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This lifetime memorial website in honour of Mrs Vicky Addai-Diawuo (nee Baah) has been created at https://www.forevermissed.com/vicky-addai-diawuo/#about.
Vicky was called home to be with her Lord and Maker on Wednesday September 26, 2018 at St. Thomas’s Hospital in London, UK.
Indeed Vicky was a blessed child of God, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, auntie, cousin and niece; a loyal family woman; a true lovely friend, work colleague, prayer warrior and a joyful companion to know.
The Justgiving weblink set up for kind donations in support of Vicky’s chosen charities GHAFES, Scripture Union (Ghana), Renew West Africa (Ghana, Togo, Ivory Coast and Hornchurch Baptist Church (UK) raised well over the £3000 target, thanks to the kindness and generosity of friends, family, colleagues and loved ones.
https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/vicky-addai-diawuo?utm_term=DV52Db4kG


Vicky was buried on Friday October 19 2018 at the UPMINSTER CEMETERY, Ockendon Rd, Upminster RM14 2UY. The Committal service which started at 1245 pm was also marked with a lovely time and spontaneous celebratory atmosphere at the graveside “Singspiration”

DRESS CODE: Black & White (where possible)

Details of The Service of Celebration were as follows:

Date: Friday 19 October 2018

Time: 10am prompt.

Venue: ROMFORD BAPTIST CHURCH, MAIN ROAD, LONDON, RM1 3BL, UK

The Service of Thanksgiving followed, at 1:30pm in the ROMFORD BAPTIST CHURCH HALL, with music, tributes and refreshments UNTIL 4PM. Clearing up and shutting RBC was completed by 5pm.

The traditional Ghanaian “one week celebration” took place at Vicky's family home in Hornchurch on Saturday 6th October 2018 from 4pm- 10pm in a lovely atmosphere, listening to some of Vicky’s favourite Christian inspirational songs in the pleasant company of the many well wishers.

Many thanks to all friends, loved ones, church family, neighbours, work colleagues, and acquaintances who were able to come in their numbers to mourn with Vicky’s entire family. 

“Indeed, The Lord turns our sorrow into joy as we gratefully receive His strength for each day”


October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
It was with great sadness that I heard of your passing, but I know that you have gone to be with Christ. I am reminded of Philippians 1:21-22 and know that you are enjoying the many eternal blessings in heaven that you built up faithfully following Jesus. You are deeply missed.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF MRS VICKY AMA ADDAI-DIAWUO
                  BY APOSTLE JUDE HAMA
(Former Senior GHAFES Staff & General Director/CEO Scripture Union Ghana)

“Absent from the body, present with the Lord!” is a Bible text that assures me of where a loved one like Vicky is after going through the portals/gate of death into eternity. Our beloved Vicky is present with the Lord – perfectly free at last: free from the presence of evil and sin, free from sickness and disease; free from pain and decay. She is now sharing the most comfortable company of Christ Jesus – her Saviour and Lord in Heaven! Yes, Vicky has taken the lead to perfect bliss and peace!!
On my first GHAFES ministry trip to Britain, about 30 years ago, and while in London, Vicky went with me to STL – Christian Publishers, in Sussex to look for books for the students ministry back in Ghana. That was followed by numerous practical services and support for me as GHAFES staff. And for twenty years as CEO of Scripture Union, Ghana (1990-2010) Vicky was to us a queen of Christian hospitality when we were in London. Infact Vicky and her beloved husband Akwasi ran a Ghana Missionary home in London. Their two daughters lost count of the many Christian uncles & aunts from Ghana they hosted in their home.
Each of my visits with Vicky and Akwasi were unique. A few stand out in my memory. It was the year 1994; I was on visit to Britain with my wife Judith to attend Scripture Union International Leaders Conference in Northampton. While in the conference, Judith went to see Dr Felix Konotey Ahulu at Cromwell Hospital, London. Dr Konotey Ahulu  rang me the following day and quipped, “Judith had a challenge that landed her on admission in Korle Bu Hospital earlier in the year … on my medical review, she would not survive another bleeding. She needs immediate gynaecology surgery”. We needed to think about funds and a host in London. Vicky and Akwasi without hesitation agreed to host us and in a few days drove us to the London Royal Hospital for surgery. That medical intervention was successful, Thank you Vicky.
Thank you Vicky for the evenings we had together on my visits to London on news update, prayer, and project visions and dreams for the years ahead. Vicky, you loved Christ genuinely and served Him and the brethren. The “Chrife” brothers and sisters celebrate your love for Christ and for the brethren. We will miss you greatly. Beloved Sister, enjoy your well-deserved rest in Christ our Lord. Rest in Perfect peace!! Amen.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
A week has gone since your death, Aunty. This still seems unreal. As I sit and reflect your life, I'm thankful to God for the life you lived, I'm thankful to God for the lives you impacted, I'm thankful God for your honesty and all the encouraging words you gave to me. You will truly be missed.

