director of the Brockton YMCA.  Teddy was valedictorian of her high school class and earned a scholarship to Radcliffe College, where she was Phi Beta Kappa and graduated Magna Cum Laude in 1944.  She was offered an internship at the National Institute for Public Affairs in Washington D.C. and went on to work for various government agencies during the war.

After VJ Day, a young Joe Hodges traveled to the Pentagon to write a report on work he had done in Guam during the war.  Teddy's colleague and roommate, Audre Marcus, had known Joe from their undergraduate days at Berkeley, and introduced him to Teddy, saying, "This is the man you're going to marry." Audre's prediction turned out to be correct.

Their first dates were folk concerts and hiking on the Appalachian Trail with friends. Joe returned to Berkeley to continue his postgraduate work and Teddy flew out to meet him in September of 1946. They were married in a double ceremony with Teddy's younger sister Nancy, at Mount Vernon Methodist Church. Teddy sewed her own wedding dress and organized the wedding, including a reception for 100 guests, on $100 which she borrowed from her father.

They did not set up housekeeping directly after their marriage; Teddy went back to Washington DC. Her boss Harry Clement at UNRRA had asked her to help with the postwar transition of that agency to a new boss and affiliation. At only 25, she was apparently too valuable for her boss to do without!

Between 1948 and 1951, Teddy had her first four children, with Sandy, her youngest, born in 1955.  She found the house on Campus Drive which was to be her and Joe's home for the rest of their lives. Her children, their spouses and her grandchildren remember so many warm family gatherings there over the more than half a century which followed.

When Teddy’s children were young, holidays were spent at Joe's parents’ home in Buckeye, Arizona, with Joe's sisters and numerous cousins. There were camping trips to the Sierra Nevada every summer. In Joe's sabbatical year 1956 the family traveled to Stockholm, Sweden, where they lived for a year.  During these years while her children were young, Teddy did more and more volunteering, in the school library and as a girl scout leader.

As the children grew older, she took classes at UC Berkeley, earning a PhD in Library  Science. She went on to teach classes in indexing and cataloging, and served as Assistant Dean of the library school.  She co-authored and edited many books, and did the index for others, including one by the philosopher Susan Sanger.

Both of Teddy’s parents, who had spent decades overseas as her father served as a YMCA director in the Phillipines and in Cairo, lived to their hundredth year.  Teddy lost Joe to heart failure in 2000.

After retirement she began taking classes in Latin, took in and lovingly cared for rescue dogs, and hosted monthly afternoon pot luck gatherings at her home until well into her nineties. During those years she also made room in her house for a succession of foreign students who remained loyal friends to Teddy throughout her life.

Teddy had strong beliefs, standing up firmly for human rights and fairness for all. She took a keen interest in world events, engaging thoughtfully in discussions with family and friends.  The phrase "never met a stranger" applied to Teddy; her family remembers fondly how she would start a conversation with anyone, anywhere. She enjoyed doing crossword puzzles, reading mystery stories, knitting sweaters for her grandchildren, traveling to visit her sister in Massachusetts, and remodeling her home.  She will be much missed.

April 29, 2023
April 29, 2023
I’ve just learned that Teddy, my favorite professor at UC Berkeley School of Library and Information Science (1979-1980), has died. How wonderful to read about her many accomplishments, her children, and her generosity to so many people. I got to know and love her while working as her RA.  She was researching the speed with which one could access microfiche vs. the card catalog, and I tested about 40 volunteers. She was so warm and kind to me. She invited all her students for a potluck at her house, something I’d never experienced before. She really cared about her students! She wrote a long, detailed reference letter for me, which I didn’t get to read until I’d been working for the Fairfax County (VA) Public Library for several years. I was so moved to see that she included not just what I’d done in library school, but other research I’d done earlier. I just made a donation to the UC Berkeley School of Information in her honor, not knowing she had passed. Now it’s in memory of her, a very special person in my life. Condolences to all her family.
November 25, 2022
November 25, 2022
Teddy was as good of a person as one could ever aim to be. She was warm, welcoming, generous, and caring toward everyone in her life.

One of the things I loved most about Teddy was her enthusiasm. Teddy was interested in just about everything. She read more than anyone I've ever known (books, newspapers, magazines, etc.) and always had something new to talk about. (When I stayed with Teddy, I remember scouring around the driveway on rainy mornings trying to find all three newspapers she subscribed to, one of which was always in some obscure location.)

Teddy was particularly enthusiastic about gardening, an interest that we shared. I spent many hours working with Ouma, Sandy, and others refining the garden at Campus Drive. Teddy cared about the details and enjoyed having a productive and beautiful yard. I remember sitting down with Teddy at the kitchen table on numerous occasions with a seed catalog (Teddy was big on catalogs) and planning out the next year's garden. I always felt a great sense of satisfaction in making the landscape and vegetable garden to Teddy's liking.

Another thing I loved about Teddy was how she treated people. Teddy cared about everyone and she showed it. Anytime I brought someone new to Campus Drive, she would thereafter always ask how they were doing and invite them to the tea. Teddy treated me and my family like her own family. She always made us feel welcome and loved. Teddy was a great friend.

