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Thank you from the bottom of our hearts

This memorial website was created in memory of Tom Lewandowski, 42, a beloved husband, father, son, and brother who passed away suddenly on May 17, 2017.

Our family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to all of our friends, coworkers, and neighbours for an overwhelming outpouring of support. We cannot express in words how much your loving care, comforting words, visits and practical assistance have meant to us in the days that followed Tom's death. None of us could have ever imagined the magnitude of support that we received from you all and it was in no small part thanks to your kindness and generosity that we were able to survive the initial few days of shock and grief after learning the tragic news of Tom's passing. So many individuals came out to our home personally day after day to offer their condolances and drop off meals, groceries, and flowers. Because of these visits we never felt alone and knew that our deep pain was shared. We were so touched that even people who did not know Tom or even our family personally brought us meals and condolances. You have all renewed our faith in the existence of a loving community and we view your support as a direct expression of God's love for us. You keeping us in your thoughts and prayers has helped us to endure.

We would also like to thank everyone who took time out of their busy work week to attend the memorial service that was held for Tom in the Waegwoltic Club on May 24th, 2017. To see well over one hundred people in attendance was a beautiful tribute to Tom. We thoroughly appreciated meeting all those on whom Tom had an impact and sharing memories and stories about him with you. Thank you again from the bottom of our hearts.

May 17
May 17

My friend Tom, another year has passed of hoping with all my might that you were here. You opened up your heart to my friendship and for that I will forever be grateful. I wish we could have spent the past seven years together with your amazing family. I can imagine the memories we all would have made. The thought makes me smile. I will choose to hold on to that thought because it makes today even remotely bearable. Your family has become my family, and I cannot tell you how much joy they have added to my life. I only wish you could be here with them. They miss you every day, as do I. If something exists more than this life, I hope I get to see you again. Do zobaczenia.
October 1, 2023
October 1, 2023
You are missed so much every single day . 6 years passed but you are alive in our memory.One day we will be again together - this time forever with Christ . No pain or sorrow ,no death anymore .
October 1, 2023
October 1, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday Tom!
May you never age in Heaven and I hope the Angels spoil you today.  Love you brother. James
May 17, 2023
May 17, 2023
Tom, I still think about you often, but on this day each year I cannot help but feel mixed emotions. Even though it causes a tear to my eye and a lump in my throat, I can only be thankful to have known you for the short time I did. From what I have learned from your family over the years, we had way more in common than I knew. However possible, I hope to see you again someday so we can discover even more. I want you to know how much you are missed and loved every day.
October 1, 2022
October 1, 2022
Happy birthday, Tom. I'm thinking about you today. This weekend is both your and Mat's birthday. We are going to celebrate for the both of you. Sending you lots of love.

Curt
May 18, 2022
May 18, 2022
It's been 5 years but it feels like this horrible day happened just yesterday. Everytime I see your truck parked in the driveway my first split second thought is still always "Tom is home". I wish indeed that you were home. So much has changed here. But I know you are home in a better place. And one day we will meet again. Until we do, we will miss you each day.
May 17, 2022
May 17, 2022
We never have to say goodbye
Cause I can feel you from the afterlife
And I just wanna say, that every single day
You make me take a deeper look inside
If everything you say it's true
Then I would never have to call on you
In every single way
You're with me every day
So we never have to say
We never have to say goodbye
I’ll always carry you with me
In my dreams, my memories
Cause I will never find another you


