March 28, 2021
March 28, 2021
CELEBRATING A WONDERFUL COUPLE
TRIBUTE TO MA HELEN TATA AND BA NKOM TATA
It is hard to believe that this extraordinary couple – Ma and Ba Tata are no longer with us. Their departure has created an unimaginable emptiness in our lives, but they leave behind a rich legacy of cheerfulness, generosity, love and outstanding dedication to family, friends, country, and the world at large.
We’ve known Ma Helen and Ba since our arrival in Bamenda in 1987. She worked closely with Andy in the former GTZ (now GIZ) financed Primary Health Care Project and was our go to person from day one. She took on the responsibility of orienting and onboarding us in the community and introduced us to all the relevant people and social groups. She was not only very generous with her time but also with her resources including harvests from her farm in Bali. We spent a couple of years together and even in our absence, the Tatas continued to represent us in group meetings and took on hosting responsibilities on our behalf. Ma Helen was such a passionate woman and a go-getter. She left no stone unturned in every and any assignment. She managed our affairs at home unreservedly and fearlessly protected our interests every step of the way.
Ma Helen was caring, committed, faithful, and selfless. She will call us habitually irrespective of our locations, to check on how we were doing. She will send packages of plantain chips, njama njama and other foods by post from Atlanta to make sure that we had a share of her harvest. Ma Helen was always present at key family events – college graduations, weddings, and memorial celebrations. Her last visit to Virginia was in October 2019. We had no idea or inclination that would be our last days with her.
We shared so many stories, we traveled and had fun and quality times together in Bamenda, Geneva, Burke Virginia, Ouagadougou, Tbilisi, Shekvetili, Batumi, Middleburg and Atlanta, emptied a couple of bottles of good wine and enjoyed life as she always said. We were planning to meet for our next “Mamons” vacation in May 2021, and even proposed to include the “Bas” this time around but helas it was not to be. God decided otherwise and called them “home” instead.
Although their departure is deeply painful, we give thanks to the Lord, most of all for the life they lived and for the laughter, the joy and happiness we shared. We are grateful for their love, for all the concern they showed us and for always being there for us in good times and bad. We are grateful for all the memories of them that we hold dear. They brought us so much happiness in their kind and loving ways. They considered us not just as friends but as family. They were special! We will miss them dearly, but the extraordinary memories of cheerfulness, generosity, and love will fondly remain with us. May their souls, rest in perfect peace.
Dr Andy & Mercy Tembon
TRIBUTE TO MA HELEN TATA AND BA NKOM TATA
It is hard to believe that this extraordinary couple – Ma and Ba Tata are no longer with us. Their departure has created an unimaginable emptiness in our lives, but they leave behind a rich legacy of cheerfulness, generosity, love and outstanding dedication to family, friends, country, and the world at large.
We’ve known Ma Helen and Ba since our arrival in Bamenda in 1987. She worked closely with Andy in the former GTZ (now GIZ) financed Primary Health Care Project and was our go to person from day one. She took on the responsibility of orienting and onboarding us in the community and introduced us to all the relevant people and social groups. She was not only very generous with her time but also with her resources including harvests from her farm in Bali. We spent a couple of years together and even in our absence, the Tatas continued to represent us in group meetings and took on hosting responsibilities on our behalf. Ma Helen was such a passionate woman and a go-getter. She left no stone unturned in every and any assignment. She managed our affairs at home unreservedly and fearlessly protected our interests every step of the way.
Ma Helen was caring, committed, faithful, and selfless. She will call us habitually irrespective of our locations, to check on how we were doing. She will send packages of plantain chips, njama njama and other foods by post from Atlanta to make sure that we had a share of her harvest. Ma Helen was always present at key family events – college graduations, weddings, and memorial celebrations. Her last visit to Virginia was in October 2019. We had no idea or inclination that would be our last days with her.
We shared so many stories, we traveled and had fun and quality times together in Bamenda, Geneva, Burke Virginia, Ouagadougou, Tbilisi, Shekvetili, Batumi, Middleburg and Atlanta, emptied a couple of bottles of good wine and enjoyed life as she always said. We were planning to meet for our next “Mamons” vacation in May 2021, and even proposed to include the “Bas” this time around but helas it was not to be. God decided otherwise and called them “home” instead.
Although their departure is deeply painful, we give thanks to the Lord, most of all for the life they lived and for the laughter, the joy and happiness we shared. We are grateful for their love, for all the concern they showed us and for always being there for us in good times and bad. We are grateful for all the memories of them that we hold dear. They brought us so much happiness in their kind and loving ways. They considered us not just as friends but as family. They were special! We will miss them dearly, but the extraordinary memories of cheerfulness, generosity, and love will fondly remain with us. May their souls, rest in perfect peace.
Dr Andy & Mercy Tembon