If you were here I would bake your Cherry Cheese. We miss you so much Wish you could visit for a little while. Love you Vance
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Vance Hess, 52, born on January 20, 1959 and passed away on February 6, 2011. We will remember him forever.
Vance was my pride and joy. He gave his all helping other and making them happy.
We shared a lot of things together. We love to play golf,meet to watch football and just hang out..
I will always miss him and part of my heart left when Vance left. I was not ready for him to leave but I had no choice
I Love you Vance..
Tributes
Leave a tributeIf you were here I would bake your Cherry Cheese. We miss you so much Wish you could visit for a little while. Love you Vance
We sure do miss you. Love you
Vance you are so loved and missed. Wayne and his wife came and had Your dads Great Grandson. Jackson is the cuties little guy. He is so big and strong for his age. Miss you Vance and you are loved
Happy Birthday
I thought of you and almost made a cheesecake for you.
We love and miss you Vance
Happy Thanksgiving Vance. We have been thinking of you during the holidays. We love and miss you Vance think of you everyday. Love you
Today is your birthday. I will be making a cheesecake for your birthday Wish you were here to help eat it. We miss you and love you Vance
Your dad and I miss you so much. We lost you too soon We love you my som
I wanted to tell you how much we miss you we Love and miss you. Our lives will never be the same without you.
I wanted to say Happy birthday. You always wanted me to bake you a cheese cake. I wish I could bake you a cake today. We love and miss you Vance Happy Happy Birthday
We love you and miss your wild and practical perspectives.
Love Sis & Family
I am having coffee and thought of the times we went and had drinks. We had a lot of fun.
Love you
Its been three years the 8th of Feb but it seems like yesterday. Your birthday is today but your true birthday was when you went home to be with God. Happy birthday my son Vance. Your Dad and I miss you so much. We love you.
It will soon be 3 years since you left us. Your Dad and I miss you and love you very much. We wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving
Leave a Tribute
If you were here I would bake your Cherry Cheese. We miss you so much Wish you could visit for a little while. Love you Vance
We sure do miss you. Love you
MY BROTHER, MY FRIEND
I would like to leave this story as a reminder to us all, mostly myself that life is precious and life is worth living fully every single day. On February 6, 2011, I lost my friend, my mentor, my critic, my brother. Vance was the world to me. I didn't always make him happy, but he was certainly proud I was his little sister. I share with my husband stories of our younger years and years not so long ago when Vance had to be that big brother even when I was in my early 40's. I sat with my son, who to Vance was so very special, from the moment Wayne was born, Vance asked me on the day he was born, how anyone could fall in love with someone after knowing them only seconds, as he did with Wayne. He and Wayne had the very deepest respect for each other as men and a great love between them. Wayne had just come from visiting his dear friends, visiting them at the hospital after giving birth to twins on February 6. Wayne was showing me the picture of his friend holding one baby and Wayne holding the other and a wave of deep emotion came over me as Wayne told me how very perfect this new little baby boy and new little baby girl was. He said "Mom, how weird that I was coming through Grants Pass today to see you and it just so happened to be the day Katy gave birth to the most perfect twins and I got to hold them" and I said and yes it is also the day your uncle left us. I said how very perfect that on this day it would take 2 perfect babies one girl and one boy to come into your life on the day your uncle left ours. Wayne said, wow mom that is amazing how all of that comes together and yes it is. So as a memorial to my brother I can only say as I sit so often crying missing him and needing his guideance and love, I have to remember there is a natural process of evolution and it must be the way it is and there are reasons we may not understand but maybe we are not supposed to. I miss my brother every moment of every day but I hold him and his every memory in my heart and soul. I love you Vance.