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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Ba Tita Todmia Fonyonga (aka "Ni Gabby"), who passed away May 11, 2017 in Los Angeles, California. We will remember him forever.

June 15, 2017
June 15, 2017
It's like a ferry tale. But a month and four days has passed. We have not seen you. It must then be true of your departure from us. It is heart broken. You left us wondering and confused. We know you feel the same and we pray that God give you a peaceful rest and direct us to move on with the tasks behind. Goodbye my dearest friend.
June 14, 2017
June 14, 2017
Ba Tita, someone has to wake me up. I thought it was April fool, but it was May 11th. It finally dawn on me after midnight on May 14th, which was mothers day, and I did get a call from you. I keep asking "where is the King" Your palace is not the same without you. I know God almighty has duty for one of his prince, and he got one of the best. We love you and you will forever be missed. We dispatch doves of peace and Angels to carry you to the bosom of our God almighty. Rest in Peace.
May 22, 2017
May 22, 2017
Ba Tita, you introduced yourself to me some fifteen years ago and little did I know that you were going to exit so soon. We love you, and will miss you. Anyone who knew Ba Tita knows of his generosity, humility and selflessness. He demonstrated these characteristics several times through both his involvement among family members and friends. He never wanted to disappoint anyone, or let them down. Albert Einstein once said, “Our death is not an end if we can live on in our children and the younger generation. For they are us, our bodies are only wilted leaves on the tree of life.” Please let us pray for the family so we extract Ba Tita’s kindness.
RIP Bro.
May 19, 2017
Mr Gabriel Fonyonga Todmia, you were a blessing to our family and our community. Thank you for Loving and accepting me the way God created me. Thank you for always checking on me even when most family members & most Bali Community members turned their backs on me because of the way God created me.

You use to call to check on me & our son, even my own sister will refuse to talk to me when you will ask her if she wanted to say Hello to me. To you i was a Special Girl God created and let her path cross with yours, reason why you never turned your back on me.

Thank you for believing in me. You once told me that you believe that everything i write is 99.9% accurate, but your Only problem is that I EXPOSE it publicly. I wish I can fix that problem you and most people have. I was BORN to reduce Negativity on Earth, Exposing Evil publicly is one of my mission on Earth.

I Thank God for granting you a safe place in Heaven even before your Soul left your body. As you already know Jesus instructed me to ANOINT your SOUL at 0755pm Houston time on Wednesday 5/10/17. I spent about 1hr 30mins with you right at the throne of Grace in Heaven and your Soul left your body a few hours after our quality time.

You are in a much better place now, a place I have been longing to be since 2007. Please forgive all our SINS and please keep all of us in your Prayers. We Love you very much, but God Loves you more.

Your Sister in Law, Apostle Mary Nabila Ales.
May 17, 2017
May 17, 2017
Ba, you have left a huge vaccum in the family. We loved you and we will forever miss you. God's ways are not our ways. We understand that. May the angels receive you with songs of joy. May your soul be heaven bound. We will try to pick up the pieces and move on. Rest in peace, the warrior prince
May 17, 2017
May 17, 2017
Totally shocked and truly distressed. God knows best. May your soul find joy in the Lord my dear brother. Condolences to the family. It is well.

