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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Carlos Pla, 42 years old, born on September 21, 1978, and passed away on August 17, 2021. We will remember him forever.

A celebration of his victorious homegoing will take place at Canaan Christian Church, 88 Frank Applegate Road, Jackson, New Jersey.

Visitation will begin on Monday, August 23, at 4:00 p.m. with a special remembrance service at 6:30 p.m.Visitation will begin at 9:00 a.m.on Tuesday, August 24 until the funeral service at 9:30 a.m. Burial will follow at Ocean County Memorial Park, Toms River, New Jersey. 
September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Missing you Tony! You are one of kind, so full of kindness and compassion. Praising God that you are free from pain. Until we meet again brother ❤️
September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Tony we miss you, never forget you and will keep you close to our hearts.
Happy Heavenly Bday my little brother
September 21, 2022
September 21, 2022
I think about you often. I miss your laugh. I miss your bear hugs and slobbery kisses. I miss face timing you and us messing with the silly filters. I wouldn't wish you back though. You get to be in Jesus' presence. I love you much and miss you. ❤
September 21, 2022
September 21, 2022
Happy birthday, Uncle T. I miss you, but I’m so glad you’re in Heaven. You made each one of us nieces and nephew feel so individually special. “You’re my favorite niece named Charissa.” You said that, I think, every time we got to visit you at least once. I haven’t forgotten all the times you took us around everywhere, just driving and doing random errands. You made it so fun and we had real talks. Sometimes it was just you and me. Sometimes more of my siblings. One of the last times, you took me and Nat to this pizza place and we had cannolis. And now cannolis make me think of you. Mom, Nat, and I had one in honor of you on Saturday.

I got married this summer and it was the happiest day in my life, but I couldn’t help missing you and Grandpa and Grandma. All three of you would have absolutely loved Andrew. You would have thought he was hilarious, and he would have picked up dominoes so fast from you. Just now, before I started writing this, we were working on music to use in ministry together. We’re taking a cue from your example. I’ll never forget you playing at Michelle’s wedding. You served until the very end. And I think that’s maybe what you’re doing right now.

I love you, Uncle Tony. See you soon.
September 21, 2022
September 21, 2022
I’m listening to music right now - I’ve Got Joy sung by CeCe Winans. Tony loved music! He was musically talented in many ways and shared his gifts at every chance. Now Tony experiences fullness of joy in the presence of the King!
September 21, 2022
September 21, 2022
Missing you today but glad you are celebrating your birthday in heaven. I think of you daily, memories of you bring joy, laughter and tears. You are not forgotten, you are loved still!
October 3, 2021
October 3, 2021
Other than my parents, Tony was the one person who shared and lived this life with me on a daily basis. He was my brother but also my friend, confidant, my partner, my plus one(always), my emergency contact, my “son” and as he liked to say, “ your the yin to my yang”. We could be are true selves, whether it was talking about our family, God, friends, being silly and laughing at things that only meant something to us, we grieved together and survived things by our faith in God and each other. We saw each other’s flaws and strengths and sometimes didn’t like each other’s choices BUT always knew no matter what, we would be there for each other. There are many things I could write but my heart is overwhelmed by the bittersweet loss of my brother but joy that he is enjoying his eternal life and all the blessings of heaven. Tony suffered physically, emotionally, spiritually and we made it a point to always say I love you, whether in a text, a call or saying goodbye in person. I would say, “ I love you” and he would respond, “ I love you more” so I would reply, “If you insist”. These last 2 years, we found ourselves dealing with more health issues and experienced many things together. I stopped saying, “I love you” and started saying “I love you with all my heart”, in fact it was the last thing I said to him when I saw him last before he went to be with the Lord. It was hard to say goodbye to my parents but far worse to say goodbye to my brother cause we were gonna grow old together with our sister. I will always miss Tony, he changed and marked my heart forever, but I am so glad he is free of pain and enjoying the fullness of life in heaven that he never had here. I imagine him worshipping, happy and reunited with Mom, Dad and all those we’ve loved that now are in God’s presence. So, this time, I will not say goodbye but I will say, “ I love you with all my heart- forever, and till we meet again my sweet brother”. You live on in my heart, memories, and I thank God you were my brother and that Elaine is my sister and that the faith and love we received from our parents will reunite us all one day.
September 23, 2021
September 23, 2021
Tony will be forever missed. I had the privilege of knowing Tony for almost his entire life. I can say so many things but the one thing that will stand out forever in my heart is the dedication he had to fulfill ministry even when he was so ill. The last thing I collaborated with him was an event in Lakewood to give to the homeless. I was part of it two years in a row and an all day event. It was amazing and an honor to provide free haircuts, a hot meal, clothing, live music, prayer and so much more for people in need. He was in charge of praise and worship but he did so much more! He was not well but it didn’t stop him. He did it with so much love and sacrifice. He gave his all! Even though he was not well for so long and suffered so much he didn’t use it as an excuse. He served with his whole heart! I know your parents in heaven are proud and I say to you, like I’m sure your parents and our savior Jesus said, a job well done Tony! We will miss you here my friend but heaven is rejoicing ❤️

