December 19, 2022
December 19, 2022
So much pain left behind as we continue to miss you but we take comfort in knowing you have our other angel with you and you are both at peace. Never ever will be forgotten dear sister. Love always ❤️
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Theresa Beatrice Lodder, 62 years old, born on June 17, 1946, and passed away on December 18, 2008. We will remember her forever.
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December 18, 2022
December 18, 2022
It's 14 years today but it still feels like yesterday. Mommy, I see you in all my actions each day. Our hearts have never parted. If I sit & think too long the pain overwhelms me all again of that fateful day!
I will see you one day, in God's time. Now and forever my love is with you constantly Mommy Xxxxxxxxx
I will see you one day, in God's time. Now and forever my love is with you constantly Mommy Xxxxxxxxx
June 17, 2022
June 17, 2022
HAPPY BIRTHDAY mommy and my best friend. My heart will always hurt but know that I carry you in my heart & soul every day of my life! Ii so wish we could go for that milkshake as we usually did. Xxxxx
January 25, 2022
January 25, 2022
Dearest precious Mommy, Please look over all of us as we grieve our precious Aunty Pat taken away from us so soon. Help us all in this time of pain, it hurts so much what we are all going through. She is re-united with you. Its not good bye but till we all see you all one day. You are with your Frikkadel as she called you. Lots of Love Cindy, Llewellyn and Daniel xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 18, 2021
December 18, 2021
Forever missed..... You are and will be forever missed.
Cannot and will never forget you!!
It still hurts and I guess always will. There are still doors I can't open because it hurts too much.
Love you forever and ever!!! ♥
Cannot and will never forget you!!
It still hurts and I guess always will. There are still doors I can't open because it hurts too much.
Love you forever and ever!!! ♥
June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
Time makes no difference, the longing and loving stay the same.
Wish we had more time together. You are always in my thoughts, you will never be forgotten or just become another memory. My heart will always be broken. Xxxxxxx
Wish we had more time together. You are always in my thoughts, you will never be forgotten or just become another memory. My heart will always be broken. Xxxxxxx
June 17, 2021
June 17, 2021
HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY Mommy.
I think of you every day and miss your soft voice full of advice and humorous laugh.
May Peace, Love and all the Angels surround you!
Hope you felt the kiss & hug I just sent you. Xxxx
I think of you every day and miss your soft voice full of advice and humorous laugh.
May Peace, Love and all the Angels surround you!
Hope you felt the kiss & hug I just sent you. Xxxx
December 19, 2020
December 19, 2020
Clearly recall the last time we spoke was on the phone & seems like yesterday. Know you have peace on the other side sis where we will all again gather and time will mean nothing. ❤️
December 18, 2020
December 18, 2020
You will always live in my heart Mommy. 3 Angels in heaven now. How it has been a loss for ùs. The love we have will last forever.
June 17, 2020
June 17, 2020
Happy Birthday sister.
I know you sharing it with special people. Hardly a day goes by that I dont think of you. The pain will never go away. When you died a part of me died.
Love you forever, you will never be forgotten.
You still very much alive in our hearts and minds.
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I know you sharing it with special people. Hardly a day goes by that I dont think of you. The pain will never go away. When you died a part of me died.
Love you forever, you will never be forgotten.
You still very much alive in our hearts and minds.
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June 17, 2020
June 17, 2020
No words today Mommy.... you know what i mean. My heart is still hurt. Only Memories envelop me on this special day. Until I see you again. xxxx
May 10, 2020
May 10, 2020
Mommy & Larry....Memories of going for a drive and having cake and coffee on Mothers Day. That is it, only a memory now.
May 2, 2020
May 2, 2020
Mommy..... Everyday I long for you and miss you very much. You seem to be with me in my daily living but I so wish we could have spent just a little more time together. You left a big part of my heart for Heaven.
December 19, 2019
December 19, 2019
I was in a shop yesterday, 18th, and saw someone that looked so like you. How I wished it was. 11yrs but a blink of the eye in the big scheme of things. Always remembered.
