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This lifetime memorial website in honour of Mrs Vicky Addai-Diawuo (nee Baah) has been created at https://www.forevermissed.com/vicky-addai-diawuo/#about.
Vicky was called home to be with her Lord and Maker on Wednesday September 26, 2018 at St. Thomas’s Hospital in London, UK.
Indeed Vicky was a blessed child of God, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, auntie, cousin and niece; a loyal family woman; a true lovely friend, work colleague, prayer warrior and a joyful companion to know.
The Justgiving weblink set up for kind donations in support of Vicky’s chosen charities GHAFES, Scripture Union (Ghana), Renew West Africa (Ghana, Togo, Ivory Coast and Hornchurch Baptist Church (UK) raised well over the £3000 target, thanks to the kindness and generosity of friends, family, colleagues and loved ones.
https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/vicky-addai-diawuo?utm_term=DV52Db4kG


Vicky was buried on Friday October 19 2018 at the UPMINSTER CEMETERY, Ockendon Rd, Upminster RM14 2UY. The Committal service which started at 1245 pm was also marked with a lovely time and spontaneous celebratory atmosphere at the graveside “Singspiration”

DRESS CODE: Black & White (where possible)

Details of The Service of Celebration were as follows:

Date: Friday 19 October 2018

Time: 10am prompt.

Venue: ROMFORD BAPTIST CHURCH, MAIN ROAD, LONDON, RM1 3BL, UK

The Service of Thanksgiving followed, at 1:30pm in the ROMFORD BAPTIST CHURCH HALL, with music, tributes and refreshments UNTIL 4PM. Clearing up and shutting RBC was completed by 5pm.

The traditional Ghanaian “one week celebration” took place at Vicky's family home in Hornchurch on Saturday 6th October 2018 from 4pm- 10pm in a lovely atmosphere, listening to some of Vicky’s favourite Christian inspirational songs in the pleasant company of the many well wishers.

Many thanks to all friends, loved ones, church family, neighbours, work colleagues, and acquaintances who were able to come in their numbers to mourn with Vicky’s entire family. 

“Indeed, The Lord turns our sorrow into joy as we gratefully receive His strength for each day”


