Today was my first day back in the office since you left, and I deeply felt the need to talk to you ma on my way to work, just like we used to do before... I didn't expect to be playing our conversations in my head like this... I really wish we had more time together.. it's just so heartbreaking... But I'm talking to you, ma, hoping somehow you can hear me... I love you deeply and miss you so much, ma...

The sweet smiling vidya. We have been partners In getting down at guindy to catch the fast train long back before gauge conversion of the suburban track. I have always forced her to participate in hindi activities. Thank god she participated and got a prize. I will miss her forever. It was shocking to know that she is no more. Love you vidya for ever

My dear Vidya, I still can't overcome the fact that you're gone. The world seems to be void without your contagious smile and incredible kindness. I was really blessed to have had you as my friend and grateful for the precious time we spent together.
Our friendship began during our preliminary stage of interview in Railways. I was overwhelmed with joy when both of us were appointed in Statistical Branch. Our bond grew stronger and stronger over the years. We had innumerable outings with family and friends to different places. The memories of the good time we had will forever remain a treasure. You had a great positive influence to people around you.
Good Bye Vidya. I hope our paths will cross again and your friendship through all lifetimes. Good bye for now, carrying the memories of your warm friendship in my heart. Om Shanthi!

The very thought of Vidya brings a smiling face in front of me. I still remember her with two long plaited braids with white ribbons in blue and white uniform. We were classmates in school. She used to come to school by bicycle. At that time none of us had bicycle and we used to walk to and fro to school. So, while returning from school, Vidya used to walk along with us towing her bicycle.
After school days we couldn't meet each other for a long time. Luckily both of us got selected by RRB and got placed in the Railways, but in different Departments and different places. I was working in Egmore and she was working in Central. So, the chance of meeting each other was very rare. At times, we used to meet in the St. Thomas Mount Railway station. We used to enquire about each others family, especially parents as my mother was also working in the Railways like Radha aunty, Vidya's mother.
The meetings and contacts increased only after the school group was formed and we had many get togethers. Whenever we happen to go for a get together or a marriage of our school mate's children, I and Vidya used to meet in the auto stand near Murugan temple and from there we used to go together and return together.
I got transferred to Hindi section,Hqrs. Office in Jan.2021. After that, once in a while I used to have a chance of meeting her in the lift or at the entrance of our Hindi class room in the 8th floor where her office was located. She was Hindi section's liaison clerk for her office too. She used to partake in many competitions conducted by the Hindi section and she used to give articles also for the magazine Dakshin Dhwani published by the Hindi section. Hindi section staff fondly remember her for her contributions to Hindi section.

As she could not make it up to our last get together in Phoenix in December 2023, I spoke to her over phone. Only then I came to know that she is not well. She said that the doctor has assured that she will be alright soon. I expected to see her back in our office premises. But, God had a different plan, I think.
I will ever miss you Vidya !

Vidhya, my beloved sister in law was an epitome of beauty with brains. She had been the pillar of support for everyone in the family. Ever since I met her for the first time as my brother's fiancee till the last time I met her she had always exhibited herself to be a pleasant soul. I would say she was the primary source of energy for my brother for who he is today professionally and personally. Her contribution as a wife to my brother in all respects was immense that will be ever missed for the rest of his life.

The day on which we all went to fix the alliance to her house in a tonga still remains evergreen in my heart. Her tranquil face always bubbled with positivity and only positivity. She always found good in whatever life threw at her and cherished even the smallest of the smallest she was blessed with. She always highlighted the best in others. People who meet her get motivated in one way or the other. As a daughter in law she used to understand the needs of the elderly even before demanded and she did that with compassion and dutifulness which is still a dream for many parents in law.

And her way of parenting needs more and more patience which many of us lack. Being friends with your kids 24x7 is impossible which she did with perfection. All she showered them with was love, kindness and a smile that approves all their wishes.

We have been great friends rather than sisters in law all these years and she balanced both the families with the same level of compassion and fairness.

As a woman I have admired her for who she was as a wife, daughter in law , mother and a daughter and it would be unfair if I don't acknowledge her professional accomplishments. Her skills and talents and the way she updated herself everyday amidst the tantrums of life were something for others to be jealous of ! Men may come and men may go but some men can never be replaced for who they were for that organisation. Vidhya is one among those !