December 18, 2019
December 18, 2019
Exactly that, "Forever Missed".
Until we meet again, you are alive forever in my heart. A piece of me is broken forever...…… :(
Until we meet again, you are alive forever in my heart. A piece of me is broken forever...…… :(
December 18, 2019
December 18, 2019
Today is not the only day I long for you Mommy. I've been holding on to all the memories to see me through daily. We are still connected with the love we share.
June 17, 2019
June 17, 2019
Too young sister, too soon and too young. You had so much that you still needed to do, to see, to spend time with your grandson, your daughters, the pain is so hard.
I know you in a better place, BUT, we miss you so much, and nothing eases our pain. I still have your number on my phone, and always will, you only a heartbeat away.
Till we meet again. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
I know you in a better place, BUT, we miss you so much, and nothing eases our pain. I still have your number on my phone, and always will, you only a heartbeat away.
Till we meet again. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Dear Mommy , i am so sorry i was never told about Uncle Chappies passing. But i know he understands. As Llewellyn, Danny and i celebrate christmas alone again this year please show me a sign that you are all with us on christmas day. Luv you all very much and miss you all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 20, 2018
December 20, 2018
Taken so suddenly 10 years ago. Always remembered and always in our hearts.
December 18, 2018
December 18, 2018
Mommy today is a very sad day for me. Thank You for appearing in my dreams. The butterfly that is around me and the bird that get close to me and the stars in the sky is truly heaven. Thank you for the dream i had that you told me that love is unconditional, cannot be bought and can only come from the heart and that my love makes me the richest person on earth and that the only people i need in my life is the ones who need me in theirs. i miss you so much and all my love ones above as well. i know you are watching down on danny, myself and llewellyn. i love all my love ones in heaven and i know i will meet you all again one day. lots of hugs and kisses, cindy,llewellyn and your beautiful grandson Danny xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 18, 2018
December 18, 2018
Sister, dear sister, the pain it seems will never go away!!!!-still so very sad, miss you and love you forever and ever!!!!
December 18, 2018
December 18, 2018
I cannot change what happened yesterday as this is our past or have changed the course of our lives we had taken, but i do regret the things i could not do for you. Today, like any other day i carry you in my heart. You are truly a legend in my heart and i miss all the things we did together. Thank you for teaching me to Love every human being Mommy. Our lives are precious and short and Love and Kindness is a wonderful thing.
September 26, 2018
September 26, 2018
Sister I dreamt about you last night, and woke up crying for you. But in my dream I released a thousand beautiful colorful butterflies, and I take it as a sign you were telling me not to cry, but that you are free and happy, and know we love you!!!!!- I said I am crying for my sister, you said don't cry I am ok. Xxxxxxxxx
June 17, 2018
June 17, 2018
Mommy, today is your day, like every other day up in Heaven. It is your Birthday too! There is nothing in this world that i need but your love. A daughter only knows this when her best friend leaves. She will then know how she craves the love of her Mother. Today you rejoice in love and peace with Daddy. Happy Birthday Mommy. Happy Fathers day Daddy.
May 13, 2018
May 13, 2018
Mommy, i so wish we were on the same train at this stage and station of our lives. i would have loved to spoil you. I miss that and i miss all your advise and our talks.
You were the most loving Wife and Mother, and although your not here in body, your still my Mom.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
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You were the most loving Wife and Mother, and although your not here in body, your still my Mom.
HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY
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February 24, 2018
February 24, 2018
Sister, we will NEVER, forget you, you will ALWAYS be missed. We don't understand life yet, but you do!. Oh to just put my arms around you, to sit with you and mommy, just 30 minutes, just to say hello!. Love you for ever my angel!. Love to mommy too. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 18, 2017
December 18, 2017
Today is 9 Years Mommy. You, Daddy and Larry must be so happy in the Arms of Jesus.
R.I.P. Mommy - I know you are right here next to me in Spirit. Please don't go far away, I still need you. One day we will be together again and catch up on the years we have lost.
