Memories of a Brother
Right now, it is difficult to convert the feelings of a brother's heart into meaningful words, but all I can think of how much pride we all have for brother Bill, how much I admired him, and how much love I have for him as a brother.
He really was a true American. We are all so very proud of his service as a graduate of the Naval Academy, as a member of the Strategic Air Command, and as a member of that special group of people who worked in the nation's space and B-1/B-2 programs. He was so quietly proud of his service to the country, and he earned the respect of all of us who knew of his many contributions.
His quiet pride was shared by the few special people who worked in the space program. They were a remarkable group of Americans, who enjoyed each other and remained in touch after they left the program. There was no question they admired brother Bill, and he unselfishly shared his life with them. He loved his country and he loved his colleagues.
As a brother, there were so many things I admired about my brother. He was a “star” athlete in high school, but he always had time to show others how this or that might help them to succeed. He taught me so many things – how to caulk a sailboat, how to clean a walleye, how to play this or that, and how to live life with others. I admired his talents, and his willingness to share them with others.
Most importantly, I admired the mutual love he shared with his wife, Pat. He had such a deep affection for her, and she returned that love. It was such a joy to go fishing with them (she was the better fisher-woman), or it was wonderful to break bread with them at home or in a restaurant, or it was truly a pleasure to sit on the patio with the dogs. The two of them were inseparable and I admired their mutual love and respect.
I was unable to attend the wedding of Barbie and Bill, but I shall always remember the first time I met Barbie. They came through Austin the summer after they were married, and, as I remember it, it was just about dusk when they arrived. Bill and I greeted each other with a brotherly hug, but that 5 foot bundle of energy greeted me with the biggest bear hug ever – and I had just met her! What a pair.
As a brother, I shall always cherish the love that only two brothers can have. He was always there – my big and smartest brother. Always open, always honest, always helpful. I shall miss the almost weekly talks about the Cubbies, the college football or Denver Bronco games, the Duke basketball program or life in general.
A true American, one admired by many, and one truly loved by his brother.
Jim Todd