May God strengthen all the family as well as friends. May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding rest upon each of us as we grieve.

John 14.27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give to you. Not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your hearts be troubled, neither let them be afraid.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
VICKY was compassionate,truly loving,caring,kind and affable.She was amazingly intelligent,well mannered and extremely friendly. Friends /family and workmates close to her benefited greatly from these attributes and we are proud and feel privileged to have known her.
Time is too slow for those who wait
Too swift for those who fear,
Too long for those who grieve,
Too short for those who rejoice,
But for those who love,time is eternity.
May her soul rest in eternal peace.
I will miss you.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
My family and I first met vicky and husband Akwasi when we went to Hornchurch Baptist church In 2011. Our friendship developed over the years and they both became a great influence in our lives and also in our Christian faith.

Vicky was such a great friend , very caring , sincere in her love and wise .
She was a prayer warrior, full of the Holy Spirit and always there for us as a family .

One of the last scripture we share together was this ;

But for you who fear my name, the sun of righteousness shall rise with healing in its wings. You shall go out leaping like calves from the stall. - Malachi 4:2
     To which we both said Amen .

Well vicky you are certainly in a better place now , dancing in the presence of your saviour in glory .

vicky we will always remember you, we thank Jesus for the many blessings of having shared friendship and fellowship with you ,Goodbye for now ..
Until we meet again in eternity .

Our prayers and thoughts are with you Akwasi and the family , may you find comfort In the arms of the Father .
With love
Sanjeev, sandrine
Mimi and Shayan.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on. Yes, says the spirit they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them. (Rev. 14: 13)
Vicky, many have gathered to mourn your transition to a better place prepared for you by the Lord. The news of your passing away was a blow because we were together a few weeks ago in Ghana. Little did we know you visited to say good bye to us.
You were a true friend. You opened your home anytime we visited the United Kingdom. Amazing Grace School in Ghana is grateful for your contributions and sponsorship of some of our students. You loved to see the students get proper education and so you and Akwasi visited the school and promised your continuous support. We love you and cherished our times together.
We know the God we serve knows better and everything He does is good. Fair thee well our dear sister. May you rest in the bosom of our maker. We will surely meet again in eternity.
REST IN PEACE, VICKY
DA YIE.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
Tribute to A Dear Sister Vicky Julia Ama Addai-Diawuo

