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We created this website in memory of our love, our friend, our teacher, Barnett (Barney) Glickfeld. Barney was born on September 29, 1939, in Manhattan, New York, and passed away from complications of COVID on February 8, 2022. 

The recording of Barney's funeral ceremony is available for 14 days at:
 Barnett Glickfeld JD, PhD.mp4
 and on Youtube (please see at this site's gallery)

Below is the phrase from "Rasselas Prince of Abyssinia" by Samuel Johnson that Barney loved and was often reciting:

"Ye who listen with credulity to the whispers of fancy, and pursue with eagerness the phantoms of hope; who expect that age will perform the promises of youth, and that the deficiencies of the present day will be supplied by the morrow, attend to the history of Rasselas, Prince of Abyssinia."

Barney, I miss your love, your wit, your wisdom so much. Thirty years was not enough... 
I need to learn to live without you.

Through macrocosm and scintillating orbs
I say the name of One Celestial Lover:
Not that I have been loving Him before,
But that I have been wearied by the others.

And if the doubt exacts a heavy toll,
He was the One I'm begging for true guidance,
Not that He brought more light into the world,
But that with Him, one'd be content in darkness.
With love, Natalia (Natasha)
A poem by Innokenty Annensky

Tel (312)933-2838
nata844@gmail.com

A link to Barney's obituary in Chicago Tribune:
https://www.legacy.com/us/obituaries/chicagotribun...
October 18, 2022
October 18, 2022
I am so deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Barney, my wonderful friend and guru.

For me the jejune intellectual landscape of the Computer Science Department was redeemed only by the presence of Barney.

We met in 1987 when I took one of his rambling AI courses at NIU. It was a riot to be in his class and I convinced him to take one every semester after that so that we could meet regularly. And so those crazy Prolog courses continued, with his faithful followers signing up for each one.

We spent hours together after class chatting, joking, arguing. And after every conversation there was a list of books that must be read.
I find I do exactly the same with my students now. If they recall me with even half the fondness with which I talk of Barney, I think I'll have nailed it.

He once said to me in an unguarded moment - tell your father back in India that I'm looking after you here.

When I left the US he insisted on picking me up from NIU and dropped me to Chicago airport, after spending a lovely day together by the lake.

He wasn't much of an emailer but we did have some really long phone calls when K left him.

I cajoled him to visit India. The land of Gandhi, who we both deeply admired. He just laughed. He had a point, i mean the guy could barely make it across the street to get a sandwich. It was always such a big production, his dinner.

Goodbye dear Barney. Wherever the fuck you may be now, keep on haranguing them, like you always did.

- Jogesh









February 9, 2022
February 9, 2022
I will never forgot Barney. We spent so many evenings in his condominium (or cat-eminium as he called it) in Chicago discussing everything from mathematics to psychology to music. Barney had so many incredible stories and I always looked at him with great admiration. Barney taught me so much about life, about learning and about loving. Barney was the smartest and most interesting man I will ever meet in my lifetime.
Gordon Dri
February 12, 2022
February 12, 2022
A brilliant, generous man, and a wonderful, dedicated teacher. I learned so much from Barney over the years, and feel so privileged to have known him.

As I think of Barney, I remember all those wide-ranging, mind-blowing conversations we had about everything under the sun and over the moon.

The jokes (both good and bad).

The quotes (always profound).

The way he'd occasionally burst into a Gilbert & Sullivan song with that beautiful bass voice of his.

His total befuddlement at the mysteries of 3-dimensional existence.

His great love of learning and teaching, and his deep affection for his students.

His bright smile, booming laughter, boundless curiosity, and incredibly sage insights into life and love and what it is to be human.

All of these things made this world a better place.