You are forever in my Heart and in my Soul. xxxxx
R.I.P. Mommy - I know you are right here next to me in Spirit. Please don't go far away, I still need you. One day we will be together again and catch up on the years we have lost.
You are forever in my Heart and in my Soul. xxxxx
November 30, 2017
November 30, 2017
Sister, it will never be ok, it will never be better, till I can see you again, feel my arms around you! Will never stop missing you.xxxxxx
November 24, 2017
November 24, 2017
Another year has flown by Mommy. It is still hard to believe the way you left us all. In a hurry with no goodbye's. Was this the way it was supposed to end? I know you are happy and at peace. You are with us in spirit, i cannot ask for more hey otherwise it would be greedy of me. You are always with me. Thank you for never leaving my side.
June 17, 2017
June 17, 2017
Happy Birthday Mommy. Wish you were here so I could have looked after you. You would be 71 today. Thank you for being the kindest, caring, loving mom you were. You are alive in my heart. Xxxx you must be so happy to be with daddy.
May 5, 2017
May 5, 2017
Mommy, I miss you every day. I see you in me through my daily life. My heart carries you wherever i go and someday we will catch up and I will tell you all my news. I cannot wait for that day. I hope you will be proud of me Mommy.. xxxx
December 18, 2016
December 18, 2016
RIP my darling Mother. You live inside me everyday I breathe. I feel your warmth of your comfort and care in everything I do. You know how much I miss you. Xxxxxxx
June 17, 2016
June 17, 2016
HAPPY BIRTHDAY Mommy. You would have been 70 today. Although my heart is sore, I know you are happy. May your beautiful Soul Rest in Peace.
June 15, 2016
June 15, 2016
Happy Birthday to my darling Stepdad Larry. You will always be in my heart. Thank you for looking after my Mother so well. Thank you for being a good dad to Cindy and myself. I hope you are having some cheesecake today. You know you have to. Just for ol times sake. xxxxxxx
April 18, 2016
April 18, 2016
Mommy, Uncle Chappie and Daddy can now do all the fishing they want. Just like they did when i was born. Today you were on mind and i miss you so much.
April 9, 2016
April 9, 2016
Thank you Mommy for the time we had together. The next chapter of our lives lay in the future.
February 2, 2016
February 2, 2016
Hey sister, you just have to look at the cross to know that we have never and will never forget you and Larry.!!. Forever and ever in our hearts.... TILL the day we meet......xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 18, 2015
December 18, 2015
Mommy i have woken up this morning with such sadness and a heavy heart. The pain does not get better as time goes by. I know you are with us today. Love you so much. We will all be together one day. Love you forever and ever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
December 18, 2015
December 18, 2015
May your beautiful Soul R.I.P. Mommy and your smile be imprinted in my heart so that í can live through your eyes forever . Xxxxx
November 30, 2015
November 30, 2015
Mommy, where are you? Every day is a battle to try and find you out there. It all feels like a dream to me. Another Christmas is coming up again......... I cant wait to see your motherly smile again. The love you always shown. xxxxx
August 24, 2015
August 24, 2015
Ag sister, its soooo quiet... the silence is too long.... the missing NEVER goes away.... we must pray for God to ease the longing... till we meet again. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
August 21, 2015
August 21, 2015
Mommy.............. its such a MAGIC day.
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
I am not sure what to say Mommy. It was supposed to be a special day for the beautiful family we had, We celebrated Larry's just before your's. And then ....... you left in the next 5 minutes. Those 5 minutes changed our lives forever. I wish i had another 5 minutes with you. My heart is next to yours today Mommy.
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Dear Sister, happy birthday up there, with mommy and other loved ones at your side. Hope you getting all my waves and kisses when I pass your flat. Yellow flowers on your cross my me.... but you know that hey :), love you , and will never forget you. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
May 10, 2015
May 10, 2015
I said a prayer for you this morning Mommy. Its the best i could do. I hope you heard me? I miss you so much.