We love and miss you greatly, Teddy!

John, Santa, Patrick, and Angie McCurley
September 16, 2022
September 16, 2022
Visiting Grandma Teddy's house as a small child was always exciting- some things stayed the same (I always ran upstairs to check and see if the cactus gingham curtains were still in the upstairs bath) but there was always something new, too. A new dog or dogs, a cracker thrower, new friends. One time she noticed that my precious little Paddington bear had lost all its clothes, and she let me pick out fabric to cut and sew him a new coat. I was maybe seven, and so impressed that she could make something like that up on the fly; all the pieces she cut by eye fit together perfectly with my wobbly stitches. Another time she gave us all blowtorches for Christmas. My house has a library stepstool because it reminds me of her, and I store all my holiday ornaments in wax paper bags in a banker's box because she was right, it is the best way.
July 28, 2022
July 28, 2022
Teddy and I grew up together. In our childhood home in Brockton, there were three bedrooms, two of which were the children’s rooms. Teddy and I both wanted the small single bedroom. At first we had fights about it, but as we grew older, we came to develop a fast friendship that lasted throughout our lives. Both of us, I think, were better people because of it.
We visited each other a lot during our adult years. We crossed the country many many times. Our parents did the same, and there was a lot of visiting throughout the family and all of its facets. Everybody in our family enjoyed visiting with Teddy and all of her family.
July 18, 2022
July 18, 2022
I came to Berkeley in August 1972 for grad school at the library school. Teddy Hodges was one of the first faculty members I met. It will come as no surprise to anyone who knew her that she got me through that first quarter with kindness, good advice and clear explanations of many of the dean's lectures. She met with a small group of master's candidates on a regular basis to answer our questions and offer succinct guidance. I will be forever grateful to her for laying the basis for my career as a school teacher librarian. May Teddy's memory be for a blessing.
July 9, 2022
July 9, 2022
I met Theodora Hodges sometimes in June 1996 at her neighbor Marion Sloan’s house where I was doing housework. Few weeks later she asked if I could work for her too. I then began working for her. While working for her, I met her husband Joe and later all her children and their spouses, grandchildren, sister and brother in- law. As new immigrants from Kenya with my husband and two small children in the US, Teddy played a huge role in grounding our lives as we began to settle in Berkeley. Teddy’s generosity and kindness goes beyond what words can express. I have tons of examples that would fill pages if I begin to narrate all my encounter with Teddy and how she deeply touched my family’s lives. Although I was working for Teddy in the house, she always inquired what I wanted to do in the long run and encouraged me to think of ways that can better my life. She was very caring and always extended a helping hand to her neighbors. I remember her neighbors, Gwen, Elizabeth Rhodes and Lucille always expressing their gratitude to Teddy for being there for them and checking on how they were doing. Lucille referred to her as their mother Teresa and that she did not know how you thank somebody like Teddy. Barbara (Marion’s niece) used to say that Teddy is the most caring person she has ever met. Throughout the years I knew Teddy, I witnessed her touch many lives in different ways regardless of their background. She would drive me to pick up my son from school and give him toys to play with while I worked for Marion or her, it did not matter. She introduced me to places where I could purchase cheap children’s clothing. I recall the many trips we made to Mopps store on Martin Luther King way in Berkeley to buy children books and toys. My daughter still has the beautiful wooden doll house that Teddy gave her 24 years ago when she was only two years old. Teddy encouraged me to learn how to drive and paid someone to give me driving lessons during my work hours and still paid me for the hours I was supposed to be working for her. She taught me how to use sewing machine which I had never used before and lent it to me for few years to use in mending my children’s clothes. She opened her home to my whole family and even hosted my sister’s wedding shower. Every Christmas my family received gifts from Teddy apart from the many Thanksgiving and Christmas gatherings at her home. Being at the Hodges home felt like family away from home during the holidays. Sometimes I wonder what my families live would have been if I never met Teddy but I do not have the answer to that since I will never know. All I know is that she left an indelible mark in my families lives and we are forever grateful to Teddy and the whole Hodges family. Theodora Hodges is physically gone from us, but her deeds will forever illuminate my life. Rest in peace.
July 3, 2022
July 3, 2022
Teddy was such a wonderful person and she brightened my life when I was with her. I was so fortunate to have known her. May her memory be a blessing.
July 2, 2022
July 2, 2022
My Mother's life was as long and as rewarding as it is possible for a human life to be. Success in school, in marriage, in childbirth and raising, especially in raising; and after that was done, in career. Beloved by the many people whose lives she touched. So many lives enriched. A+, 100%, a ten.

So to mourn the end of this life is only to mourn the fact that all human life is finite (and think what this world would be like were that not so!) Living longer would not have made her life better. She left us so slowly.

She and I shared this planet for 70 years; and for over 65 of those we could communicate in English, and did so quite often and quite well. Nothing to regret. It took only minutes to think of a dozen things that go very wrong in many lives that did not happen to her. Amazing.