October 12, 2019
October 12, 2019
Dear Vicky, You've been gone for over year. I miss you. I'm thankful to God for precious memories of you.
Enjoy yourself till we meet.
September 29, 2019
September 29, 2019
Hi Vicky, I cant believe it is a year since you left us and went to join the party in Heaven. I am so glad that I had the privilege to know you and I thank you for all the prayers that you prayed for myself and my family.
Although it is sad that you left us too soon, I am happy that you are resting in peace with no more pain or suffering. I also know that I will get to see you again one day in Heaven. God Bless X
September 26, 2019
September 26, 2019
Will we ever forget our dear little sis of whom we hold such fond memories? I don't think so. Missed but you hold a special spot in our hearts. Can't believe it's a year already. We shall meet again. I bet you will be showing us around heaven being your usual self. Joking & teasing.
Missing u. My comfort is you are happy praising.
Akwasi, may God comfort you & da family.
September 26, 2019
September 26, 2019
One year has passed since that sad day,
When sister Vicky we loved was called away.
But in our hearts she will always be remembered as Loving and kind in all her ways, Sincere and true.
Beautiful memories, she left behind
September 25, 2019
September 25, 2019
Can't believe it is already a year since you changed your postcode and left us all broken-hearted. Gone your laughter and the glint in your eyes over some side-splitting jokes. Gone the compassion in your heart as you listened to and prayed over the plight of somebody. Though we mourn here below, it is comforting to know that up yonder, you are all smiles, no pain, no suffering, lying in the bosom of our Lord and Savioir Jesus Christ. Truly you are forever missed, but Rest in Peace till we meet again at the Resurrection.
July 3, 2019
July 3, 2019
TRIBUTE TO LATE AUNTIE VICKY ADDAI-DIAWUO
What an unexpected departure home to Heaven and a loss we all feel . Indeed not only were the tribute given to you evident of your value to us as family , friends, work colleague and others you were in contact with; but the honour of the those who travel far and wide to attend your funeral spoke of your good deeds, which the scripture says will follow them.
Your commitment to your immediate family , extended family and all alike had left a great vacuum but we are consoled by the fact that you are resting with the Lord in Heaven and your death was precious in God’s sight, although ever cherish in our hearts and minds for the great impact you had among all and sundry.
Volumes could be written about your values in life and especially your faith , service to the Lord and help for the needy but space may not allow that but to sum it up, I conclude that indeed you lived a life of worthy cause and left a mark on earth, ever to be remembered. Certainly, we wished you were here to accomplish more and to enjoy the fellowship we had with you, but only Heaven knows the pre appointed or ordained life for us all according to Acts 17:25-26 and that we trust in God’s comfort and love that all is well for you and that His grace will continue to sustain all those loved ones left behind , be inspired by your good deeds and with God’s grace through Jesus to make most of the opportunities available to us based on 1 Conrinthians 15: 58.
Whilst, I agree with the designer of the website that forever missed ( ie on this part of this life on earth,) on the other hand not as by God’s grace through Jesus we shall see you on the other side of life in Heaven where there will be no sorrow or tears forever but only joy and rejoicing in the presence of the Lord God Jesus and His glorious Father, Lord God Almighty.. Halleluyah!
MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE, WHILAT YOUR SPIRIT REJOICE IN HEAVEN AWAITING FOR THE GREAT DAY TO BE JOINED TOGETHER. AMEN. EHP. 3; 20-21..
MICHAEL HAMMOND
May 27, 2019
May 27, 2019
'Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on', Yes, says the Spirit, that they may test from their labour's, and their works follow them''. Rev. 14:13.
Even though, I do not know Vicky personally, but from other people's tribute, I am inclined to believe that you were indeed, a virtuous woman as the Bible talks about in Proverbs 31. You were socially adaptable, emotionally stable and above all spiritually matured.
From the foregoing, therefore, your departure from this world of ours to join your maker, who in His wisdom has called you home, has indeed left a big vacuum in the family, which can never be filled.
The consolation of the family is the fact that you are resting in perfect peace in the bossom of your Maker who made you and gave you as a gift to the family.
May your humble soul rest in peace to peace.
December 24, 2018
December 24, 2018
We encountered her only for some few days in Ghana. We engaged her in earnest prayers trusting God to restore her to good health. Unfortunately, our expectation was embraced with an unpleasant news disclosed to us personally her beloved husband, “My wife has passed away, thank you for the prayers.” We were shocked to here that. Nevertheless we admit that the ways of God are not our ways neither are his thought ours.
