Who knew that 30 years ago I would meet a real life super hero. An amazing husband, a father, a grandfather, a coworker,a boss, a friend, a cousin, an uncle but everyone knew him as Bumpie. A name I gave him at a young age but a name that stuck for decades. He may have called himself, many times a “dumb carpenter” but to everyone he came in contact with, knew he was the man who could fix anything, the man who would put a smile on anyones face, the man who loved his family and friends to the fullest and would do anything for them, this man my Bumpie is my hero. At a very young age he seemed to be someone I always wants to be around, he taught me the gift of imagination with millions of hours playing dolls, dress up, playing school and so much more. He even built me a life size doll house so one day I can teach my own kids the gifts he taught me. He also taught me that Family comes first and together we can do anything. He showed me what true love looks like. Each and every day he was the best husband to my nana, holding hands every time they were walking, dancing in their living room, a wink from across the room. He was the strongest most kind hearted person I know.
From our countless trips to the cape, playing on the beach, deep sea fishing, shopping and going to providence town to the memories we shared here. I don’t think I ever had anything but a smile on my face when I was around him. When anyone would meet me within minutes you would know who my Bumpie was. This man had something about him, his name, his face, or even his smile from across the room could put a smile on your face no matter the occasion.
My Bumpie was the strongest person I knew. I have said many times he has had nine lives but on February 7th, he was called to heaven. A piece of me feels like it’s missing but Bumpie, I know just like you told me you will be watching over us, and continue to guide us. Your memories and lessons will continue to shape and move us all. You will be missed so much and words can not explain how much I miss you. I love you so much Bumpie.
Bumpie I promise to make you proud till the day I see you again. I promise to show and teach Gabby and Sebastian every lesson every game you taught me. I promise to show Erin the love you showed my nana for 55 years, that unconditional love and never stop holding her hand, kissing her before bed and telling her I love her. I promise to hold the whole family close to my heart. I promise to continue to make nana smile and enjoy all the goods in the world.
Bumpie I love you! Always and forever!