July 17, 2016
July 17, 2016
I forever remember you... Your spirit always with us.
In God’s care you rest above,
In our hearts you rest with love.
I write this with great sadness over the unimaginable loss of a close friend. Alex was surrounded by loved ones and passed peacefully on April 16, 2015.
Alex was known to be a kind and genuine man with an infectious smile. He was a born leader, passionate in everything he did. Curious in nature and always up for an adventure or challenge, he made an impact on every life he touched. His magnetic smile will be missed by all who knew him. When we love people it’s so comforting to know that they will always be with us in our hearts.
His message to all his friends and family: Love one another and cherish each moment you have with them! Don't mind the little things in life because you never know what will happen tomorrow.
We are reminded of how precious life is and how to never wish a day away. Remember to tell everyone we love of that every day. Thank you for being part of our journey.
I’ll see you again, my friend!
Eveline
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The family will receive friends on Monday, April 20, from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM at the Scarpaci Funeral Home, 1401 86th Street, Brooklyn, NY 11228.
Scarpaci Funeral Home
1401 86th Street
Brooklyn N.Y. 11228
Chapel D
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April 18, 2016
April 18, 2016
Miss you. So sad that you are no longer with us. #BSSS4Ever
April 16, 2016
April 16, 2016
Dearest Alex,
Can't believe it has been a year since you went to heaven! We all miss you so much! Your friends and family still miss and think about you all the time! Sending you our love!
Can't believe it has been a year since you went to heaven! We all miss you so much! Your friends and family still miss and think about you all the time! Sending you our love!
November 4, 2015
November 4, 2015
"SANE, the King of Arrow"
I used to call you the king of arrows
back when we were sixteen dropping ink
from loose-leaf pages to black book days
we'd bug out during class after being told,
"you guys should really be paying attention"
instead, pencils, pens and markers outlined
our school lessons, sleek with 3-D shadows
highlights as bright as your everyday smile
and as always, you're rocking all types
of arrows out of every which way
you said to me,
"it makes the piece look wetter, none of that plastic
lettering, cookie cut-outs from the obvious veterans"
you'd always kept it 100% funky
every burner was a disguise to the graffiti flunky
you taught me the art of connecting letters
in the wildest ways, now I'm sitting here at Scarpaci
funeral home listening to your mother
bewailing the death of her son, the death of a star
a natural born leader, curious and courageous through it all
battle after battle, you gave your all
rest easy friend, you will forever live on
inside all the hearts you touched
every soul you brushed up against
felt your cosmic vibrations, we'll miss you
but never forget our conversations
you shed light in the darkest rooms
and never feared the future
you had a vision laced with empathy
you felt the pain of others
directed them towards laughter
you lead melancholy souls to the rivers of elation
you were more than just a friend, brother, son
you were the king of arrows
an original graffiti disciple
Alex Li, rest in peace
I will forever remember
everything you taught me
I used to call you the king of arrows
back when we were sixteen dropping ink
from loose-leaf pages to black book days
we'd bug out during class after being told,
"you guys should really be paying attention"
instead, pencils, pens and markers outlined
our school lessons, sleek with 3-D shadows
highlights as bright as your everyday smile
and as always, you're rocking all types
of arrows out of every which way
you said to me,
"it makes the piece look wetter, none of that plastic
lettering, cookie cut-outs from the obvious veterans"
you'd always kept it 100% funky
every burner was a disguise to the graffiti flunky
you taught me the art of connecting letters
in the wildest ways, now I'm sitting here at Scarpaci
funeral home listening to your mother
bewailing the death of her son, the death of a star
a natural born leader, curious and courageous through it all
battle after battle, you gave your all
rest easy friend, you will forever live on
inside all the hearts you touched
every soul you brushed up against
felt your cosmic vibrations, we'll miss you
but never forget our conversations
you shed light in the darkest rooms
and never feared the future
you had a vision laced with empathy
you felt the pain of others
directed them towards laughter
you lead melancholy souls to the rivers of elation
you were more than just a friend, brother, son
you were the king of arrows
an original graffiti disciple
Alex Li, rest in peace
I will forever remember
everything you taught me
November 3, 2015
November 3, 2015
Happy Birthday Alex! Thinking of you today!