May her soul rest in Perfect Peace. We love her and the family much.
ALBERT H. SAKYI
For PATMOS Prayer & Retreat Centre Staff
November 28, 2018
November 28, 2018
I thank the Lord for knowing Aunty Vicky and the family. She was a woman of God and always lovely to be with. Indeed,she was also a woman of substance.You will always be remembered and missed.
November 8, 2018
November 8, 2018
What a shock!!
Akwasi, may the Great Lord sustain you in this trying time with His constant assurance and lovingkindness.
Vicky, you will certainly be missed. I remember all the times and seasons of laughter you easily created and the warmth you brought to those times.
I can't find the words to express what I really feel within but He who loves us best has whisked you away from us to Himself that he may enjoy you. Enjoy His presence and when He deems it fit we shall certainly see each other and celebrate Him together who has made us all one in Him.
October 26, 2018
October 26, 2018
Vicky we didn't get in touch with each other as we should or tried to find out what was happening in each others life as we ought to and now you are gone. It's been hard for me to take it in and I am sorry.
I have been moved by all the good testimonies people have been given about the life you led on this earth and I am proud of you.
Vicky you've left this earth but you've become a guardian angel for Kwasi, Afuah, Abbie, Jeremiah, Joshua and Sofia and will always guard and protect them.
Rest in peace Vicky
October 20, 2018
October 20, 2018
Sister Vic, you & your 1975 mates at Aburi Girls did a fantastic job in settling us down in to our school annexe Metico when we started our 5 year secondary school education. You were gentle, funny, but firm with us & have made us who we are today. We are all so lucky to have met you. Vida Aidoo 1979 yr group AOGA
October 20, 2018
October 20, 2018
Beloved Vicky,
We don't remember ever meeting you in person but through our relationship with Akwasi, you became part of the global Chrife family and therefore our own when the Lord brought you together in holy matrimony.
Through the many posts by Akwasi on social media, emails, phone calls and whenever we got the chance to meet with Akwasi, we got to know who you truly are as a wife, a mother, people's friend and a unique Christian to all who got the chance to interact with you, even for a brief moment. To this, we are proud of and to read more about after being called home by your Maker. May your legacy live on for children everywhere and generations to know about.
Akwasi, as we celebrate Vicky's life, may the Lord Himself be your pillar of cloud by day and of fire by night while she rests comfortably in her Lord's bosom! 
Vicky, together with May, we wish you a blissful rest till we all meet on the beautiful shore someday! Adieu!!
October 18, 2018
October 18, 2018
My dearest Vicky, you started as my Manager and then became my friend. You are a true inspiration and my life is much richer having you as a part of it. I will miss you terribly God bless x
October 18, 2018
October 18, 2018
Vicky was a loving, caring and Godly lady who I feel privileged to have known.
I thank God for bringing Vicky into my life 30 odd years ago. That casual social meeting with Vicky and Akwasi, marked a pivotal point in my life. I can honestly attribute my being here in the UK, to God bringing them into my life at just the right time.
When we later met in the UK, Vicky was her usual thoughtful and caring self as she enthusiastically helped me with my wedding plans. She was like family, willingly offering help with arrangements and being there for me on the day itself with her little daughter who was my flower girl.
Over the years we drifted as work and family life ensued. However Vicky was always willing to offer advise and help wherever there was a need.
Vicky, you will forever hold a special place in my heart. I'm so glad I met you and Akwasi all those years ago in Freetown. I believe that you are in a good place now, no more pain, just pure peace and joy in the presence of our Lord Jesus.
May your beautiful soul rest in perfect peace.
October 18, 2018
October 18, 2018
Dear Vicky,
Some of the happiest times of my life were spent in your house (usually making a mess of the kitchen!) and I will always remember the way you asked how I was and what I was up to with a smile, usually followed by a laugh when I told you!
I remember a friend referring to you as ‘a wise woman’, and that always stuck in my mind when I thought of you. To echo Katie’s words, that now lives on in your daughter, Afua, who I am proud to call my friend. Many of the things I know and love about her I can see are from you, and I am eternally grateful to you for that.
With love,
Emily
October 17, 2018
October 17, 2018
Sister Vicky, I saw you as an example of the Proverbs 31 woman; I admired you from a distance; it is just unfortunate that I never got round to making this known to you. Perhaps I represent the many lives you touched that eternity alone can one day reveal. I am grateful to God for you - Rest In Perfect Peace!
October 17, 2018
October 17, 2018
1 Corinthians 15:55 (KJV)
55 O death, where is thy sting? O grave, where is thy victory?


