Tomasita was my other mother. I called her Mom. There are just too many memories to list them all here, but here are a few; any time Mini and I had a spat, Tomasa would generally back me up over her own daughter. When I was still single and engaged to Mini, Mom would have me over at her house to eat dinner, so that I would not starve. She looked in my fridge to see a jar of pickles, baked beans and beer.That was it., There was the time she attended small claims court, because she was in a traffic accident , I would drive her to court and we would have dinner in a diner. She told other people that I was her attorney. We had a mock wedding ceremony for her and Roldan in the Floral Park house basement, , and I officiated as the "Rabbi". Mom for all the parties, gatherings, lectures ,dinners and most of all, that you loved me as a "Son' and not just a son inlaw - THANK YOU AND I LOVE YOU !