November 3, 2015
November 3, 2015
My dear sweet Alex, you always called me aunt ginger and made me smile each time. My boys George and Michael brought home one good friend and that was you, you always came to the house with your infectious smile and with such total respect, we always had you over for special occasions and holidays. I was so sad the day they told me you had passed but in a way so very happy because the boy that was going through so much pain and suffering was no longer gonna have to do that. Alex may you find the peace and comfort in the arms of Jesus and your wings and precious smile glow up in heaven. We miss you so much but we all know you are in such a better place.
Aunt ginger...
Aunt ginger...
May 3, 2015
May 3, 2015
I read this on the train ride back from attending Alex's funeral and thought of him.
Heaven by Patrick Phillips
It will be the past
and we'll live there together.
Not as it was to live
but as it is remembered.
It will be the past.
We'll all go back together.
Everyone we ever loved,
and lost, and must remember.
It will be the past.
And it will last forever.
Heaven by Patrick Phillips
It will be the past
and we'll live there together.
Not as it was to live
but as it is remembered.
It will be the past.
We'll all go back together.
Everyone we ever loved,
and lost, and must remember.
It will be the past.
And it will last forever.
April 24, 2015
April 24, 2015
Alex- you're one great friend. You are always smiling and sharing your travel stories. You are always there. You showed me life is full of possibilities and how to stop for a moment to enjoy life. You showed me new places for great food and desserts. I am so glad that I met you and get to know you. Thank you for all the times that you have been there for me. I will never forget you.
April 21, 2015
April 21, 2015
Hi Alex, I'll never forget your big smile that came from within. It always bursted through from your tough exterior and gave away what a caring, warm and genuine soul within. It makes me really sad to know the world is a little less bright without that now, but I feel so grateful to of been touched by your warmth. It always honored me just to be your friend, knowing that you were someone who valued authenticity. Thank you. May your soul rest in peace.
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
He was a great friend in high school. So saddened to hear the news. He will be missed.
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
You are in our hearts and payers.
April 20, 2015
April 20, 2015
Our first conversation presented itself as I watched you graffiti my classroom desk. Standing over your shoulder, you were so involved with your art, I didn't want to startle you.
When finished I said, "Stop wasting time creating something that you now have to clean up. Start a portfolio like all artists and save your work. Use it as extracurricular work to get into college."
Everyday you were in my classroom, stayed after school, always took time to help when it was needed. I got to know a young man whose potential for success was great, whose ambition was strong, whose creativity was fascinating, whose heart was open, whose spirit was full of life.
I had the pleasure of meeting you again when I returned home to NY. And you were all I believed you were to be. This boy I knew became a successful young man, filled with want, ambition, love, light, kindness, strength and great spirit.
I loved the time we spent together discussing life, love, politics, our future plans, the insight you provided, the advice, the kindness, the understanding, the warmth. You empowered others.
You were never afraid Alex. You always wanted more for yourself, your family, your friends. This is what I love most about you. This is what I keep in my heart forever.
I will keep your smile, your presence alive in heart and mind. I imagine heaven is enjoying your spirit, but Im jealous, I want you here. I miss you Alex.
Until we meet again.
When finished I said, "Stop wasting time creating something that you now have to clean up. Start a portfolio like all artists and save your work. Use it as extracurricular work to get into college."
Everyday you were in my classroom, stayed after school, always took time to help when it was needed. I got to know a young man whose potential for success was great, whose ambition was strong, whose creativity was fascinating, whose heart was open, whose spirit was full of life.
I had the pleasure of meeting you again when I returned home to NY. And you were all I believed you were to be. This boy I knew became a successful young man, filled with want, ambition, love, light, kindness, strength and great spirit.