Dear God,
When my heart is overwhelmed, please lead me to the rock of consolation that is higher than I.


Vicky my sister, Vicky my dear friend, Vicky the peaceful lady, Vicky the prayer warrior. Why now, Vicky? This good bye is too painful to forget. I remember our times together as kids and young ladies- our times we spent together, the bed we shared together and the many stories you told me. You were such a great sister and a role model. You were always full of laughter and ready to listen to me. I’m honoured to have been a part of your life. Memories of your kindness that had no boundaries will remain in my heart forever. I am glad I witnessed your God-fearing life while we were young till your departure- I vowed to teach my children to know, believe and trust in God just like you did. Death has laid its icy hands on my sister. This vacuum can never be filled. My heart is deeply broken but I take consolation in the fact that heaven has finally met that wonderful, cheerful, entertaining and charming soul the Father always spoke of. He knows what is best for you. Thank you for giving the world the chance to know you. I love you my sister. I love you Vicky, and I always will.


Rest In Perfect Peace Till We Meet Again.
October 16, 2018
October 16, 2018
Paul said," I'm torn between two desires: I long to go and be with Christ, which would be far better for me...…" (Philippians 1:23)
My Great and Dear Sister Vicky, it would seem that you chose this path.
My Sister, you had been wonderful in every way and you have lived a great life. Your hard work - putting your all in all that you undertook, your gentleness and uprightness were very emulative. Your smiles were always infectious. You were gracious and your personality was wonderful.
Even though you have left holes in your beloved hearts, we are heartened by the life you lived - just as the Lord wanted/required.
October 16, 2018
October 16, 2018
It's so difficult to let go of a loved and close member of our family such as Sis. Vic, as we affectionately used to call her. It really still sounds unbelievable, because memories of her visit to us in Ghana, to Accra and to Kumasi, and the time spent with her, are so fresh in our minds.
Our lunch together in Accra, the visits to family members, the time of prayer in Kumasi, driving with her around to get a few things, the gifts to our children, the farewell at the airport; these memories are so fresh, we simply find it really hard to say a final goodbye.
We really have no choice though. Oh... if we could turn back the clock of time, wouldn't we have done that for you, Sis Vic. We did pray earnestly that you will get well, but our God knows what is best for you. Thank you for your time spent with us, for all the support, love and care shown. We will miss you greatly.
From Ecclesiastes 3:4 we are weeping, but we know you are laughing in heaven. We are mourning but you are dancing in heaven. You have fought a good fight and left us an example to hold on to. Thank you, valiant soldier of The Lord.
To everything, there is indeed a season and a purpose. Till we meet again, fare thee well, our dear Sister, Auntie, Friend and In-law.
From Francis, Vida and the entire family.
October 16, 2018
October 16, 2018
Sister Vicky! was how we your maternal cousins affectionately knew and called you. Though you were several years our senior you never made us feel as if we did not count or matter in your presence. You would call each and everyone of us by name whether present or absent to enquire about how we were faring and even till your last breath when it was evident all was not well you still carried out this amazing roll call asking about each relative and how they were faring. Alas! Little did l know that it was to be the very last one. 
Words will never be enough for me to tell the world what you meant to us. Your spring like and feisty gait so full of life, your ever ready smile even during serious family deliberations, your funny expressions of " hmmm" "l see", " is that so?" "Really" "no problem" will forever resonate with us. What amazed me most was how you could pronounce certain words as if the words were being literally written out in your speech. You could say for instance, "hmmmm this is v-e-r-y i-n-t-e-r-e-s-t-i-n-g" and one could hear each vowel and consonant being prounced separately, a voice l always mimicked whenever l remembered or missed you and cousins n relatives would say "yes that sounds like Vicky"
Despite your long stay abroad your humility and simplicity was absolutely amazing! It never ceases to amaze me when on one of your regular visits to Ghana l went and bought kenkey a typical Ghanaian delicacy normally consumed for breakfast and l bought corned beef and sardines for you and certain tiny specie of fish or"woevi" or "one man thousand" as is popularly known in local parlance for myself. Upon presenting you with the meal you immediately selected the fish which was of inferior quality to the corned beef et all and ate it with relish all the time saying " this is what l really want".
Sister Vicky, though times spent with you were few and far between, we find our experiences with you very enriching and fulfilling. Your approach to life, your 'never giving up' attitude, your uprightness, forthrightness, concern, for family, the extent of care for others even in moments of suffering such as regular texts to me to check on uncle Brown's health, will forever leave indelible marks and create footprints we shall forever seek to follow.
Sister Vicky, l shall forever cherish the great effort you made to see me, hug and chat with me during your last moments on Mother Earth.
Our dearest and most cherished Cousin Vicky, you are gone but you remain in our hearts forever. Rest in perfect peace in the bosom of your Maker who made you, gifted you to us for an appointed time and called you into His eternal rest at the appropriate time. May heaven's Sweet dew fall gently, very gently on you. "Sister Vicky! Wure! Wure! Wure!. De Okose!
October 16, 2018
October 16, 2018
What a shame to lose a very lovely and hospitable lady in Vicky. I was privileged to know you through your husband when we visited your home and on other social occasions of support for me and for pleasure. You showed yourself to be adorable, gentle and a real lady of grace and substance. Unfortunately I will not be able to be present to support your husband and the family at this time of your departure. But I pray for God's loving and everlasting kindness to you and comfort to the family you have left behind. God be with you till we meet again.
October 15, 2018
October 15, 2018
I am so very sorry for your loss. Our Creator purposed for us to live forever, so having to cope with the death of a loved one feels very unnatural. Soon, we will be able to experience d truthfulness of Gods promise "And the last enemy, death, is to be brought to nothing" (1 Corinthians 15:26). What better hope than to know that God will very soon bring an end to death and all the pain we face (Revelation 21:4). My sincere condolences to all who knew and loved Vicky.
October 15, 2018
October 15, 2018
Vicky was a very calm and intelligent lady. She was a stable and prayerful Christian. Also she was kind to all and a very supportive wife. Vicky, we will miss you dearly.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Akwasi and the family.
October 14, 2018
October 14, 2018
Greatly saddened as I am to hear that dear Vicky has left us, I also rejoice that she enjoys the glory of Eternity with her Lord Jesus. I cherish the memories of love and fellowship I enjoyed with you in Hornchurch, dear Akwasi and Vicky, and ask for the Lord’s deepest blessings of comfort and peace upon all the family at this time. Vicky was a beautiful lady who touched and inspired many with her kindness, hospitality and Christian example. Her legacy is the many lives she enriched in all she was and all she did. ‘They who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.’ Isaiah 40.31
October 12, 2018
October 12, 2018
My dear sister Vicky was a hardworking Christian,who made a lot of positive contribution to society. She was good-tempered and had a calm and gentle spirit which I know many would testify to.
I spoke to her a few days before we heard the dreadful news,and I remarked on how well she sounded.The call was to be followed up with a visit within days,but she heard a higher call and answered to it.
I have fond memories of the time we were growing up together in our family home....memories which I will cherish forever.
The last time I saw Vicky was in Accra on the 16th of August when we had a meal together. little did I know it was to be our last meal with her.
We love Vicky dearly and will surely miss her a lot.
May she rest peacefully in the loving arms of Jesus.