May 17, 2022
May 17, 2022
Five years ago was one of the most difficult days for those who love you. We miss you every day and hope that somehow we are able to see you again. Thank you for welcoming me into the family and for making me feel like I belong. I will never forget your kindness and character. Sending love to you, the brother I never had.
May 17, 2022
May 17, 2022
I cant believe its been 5 years my dear brother.  Some days it feels like yesterday, other days it feels like forever ago we lost you to the Angels.
 I hope you are having a wonderful day wherever you are, eating lots of cake, , and riding free, .
Love you dear Tom. 
May 18, 2021
May 18, 2021
People come and go in our lives, but only certain ones are special enough to form a bond that is difficult to break. From the moment Mat described you to me, I wanted to meet you, this person who obviously meant so much to him. I'm thankful every day that we were able to meet and become friends. I hope to see you again someday, Tom. You will always be part of my family and someone I am proud to call my friend.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
We miss you so much Tomek. We all remember you, even your little Noah. Love you lots and can’t wait to see you again.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
4 years ago today we lost you dear brother. It was a day much like today; beautiful blue skies, the sun shinning brightly....... and then, just like that, you were gone. Never forgotten and always in our hearts dear Tom. I still think of you everyday. 
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
Three years ago today my heart sank deep into my chest and the piece of my heart that went with you has never been filled.  I miss you and think of you everyday dear brother. 
May 17, 2020
May 17, 2020
Tom is still remembered. I worked with Tom and random things will remind me of Tom. Many mixed feelings come to mind. I remember how good it was to know him. Genuine people are not easy to find but Tom was a gem. I am thankful for specific memories. My heart grieves for his loved ones. I pray for all of you. Only the Lord Jesus can fill and heal the unspeakable hurt. My prayers and love are with you all the time.
October 1, 2019
October 1, 2019
It looks like eternity right now but we will see you sooner then we think . We miss you a lot Tomciu
May 17, 2019
May 17, 2019
We miss you so much Tomek. Can't wait until we see you again.
October 1, 2017
October 1, 2017
Happy birthday Tom. Your smile is still missed at Transit every day
June 7, 2017
June 7, 2017
Angelika, Julia and family,
Our deepest sympathy to you on your great loss. May our Lord Jesus bring you his peace and comfort as you grieve.
(We met Dr. Nowak through a course.)
Sincerely,
Don & Jean Hamilton
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
Angelika, Julia and family.
Thinking of you and praying God's peace that passes all understanding. May the many memories you have give you comfort at this sad time of loss.       John 3:16
Our deepest sympathy,
Ron and Frances Reid, Bay du Vin, N.B.
( Your father, Dr Nowak, is our cardiologist on the Miramichi).
June 2, 2017
June 2, 2017
I had the pleasure of working with Tom at Transit. His pleasant manner made him many fast friends. My sincere condolences to his family.
May 30, 2017
May 30, 2017
I worked with Tom at Halifax Transit. He always had a smile on his face and a love of life. We often spoke of our children. He loved his family very much. He will be missed by all.
May 30, 2017
May 30, 2017
I met Tom the first time he relieved me at Upper Water Street at least 4 years ago. We worked together at Halifax Transit and we were doing the route 80 at that time. Theres always some time between trips so we always had about 20 mins or so to chat. I was immediately blown away by him. He was a rare gem. He was positive, kind, soft hearted and funny!! Man we laughed. And that beautiful smirk and that glorious grin of his. The grin and smile alone has touched alot of us drivers as you can see by the many references to it. After only two weeks he would either bring his red Jeep ir my car to meet me so that i would have a car to drive back to the garage. I loved driving that Jeep!! We joked about the trouble he had finding a leak in the roof or the door somewhere. He also enjoyed driving my car which was brand new at the time snd pretty souped up.  We talked about all kinds of things. Cars, the buses, crazy passengers, our families, travel, the trials and tribulations of life. And while he was very private in many ways and despite everything he himself had been through, he always had a very kind and wise word to say whenever i was troubled. He made an impression on all of us. He left his mark thats for sure. I will always carry a very special space in my heart for Tom and for his loved ones. I miss him dearly and I am so glad I got to know him.
May 29, 2017
May 29, 2017
I worked with Tom at Halifax Transit, used to take over his bus at the bridge terminal a few years back. We would talk and eventually we started joking around and after that if he would see me he would always come over and talk or honk at me if he was driving all while he had that michivieous grin on his face. I always had a good laugh when he would walk up shake his head at me and ask if I ever do any work with that grin.
He always seemed to be a very deep thinker too one time we were talking about relationships and he had told me its not whats on the oustside its whats on the inside which is so true and very refreshing to hear this day and age, made respect him all the more wish I could gotten to know him more.
RIP Tom we lost a very special soul way too soon
My deepest condolences to his family and friends
May 28, 2017
May 28, 2017
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time - Joel
May 27, 2017
May 27, 2017