Of course I'm sad, and will be again, but there is so much to rejoice. Go in Peace, with love, your grateful son, John.
June 27, 2022
June 27, 2022
Teddy,
You were loving, gentle, generous, and kind.
A true blessing; one-of-a-kind!
May those whose lives you touched, honor you by blessing others.
June 25, 2022
June 25, 2022
Joe and Grace Hodges had three children - Betty, Joe Jr and Mary. Mary was my mother, so Joe Jr and Betty were two of my uncles and aunts. Joe Jr's wife was Teddy. 

We'd visit Uncle Joe and Aunt Teddy and their five children on Campus Drive in Berkeley many times over the years from Arizona then Oregon. One summer in the early 1960s my older sister Mindy and I stayed with the Hodges family for a couple of weeks. 

I remember visiting Inverness and other great road trips during that two week visit, but my fondest memories of that trip were the week of sailing lessons Aunt Teddy treated us to (with Nancy and Sandy, I believe). My parents John and Mary attended the final day of lessons when we showed all how proficient we'd become. I didn't sink my boat, but I think I put a couple other boats out of commission. 

Aunt Teddy was a wonderful woman who I admired greatly and grew to love as I got to know her better over the years. She lived a long, great life and will be remembered fondly by all who knew her. Goodbye, Teddy.
June 25, 2022
June 25, 2022
Tears come to my eyes, tears of pride in my mom and what a life she created that touched so very many people. Thanks Madelyn great job on the website. It's ironic that I'm so affected by it that I can't write much of a tribute. But that is a tribute in itself.
  Love the selection of photos, I'm sure I will come back to the website many times and let the memories wash over me.....
June 23, 2022
June 23, 2022
Teddy was a wonderful presence in my life from the day Joe first brought me to Campus Drive, unannounced, on Christmas morning, 1970. I was seventeen. Teddy went upstairs and wrapped up a present for me, so that I, too, would have a gift under the tree. It was a lovely Scandinavian sweater, and I still have it. Since then, she’s been a caring and responsive mother-in-law, providing loving support, warm companionship, and the steady example of kindness, fairness, and generosity to me, Joe, our children, and our grandchildren.  I am forever grateful, and carry her with me.

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April 29, 2023
April 29, 2023
I’ve just learned that Teddy, my favorite professor at UC Berkeley School of Library and Information Science (1979-1980), has died. How wonderful to read about her many accomplishments, her children, and her generosity to so many people. I got to know and love her while working as her RA.  She was researching the speed with which one could access microfiche vs. the card catalog, and I tested about 40 volunteers. She was so warm and kind to me. She invited all her students for a potluck at her house, something I’d never experienced before. She really cared about her students! She wrote a long, detailed reference letter for me, which I didn’t get to read until I’d been working for the Fairfax County (VA) Public Library for several years. I was so moved to see that she included not just what I’d done in library school, but other research I’d done earlier. I just made a donation to the UC Berkeley School of Information in her honor, not knowing she had passed. Now it’s in memory of her, a very special person in my life. Condolences to all her family.
November 25, 2022
November 25, 2022
Teddy was as good of a person as one could ever aim to be. She was warm, welcoming, generous, and caring toward everyone in her life.

One of the things I loved most about Teddy was her enthusiasm. Teddy was interested in just about everything. She read more than anyone I've ever known (books, newspapers, magazines, etc.) and always had something new to talk about. (When I stayed with Teddy, I remember scouring around the driveway on rainy mornings trying to find all three newspapers she subscribed to, one of which was always in some obscure location.)

Teddy was particularly enthusiastic about gardening, an interest that we shared. I spent many hours working with Ouma, Sandy, and others refining the garden at Campus Drive. Teddy cared about the details and enjoyed having a productive and beautiful yard. I remember sitting down with Teddy at the kitchen table on numerous occasions with a seed catalog (Teddy was big on catalogs) and planning out the next year's garden. I always felt a great sense of satisfaction in making the landscape and vegetable garden to Teddy's liking.

Another thing I loved about Teddy was how she treated people. Teddy cared about everyone and she showed it. Anytime I brought someone new to Campus Drive, she would thereafter always ask how they were doing and invite them to the tea. Teddy treated me and my family like her own family. She always made us feel welcome and loved. Teddy was a great friend.

We love and miss you greatly, Teddy!

John, Santa, Patrick, and Angie McCurley
September 16, 2022
September 16, 2022
Visiting Grandma Teddy's house as a small child was always exciting- some things stayed the same (I always ran upstairs to check and see if the cactus gingham curtains were still in the upstairs bath) but there was always something new, too. A new dog or dogs, a cracker thrower, new friends. One time she noticed that my precious little Paddington bear had lost all its clothes, and she let me pick out fabric to cut and sew him a new coat. I was maybe seven, and so impressed that she could make something like that up on the fly; all the pieces she cut by eye fit together perfectly with my wobbly stitches. Another time she gave us all blowtorches for Christmas. My house has a library stepstool because it reminds me of her, and I store all my holiday ornaments in wax paper bags in a banker's box because she was right, it is the best way.
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