Kakra A Baah
October 11, 2018
October 11, 2018
Vicky, today you would have turned 60 years old. A day I know you would have embraced, celebrated and enjoyed. Enjoy your day Dear Vicky...Happy Heavenly Birthday.x
October 11, 2018
October 11, 2018
Vicky, it pains me to think that I would not see you again this side of our world. When Gladys and I bid you and your family goodbye on Wednesday, 22 August we had no idea it was our final bye. The pain is much and I still shed tears.
The comfort is that you are in a better place where you're free - free from illness and pain and medication. You touched many lives and you will be remembered fondly and missed greatly.
Rest in peace beautiful sister. You have fought the good fight. Ayekoo!
October 11, 2018
October 11, 2018
Oh my darling Vicky, today the 11th of October would have been your 60th birthday. But you are not here with us. Oh how I miss you very much. With so much tears flowing down my cheeks, I thank God for the precious times I spent with you. You are remembered today my dear.
Rest in Peace
October 11, 2018
October 11, 2018
Your 60th birthday is here my dear friend, but it's sad to recall that you are not here to celebrate it with your loved ones. As you dance and rejoice in heaven, we are remembering you and celebrating your life on Earth. May your loved ones in heaven and the angels, sing with you a song of joy to praise your Redeemer for a beautiful life shared on earth with us all. Happy birthday my dearly beloved friend. We miss you.
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
I can still hear Vicky's dulcet tones of "Hello, my dear" that were always so warm and inviting.
She has championed me and my sister for 22 years, encouraging us, giving advice and becoming like an aunty. She was not afraid to speak directly and challenge me about a matter but always in a gentle and caring way. I am grateful for all the advice she gave.
Vicky and I were both recently part of the team recruiting for a new youth worker at church. Her experience and insight was so valuable, and she was full of joy when she met Hollie, who we employed. I know her desires for the future were that the youth work would grow and flourish. She absolutely believed in raising faith levels to beyond what we can see in the natural, and she believed in the future of the church. Ever an inspiration to me and she will continue to be.
Everyone should have a straight-talking and kind-hearted woman like Vicky in their lives. To me, she was an absolute treasure and I miss her deeply.
I love the Addai-Diawuo family and I'm blessed to know them all.
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
I didn't have an official godmother and wished I had. I remember asking my mum and dad when I was younger who mine was and not getting an answer that satisfied little Katie, stubborn and single-minded as she was. I wanted a godmother and they had not provided one.
You saw that little girl and you prayed for her, you lifted her up and encouraged her, you loved her and laughed with her as she grew from a silly teenager who wore jeans to a wedding to a little chat that neither of us expected to be our last the week we lost you.
Thank you for putting up with my nonsense, mummy. Thank you for all the times you chose to extend me a warm chuckle instead of a clip around the ear. Thank you for buying me books and memory systems to nurture my spiritual growth. Thank you for the prayers you spoke over me, the ones I heard and the many I did not. Thank you for always taking an interest, for getting me a summer job and providing advice that will last a lifetime; memorable often because it reduced me to fits of laughter. I promise you that when I meet a man I will make sure we have more to talk about than pizza, that he won't be a fly by night Christian and that he'll be washed in the blood, not just the water! I can't help but feel as we go through losing you that what would make it better would be that mischievous glint in your eye and the quiet comfort you always provided by merely entering a room.
I looked forward to seeing you the most every Easter, for our hot cross bun and counselling sessions in North Street Halls. I long to hear one of your stories now, get a solid dose of that advice and have one of your lovely warm cuddles.
Thank you also for raising my beautiful best friend into a sound and loyal partner in crime. I am so thankful that your memory lives on through Afua, in the laughter and the faithfulness she daily brings to my life...not to mention that self-same weary amused shake of the head that you both offer me so liberally.
You have truly left a legacy on this earth and you deserve every bit of credit for it. I am humbled to read through the tributes of the many lives you touched through your patient and faithful service. It is inspiring.
Most of all, thank you for choosing to be my godmother, we adopted each other in that way, and I'm so so grateful to Papa God that my mum and dad didn't choose one for me but that He did. Goodbye for now mummy, I love you.
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
Sister Vicki, sad to see you leave this earth suddenly and so young. You life was short, but your soul lives on forever. May we all be comforted by God's protection and preservation of your soul for eternity. That's perfect peace. Priceless. May Brother Akwasi, the children and the entire family be encouraged that God is proud of Sister Vicki's Christ-like life on earth, albeit so short. She is now in her Father's house enjoying her full royalty as a beloved daughter. Shalom!!!!!
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
Akwasi
As I informed you via phone conversation we were shocked to receive the news of Vicky's departure to glory land from Rev. Kofi OWUSU. We visited with you, Vicky and the little children, now adults, some 30 years ago when we overnighted in London on our way home on leave. When I called you, your first comment was SHAHUR! You and I know the fond memories from Legon Hall behind SHAHUR. The vibrant life and sweet smile of Vicky is still a strong memory of her. The tributes here reflect a gathering of the saints.... A true family reunion including my Legon Room mate JAM. Akwasi, take heart and be comforted for we shall all meet Vicky again in the Resurrection if Christ should tarry. She is temporarily, not forever, missed. YAAKO. SIS. VICKY. REST IN PERFECT PEACE TILL WE MEET AGAIN.
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
Vicky was like a sister to me, Akwasi was not only my secondary school classmate, we were like brothers. Vicky was a gentle, graceful, selfless, smiling and praying woman. A person who bore her pain bravely and without complaining. Even though we grew apart and across continents, anytime we met it was a grand reunion! Within 2 months of her departure I had the opportunity to fellowship with Vicky and Akwasi in London and briefly in Accra. If I had known that it was our last meeting.... Fare well Vicky. We’ll definitely have a final Grand Reunion soon.
October 7, 2018
October 7, 2018
I shall remember Vicky's gentle spirit and how much she glowed with the Holy Spirit. She was an inspiration to us all, never dwelling on her sickness, but praying for others and supporting the Healing Rooms ministry, where we met. I am thankful for her and Akwasi and for their kindness to me in recent months.
October 7, 2018
October 7, 2018
It was with huge sadness that we received the news of Vicky's death. What springs to mind about her as we write this short tribute?
Firstly, her Christian faith and love for God and her Saviour, clearly displayed over many years and in many situations, some of them difficult, but always expressed with a solid and steadfast faith and belief. She had a Godly wisdom which of course could be trusted and she brought that insight and clarity to many situations. We are sure that Hackney Council where she worked with such commitment and diligence for so many years would have been the beneficiaries of that wisdom on countless occasions.