My first time of meeting Vicky was when in 1986 our two families coincidentally moved to the United Kingdom, we from Liberia and the Addai-Diawuos from Sierra Leone both countries in West Africa. I was immediately impressed by her quiet spirit, humour, energy and ready smile. As I got to know her better, I realized that Vicky was a committed Christian, who loved to pray, had great faith and loved Jesus passionately. She together with her husband Akwasi would often take the initiative or seize any opportunity to serve the cause of Christ and make Him known. Our two families were linked in a very close way by our Christian faith, background, similar circumstances, mutual friends and our commitment to provide leadership to the Ghana Fellowship of Evangelical Students Associates in the United Kingdom. Accordingly, we met quite often at Christian fellowship meetings and socially. Through our interactions, I observed that in addition to the above mentioned qualities, Vicky was also a very loving and a generous person who provided hospitality to all and sundry in their home, this she did together with her wonderful, indefatigable and affable husband. I often stayed with them during my recent visits to London, and I will like to testify that very few of us Christians, can make so many people feel so much at home in our houses.
Vicky would be sorely missed and our consolation is that she is better off in heaven where she belongs rather than on earth.
Then I heard a voice from heaven say, “Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.”
“Yes,” says the Spirit, “they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them.” Revelation 14:13 NIV
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
My heart bleeds with sadness and deep grief on reading from my emailsthis morning at 5.00 am Wed. 4 October, the passing on of MRS VICKY ADDAI-DIAWUO.
We first met in the mid eighties on the compound of our newly refurbished (at the time) state of the art flats in Clapton Square, Hackney . Vicky was with Mr Akwesi Addai-Diawuo who called m,. at first I could not recognise him but once he introduced himself and Mrs Vicky Addai-Diawuo to me, I connected with them. Mr Addai-Diawuo and I were at University of Ghana, Legon, finishing this same year.
Our families had moved to the beautiful flats so we were neighbours. We started bonding and exchanged visits during our children's birthdays. As couples, we both had two daughters.
Vicky was such a beautiful and gregarious lady, a nice person to be with, always smiling when she saw you, she greeted you with grace and paused for a little chat even when she was in a rush. Her social skills were exemplary when she was in a circle of friends. In hosting, she made sure that everybody felt comfortable around her.
She always laughed softly with a gentle tease at me whenever we shared intellectual discussions expressing her views so articulately and with confidence.
Vicky was a devoted Christian and highly spiritual, sharing her faith with other Christian fellows.
I always cherished her company particularly when she spoke the Ga language or Akwapim Twi with me.
MRS VICKY ADDAI-DIAWUO has entered the Kingdom of her Maker, where there is no pain, sorow or grief.
Vicky as we say in Ga, 'Wor Dzogann ye Nuntsor le mli' - Rest in Perfect Peace in the Lord, and Rise in Glory
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
I remember the prayer that you prayed at church a couple of weeks ago Akwasi, among other things, thanking God for our friends. I want to thank God for giving me the privilege of knowing you and Vicky as my friends. Not only that but also being part of your house group and sharing fellowship through prayer, bible study, sharing testimonies, drinking cups of tea and eating chocolate. I was very shocked and sad to hear of Vicky's passing. One thing I can take comfort in is remembering how you and Vicky visited my Mum a number of times in hospital when she was very ill, and when we all prayed together. Vicky is now in heaven with my dear Mum and I am sure that along with worshipping God they are also having cups of tea and lots of chocolate together. I continue to pray for you Akwasi, as well as your daughters, your grandchildren, and your wider family. I also thank God for my friends and my family XXXX
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
The last thing I expected to hear was news of your passing Vicky. We’d spoken in late July when we discussed our summer annual leave and arranged to meet again in September for a team briefing and plans for the future.
Sadly, that meeting was never to happen.
I have worked with you for over 25 years; 18 of which you were my manager. I am honoured to be able to say that I have spent the last 18 years being instructed, mentored and guided by you. Vicky, you were not only a fantastically, hard working person but also a great teacher and a exceptional leader. You were always calm and had a no nonsense approach, which was also accompanied with an abundance of empathy and understanding of others. You always saw the potential in others and had a very unique way of getting them to demonstrate it. You would always encourage me to take on new challenges and supported and nurtured me through my work challenges, personal hurdles and never forgot to pass on words of encouragement to my children as they grew up. We grew close, worked well together, laughed together, never had a crossed words and in all the years, never heard you raise your voice. I trusted and appreciated your words of encouragement. I’m proud to say that you taught me well and I love and appreciate the 18+ years we worked directly together.
Vicky, you are highly respected by all who were fortunate enough to work with you and you will be sorely missed. 
My prayers and condolences go out to you and your family and my thoughts will continuously be with you. No more suffering Vicky. May you Rest in Eternal Peace.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
We were shocked to hear the death of our loving
Vicky.We all remember the happy times we enjoyed together.Accept our most sincere sympathy and condolence.We truly hope that your memories of your happier moments will ease your pains.I thank you for leading me to accept Jesus as my Saviour.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
On behalf of the entire committee of Renew West Africa (UK and West Africa) I, Regional Coordinator of RWA present our sincere condoleances to the family. Sister Vicky who until her death was a prominent and active member of RWA became the great source of blessing to the board in UK and to the four countries in West Africa.(Ghana, Togo, Ivory Coast and Mali). She welcomed our team and took part of the meeting recently held in their home. Her last services testified and complete her Christ-like life and ministry.
May your soul rest perfectly in the bossom of our Maker.
May the Peace of our Lord Jesus-Christ continually dwell in the heart of Mr Akwasi (husband) and children.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Daddy, we stand by you in such a difficult moment. It came to me this morning as a surprise when my colleague Comfort Takyi broke the news to me. May the good Lord comfort you and the family. May He continue to fill the gaps that mummy's absence creates. may her soul rest in peace!!
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Men’s best epitaphs are not written on monuments built with stones and mortar nor of bronze but those written on the tablets of people’s hearts with the indelible ink of good deeds.
Vick, your smiles, your good natured spirit and attitude of making everyone happy and comfortable whom you ever came into contact with are attributes which shall forever remain in our hearts in memory of you.
Farewell and rest in the bosom of the Lord.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Mama Vicky da yie; dada Akwasi, the Lord be with you and keep you; sisters, nieces and nephews, the Lord be a replacement for you. Take care and remain blessed.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
There is so much I could say about Vicky, so many wonderful qualities, from her professionalism to her humility, her godliness to her warrior prayers.
I am so grateful for her allowing both our boys to experience the world of work as teenagers, for her words of prophecy over our daughter, for her encouragement & her humour too.
She will be sadly missed by many, many people from various different walks of life, another testament to her incredible gifts, talents & ministries.
I am thankful to have known her for a relatively short time here on earth, but even more grateful to God that she is now with Him, she has her new name, she has run the race so faithfully & we will meet again in eternity.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Vicky was (it really hurts to refer to her in the past) a model Christian and a role model for all. Her departure has left a big void in the lives if many, especially for Hornchurch Baptist Church, RWA and most importantly Akwasi and the children and grand children. I remember very well when we moved to Hornchurch and met Vicky and Akwasi at HBC and how they made us welcome and feel at home. I have personally benefited from small talks after church most of which have been very useful for my personal growth. We owe a big debt of gratitude to Vicky and we will miss her a lot. To quote 2 4:7, Vicky has fought a good fight and has finished the race and has kept the faith. Now there is in store for her the crown of righteousness which the Lord .... will award to her on that day. I have no doubt that Vicky will be sitting on the right side of the almighty. It has been a privilege to know Vicky. May her soul rest in perfect peace.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Dear Vicky,
I want to say thank you for the contribution you have made at Hornchurch Baptist Church and to the lives you have touched. I want to thank you for the advice that you given me. May your soul rest in peace.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Vicky, you have always been a source of light, warmth and laughter. You have blessed my life in lots of ways. God Bless You.
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Brother Akwasi,
This is JAM and his family. We're truly heartbroken hearing of the passing of your sweet-heart and best friend Vicky. "What, then, shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us?" May the Father of Comfort wipe away all your tears and those of your children, as you mourn the passing of a wonderful human being, like Vicky. Peace, my Brother!
October 2, 2018
October 2, 2018
Vicky, your loss is unbelievably hard, your presence, your love, your support, and your prayers enriched my life and ministry. I cannot yet grasp just how much I will miss your valued ministry in Christ, but I know it will be immense.
Thank you so very much for all your love and support for me. You were such an encourager, and I remember so many times when you sent a word at just the right time, discerned by God and followed through in obedience.
For the four years of my ministry here you've been there, I will miss you so very much. 
You were selfless, humble, powerfully prayerful, insightful, encouraging, supportive, and a true friend. I mourn, but hold onto the fact that one day we will meet again, and that is due to the saving and precious blood of our Lord Jesus Christ. You are now restored, whole and rejoicing, and wear your crown of life, and for that I truly give thanks. Humanly, we grieve, for your passing leaves a huge hole in all our lives.
Thank you my dear and precious sister, for all you were and all you still are! One day I will stand beside you worshipping our dearest Lord and Saviour. I anticipate that day...
Rev 3: 5: 'The one who is victorious will, like them, be dressed in white. I will never blot out the name of that person from the book of life, but will acknowledge that name before my Father and his angels.'
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Vicky, a woman of integrity & excellence. The wonderful memories of our days in Aburi Girls are treasured ones. You always had a way of making us break out in laughter. Prayerful, an encourager & full of wisdom. You will be greatly missed but the good memories we have of you will bring healing to our aching hearts. Another door opened to usher you into the presence of the One who gave it all for u. Now you are enjoying His love. We shall meet again and laugh forever. You will be forever in my heart. May your sweet gentle soul RIP.
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Vicky if someone had to describe you so many words comes to mind God fearing, prayer warrior etc. I remember the chats we usually have after church. Sleep well dear friend.
Isaiah 57 vs 1-2 The righteous perish, and no one takes it to heart the devout are taken away and no one understands that the righteous are taken away to be spared from evil. Those who walk up rightly enter into peace they find rest as they lie in death.
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Vicky was kind, generous, always ready to give advice or listen but above all, she was God-fearing. She will be sorely missed. We mourn her passing but rejoice that she is resting in our Lord. We celebrate because we know we shall see her again. Till we meet again Vicky, to part no more.
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Tribute from RWA By DR SOWAH ADJEI

