Our Angel
Theresa Beatrice Lodder
  • 62 years old
  • Date of birth: Jun 17, 1946
  • Date of passing: Dec 18, 2008
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Theresa Beatrice Lodder, 62, born on June 17, 1946 and passed away on December 18, 2008. We will remember her forever.
Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 17th June 2016

"HAPPY BIRTHDAY Mommy.  You would have been 70 today.  Although my heart is sore, I know you are happy.  May your beautiful Soul Rest in Peace."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 15th June 2016

"Happy Birthday to my darling Stepdad Larry.  You will always be in my heart.  Thank you for looking after my Mother so well.  Thank you for being a good dad to Cindy and myself.  I hope you are having some cheesecake today.  You know you have to.  Just for ol times sake.  xxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 18th April 2016

"Mommy, Uncle Chappie and Daddy can now do all the fishing they want.  Just like they did when i was born.  Today you were on mind and i miss you so much."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 9th April 2016

"Thank you Mommy for the time we had together.  The next chapter of our lives lay in the future."

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 2nd February 2016

"Hey sister, you just have to look at the cross to know that we have never and will never forget you and Larry.!!.  Forever and ever in our hearts.... TILL the day we meet......xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 18th December 2015

"May your beautiful Soul R.I.P. Mommy and your smile be imprinted in my heart so that í can live through your eyes forever . Xxxxx"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 18th December 2015

"Mommy i have woken up this morning with such sadness and a heavy heart. The pain does not get better as time goes by. I know you are with us today. Love you so much. We will all be together one day. Love you forever and ever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 30th November 2015

"Mommy, where are you? Every day is a battle to try and find you out there.  It all feels like a dream to me.  Another Christmas is coming up again.........  I cant wait to see your motherly smile again.  The love you always shown. xxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 24th August 2015

"Ag sister, its soooo quiet... the silence is too long.... the missing NEVER goes away.... we must pray for God to ease the longing... till we meet again. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 21st August 2015

"Mommy..............  its such a MAGIC day."

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 17th June 2015

"Dear Sister, happy birthday up there, with mommy and other loved ones at your side.  Hope you getting all my waves and kisses when I pass your flat. Yellow flowers on your cross my me.... but you know that hey :), love you , and will never forget you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 17th June 2015

"I am not sure what to say Mommy.  It was supposed to be a special day for the beautiful family we had,  We celebrated Larry's just before your's.  And then ....... you left in the next 5 minutes.  Those 5 minutes changed our lives forever.  I wish i had another 5 minutes with you.  My heart is next to yours today Mommy."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 10th May 2015

"I said a prayer for you this morning Mommy.  Its the best i could do.  I hope you heard me?  I miss you so much.

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY xxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 26th March 2015

"I miss you Mommy.  I know in my heart you never leave my side.  Just wish you were here so that i can share my life with you. It sure is a lonely road without my Mother and best friend.  The only person who knows me inside out.  I hope you can hear me call for you.  Take care up there my darling Mommy."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 14th March 2015

"Mommy, i miss our togetherness and long talks.  I need you so much. I know we cannot choose the path that's given to us but you always walked with me no matter how skew the road.  How i wish we were still on that road!  You live eternally in my heart."

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 18th December 2014

"Darling sister, I will NEVER forgot you, our family is just not whole without you. My heart still aches for you, it is still painful to think about you, all your footprints are a part of my life forever.  Till we meet xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 18th August 2014

"Precious sister, we still have a lot of pain, it hurts to think about you, we will always love and remember you.  I know that you are looking down on us, sometimes smiling, something shaking your head...... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 11th August 2014

"Mommy i miss you so much. I need you so much. You are the only person who will understand what i am going through. Nobody cares but i know you are with me and are standing by me and that is all that counts. Please also be with Aunty Lettie. Love you Lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 18th June 2014

"Mommy how I miss you so much, so much. my heart hurts so much. Please look over Aunty Lettie. She needs you so much. Her best friend and will always be. Miss you so so much. Love you lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 17th June 2014

"Mommy, you live in me.  Your heart is in my heart.  Cant wait to see you. Happy Birthday mommy, Thank You for being the greatest mom and best friend. xxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 17th June 2014

"I will NEVER forget, and NEVER stop loving you...... in my mind and heart at all times.  love you sister. xxxx"

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 17th June 2014

"Love and will always keep fondest memories of you. Always Dot"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 17th June 2014

"Mommy we miss you so much. Llewellyn, Cindy and Danny. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 18th March 2014

"Not a day passes that I don't miss you Mommy.  I envy all the daughters that still have their moms.  I guess the good Lord above needed you more."