She never appeared to persue anything of her 'own agenda', instead seeking to serve others first with a lovely, gracious, servant heart. Even when she had a personal achievement to celebrate she would be the first to share it with others who had been part of the team who had supported her.
She was a person to look up to was a loyal and loving wife to Akwasi and a wonderful mum. She displayed an outstanding example in both roles to others. Oh for more wives and mothers like Vicky!! She was also someone who acted as a mentor to many others in the most natural of ways and a lovely encourager to younger people and adults alike.
She had a lovely smile and sense of humour. You could stand in a room watching her chatting to other people and it would not be long before the conversation would be punctured with laughter. She brightened any room with her presence.
In her employment with Hackney Council, we don't know everything she was responsible for, but we do know of her incredible commitment to her job and her colleagues. She consistently sought the best for both her colleagues and the Council. Whatever condition Hackney Council was in when she started, along with fellow management colleagues, she will left it in a much improved state. I would encourage those of her colleagues who remain, to continue that good work and solid foundations. In her role, she was tremendously hard working, a person of talent and perseverance - three much needed qualities in any pressured environment like a very busy Council.
Her death leaves a big and permanent void. Most particularly this void will be felt in the lives of her immediate family and closest friends and colleagues, as well as those who knew her well in Ghana, who she loved and supported with Akwasi in a wonderful generous way on so many occasions. This said, the ripples of her absence will go much further and many more, including ourselves will say quietly but very appreciatively "thank you God, that we knew Vicky."
Stewart and Helen
October 7, 2018
October 7, 2018
To my Dearest Aunty Vicky, words cannot quantify the pain and grief I feel knowing that you are gone. I will forever cherish my memories of you and you will always live on in my heart. Thank you for gifting me with such precious memories of laughter and joy as a child. I love you dearly and wish I did not have to say goodbye. Until we are reunited. Linda-Jean xx
October 6, 2018
October 6, 2018
Words cannot express how dear a friend Vicky was. I met Vicky in 1988 when we joined Hackney Benefits Service. We became friends and this friendship blossomed over the years . I loved Vicky's positive attitude and ability to encourage even in the most dire situations. She has supported me in so many ways providing invaluable advice and accompanying me to many events. Her love for Christ and compassion for others has spurred me on to reach out more to others.
October 6, 2018
October 6, 2018
My thoughts are with the family. Mrs Addai was approachable, pleasant & reasonable and It was always nice to see Mrs Addai embrace my boy, her grandson Paakwesi (Joshua). The rest of my family concurs. May her graceful spirit be with the family as you are taking your call in the higher abode.
October 6, 2018
October 6, 2018
Vick Vick, I miss saying good morning to you and hearing you call me dearest. I miss the funny stories of life in Ghana and ‘records night’, of your first pop concert, Jamiroquai, when you got the dress code so wrong and many more. I miss your stern looks and sighs of ‘oh Jennifer!’ And your caring ways for our team. You have left a big hole, irreplaceable. You changed the world, for the better, for many people. I feel privileged and proud to have known you.
Akwesi, and family, my prayers are with you x
October 6, 2018
October 6, 2018
Vicky, I am lost for words. My heart is grieved.
You mentioned that you will be away on holiday for 3 weeks in August. I cannot believe you have gone but I am comforted knowing that you are at peace in God's presence.
Vicky, a God fearing, prayer warrior, hard working, conscientious, caring and loving friend.
You will be forever missed.
Rest in peace.
By Miranda Sunu
October 4, 2018
October 4, 2018
My dear friend Vicki. I think of you every day and can't believe I won't see you again. It was lovely to be able to share with you, to laugh with you. Your prayers were amazing. You were an inspiration to many by your faith in our Lord. I know we will see each other again and Akwasi my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family . May you feel His Peace.
October 4, 2018
October 4, 2018
My love and prayers to Akwasi and family at this very sad time. Vicky was an amazing woman who will never be forgotten. May you know the peace of God which passes all understanding.
October 4, 2018
October 4, 2018
Oh my dear Vicky, we are still finding it hard to accept that you are gone. You were an exceptional woman of faith, courage and love. Even in your pain you still administered real love, compassion and care to others. My family and I were also beneficiaries of your sacrificial love and care. When I lost my dear husband, you and Akwasi were there when we needed you. You always had a solution for us when we faced life challenges. Although we are saddened to loose you, but we are grateful to God that you are in a better place where there is no pain or suffering.
Your memory and your sacrificial love as well as care for us will remain with us forever.
Kofi, kwabena, Afia and Kwasi are devastated but convinced that you are in the best place.
Farewell my dear sister.
Rest in perfect peace till we meet again.
October 4, 2018
October 4, 2018
Dear Vicky,
I am proud that you called me 'friend'. I can hear your voice and your laughter. As I think of you, I see your smile. Thank you for the many Friday evenings spent in prayer. Thanks to you, Akwasi, Afua and Abbie for all of the birthday celebrations we shared. Thank you for all of the love. You will always live in my heart.
I will see you in Glory.
Angiexxx
October 4, 2018
October 4, 2018
I have not known Vicky for very long - our meeting was through Healing Rooms.
I remember her beautiful smile and gentle spirit, but also know she was a prayer warrior and we so appreciated knowing she was praying for us and for the work.
One of my favourite memories is seeing her joining in and dancing during a Healing Rooms conference in Halifax . Her joy was infectious and the sense of victory that she had done it was wonderful.
Treasured memories of a lovely woman of God.
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
The last time I saw you sister Vicky, was at the Roneo Tesco in Romford with your dear husband, we had our little usual chat about our children.
How little did I know that, it was going to be my last time of seeing you.
My heart is aggrieved.
But God knows best.
Rest in peace my dear,
God be with you. Til in heaven we all meet again.
Love always ....Florence xxx (Martha's sister)
October 3, 2018
October 3, 2018
The news of your passing
Is more than sad
We do not mourn
As the world does
But it doesn't make it less painful
We know you rest
In the bosom of our Lord
But you will surely and sorely be missed
The words we have of you now
Are gemstones of our memories
And the influence of your impact
We celebrate your life
As we mourn your passing
Auntie Vic
Damrifra due
Da yie
Till we meet again
Rest well
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October 13, 2023
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Vicky, I am missing you. The difference you made to my life was so remarkable. Unknowingly, you taught me some lessons which are continuing to help me to navigate situations and make decisions. Thank you.. Continue to rest in peace.
October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
I can't believe that it's now five years since you left us and went to join the party in Heaven. I miss you lots and especially the times I shared at house group with you, Akwasi and other dear friends from HBC.