Simply trusting every day,
Trusting through a stormy way;
Even when my faith is small,
Trusting Jesus, that is all.
Trusting as the moments fly,
Trusting as the days go by;
Trusting Him whate’er befall,
Trusting Jesus, that is all.
Singing if my way is clear,
Praying if the path be drear;
If in danger for Him call;
Trusting Jesus, that is all.
Trusting Him while life shall last,
Trusting Him till earth be past;
Till within the jasper wall,
Trusting Jesus, that is all.
Edgar P. Stites, 1876
Ira D. Sankey, 1876
John 14:1; Psalm 37:5
I have known Vicky for only five years, from the time of forming the UK Committee of Renew West Africa (RWA), until her Call to Glory.
From the beginning, two things made an immediate and lasting impression on me; one was her intellectually-sharp mind, and the other was her modesty. During difficult and intricate discussions, she was always able to analyse and produce easy-to-grasp summaries of the salient points, and also to come to sensible and workable conclusions/solutions. And she always did this, being careful to consider the opinions, and possible reactions, of the rest of the committee members and our associates in West Africa.
But the most remarkable thing I found about her, was her faith in Christ, and the outworking of that faith in everything she said and did. Travelling from Hornchurch to Devon for meetings, though not easy nor comfortable for her, she nevertheless undertook these journeys because of her deep concern for, and commitment to the ministry we have been given the privilege to partake in. At our last meeting, in their home on the 22nd of September, when she was very ill and in considerable discomfort, she nonetheless came down to join in the meeting, and when things proved rather challenging for her, she removed herself to the next room so she could rest, but stayed close enough so that she could keep abreast with our discussions and partake in the conclusions. Vicky served her Master, Jesus, till the very end. We are thankful to the Lord for the great fellowship we had with Vicky, especially at RWA.
Christ had suffered and died for her, so that she could have assurance of eternity with her Lord. That being the fact, nothing was too much to undertake or give in return for Christ’s sacrifice for her.
Trusting Jesus was all that mattered for her. And that is the legacy she has left for us.
SOWAH ADJEI Chair
On behalf of the UK Committee and the Friends of Renew West Africa
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Vicky was a very dear friend who, with Akwasi, introduced my late husband, John, to Ghana, which he subsequently visited many times. From this developed the work which led to “Renew West Africa” projects, now in four West African countries.
Vicky and Akwasi also supported us through many ups and downs and could always be relied upon for prayer support. Vicky’s deeply spiritual prayers coming from her unshakeable faith, wisdom and clear sightedness will always be a precious memory. What a privilege to be part of Vicky’s life in her family, church, small group and outreach and I’m so grateful for having known her.
She is greatly missed but our loss is heaven’s gain – enjoy the party Vicky!
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Vicky,