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 19th December 2013

"One of the worst days of our lives!. Will always be one of the worst days of our lives, and we will never stop loving and missing you!. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 18th December 2013

"Mommy, I love you.  R.I.P."

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 18th December 2013

"How time flys, always missed and always remembered. Until we all meet again may you rest in peace."

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 18th December 2013

"Mommy, i cannot believe today is 5 years. It feels like just the other day. We miss you so much.  I need you so so much. I know you are looking down on us. I can feel it and the sign you give me.  Llewellyn and Danny and me miss you so very much. I know we will meet again and that keeps me going.  xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by lydia coutts on 25th October 2013

"Thinking of all my family xxxxx"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 25th October 2013

"Mommy I miss you so much. I think of you all the time. Please be with me and Daniel. We need you so much in this time we are going through even if you are not with us physically. I think of you and Larry, Daddy, Oupa and granny. You all are always in my mind.  I love all of you lots and lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 24th October 2013

"Theresa, you will never ever be forgotten!. We will never stop loving you.... till we meet again. It makes me so sad to see you holding your only little grandson.. not knowing you only had such a short time with him. xxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 21st October 2013

"Mommy, you more in my heart than ever before.  I just miss you so so much. I thought it gets easier but it doesn't.  One day ......................"

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 18th June 2013

"Miss you, miss you , miss you, my heart breaks to look at your photos,  Love you forever..... xxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 17th June 2013

"Theresa you will never be forgotten and loving memories remain of you and always will. We will light a candle today in your rememberance.
Love always xxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 2nd March 2013

"I wish I can pick up the phone and phone you Mommy. Times like this we need you. Please be with Cindy. She needs you. Protect her and keep her safe from harm. Miss our talks so much it hurts Mommy. We will be together again."

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 19th December 2012

"Gone from this earth but never to be forgotten, our loving sister."

This tribute was added by lydia coutts on 18th December 2012

"Thinking of you and all the family again at this time of the yearxxx"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 18th December 2012

"Mommy today 4 years you are gone yet it feels like just the other day.  You are forever in our hearts and i know you are nerby and looking after your Daniel.  Love you lots and lots Cindy, Llewellyn and Smurf(Daniel) you used to call him."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 25th September 2012

"Mommy, are you hearing me when I talk to you. Sometimes you seem so far away. I wish I could get your advice like in the past. I miss our talks every day. Remember our secret code when I called you? Don't ever forget I love you so much. You know my heart belongs with you. xxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 17th June 2012

"Mommy, you were on my mind today.  Wish we could have celebrated your birthday together again.  You know how my heart feels mommy. Put a kiss on the cross from all your sisters today. Keep them close to your heart they love you so so much.  Can't seem to wish you a happy day, its not happy for me. Miss you everyday mommy.xxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by lydia coutts on 17th June 2012

"Thinking of all the family at this time of the year.....love to everyone...."

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 17th June 2012

"Loving you always and forever in our hearts xxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 26th January 2012

"Mommy, I wish I could just pick up the phone and talk to you. All I wish is for us to just talk. I miss you so much nowadays. I miss your advice, your laughter, your voice.xxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 19th December 2011

"Darling Sister it has been 3 years... the scar is still there it will always be there.. the longing and missing is ever strong... the pain a little softer. We will all never ever forget you, you will always be a part of our lives. Love and miss you xxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 5th July 2011

"MOMMY I MISS YOU TERRIBLY!"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 17th June 2011

"happy birthday sister!!. You were with us yesterday, you were laughing with us!. Thank you for the wonderful gift you have passed on to us!. Love and miss you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 9th June 2011

"Darling Sister
Still always in my thoughts, it feels like yesterday you left us. I know you waiting with mommy. See you guys later. Keep a nice warm spot in the sun for me.xxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by CINDY-LEIGH LEWIS on 30th May 2011