Dearest Barney, thank you for your tour of duty on this planet. Though there are tears here on this earth today, I hear your laughter in the ethers!
February 13, 2022
February 13, 2022
I feel very fortunate and privileged to have met Barney and to have been able to share some of his wisdom, wit, intelligence and humour. Barney was one of those exceptional humans that from time to time we are lucky to meet and be able to share some time, laughter, friendship and love. Barney had the uncanny ability to read people fast and be able to draw them in like a long lost friend or family member. The conversation would always pick up where it had left off and no matter how hard every day life had become for Barney, he always had the mental energy and space to dig deep and force you to do the same. Barney had a smile that would light up the room. Within minutes of being with Barney, he made you feel welcome, valued and loved. He saw beauty and value in the treasures that in the end make life worth living. Thank you Barney for the laughter, love, acceptance and sharing your intellect with me. I will never forget the conversations, the feeling of being in the presence of someone great yet so humble and brave. A one-of-a-kind person; I am blessed for having known you. I hope we will meet again sometime on the other side. You're going to me missed by many, Barney. 
February 24
February 24
I am going through my father in law’s paperwork and found a note from Mr Glickfeld to John Lindberg and some math information. Pretty cool. RIP sir.
February 8
February 8
Today marks the 2nd year anniversary of the passing of my dear friend or should I say surrogate grandfather Barney. I had never met any one like Barney nor do I think I ever will and that's what makes his passing so painful. He was an inspiration to me, as he was to many others, not only because of his wit, humor, and intelligence, but also because of his remarkable ability to connect with people from diverse backgrounds and his skill in understanding individuals on a deeper level. Barney brought so much light and joy into my life when I needed it and I really hope I was able to reciprocate the same for him. I so wish he was here today. You are dearly missed barney. Give Riceball a pet for me. Love your surrogate granddaughter, Frances




February 8
February 8
If I could turn back time or hold my breath long enough to change the future, I would. The first thing I would do is get more time with Barney. It’s probably better that we humans can’t do these types of things though. What I do know for certain, is that the passage of time has only led me to reflect more frequently and deeply on the wonderfully rich and amazing conversations I was lucky enough to share with Barney. They are very much like a warm blanket bringing comfort and peace with each recollection and remembrance. I miss him because of what I knew of him and what he gave so generously, but also because there was so much more to Barney than what the time I had with him afforded. In remembering his laugh, dry sense of humour and self deprecating sense of self, I am immediately transported to a scene where time seems to have left the space and there never seemed to be enough of it. What I am remembering mostly lately and what strikes me more each time I ponder it, is that this one human touched so many lives and stretched so many minds. What a gift he was to all who had the privilege to know and love him. I am more grateful for him everyday and for the gift of his Beloved Natalia (Natasha). Thank you for being you Barney and imprinting yourself on the world in the amazing and brilliant ways that you continue to do even now. I miss you. With love and fondness, Wanda
January 18, 2023
January 18, 2023
Jan 18, 2023... 3:33 PM...

Dear Barney, I know this is "late," but better than nothing OK? I don’t recall most of the details about our many encounters but, they were meaningful if frustrating and infuriating. I really didn’t know much about you -- marriage, etc. Our corner offices in the Psych-Math building were on opposite sides of the fifth floor and I could hear your booming laugh as though it were next door. I also don't recall anything about the theorem; I had tried to talk my mathematician brother into visiting me here at NIU wanting to have him meet you but as usual, he was
contemptuous of my request. (He committed suicide in 1964). The occasion for this missive is a discussion with my wife about you.
April 26, 2022
April 26, 2022
Mathematician, authoring the “Glickfeld Theorem”, civil rights and criminal lawyer, computer scientist, academician, fall out of your chair comic and humorist, and amateur psychologist and contre baritone, my fallen friend and hero Barnett “Barney Glickfeld”.

May he rest in eternal peace.