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY xxxxxx
HAPPY MOTHERS DAY xxxxxx
March 26, 2015
March 26, 2015
I miss you Mommy. I know in my heart you never leave my side. Just wish you were here so that i can share my life with you. It sure is a lonely road without my Mother and best friend. The only person who knows me inside out. I hope you can hear me call for you. Take care up there my darling Mommy.
March 14, 2015
March 14, 2015
Mommy, i miss our togetherness and long talks. I need you so much. I know we cannot choose the path that's given to us but you always walked with me no matter how skew the road. How i wish we were still on that road! You live eternally in my heart.
December 18, 2014
December 18, 2014
Darling sister, I will NEVER forgot you, our family is just not whole without you. My heart still aches for you, it is still painful to think about you, all your footprints are a part of my life forever. Till we meet xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
August 18, 2014
August 18, 2014
Precious sister, we still have a lot of pain, it hurts to think about you, we will always love and remember you. I know that you are looking down on us, sometimes smiling, something shaking your head...... xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
August 11, 2014
August 11, 2014
Mommy i miss you so much. I need you so much. You are the only person who will understand what i am going through. Nobody cares but i know you are with me and are standing by me and that is all that counts. Please also be with Aunty Lettie. Love you Lots xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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December 19, 2022
December 19, 2022
So much pain left behind as we continue to miss you but we take comfort in knowing you have our other angel with you and you are both at peace. Never ever will be forgotten dear sister. Love always ❤️
December 18, 2022
December 18, 2022
It's 14 years today but it still feels like yesterday. Mommy, I see you in all my actions each day. Our hearts have never parted. If I sit & think too long the pain overwhelms me all again of that fateful day!
I will see you one day, in God's time. Now and forever my love is with you constantly Mommy Xxxxxxxxx
I will see you one day, in God's time. Now and forever my love is with you constantly Mommy Xxxxxxxxx
June 17, 2022
June 17, 2022
HAPPY BIRTHDAY mommy and my best friend. My heart will always hurt but know that I carry you in my heart & soul every day of my life! Ii so wish we could go for that milkshake as we usually did. Xxxxx
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At the end of each day, it's only memories we have.
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Mommy and Me
Mommy's favourite chair. I always have the peaceful thoughts of her falling asleep on a Sunday afternoon.
So many beautiful memories. Wish i could have them back. xx
We were all together as a family. Our lives are just a vapour in the wind. We had a lot to be thankful for. Appreciate the little time we have together as it can be all taken away in an instant.
If i was granted just one wish, i would go to that beautiful place and spend just 1 hour with Mommy, Larry & my Father and tell them i had loved them.
I so wish i could grab a piece of the old days just to feel the emotions again that i had at the time. We all just hold on to the memories and hope the feeling of longing subsides.
The Mummy
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January 10, 2020
True & Genuine Loneliness is when you lose a Child, A Best Best Friend or Soul Mate. It is here I am feeling it most! In Spirit we might connect but its certainly not the same in the flesh since, you Mommy, Daddy & Larry left. So I keep telling myself that this is only a Journey.
Missing You
May 13, 2018
Who ever thought that You, Daddy & Larry would have left us so quickly without saying Goodbye.
Life is so short Mommy, it is horrible to think that just a small mistake costed you your life Mommy. I have realized that there is so much sadness & sorrow in this world, but when you look closely Life does go on and it can be beautiful!
Our lights can be dimmed whenever the good Lord calls and i cannot wait to see you again.
Our Souls and Hearts are always together Mommy. I know you are right next to me.
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LOVE LETTERS TO MY SWEETHEART
November 24, 2017
I found this note amongst mommys things. It was written possibly before they married in 1969. I think it is just so beautiful how my father loved her. Wish they were still here. There is so much I want to ask them.
A Real Love you have for your spouse lasts forever. Even when they leave this world. It never dies, I saw this in mommy when he left us. The love and memories she had for my father was buried in her heart till she joined him.