My heart goes out to my brother's family....... Some losses are irreplaceable..... !

Praying for her soul to rest in peace! Om shanti.

-Ujjivanam .

Vidya was an ever smiling and enthusiastic friend. Being classmates, I don't remember so much from the classroom days. But, after meeting her after 1986, I found her so warm, inspiring and soft. Can't imagine that she went so fast.
She came all the way from her office to meet self and my wife...
Vidya you will be missed every moment, in every smile we see

Everyone knows Vidya as a ever smiling, soft natured good girl, excellent in work. But as a friend, I have seen her mischievous, joyous ,childish side. We have shared so much of fun and laughter. We have discussed so many things. We had different views on many issues, but that has never come in the way of our friendship.
She was so very dedicated to her family. We have to literally force her to join us if some outing is planned out of office.
We all will miss Vidya.

My dearest Vidya, my friend rest in peace. Om Shanti.

Remembering Subras sis Vidya as a warm, friendly, ever smiling person with a pleasant demeanor.

Vidyavathi was my classmate for two years during the higher secondary education at AJS Nidhi Hr Sec Schl. Being an introvert, I hardly had any interactions with her except for a few greetings occasionally. Vidyavathi, as the name says was a studious girl and one among the teacher's favourites.

After more than 30 years, I had the opportunity to meet her in few get togethers of our batchmates.
We greeted each other with friendly warmth and got to know of each other's occupation, family etc.

"Her calm and composed attitude, her ever gracious smile, and a positive aura around her clearly explained her divine nature."

"Her friendliness and warmth was well expressed when she had gone an extra mile to prepare tasteful kuzhipaniyaaram for the friends".

We sorely missed her in our few recent batch meetings. Alas, it was quite late when most of us realised that she was unwell. Missed meeting her during her last days, respecting her necessity for isolation and privacy.

It's hard to believe that you are not with us today. It's Just a matter of time, before we all meet again... Until then we will remember your wonderful nature and the warm smile...

Vidayavathi.,my elementary school friend was a friend to my parents/sister/and my Paati. If I was a painter, hearing this name would make me paint a picture of a tall girl happily riding her girls bicycle with her unique big smile in the streets of adambakkam. That is how we remember her and always will.
She will shower her blessings and guide you all . Closing. With tears

Once blessed with a wonderful mother;twice blessed with a wonderful mother in law
Vidhya chithi was rather like a mother to me than a mother in law..
Anything under the sky could be discussed with her and she gave that space to everyone. Personally, she has supported and encouraged me throughout. A genuine beautiful person, she will always watch us, bless us, be with all of us.
Forever etched in my heart - Vidhya chithi

Pure soul, Best listener... One of the best things of hers. If you ever need a person to hear your story, she was the one. Not only hear, she literally listens you. I've experienced so. She has solutions to all problems. If you are in your 50's..she will be 50. If you are 10 in age, she will be a little 10 YO girl. Whatever be your age, she will be that. You will never be bored with her. She will feed you with utmost love and care that you can leave her home both heart and stomach full everytime.

She was the strongest woman I've ever known. Optimist in all aspects.

I'm so blessed that she was with me on the day of my marriage. I can still feel her hugs and forehead kisses. Chithi...you will be missed for sure. I believe she will always with Chithappa, Mathu and Jaanu.

We have very little acquaintance with Mrs. Vidyavathi Ramachandran, my cousin brother's wife due to our living far away in North India. But we did meet her in some functions a few times which memory is still green. She was personification of gentleness, smiling, soft spoken and down to earth. We always felt that my brother Ramudu matched her in all respect and together they were a lovable couple. Together they both brought up their children as responsible and good citizens. It is indeed a great loss for all of us that Mrs.Vidyavathi is no more with us. We strongly believe that she will be remembered as a good wife and mother. We pray for her. Om Shanti 
....Rammohan and Banu.

When Vidya Didi is brought up in conversation, the immediate image that flashes in my mind is her perpetually cheerful and glowing face. Her warm smile and serene voice are unforgettable. Despite having met her her only a few times, each meeting etched a lasting memory of her as a genuinely compassionate individual. Matangi & Jahnavi - May you both look back on the precious memories and find peace in knowing that your mother raised 2 amazing daughters.

Love and affection,

Nitin Uncle