I loved the time we spent together discussing life, love, politics, our future plans, the insight you provided, the advice, the kindness, the understanding, the warmth. You empowered others.
You were never afraid Alex. You always wanted more for yourself, your family, your friends. This is what I love most about you. This is what I keep in my heart forever.
I will keep your smile, your presence alive in heart and mind. I imagine heaven is enjoying your spirit, but Im jealous, I want you here. I miss you Alex.
Until we meet again.
April 19, 2015
April 19, 2015
Hey bro...it's still hard to accept that you're gone from us...we were just eating and reminiscing our childhood days couple weeks ago...You told me to cherish everything I have and live everyday like it's my last...Thank you for being there and you will truly be missed...Rest In Peace my brother.....
April 19, 2015
April 19, 2015
No word to express the sadness. Lee' family missed you. Uncle III
April 19, 2015
April 19, 2015
Thank you for the 28 years. You will truly be missed brother.
April 18, 2015
April 18, 2015
Alex - You're in heaven now! My heart is broken because you're no longer here but I'm also glad to know that you're with God now! Remember what I said? This is not a "Good-bye" but a "See you later!" Rest in peace - my friend!
Revelation 21:4 "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
Eveline
Revelation 21:4 "He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away."
Eveline
April 18, 2015
April 18, 2015
Hey Alex, I called that night thinking of you. You're in my mind in my heart. Stay strong in spirit... I forever remember you!
April 18, 2015
April 18, 2015
I'm in shock. I can't believe you're gone. God needed an Angel so he chose you. You're not suffering anymore you're resting in peace with God now. I miss you so much. You were always there for me, helping me with my problems, taking me out to eat, making me laugh with you're funny jokes, taking me out for dessert you've done so much for me and I will never forget. You had a heart made out of gold. I love you and I will see you again one day. Keep watching over me my guardian angel. You will forever be in my heart.
Love, you're chocolate chip cookie❤️Since that's what you always used to call me. RestInTheSweetestPeaceSweetAngel. Forever in my heart & mind
Love, you're chocolate chip cookie❤️Since that's what you always used to call me. RestInTheSweetestPeaceSweetAngel. Forever in my heart & mind
April 18, 2015
April 18, 2015
We went to Dewey together but didnt meet you until recently at alfreds house. RIP brother
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saw one of these on the road still.. I remember the older whips, the og benz too..
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April 19, 2015
Alex and I have been friends since we were 14 years old. We used to hang out at Cropsey Park after school and on weekends. Life was so carefree. I just wanted to share some memories of Alex to show what a great friend he was.
1. One best memory was right after we got our driver's permits, Alex snuck his dad's car out to pick up Joe, his friend and I after school just to drive around. The car stalled after a couple blocks and we were like...shit what do we do now...we both didn't have a license and we were panicking. After an hour we somehow got the engine started and we dodged a huge bullet. Alex always lived life to the fullest with no regrets and he always want to include his friends no matter what.
2. We took driving courses together and we always took lessons the same day. We would take turns driving 90 minutes and I'll sit in the back and vice versa. One time the instructor made me pull over to a supermarket and made Alex get off the car to go buy milk. He walked out with 2 gallons on each arm haha. After the lesson, we were pissed off, but we just ended up laughing about how our instructor utilized our driving time for his grocery shopping.
3. Who can forget all his crazy birthday barbeques in his backyard? Every year he wanted nothing more than his friends and families join him for his celebration on a cold November night in his backyard.
4. When I worked at the bank I told him that I was always stressed out from finding clients and getting referrals. Alex told me " I got you bro." Next day he came in my bank and referred his mom to me to open up some accounts. Alex would always go out of his way to pull through for his friends.
4. Alex was at his happiest when he met Danese. He told me everything about her and when I met her, I knew she would be the one for him. I always felt like a third wheel when I'm with them but it's okay because after awhile she's like a sister to me.
So Alex was a guy whose smile and personality lit up the room and when you first meet him, you would never forget him. He was always there for you no matter what situation. You will forever be missed bro...