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June 15, 2017
June 15, 2017
It's like a ferry tale. But a month and four days has passed. We have not seen you. It must then be true of your departure from us. It is heart broken. You left us wondering and confused. We know you feel the same and we pray that God give you a peaceful rest and direct us to move on with the tasks behind. Goodbye my dearest friend.
June 14, 2017
June 14, 2017
Ba Tita, someone has to wake me up. I thought it was April fool, but it was May 11th. It finally dawn on me after midnight on May 14th, which was mothers day, and I did get a call from you. I keep asking "where is the King" Your palace is not the same without you. I know God almighty has duty for one of his prince, and he got one of the best. We love you and you will forever be missed. We dispatch doves of peace and Angels to carry you to the bosom of our God almighty. Rest in Peace.
May 22, 2017
May 22, 2017
Ba Tita, you introduced yourself to me some fifteen years ago and little did I know that you were going to exit so soon. We love you, and will miss you. Anyone who knew Ba Tita knows of his generosity, humility and selflessness. He demonstrated these characteristics several times through both his involvement among family members and friends. He never wanted to disappoint anyone, or let them down. Albert Einstein once said, “Our death is not an end if we can live on in our children and the younger generation. For they are us, our bodies are only wilted leaves on the tree of life.” Please let us pray for the family so we extract Ba Tita’s kindness.
RIP Bro.
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Will ever missed you, my very best friend

June 15, 2017

Mr.Todmia as called AKA the King and Chairman. I have known you for five years and it seems to be 25 years. It is hard to believe and accept your departure from us. You were  a great friend and a colleague. Your big hugs, priceless smiles, and loving  nature will be remembered forever. You were remarkably supportive and hardworking.  Your  humaniterian and caring personality would remain irreplaceable.You are one of a kind and no amount of tears, sadness and anger could be done to express how much you will be missed. I dont know why it happened suddenly but God knows why. You touched lives expecially, children, elderly and teenagers. Your calm and peace driven spirit made changes to many families. You were always ready to listen and willing to comfort the broken hearted.  Obedient and ready to displease yourself for the sake of others in need. You were a Hero and an Icon to many. Your death will seldon put a revise in our lives. It is hard to let you go but we must wish you well as you rest in God's bossom. Adieu !. Goodbye and Rest for Ever !. 

My Good Friend Mr. Todmia

May 29, 2017

I met Mr. Gabriel Todmia in the early nineties sharing our love for tennis. Through this extra ordinary experience I was very fortunate having him as a dear friend, highly intelligent gentlemen with a most caring and sharing heart. Coming from Camerron with myself being born & raised here in Los Angeles via Compton, California I would educate Mr. Todmia on the pro's and con's of the inner city while making him understand the history of the african american man here in Los Angeles which over the years he would coined me with the phrase as "Doctor Sanchez" which I always took with admiration and respect. Through our compassion for tennis I introduced Mr. Todmia to Rowley Park Tennis Association where he will embark on some outstanding tennis players who not only enjoyed his tennis skills but ADMIRED Mr. Todmia for what he truly was a kind soul, wonderful gentlemen and intelligent scholar. Hearing of his tragic passing has myself and all of his Rowley tennis associates very sad and heart broken that he is no longer with us as one of our occasional favorite past times we will do after tennis is drink Heineken beer in which we would laugh and share wonderful stories while enjoying fellowship. A FINAL toast to Gabriel Todmia aka the "Lion King" who embarked many memorable and fun moments which left an indellible impression to so many who had the privelage of his extraordinary company. Fare well kind sir and thank you for your GREATNESS!

DEATH OF PIONEER

May 17, 2017

The Board of Directors (BOD) together with the National Executive Council (NEC) of the Bali Cultural Association announce with regret the passing into glory of a pioneer member, Ba Tita Todmia Gabriel Fonyonga known among friends and associates as ' Ni Gabby'. This tragedy happened in Los Angeles, California on Thursday, May 11, 2017.
Ba Tita Todmia was looking forward to celebrating with the BCA USA family during the upcoming Convention as the Association which he helped create turns thirty. Ba Tita did not just pay his dues and sat back. He was a very, very active member. He was the main host of the 2003 Convention in Los Angeles. He played many vital roles within the organization. He was a community organizer and a very energetic person. Ba, the Association will miss you. 
To his immediate family, the Association pledges it's support in kind and cash to assist in lightening the burden imposed by this tragedy.
Funeral programs will be communicated later as we learn from the family.
In the meantime please keep the family and our Association in your prayers

Social committee chair on behalf of the Association.

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