You were beautiful, patient, gentle, kind, generous, encouraging, unwavering, confidential, forgiving, selfless, humorous, counsellor and a true dear friend. 
You touched so many people in your short life here on earth, your prayers changed lives and the course of history.
A privilege to have shared tears and laughter with you my dear friend. Life will not be the same without you, you will never ever be forgotten.
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
You've been welcomed yonder as a hero, Vicky. To us here we grieve your departure, just because you'll be missed, more by your family, friends, and loved ones like us. Your call has reminded us that as you are now so will we be. We are only jealous that you're happy without us. Adieu.
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Dear Vic Julie, you've taken the lead to eternity and I miss you so much.
Your warm voice still rings in my ears. I'll always remember you for your deep spiritual impact in my life, your kind and generous spirit, your humor and that characteristic spring in your step.
You're now free to frolic. Heaven's humor has gone up another notch with you there. Till we meet again, it's bye for now.
October 1, 2018
October 1, 2018
Dear Vicky, you and Akwasi are a great couple always open to lend a hand to those who need it. I’m very fortunate to have known you, as a sister in Christ , my adviser, Teacher, friend, you are loving and caring down to earth child of God. It is so sad for the family and friends you left behind but no more pain for you. You are now safe in the hand of your Lord.
I’ll missed our coffee time together ☕️ and a chat. You will always be in my heart ❣ until we meet again.
With much love
Amie & Zac xxx
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
To the Diawuo family, please be encouraged by the truth that Vicky has been a gift from God to you specifically and the world generally; it is also true that you will see her one day in glory. 
1 Corinthians 15:51-58 English Standard Version (ESV)
51 Behold! I tell you a mystery. We shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, 52 in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trumpet. For the trumpet will sound, and the dead will be raised imperishable, and we shall be changed. 53 For this perishable body must put on the imperishable, and this mortal body must put on immortality. 54 When the perishable puts on the imperishable, and the mortal puts on immortality, then shall come to pass the saying that is written:
“Death is swallowed up in victory.”
55 “O death, where is your victory?
  O death, where is your sting?”
56 The sting of death is sin, and the power of sin is the law. 57 But thanks be to God, who gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
58 Therefore, my beloved brothers, be steadfast, immovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, knowing that in the Lord your labor is not in vain.
The God of all comforts understands your sense of lose on this side of eternity and will comfort you.
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
The Dove

MHB 427
Through all the changing scenes of life,
In trouble and in joy,
The praises of my God shall still
My heart and tongue employ.

Of His deliverance I will boast
Till all that are distressed
From my example comfort take
And charm their griefs to rest.


No No No, Jesus, Aunty Vicky!
These were the words that escaped my lips when I heard of your unexpected departure. Oh Aunty Vicky, I remember how Mum would encourage us to learn from you and take God and SU seriously. She prided herself on having you as her sister, friend and age mate. She would tell us stories of your kind and calm nature, and how you both shared the same bed while growing up. She called you a woman of peace. Mum’s heart is deeply broken but she takes consolation in the fact that you are in a better place. You were that epitome of stewardship, purity, peace and great godliness that we all emulated. I am so glad that I got to see you one last time in Ghana. What a way to say good bye Aunty! Your departure though painful was clothed in peace. I remember your smile while Iheld on to your palm- so full of grace. You left us with so much kindness during your last visit. God bless you Aunty. We will cherish your memories forever. Fare thee well, Milady, till we meet again in heavenly places. I love you.

Damirifa Due.
Due ne amanehunu, Aunty Vicky.
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
Vicky Im so grateful to have meet you, Akwasi and the family. You are an amazing woman who always there for all of us with a wonderful piece of advice, and your prayers always touched by so many people in Hornchurch Baptist Church, Especially grateful for your prayer on my special wedding day. You will be forever in my heart Vicky xx
God Bless
Grace x
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
I met Vikki at Hornchurch Baptist Church where we became good friends. Since moving we shared long telephone conversations which always ended with prayer. I am grateful to have been in touch recently but will miss the chats and prayer times we shared. Vikki was kind, loving, prayerful and a great friend.
Helen

