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FOREVER MISSED is a perpetual and interactive memorial site. 
 
Please see LIFE to read the obituary for Ursula (Oma).  Feel free to add a story or thought about an experience with Ursula.  We would love to see this, especially without the social contact we would normally have, were it not for these crazy times.

Enjoy the photos in the GALLERY and you may want to the see the Slideshow.  Feel free to add any photos you may have with Oma.

You may add a TRIBUTE below.

MEMORIAL SERVICE / CELEBRATION OF LIFE
There will be a family service once we can all get together after Covid restrictions are lifted.

For anyone who may wish to make a charitable donation as a tribute to Ursula, a few of the charities of choice are listed here.  
Alzheimer's Society
Canadian Cancer Society
Heart and Stroke Foundation
Habitat for Humanity
World Vision
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
We are so very sad. Also because the dear family is so far away. And this is the only way we can pay our last respects to our dear aunt. Now she is with her brother. May they rest in peace.
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
We hold Ursula Kessler, as well as her family and friends mourning her loss, in our prayers at Martin Luther Church. "The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in from this time and forevermore." (Psalm 121:8) - Pastor Gerhard Hille
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
I remember Ursla from when I was a little girl and she was so sweet, caring and kind. Condolences to the entire family xo
February 22, 2021
February 22, 2021
Deepest Sympathy to you and your family Ingrid. Although I never got a chance to meet your mum, looking at these lovely photos I see the light of your mum shining through you and the kids.
February 22, 2021
February 22, 2021
Ingrid, I only met your mom a handful of times growing up. The best way for me to remember your mom is to see her reflection in you. Very much begins with a smile that draws everyone in. So loveable, kind, generous, courteous and generally the type of person you just want to mix company with. But beneath that goodness there lies an inner strength and confidence, a competitive nature that makes known that independence, and strength of character fuel her actions. The best of your mom lies within you Ingrid, from the smile to her strength of character her gift transcends her passing. Peace be with you and the entire Kessler family. 
February 22, 2021
February 22, 2021
OMA was a grand lady with an infectious smile who always appreciated a generous story . We have fond memories of our visits in Sudbury and at her home in Toronto. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ingrid and the rest of family. Thinking about all the wonderful memories and a woman cherished. Franco and the Cazzola Family . 
February 22, 2021
February 22, 2021
Ursula was an inspiration as to how to live life with contentment and acceptance. She was a very strong woman but also a soft and kind person. She passed these attributes onto Ingrid which is the best legacy a person can leave. We say goodbye to Oma with sadness but also with appreciation for having known her and for the gift of her daughter.
Dennis and I are sending our love and sympathy to all of you.

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Recent Tributes
March 10, 2021
March 10, 2021
We are so very sad. Also because the dear family is so far away. And this is the only way we can pay our last respects to our dear aunt. Now she is with her brother. May they rest in peace.
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
We hold Ursula Kessler, as well as her family and friends mourning her loss, in our prayers at Martin Luther Church. "The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in from this time and forevermore." (Psalm 121:8) - Pastor Gerhard Hille
February 23, 2021
February 23, 2021
I remember Ursla from when I was a little girl and she was so sweet, caring and kind. Condolences to the entire family xo
Her Life

Ursula's Life

February 22, 2021
Ursula Kessler (nee Langer, also fondly called Oma by family and friends) has sadly left our world on February 17, 2021.  At the age of 92 years, she was taken by the devastating Corona virus that has spread pandemically.  Given her age and the complications that arose, despite her characteristic fight to survive, her body had to succumb, with her daughter by her side. 

Ursula, as she was proud to declare, means 'Bear' (Ursa in Latin), a name well-given to a woman of strength, yet soft with the cuddly affection of a teddy bear.  This strength was demonstrated during her lifetime challenges that began soon after she was born.  She lost her natural mother when she was a few months old, ironically, to the epidemic of that time - tuberculosis.  She was raised by a loving father who travelled for his work, and a cruel step-mother who abused her.  This made her even stronger, having to leave home at the age of 14 in a time of war, and then facing the chaos that ensued.

Ursula eventually met Fritz on a farm in Germany.  It was love at first sight and it lasted till the end.  They married in 1953.  In 1954 Ursula and Fritz embarked on their adventurous journey to Canada to start a life after having lost everything in the war.  Ursula and Fritz were always grateful for that opportunity and proudly became Canadian citizens.  They worked hard to build up a life from scratch and assimilate in a new country, have a family and live according to a strong moral compass with faith, honesty and simplicity within their means.

Oma's strength was ever present as she endured many more hardships.  She lost the love of her life, her beloved husband Fritz, in 2008 after 55 years of marriage.  Oma also had to experience what every parent fears the most - the tragic loss of her dear son Marty in 2015 at the age of 57.  Grave illnesses didn't stop Oma as she found a way to bounce back from a massive stroke, two bouts of breast cancer in her older years, while coping with the confusion of dementia. 

Yet, she had no problem to maintain that she was always blessed and had a 'vunderfull life'.  

Oma has always been known for her cheerful personality, helping those in need, standing up for what was right, always thinking positive, and treating others as she would want to be treated herself.  She loved to laugh and be laughed at.  She was spirited and spiritual, with the highest respect for God.  This respect transcended towards advocating for peace, equality and respect for all humans, nature and creatures big and small.  Oma was thankful every day of her life, optimistic almost to a fault.  Even when she was ill, she would respond that she was 'perfect' or '100%', leaving care workers guessing.  Her years living in the retirement home, followed by the nursing home, allowed her to receive the best treatment from the staff because she was so likeable, pleasant and appreciative.  Her stories, that always reverted to Family, were much loved.  

Ursula leaves behind her late son Marty's family: his wife Caroline, his children Martin (Tamara), Frances, Jason and great grandchild Kaia, as well as Ursula's daughter Ingrid and family: her husband Richard, her children Erik (Pradha), Tanya (Michael), Steffi, Richard's children Ian (Hayley) and Dana (Dan) with children Ainsley, Mackenzie and River, as well as Heiko and the Leers/Kahmann family.  She also leaves behind her nephew Juergen and his family in Breisach, as well as the relatives from the Kessler families in Germany. 

Our dear Mother Bear and Oma will be missed greatly by so many.  May she rest in peace as she follows the beam of light on the other side to be with Fritz, Marty, the mother she never knew (Luise Hiller), her father (Richard Langer), her brother Wolfgang, her music and laughter. 
God Bless You Oma!
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