"Mommy, everyday goes by i think of you. I wish you were here to see daniel growing up, but i console myself that you are watching over him all the time. Your one and only grand son and lorna is the only one that loves him.  I know you are our angel.c"

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 11th April 2011

"Our darling and never to be forgotten sister, You would be so proud of your two girls Lorna and Cindy.  We love and miss you always xxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 11th April 2011

"Darling Sister, Miss you so much.  Will always love and miss you no matter how time goes one!!. see you one day. Love kathy xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 10th April 2011

"My biggest wish came true.THANK YOU Mommy for visiting.THANK YOU for your blessing on Steve & I.It truly means the world to me.Only you know my heart Mommy.I know you with me now.My heart always needs you.I miss you so much. xxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 4th February 2011

"Mommy,it feels so hard nowadays. The pain seems more now than ever.I wish we were together again.I cant wait to see you again.My mommy,my best friend."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 28th November 2010

"Mommy,I think of you everyday of my life. Its so painful.I need you so much right now.Nothing will be the same anymore.Miss you so so much.Please watch over me this December.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 2nd November 2010

"Hi Cooks! loving and missing you every single breathing moment, has and never will be the same, stay by my side is all I ask, all my love Frikkadel xxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 17th June 2010

"Hey dear sister, you not here with us to share your birthday, BUT, where you are the sun shines brighter, the birds sing better, butterflies are bigger!!. Love u, think a lot about you, see you later!"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 14th June 2010

"Tomorrow is Larry's birthday Mommy. Please give him a huge kiss & hug for me. My heart is always so heavy and aches so much for you and Larry.xxxx"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 16th May 2010

"You been with me with weekend.  Crying so much in my heart, but was strong kept the tears back!. The pain is still so much, wish it would pass.  Miss you. Love you.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxkathy."

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 11th May 2010

"JUST MISSING YOU!!!!!.  AGAIN AND AGAIN. XXXXXXXX Kathy"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 30th April 2010

"Mommy,everyday my wish is to talk to you.I miss your Advise & Comfort you always gave me.I feel you around me all the time.I miss you so much.My heart will never be the same"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 16th March 2010

"Mommy, at the moment I dont have the words to express how my heart feels.It scares me to carry on without you.Am I making the right decisions now?You were always there to advise me mommy.I miss you so"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 8th March 2010

"Hello Theresa,
It cannot be over, it cannot be the end, it MUST be till I see you later dear sis. I know I am going to see you again. Always on my mind, be good till we meet again.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 26th February 2010

"Hi Cookie!Missing our laughs so much,missing you so much!nothing will ever be the same you have taken part of my heart, be at peace cookie till we meet again,may you always be by myside,all my luv Pat"

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 25th February 2010

"Mommy,How i miss you so much i still cannot accept your are gone.I need you so much right now.Thank you for the sign you showed me you are with me.Luv you forever and ever CindyXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 5th February 2010

"I have missed you so much mommy.I need you so much right now.You know how my heart feels.You are always on my mind on a daily basis.My world has changed without you here.How I love you so much."

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 26th January 2010

"To Darling Mommy,How my heart aches today,every minute of the day i think of you everyday.I luv you so much CindyXXXXXXXXX"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 13th January 2010

"Darling Sister (cookie), back home, thank you for that very special message I received,love you 4eva your heartbroken sister Pat (frikkadel)"

This tribute was added by Kathy Anderson on 12th January 2010

"My dearest sister, as usual you in my thoughts again, always, always thinking of you.Love you forever and ever!!. till we meet again xxxxx
Kathleen."

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 20th December 2009

"Dearest Theresa, on Friday when I released the two yellow balloons I know you were with me and teasing me... you read what I wrote... love you forever!. Kathleen"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 19th December 2009

"Darling Angel Mommy & Best Friend.You have taken a big part of my heart with you & I feel empty.Cannot find words to say how much I miss you & need you so much.Life will never be the same for me.xx"

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 18th December 2009

"Mommy today you are gone one year.if i could only turn back the clock.How my heart hurts today,it pains so i cannot believe you are gone.Luv you so much,Luv Cindy,Llewellyn,Danielxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 17th December 2009