Vicky was a genuinely delightful woman and I hold not only sadness at her passing but also sincere and profound gratitude for the kindness, acceptance and warm friendship we have shared over the years. Vicky was generous in nature and godly in character. It is truly a great honour to have known you Vicky and I thank God for it.
Much love
Michael.
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
To be associated with someone who is a child of God indeed is the most pleasant experience on earth. Vicky, you were full of the life of Christ in many ways , hence highly inspiring. It was hard to believe that after the memorable holy communion we shared on Saturday, your great and impactful work on earth was only few hours from coming to a glorious end.
Our hearts are heavy as your departure, to me, was sudden and unexpected. Whilst you were here, you radiated with the beauty of God in many ways. It will be hard to forget your rich, insightful and wise contributions at the Trustee Board of RWA where we served together. The Lord blessed many of us through your ministry - this is our consolation. We will forever miss you!
As you fondly prayed, we desire the Lord's 'strength for the day' and infact for all the remaining days of our own lives here on earth. Strength, especially for our brother Akwasi, who would now have to live without the precious wife you had been to him. Forever missed!
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
To Akwasi
***
May knowing you're
in the hearts and thoughts of others
help you and yours
through this time of sorrow.
 
***
Although no words can really help to ease the loss you bear,
 just know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.
 
***
The sorrow of the faithful
is not that of permanent loss,
but the tender sense of sadness
that comes in saying good-bye for now
to someone we love.
May today's sorrow give way
to the peace and
comfort of God's love.
 
***
Extending deepest sympathy
And hoping, too,
That comfort and peace
May come to you.
 
***
Praying for people to comfort you,
faith to uphold you,
and loving memories
to help you smile again.
 
***
 At this time of sorrow,
may these truths sustain you...
Your loved one will always
be as close as a memory, 
and the God of all comfort
will always be as
close as a prayer.
may these truths sustain you...
Your loved one will always
be as close as a memory,
and the God of all comfort
will always be as
close as a prayer.
 
***
There are no goodbyes for us.
Wherever you are, you
will always be in my heart
Love always
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
Vicky my sister in Christ my mentor my prayer partner my friend and encourager we will greatly miss you.
I can’t believe that you are gone ( I keep hoping that I will wake up and it was a horrible dream) you have been a huge part of my walk with the Lord since I came to HCBC always ready to pray and encourage us. Your kindness and love for others cannot be equal here on earth I remember a time when anxiety overtook me and my daughter and you and Akwasi was there to pray and help us through. I know that you are with the Lord now you have finish your work here and have gone back home to be in the tender arms of Jesus. Rest in peace my beautiful sis x
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
Vicky was a wonderful person - she always had time for everyone, especially those in need. She helped so many people with her love, her care, her wise advice and her prayers. She touched so many people's lives and will be greatly missed.
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
Vicky you will be sadly missed but not be forgotten. Vicky was wonderful person. Your memory is in my keepsake which we will never part. God has you in his keeping and I have you in my heart. May your soul rest in eternal peace. June T
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
I am still in shambles as I stare at your measurements I took of you recently. The beautiful comments you passed concerning the clothes I made for you. I am so glad that I was able to hug you and have a beautiful time with you before you passed on. I pray for a peaceful rest for you. Above all, I pray for strength for my cousins and us all. Till we meet again, Damirifa due Auntie Vicky.
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
Vicky you were a beautiful soul you will be greatly missed but not forgotten. I will always remember that special smile, that warm embrace you always gave. You were a beautiful woman with a golden heart. We will cherish our memories of you. MaryG
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
Aunty Vicky, your earthĺy task is done.
You fought a good fight. We rest in the hope you are in the bossom of the Heavenly Father.
Rest in Perfect Peace.
Da Yie!
September 30, 2018
September 30, 2018
My dear Vicky it was a big blow to learn that you have passed on. I couldn't believe it because you looked young and healthy at our last meeting and that is the thoughts I have of you and not your passing. Joyce and I cherish the sweet fellowship we shared together. We shall greatly miss you our dear Vicky. May the good Lord keep you till we meet again. Kwasi we pray for the strength for you to endure
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
Oh Vicky! We were planning to meet on your return from Ghana. Your passing creates a deep void and sadness within us. You were a treasure and a dear friend. We look back and appreciate the wonderful happy times we shared with you and Akwasi, the children and the grandchildren - the joyful times we spent in each other's homes as cherished nearby neighbours with whom we had so much in common. We miss you deeply already: your company, friendship and fellowship. May our good Lord hold you and keep you....till we meet again.
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
May your kind soul rest in perfect peace Vicky. I'm so glad to have met you in London just a year ago. Even though it was a brief encounter, I was struck by your warmth and fun loving nature. May the good Lord keep you in His bosom till we meet again.
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
Kind gentle woman of God. Your warmth and kindness will live on, as will our memories of you. Now living with the Saviour you served so faithfully. God bless you for the impact you have had on so many lives.
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
Vicky was a wonderful friend: wise, kind, generous in everything and, at times, very funny. Her life was a gift to all of us who knew her and we feel her loss so deeply. Always ready to pray in a beautiful and meaningful way and to share what God was doing in her life, her faith was unwavering.
As Vicky so often prayed for others - may Akwasi and all the family know God’s presence in a very special way.
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
Dearest cuz Vicky. We both live in London but somehow we never spent quality time together. I have always had in mind that you were ok so we will catch up at an opportune time. That time has been robbed by death. Rest peacefully until we meet again.
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
My dear cousin, May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
September 29, 2018
September 29, 2018
It was a joy and a privilege to know you Vicky. What an amazing woman of God you are. His rivers ran deep in you and your compassion for others was there for all to see. I say ‘are’ because you have not died but passed into the closer presence of our Father and we have the hope to see you again one day. Akwasi and family - you are in our prayers.May you know the Father’s love and compassion for you every day.
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October 13, 2023
October 13, 2023
Vicky, I am missing you. The difference you made to my life was so remarkable. Unknowingly, you taught me some lessons which are continuing to help me to navigate situations and make decisions. Thank you.. Continue to rest in peace.
October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
I can't believe that it's now five years since you left us and went to join the party in Heaven. I miss you lots and especially the times I shared at house group with you, Akwasi and other dear friends from HBC.