I thank you once again for all the prayers that you prayed for myself and my family. 
We are all doing well and I feel very blessed by God's incredible love.

Carry on resting in the perfect peace that transcends all understanding. I remember you saying 'don't be anxious about anything, but pray about everything!'

God bless Vicky 

October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
Precious memories of Vicky and love and prayers to Akwasi and all the family. May God bless you daily with His peace and continual signs of His grace in the Lord Jesus.
Her Life
October 22, 2018

By Akwasi Addai-Diawuo

BIOGRAPHY (October 11 1958-September 26 2018)

Vicky was born at the Princess Mary Maternity Hospital in Jesmond, Newcastle upon Tyne, in the district of Victoria, to Mr Emmanuel (Yaw) Baah and Mrs Mary Julia Baah (nee Nyampong). Family legend has it that Vicky was a fascinating baby, with unusually thick, dark kinky hair which became a spectacle for the nurses, doctors and the local Geordie community who often asked to touch and feel it. It is a wonder why her student parents did not charge for the privilege to touch little Queen Victoria’s hair. In 1992 when Vicky gave her reluctant aging parents a first class train journey to revisit their past, they only brightened up on arrival at 1 Eslington Terrace. Invigorated, by the fond shared memories they started claiming ownership of a house, pointing to areas of the street where Mummy frequently plied every morning with baby Vicky in her huge pram. Vicky’s Daddy who was a student of Town Planning and Landscape Architecture even offered the residents some gardening advice as we watched and listened listened gleefully.

Vicky as a child accompanied her pioneering, professional post-colonial Civil servant parents as they were posted from town to town across the length of Ghana from Kumasi -Tamale-Koforidua-Kumasi-Accra

Vicky attended a number of Primary Schools when the family returned from the UK namely, Garrison Preparatory School in Kumasi, Koforidua Experimental School and State Experimental School at Nhyieso in Kumasi until September 1970 when she became a member of the Ninos of Aburi Girls 70.

She studied for her GCE O’ and A’Levels from 1970 to 1978 at Aburi Girls’ Secondary with a year of intercalation. The 1975 Class of Aburi Old Girls Association fondly remember Vicky as the witty, intelligent, funny and mischievous baby of the cohort. Although she was among the youngest in her cohort Vicky showed recognisable leadership skills that earned her a place as one of the 10 Dormitory Prefects “to look after” Form One students at “Metico”, the student residence located away from the main school campus. Some of the highlights of Vicky’s student life at Aburi Girls relate to her jovial and affable personality and her famous Uncle on the teaching staff.

In 1978 Vicky enrolled at the Advanced Teacher Training College, now University of Education in Winneba. She often recounted amusing experiences of being pampered, fussed over or even receiving privileges from course mates, “mature students” and lecturers. This was because Vicky was the youngest and the only female Science student in her College class. After qualification in August 1981 Vicky started her first teaching appointment at Ghana Secondary School, Koforidua, where she taught Biology and General Science for two years. On August 7 1982 Vicky and Akwasi got married at the Legon Hall Chapel, University of Ghana, after seven years of dating and courtship. Vicky was blessed with two lovely daughters and three amazing grandchildren.

In June 1992 Vicky qualified as an Accounting Technician after part time studies at Waltham Forest and Havering Colleges. She also completed the Professional Diploma in Management with The Open University.