If I had the brains and talent to possess just two of those skills, I’d be truly gifted. He was a f*cking genius……Barney, you mutha f…....!
April 12, 2022
April 12, 2022
A tribute by Paula Friedman

Many years since I knew Barney--we were both young persons in math at Cornell. We hung out together often, talking about everything. He challenged me intellectually more than anyone I knew and awakened me to much I hadn't known. Very generous with his time and interest, he was a person whose death is difficult to start to realize. May his name be for a blessing.
02/14/2022
March 23, 2022
March 23, 2022
Barney was a very good friend of mine. We had a lot of time spent together. He was a very intelligent and smart man. We shared many rides between DeKalb and Chicago. During those rides we talked on many different subjects and laughed a lot. We had many lunch meetings and spent time at YMCA facility in LaGrange. I really missed him for the humorist talks that we had since 1988 – the year I joined the department – until his retirement. I will never forget my dear friend Barney.
February 12, 2022
February 12, 2022
“Some days there won't be a song in your heart. Sing anyway.”
Emory Austin

I was blessed to have had the opportunity to provide assistance and utmost care for Barney during the past year. Barney was a brilliant man, but more importantly he was a good friend to me and many. His wit brought so many great laughs that will continue to resonate within my heart when I think of
all his jokes. I will miss preparing his favorite food requests, matzoh ball soup and turkey patty. He loved listening to music and we loved to sing along together. These are some my fondest memories I have with Barney.

Rest easy Barney, you fought so well, you inspired many, loved Natalia so deeply, you loved so loudly, no one that ever knew you can ever forget you. Thank you for all the help and wisdom you have gifted me. Until we meet again.
February 12, 2022
February 12, 2022
Barney was my teacher, my colleague, my dear friend. 
We talked about work, conversations that have since long been forgotten.
We talked about life, love, relationships both found and lost. Those
I will never forget. 

Together we laughed, struggled to make sense of the world, celebrated beauty
and the human spirit, and lamented humanity's darker side.
Experiencing Barney's compassion, insight, intellect, reason, and humor
was a gift, and I am forever grateful.

I will miss my friend. I will forever hold his memory in my heart.
February 11, 2022
February 11, 2022
It is a blessing to have known Barney. Barney’s unique sense of humor matched mine so well and that’s what really bonded us. He is truly an inspiration with all he has accomplished and his willingness to teach others. Both Natalia and Barney treated me with such kindness that I will never forget. Most importantly, Barney taught me something that I needed to remember forever: “Nothing is simple but on the other hand, nothing is simple.”
February 10, 2022
February 10, 2022
There were many times I stayed late working in the office, because I was making up time for being in class. I was unsure of which major to settle on.

Dr. Glickfeld taught an evening class and would drop by the office occasionally.

He once recommended that I should take a Computer Science class because it would be very beneficial to me in the future, but he wanted me to keep it a secret to everyone else that it was he who had made the recommendation.

If it hadn't been for him, I wouldn't be working on the Mainframe today. I will never forget his wisdom that he shared with me.
February 10, 2022
February 10, 2022
Barney was a good friend, and a respected Professor at NIU. I will miss his wit, sense of humor, and of course, intelligence. RIP.

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February 24
February 24
I am going through my father in law’s paperwork and found a note from Mr Glickfeld to John Lindberg and some math information. Pretty cool. RIP sir.
February 8
February 8
Today marks the 2nd year anniversary of the passing of my dear friend or should I say surrogate grandfather Barney. I had never met any one like Barney nor do I think I ever will and that's what makes his passing so painful. He was an inspiration to me, as he was to many others, not only because of his wit, humor, and intelligence, but also because of his remarkable ability to connect with people from diverse backgrounds and his skill in understanding individuals on a deeper level. Barney brought so much light and joy into my life when I needed it and I really hope I was able to reciprocate the same for him. I so wish he was here today. You are dearly missed barney. Give Riceball a pet for me. Love your surrogate granddaughter, Frances




February 8
February 8
If I could turn back time or hold my breath long enough to change the future, I would. The first thing I would do is get more time with Barney. It’s probably better that we humans can’t do these types of things though. What I do know for certain, is that the passage of time has only led me to reflect more frequently and deeply on the wonderfully rich and amazing conversations I was lucky enough to share with Barney. They are very much like a warm blanket bringing comfort and peace with each recollection and remembrance. I miss him because of what I knew of him and what he gave so generously, but also because there was so much more to Barney than what the time I had with him afforded. In remembering his laugh, dry sense of humour and self deprecating sense of self, I am immediately transported to a scene where time seems to have left the space and there never seemed to be enough of it. What I am remembering mostly lately and what strikes me more each time I ponder it, is that this one human touched so many lives and stretched so many minds. What a gift he was to all who had the privilege to know and love him. I am more grateful for him everyday and for the gift of his Beloved Natalia (Natasha). Thank you for being you Barney and imprinting yourself on the world in the amazing and brilliant ways that you continue to do even now. I miss you. With love and fondness, Wanda
His Life