I thank you once again for all the prayers that you prayed for myself and my family. 
We are all doing well and I feel very blessed by God's incredible love.

Carry on resting in the perfect peace that transcends all understanding. I remember you saying 'don't be anxious about anything, but pray about everything!'

God bless Vicky 

October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
Precious memories of Vicky and love and prayers to Akwasi and all the family. May God bless you daily with His peace and continual signs of His grace in the Lord Jesus.
Her Life
October 22, 2018

By Akwasi Addai-Diawuo

BIOGRAPHY (October 11 1958-September 26 2018)

Vicky was born at the Princess Mary Maternity Hospital in Jesmond, Newcastle upon Tyne, in the district of Victoria, to Mr Emmanuel (Yaw) Baah and Mrs Mary Julia Baah (nee Nyampong). Family legend has it that Vicky was a fascinating baby, with unusually thick, dark kinky hair which became a spectacle for the nurses, doctors and the local Geordie community who often asked to touch and feel it. It is a wonder why her student parents did not charge for the privilege to touch little Queen Victoria’s hair. In 1992 when Vicky gave her reluctant aging parents a first class train journey to revisit their past, they only brightened up on arrival at 1 Eslington Terrace. Invigorated, by the fond shared memories they started claiming ownership of a house, pointing to areas of the street where Mummy frequently plied every morning with baby Vicky in her huge pram. Vicky’s Daddy who was a student of Town Planning and Landscape Architecture even offered the residents some gardening advice as we watched and listened listened gleefully.

Vicky as a child accompanied her pioneering, professional post-colonial Civil servant parents as they were posted from town to town across the length of Ghana from Kumasi -Tamale-Koforidua-Kumasi-Accra

Vicky attended a number of Primary Schools when the family returned from the UK namely, Garrison Preparatory School in Kumasi, Koforidua Experimental School and State Experimental School at Nhyieso in Kumasi until September 1970 when she became a member of the Ninos of Aburi Girls 70.

She studied for her GCE O’ and A’Levels from 1970 to 1978 at Aburi Girls’ Secondary with a year of intercalation. The 1975 Class of Aburi Old Girls Association fondly remember Vicky as the witty, intelligent, funny and mischievous baby of the cohort. Although she was among the youngest in her cohort Vicky showed recognisable leadership skills that earned her a place as one of the 10 Dormitory Prefects “to look after” Form One students at “Metico”, the student residence located away from the main school campus. Some of the highlights of Vicky’s student life at Aburi Girls relate to her jovial and affable personality and her famous Uncle on the teaching staff.

In 1978 Vicky enrolled at the Advanced Teacher Training College, now University of Education in Winneba. She often recounted amusing experiences of being pampered, fussed over or even receiving privileges from course mates, “mature students” and lecturers. This was because Vicky was the youngest and the only female Science student in her College class. After qualification in August 1981 Vicky started her first teaching appointment at Ghana Secondary School, Koforidua, where she taught Biology and General Science for two years. On August 7 1982 Vicky and Akwasi got married at the Legon Hall Chapel, University of Ghana, after seven years of dating and courtship. Vicky was blessed with two lovely daughters and three amazing grandchildren.

In June 1992 Vicky qualified as an Accounting Technician after part time studies at Waltham Forest and Havering Colleges. She also completed the Professional Diploma in Management with The Open University.

Vicky’s teaching career was further enriched when from September 1983 to 1984 she taught Biology and Chemistry at the Njala University Secondary School in Sierra Leone. It was here that Vicky often hosted 10 young Namibian refugee students to meals and games in her home. The students’ pet name for Vicky was “Anopheles”. She moved to Freetown at the end of the academic year to teach at the elite Bertha Conton School, before leaving for the UK. In June 1985 she had taster day at the Clapton Girls School in Hackney whilst considering a teaching career in the UK. She was so decisive at the end of her experience on the day that pursuing a teaching career in the UK was definitely not her for her.