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September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Missing you Tony! You are one of kind, so full of kindness and compassion. Praising God that you are free from pain. Until we meet again brother ❤️
September 23, 2022
September 23, 2022
Tony we miss you, never forget you and will keep you close to our hearts.
Happy Heavenly Bday my little brother
September 21, 2022
September 21, 2022
I think about you often. I miss your laugh. I miss your bear hugs and slobbery kisses. I miss face timing you and us messing with the silly filters. I wouldn't wish you back though. You get to be in Jesus' presence. I love you much and miss you. ❤
His Life

Carlos Antonio "Tony" Pla

August 20, 2021

Carlos Antonio "Tony" Pla', age 42,went to be with His Lord on the morning of Tuesday, August 17, 2021 at CentraState Medical Center, Freehold, New Jersey. He was the beloved son of Pastor Antonio Pla', originally from Puerto Rico, and his wife, Concepcion Castellanos Pla' originally from El Salvador, Central America. Tony was born on September 21, 1978 in Lakewood, New Jersey and was a longtime resident of Jackson, and in recent years, Howell.

Tony was also a member of Canaan Christian Church of Jackson, founded in 1978 by his parents,Pastor and Mrs. Antonio Pla'.He had the distinction of being the first baby born into the church that year.Having grown up in the church, he faithfully served in many capacities. Having a great love of music and natural talent in singing and playing instruments, he especially enjoyed being part of the worship team. He graduated from Jackson Memorial High School and went on to receive a certificate inAudio Engineering.He used his skills to service many churches, not just his own, in helping set up audio systems and even for the Dominican Republic, where he raised funds to donate equipmentto help a church on the missionfield.In recent years, he took great pleasure in helping the worship team ofthe Spanish congregation at The Church of Grace And Peace, Toms River, NJ.He loved children and enjoyed playing with them and teaching them music.As a licensed bilingual driving instructor, he was in high demand by many who appreciated his ability to communicate well and kindly. Tony was generous, even to a fault, willing to help anyone in any way he could.He enjoyed cooking, playing dominoes, the Giants, and was a die-hard Mets fan, but especially, he enjoyed playing with his little companion and joy of his life, his dog, Rocky. He was proud of his Puerto Rican-Salvadoran heritage and loved his family members both near and far.He loved many in his extended church family.Most of all, Tony loved His God--his Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and remained steadfast in his faith even though his life was marked by chronic pain and suffering.

He was predeceased by his father, Antonio Pla' and his mother, Concepcion "Connie" Pla'; his paternal grandfather, Wilfredo "Carlos" Pla', his paternal grandmother, Maria Ester "Lela" Pla'; his maternal grandfather, Agustin Castellanos; his maternal grandmothers, Graciela "Chela" Sanchez de Castellanos and Concepcion Castellanos Fernandez.He is survived and will be greatly missed by his two sisters, Elaine Pla' Alexander of Indiana andDina Pla' of Jackson; his nieces, Mari Elise Duvall and Lauren Konrade both of Kansas, Charissa Alexander and Natalie Alexander both of Indiana; and one nephew, David and his wife, Hannah Alexander of Indiana; many aunts, uncles, cousins both in the United States and abroad in Puerto Rico and El Salvador, and of course, Rocky.

A celebration of his victorious homegoing will take placeat Canaan Christian Church, 88 Frank Applegate Road, Jackson, New Jersey.Visitation will begin on Monday, August 23, at 4:00 p.m. with a special remembrance service at 6:30 p.m.Visitation will begin at 9:00 a.m.on Tuesday, August 24 until the funeral service at 9:30 a.m. Burial will follow at Ocean County Memorial Park, Toms River, New Jersey. 

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October 13, 2021
God bless every one this story is about me and Tony we were in the hospital together when they took me to my room tony was in the other bed we both were there for kidney failure we were in there for a week or more. Instead of me lifting him up for encouragement he lifted me up. We laughed We cried and We prayed Tony was a funny guy some stories he said had me cracking up.Tony may you RIP. I will see you in HEAVAN the time is near.

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