I worked with Tom at Halifax Transit. I did not know Tom very well until the last few months. Tom made himself obvious by his infectious and mischievous smile that he carried with him where ever he went. His smile made everyone he met smile too which brought happiness and a feeling of wellbeing to everyone he met. Tom had the grace to keep life simple. He knew what was important for a happy life. In getting to know him he told me about some difficulties he experienced in his younger days. It would have been easy for him to become bitter and hurt. When I asked him about this his response was "What's the point in being bitter? There is no point." I found his answer packed with wisdom that caused me to stop and ponder. Tom was a man you would be proud to call your friend. He was decent, hard working, honorable, respected and loved by everyone, honest and of solid character. He was a man you could trust. Tom loved Jesus Christ and that made him the man he was to all of us. My sincerest condolences go out to Tom's family and friends. You are in my deepest prayers for the comfort only God can give at this terrible time.
May 27, 2017
May 27, 2017
Rest in perfect peace brother. You will be missed everyday and you will forever be remembered. My sincere condolences goes out to his family left to mourn. We'll see each other again.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
I would like to extend my deepest condolences to Angelika, Julia and your family near and far. It is such a sudden and tragic loss. My thoughts are with you all at this very difficult time and in the months ahead as you grieve the absence of your beloved husband, father and loved one.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
Tom always had a smile on his face whenever I saw him. He will be greatly missed
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
I am so sorry for your loss. I was a co-worker of Tom's, although I did not know him well, I knew he was very friendly and kind. My deepest condolences to all of you.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
Tom only worked in the ferry division for a short time, but was very much like and respected amongst his co-workers while he was there. He talked very fondly of his family and will be missed by all who knew him. My warmest condolences
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
I always enjoyed the funny lighthearted conversations I had with Tom. He always called me, "Old Man", and would laugh. Please accept my sincerest condolences. He will be missed.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
My deepest condolences to all of Tom's family and friends. I only worked with Tom for a few years but will cherish every moment. He was a great guy and he always had a smile on his face whenever you met him!! He will be missed here at Transit. RIP
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
I Never got to really know Tom he graduated shortly after I did. I took ill with cancer and was taken away from my job. From what I have read and heard Tom was quite the guy whom was taken from us too soon, but believe that he is with you,I know it doesn't ease your pain but he will be watching over all of you keeping you safe. Soar with the Angels Tom and be at peace.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
Tomek byl moim kochanym kuzynem z Polski. Bardzo duzo czasu razem spedzalismy przed jego wyjazdem do Canady. Jezdzlismy na rowerach, chodzilismy razem uczyc sie tanczyc, nauczyl mnie kochac Depeche Mode. Lubilismy razem wyjezdzac nad morze, sami jezdzilismy pociagiem odwiedzac rodzine w innych miastach. Tomek zawsze bedzie dla mnie bardzo bliski, zawsze duzo o nim myslalam co porabia w tym dla mnie obcym kraju. Nigdy Cie Tomek nie zapomne i zawsze bedziesz mi bliski.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
I'm so very sorry for your loss, it's clear Tom has made an impact of everyone that he graced with his presence and he will be deeply missed, but take comfort in knowing he will never be forgotten.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
My sincere and deepest condolences. I knew Tom as a coworker at Metro Transit and although I didn't know him for long, I know that he always had a smile and cheerful disposition. He was a respectful gentleman and in return got respect! RIP Tom you will missed.
May 26, 2017
May 26, 2017
I will remember Tom for the love and care he had for his family. He had strong principles and a great heart. I have many good memories of him and his great sense of humour, which often seemed to be accomplished with a straight face for extra effect. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.

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May 17
May 17

My friend Tom, another year has passed of hoping with all my might that you were here. You opened up your heart to my friendship and for that I will forever be grateful. I wish we could have spent the past seven years together with your amazing family. I can imagine the memories we all would have made. The thought makes me smile. I will choose to hold on to that thought because it makes today even remotely bearable. Your family has become my family, and I cannot tell you how much joy they have added to my life. I only wish you could be here with them. They miss you every day, as do I. If something exists more than this life, I hope I get to see you again. Do zobaczenia.
October 1, 2023
October 1, 2023
You are missed so much every single day . 6 years passed but you are alive in our memory.One day we will be again together - this time forever with Christ . No pain or sorrow ,no death anymore .
October 1, 2023
October 1, 2023
Happy Heavenly Birthday Tom!
May you never age in Heaven and I hope the Angels spoil you today.  Love you brother. James
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