Barnett (Barney) Weil Glickfeld, PhD, JD

February 10, 2022
was born in Manhattan, NY, and attended the Bronx High School of Science. After graduating at the age of fifteen, he went to Cornell University to study mathematics. He continued his studies at Columbia University, where he received his Ph.D. in mathematics for successfully solving a long-standing mathematical problem whose solution was then named for him — the Glickfeld Theorem. For the next 15 years, he taught mathematics at Harvard University, Rockefeller University, and Washington State University.  

His involvement in the civil rights movement in the 1970s inspired him to study law while still teaching mathematics at Washington State University. After receiving his JD, he became a Public Defender in Seattle.

His later occupations included mathematical analyst at Boeing, Cray, and Control Data Corporation. For the past 20 years, he was a professor of computer science at Northern Illinois University, where he drew great satisfaction from teaching students and pursuing scientific research.

Known as Barney to his friends and colleagues, he was loved by all for his wry observations on matters mundane and profound, and for his wisdom, which he imparted with characteristic wit and warmth.

Service will be held Sunday, February 13 2022 at 10 AM
at Chicago Jewish Funerals
8851 Skokie Blvd, Skokie 60077

The funeral will also be streamlined live
at https://chicagojewishfunerals.com/funeral-detail-page/?case=A823A1F1-EECB-4628-94C4-B41393DD7A2E
Please scroll the page down and click the black "Live stream" button

Recent stories

Barney’s special view from his favorite couch

April 17, 2023
Barney had a special lounging spot in my library, where he could look into my tree filled back yard and also view me in the kitchen.   His hair oil left a smudge on the mahogany paneling…..forever a remembrance of his connection and presence

Barney’s talents

April 1, 2023
Barney and I were love-partners for about 8 years, when he shared my Seattle(Montlake) house.   He spent much time singing and sight reading at my piano.   I bought him a book of opera scores, so he could accompany himself.   I loved hearing him so enjoy playing and singing.

He feared he wouldn’t get tenure so hustled up a teaching position in Chicago.  It turned out he DID get tenure at the Univ. of Washington, after all!   He was settled in Chicago by the time I found out.

I have old slides of Barney in my camera that I need to develop.   Most of them were taken in the many Islands visited by ferry,where he loved to go on the weekends.

The Clock (shared by Jogesh Motwani)

October 27, 2022
       
So if he had a three o-clock class, he would always be late by 25-30 minutes, and by our second course with him, we were all tuned to his time. 
So he would bustle in, this great white toothless shark, dropping stuff and slamming his bag and cap down, shirt, hair disheveled, and that rosy face flushed. 
"Oh man, oh man... Maatwaani, women (insert name of appropriate ex-wife) ... "
And he'd give all this gyan about how women control men, and how showing kindness in America is the greatest punishable crime, and blah blah blah, and all the girls in class would be protesting, and all the guys would be supporting him, and it was a blast.
So anyhow, we would all stroll into class at 3:20-3:25 types because that was still early for a Barney class. 
The clock was at the back of the class as you entered, so you had to turn to see it. 
So one day, he arrives at 3:05 or 3:10 and finds an empty class. So another guy and I are the first to trickle in from the floor above, where we, as TAs had our office. 
We see him, turn around, check the clock, and sit down. Chit-chatting begins. Slowly, one by one, over the next 20 min, each person walks in, sees him, is taken aback, turns around and checks the clock, checks their wristwatch, looks quizzically at the class (like, wtf!), and sits down.
He's steadily losing it watching this play out with every student, and we are by then all giggling away, waiting for the next one to happen.
He was so angry that day. Why are you all so late? And why is everyone turning back to check the clock?

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