"Mommy, tommorrow is one year you are gone just feels like the other day.I am so heart broken.I cannot dry my tears of take away my heartache.I know you are by my side.Luv you forever and ever cindyxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 27th November 2009

"Mommy, I think of you everyday.I miss you so so much & I so wish you were with us.Its Christmas soon again but it will never be the same for me.I feel sad that my Best Friend has left my side. xxx"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 26th November 2009

"Dear Theresa
I still cannot believe what happened. I am still so heart broken, I dont know hope to process the loss of you.  Oh Theresa, I am so sorry you passed on as you did and so untimely.xxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 25th November 2009

"Darling cookie,how I miss you! I have tried so hard to accept what has happened, but know that it is impossible,there is a part of my heart that is gone 4ever!Precious sister,I will luv you 4 eva! Pat"

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 18th November 2009

"Mommy today is 11 months you are gone.One more month close to christmas.I miss you so much the dream i had about you talking to me about daddy i know you are with him.luv and miss you so much cindyxxx"

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 29th September 2009

"Mommy, Like Daddy i never accepted he was gone and the same with you, I will never come to terms with it.  I luv you so much and miss you Luv Cindy Tell Daddy i Luv him XXX"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 26th September 2009

"Terry I know you safe with Mommy and Jesus!. We will be reunited.  Love Colleen. xxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 26th September 2009

"Terry mommy always said "The Rose still grows beyond the wall".  That is so true!. Love Marian"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 23rd September 2009

"Mommy, today I miss you so so much.I wish you were here with us.There is so much I want to tell you. I think of you all the time till it hurts.Please give daddy a kiss for me. xxxxxxxx"

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 18th September 2009

"Today is 9months.Mommy,I still cant believe that you have left us.Its so unbelievable. I love you so much and long for you. Hope your flying high with the Angels."

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 17th September 2009

"Why does it have to be 1946-2008. Too soon.So sad cant stop thinking about you!. Tell mommy I said "happy birthday" to her today."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 17th September 2009

"Mommy today is the 17th Sept. You are finally with daddy. My heart is full of sadness just how much I wish I could see you and dadddy just one more time together. Always in my heart. I miss you both."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 10th September 2009

"Oh Mommy, I don't know how to express my feelings of how lonely I feel without having you here in the human form.  Everyday is hard and nothing can be undone. I miss you so much....."

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 8th September 2009

"My dearest Mommy, Daniel's birthday is next week and you are not here.I will never come to terms you are gone.I wish i could dry my tears but i cannot.Luv you foreverxxxxx Cindy"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 1st September 2009

"Theresa, our beautiful butterfly, Love you and think of you ALL the time.  Till we meet again.xxx"

This tribute was added by Cindy-Leigh Lewis on 31st August 2009

"To Darling Mommy, I think of you every minute of the Day.  We miss you so much.  I wish you could see Daniel but i know you now see him every minute of the day now.  I luv you so much Cindy-Leigh"

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 24th August 2009

"We r struggling so to come to terms with what happened. Help us to be strong, remind us you would laugh and say, no man its ok, I'm fine, I'm happy, I'm OK! See you girls one day again. love u 4 ever."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 23rd August 2009

"Mommy,today is Sunday,I miss our drives we had & the precious time spent together. I miss your smiling face. I wish it was easier-but you are just so LOVED & MISSED here on earth. Always in my heart."

This tribute was added by Lorna Carlill on 18th August 2009

"Mommy, my darling Mother and Best Friend. I miss you so so so much - words cannot describe how I feel.  Not a day goes by that I long to hear your voice and have a laugh  
Your loving daughter Lorna"

This tribute was added by Dot Hite on 18th August 2009

"May the road rise to meet you, the wind be always at your back. The sun shine warm upon your face, And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
In loving memory of a dear Sister"

This tribute was added by Patricia Tee on 17th August 2009

"My dearest, darling sister, the hurt has been unbelievable, i try not to even think that you have gone, the pain is just too much. May you be forever at my side. Forever loved and missed, love Patxx."

This tribute was added by Kathleen Anderson on 17th August 2009

"Darling Sister, I regret that we never had a chance to say goodbye.... you left so suddenly.. but thats right, its not goodbye, its till later. We'll always look out for Lorna for you.  Love you lots!"


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