Vicky’s career route changed completely when in March 1986 she started as Administrative Officer at the Department of Social Security in Hackney, a strategic move which turned out to be the bedrock of her career progression. She moved to the Housing Benefits sector from March 1988, working for 3 months with the London Borough of Islington as a Housing Benefits Officer and returned to the London Borough of Hackney in the same role from June 1988 to March 1993.
Vicky’s cumulative knowledge, skills and expertise in Housing Benefits policy and practice prepared her to step into management roles, first as a Deputy Team Leader from April 1993 to December 1997 and Team Leader under ITNET in December 2001. Vicky was in her elements managing corporate change, monitoring performance and supporting the personal development of her staff. Her outstanding achievement in this capacity was sustained when the Revenue and Benefits came back under the London Borough of Hackney. 

As the Head of Customer and Corporate Services Vicky was responsible for over 150 staff covering 26 areas including Facilities Management, Business Support, Finance, the Council’s Contact Centre as well as front facing Customer Services. On a daily basis she advised, mentored, led and supported people to achieve their best potential. As a stalwart and an influential team player Vicky was always results driven but never at the expense of her human relations.

When Vicky left the shores of Ghana with her 3 month old daughter Afua to Sierra Leone it was in response to the opportunity, as a Teacher to be involved in “Tentmaking Ministry” by supporting the work of SLEFES and Scripture Union (SU). She, with her husband, networked with Christian Lecturers, SLEFES and SU Staff to provide support and training of Christian students at conferences in Freetown and Bo.

In the UK Vicky attended the Methodist Church, Mare Street in Hackney. She joined the Hornchurch Baptist Church in 1990 and soon became actively involved in leading Homegroups. She regularly attended the Saturday morning prayer meetings as well as facilitating the Tea rota for the church. She was a keen member of the Ghana Christian Fellowship which used to meet in Tavistock Place in London and GHAFES Associates (UK). Vicky was recently invited to join the Board of Reference of Healing Rooms (England and Wales) a honourable strategic  role which she did not get to play. She has been keen to support the ministry outreach of Hope Chapel in Basildon through monthly Healing Rooms meetings.

Vicky was diagnosed in 2014 with Systemic Sclerosis (or Scleroderma), a rare autoimmune family of diseases which affects skin tissues and various organs. Frequent hospital appointments, admissions and the variety of medication she had to tolerate became routine in her life. 
Alongside the treatment plans of the medics Vicky prayed diligently and hoped fervently for divine healing. Her faith in the power of God to heal remained resolute and undimmed to the glory of God.

“BE JOYFUL IN HOPE, PATIENT IN AFFLICTION, FAITHFUL IN PRAYER”Romans 12:12

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Tears Are A Language God Understands

October 12, 2019
 Often you've wondered why tears come into your eyes
and burdens seem to be much more than you can stand.
But God is standing near, He sees your falling tears.

Tears are a language God understands.
When grief has left you low, it causes tears to fl ow.
When things have not turned out the way that you had planned.

But God won't forget you, His promises are true.
Tears are a language God understands.
God sees the tears of a broken-hearted soul.

He sees your tears and hears them when they fall.
God weeps along with man and takes him by the hand
Tears are a language God understands

TRIBUTE FROM MRS JOYCE ACHEAMPONG- BERCHIE.(UK)

September 12, 2019
I write this with great sadness over the unimaginable loss of my dear friend. To me, Vicky was brave, strong and inspirational. A woman who loved God and gave everything for her family. 
As I sit here reflecting....reflecting on my long friendship with Vicky which spans over 47yrs: Secondary School, Holiday fun times, her Wedding day, the Births of children and grandchildren, Prayer times, Home Visits, Church visits, Lunches, More Prayer times, Phone calls, Shared Thoughts about our children and grandchildren, I could go on and on... I just thank God for putting Vicky in my life.
 She was special; kind, witty, funny and extremely courageous. She encouraged me with her life. The many times throughout her illness I spoke to her, she never complained, instead she was taking each day in her stride and hoping that a treatment would be found so that she could get on with her life. Oh, she fought a brave and strong battle. 
Her beautiful spirit will live on through her children and grand children. 
Whilst we are mourning the loss of our beloved friend, mother and wife, the crowd of witnesses are rejoicing to meet her behind the veil. Whilst we watched her sail disappear from sight, they are welcoming her home.
(NB:Dated October 10 2018, one day before Vicky’s 60th birthday)


July 21, 2019

This is to let you (The Diawuo family) know that it was a pleasure talking to you today and to share  thoughts and inspiration both old and new.May the Almighty God keep you strong always until yo are reunited with your dear wife.Remember ,1 Thessalonians 5:7-8 and Philippians 4:6.We shall keep you in our prayers .Stay blessed

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