Vicky’s teaching career was further enriched when from September 1983 to 1984 she taught Biology and Chemistry at the Njala University Secondary School in Sierra Leone. It was here that Vicky often hosted 10 young Namibian refugee students to meals and games in her home. The students’ pet name for Vicky was “Anopheles”. She moved to Freetown at the end of the academic year to teach at the elite Bertha Conton School, before leaving for the UK. In June 1985 she had taster day at the Clapton Girls School in Hackney whilst considering a teaching career in the UK. She was so decisive at the end of her experience on the day that pursuing a teaching career in the UK was definitely not her for her.

Vicky’s career route changed completely when in March 1986 she started as Administrative Officer at the Department of Social Security in Hackney, a strategic move which turned out to be the bedrock of her career progression. She moved to the Housing Benefits sector from March 1988, working for 3 months with the London Borough of Islington as a Housing Benefits Officer and returned to the London Borough of Hackney in the same role from June 1988 to March 1993.
Vicky’s cumulative knowledge, skills and expertise in Housing Benefits policy and practice prepared her to step into management roles, first as a Deputy Team Leader from April 1993 to December 1997 and Team Leader under ITNET in December 2001. Vicky was in her elements managing corporate change, monitoring performance and supporting the personal development of her staff. Her outstanding achievement in this capacity was sustained when the Revenue and Benefits came back under the London Borough of Hackney. 

As the Head of Customer and Corporate Services Vicky was responsible for over 150 staff covering 26 areas including Facilities Management, Business Support, Finance, the Council’s Contact Centre as well as front facing Customer Services. On a daily basis she advised, mentored, led and supported people to achieve their best potential. As a stalwart and an influential team player Vicky was always results driven but never at the expense of her human relations.

When Vicky left the shores of Ghana with her 3 month old daughter Afua to Sierra Leone it was in response to the opportunity, as a Teacher to be involved in “Tentmaking Ministry” by supporting the work of SLEFES and Scripture Union (SU). She, with her husband, networked with Christian Lecturers, SLEFES and SU Staff to provide support and training of Christian students at conferences in Freetown and Bo.

In the UK Vicky attended the Methodist Church, Mare Street in Hackney. She joined the Hornchurch Baptist Church in 1990 and soon became actively involved in leading Homegroups. She regularly attended the Saturday morning prayer meetings as well as facilitating the Tea rota for the church. She was a keen member of the Ghana Christian Fellowship which used to meet in Tavistock Place in London and GHAFES Associates (UK). Vicky was recently invited to join the Board of Reference of Healing Rooms (England and Wales) a honourable strategic  role which she did not get to play. She has been keen to support the ministry outreach of Hope Chapel in Basildon through monthly Healing Rooms meetings.

Vicky was diagnosed in 2014 with Systemic Sclerosis (or Scleroderma), a rare autoimmune family of diseases which affects skin tissues and various organs. Frequent hospital appointments, admissions and the variety of medication she had to tolerate became routine in her life. 
Alongside the treatment plans of the medics Vicky prayed diligently and hoped fervently for divine healing. Her faith in the power of God to heal remained resolute and undimmed to the glory of God.

“BE JOYFUL IN HOPE, PATIENT IN AFFLICTION, FAITHFUL IN PRAYER”Romans 12:12

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Tears Are A Language God Understands

October 12, 2019
 Often you've wondered why tears come into your eyes
and burdens seem to be much more than you can stand.
But God is standing near, He sees your falling tears.

Tears are a language God understands.
When grief has left you low, it causes tears to fl ow.
When things have not turned out the way that you had planned.

But God won't forget you, His promises are true.
Tears are a language God understands.
God sees the tears of a broken-hearted soul.

He sees your tears and hears them when they fall.
God weeps along with man and takes him by the hand
Tears are a language God understands

TRIBUTE FROM MRS JOYCE ACHEAMPONG- BERCHIE.(UK)

September 12, 2019
I write this with great sadness over the unimaginable loss of my dear friend. To me, Vicky was brave, strong and inspirational. A woman who loved God and gave everything for her family. 
As I sit here reflecting....reflecting on my long friendship with Vicky which spans over 47yrs: Secondary School, Holiday fun times, her Wedding day, the Births of children and grandchildren, Prayer times, Home Visits, Church visits, Lunches, More Prayer times, Phone calls, Shared Thoughts about our children and grandchildren, I could go on and on... I just thank God for putting Vicky in my life.
 She was special; kind, witty, funny and extremely courageous. She encouraged me with her life. The many times throughout her illness I spoke to her, she never complained, instead she was taking each day in her stride and hoping that a treatment would be found so that she could get on with her life. Oh, she fought a brave and strong battle. 
Her beautiful spirit will live on through her children and grand children. 
Whilst we are mourning the loss of our beloved friend, mother and wife, the crowd of witnesses are rejoicing to meet her behind the veil. Whilst we watched her sail disappear from sight, they are welcoming her home.
(NB:Dated October 10 2018, one day before Vicky’s 60th birthday)


July 21, 2019

This is to let you (The Diawuo family) know that it was a pleasure talking to you today and to share  thoughts and inspiration both old and new.May the Almighty God keep you strong always until yo are reunited with your dear wife.Remember ,1 Thessalonians 5:7-8 and Philippians 4:6.We shall keep you in our prayers .Stay blessed

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