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Dearest Friends and Family,

This memorial website was created in honor of our beloved husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle and cousin, Bill. He was born December 5, 1944 in Newark, New Jersey and found his peace May 13, 2016 just outside his childhood hometown of Maplewood, New Jersey with his family at his side.

Growing up, Billy teamed up with brothers Michael and Frankie, “sisters” Joyce and Gail, and many friends (including the Cohen family, Bob, and Barry) to give parents Ethel and Anson (and the rest of Maplewood), all they could handle.  After graduating from Columbia High School and then surviving the frigid weather at Allegheny College, Bill pursued both a career in hospital administration at George Washington University and Carolyn Staub.  They met on day one of his first job as a hospital administrator and began dating on day two.  In October they celebrated their 43rd wedding anniversary.

A job opportunity at a hospital brought Bill and Carol to Richmond, Virginia where they met many treasured friends who are still like family today.  A few years later, the couple welcomed daughter Rachel and then son David.  In the ensuing years Dad enjoyed shuttling the kids between dance classes, soccer games and tennis tournaments, not to mention assisting with homework, science projects and other fun activities that come with children.   A promotion at work led to extensive travel which made him rethink this career.

So he took the obvious path from hospital administrator to BBQ restaurant owner where his secret sauce was the best in town.  During this time he became a member of the Chester Rotary Club and has participated in numerous community service projects over the past 20 years.  In retirement, Bill followed his passion for children and learning by substitute teaching at the local elementary schools.  This “job” allowed him flexibility to enjoy golfing, hanging out at the library reading, gardening, visiting with friends, and traveling often and extensively with Carol and other family members. 

Despite his lifelong pursuit of continuous learning, Bill resisted incorporating what he learned of technology into day to day life.  He enjoyed being “old school” with a flip phone, even programming the number for Expedia in to help him plan all their amazing trips (rumor has it Expedia has a website as well).  Bill often retold stories of skipping school to go to Yankee Stadium, traveling cross country after college, and attending Woodstock. In more recent years his most loved hobby was spoiling his granddaughters, Sarah and Ella.

A true gentleman, always kind and patient to all, Bill touched many lives and was universally loved. Though we will miss him dearly, we’re grateful for the incredible memories and wish to honor Bill with a Celebration of Life on Saturday, June 18, 2016 at The Boathouse Restaurant in Brandermill, located at 4602 Millridge Parkway, Midlothian, VA. Please feel free to join us anytime between 11:00 am - 2:00pm.

Dad - We hope you are now searching for “The Truth Out There” with Mulder and Scully!

Write to David (david.rauschberg@gmail.com) if you plan to join us for Dad’s celebration.

Please feel free to share your memories of Bill on this site or send them to David, as we plan to compile a memory book to pass on to his granddaughters. 

In lieu of flowers donations may be made to the Maplewood New Jersey Library Foundation (https://maplewoodlibraryfoundation.org) or your local library. 

May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
I remember he loved the Kingston Trio. He and Michael thought they were great. I remember he would listen to you talk wit his dark intense eyes and crack his knuckles one at a time, every one of them, and
I remember he'd do anything for you to walk on his back. 

My last memory of him is him standing in the middle of a paddock with a manure fork in his hand, cleaning up off the horses, by himself, early in a Montana summer morning, because he wanted to experience of doing it.

I remember the look he'd give you whenever his mother brought out one of her notoriously overcooked turkeys; I remember how he'd like to trade punches with you.

At heart Bill was a talmudic rabbi, arguing both sides of the case,
intensely curious about paradoxes, a lover of "what if..." and "why not?"

I didn't just lose Bill; I lose a part of myself.

Love, Ron
May 24, 2016
May 24, 2016
I met Bill sometime around when I was in 3rd grade when my family moved to Richmond and he has been a constant fixture in my life since that time, with our families regularly gathering for Passover and Thanksgiving celebrations. Last night, Leslie, Beck and I recalled Bill fondly and shared many happy memories of and observations about him. Beck recalled the time Bill, Carol, Sarah and Ella came to watch him play baseball when he was playing down in Virginia. Beck was around 9 at the time and he recalled Bill going into the cage with him after the game and throwing balls for him to hit and then Beck throwing balls for Bill to hit. Bill was always asking Beck about his various activities, but it was never just a superficial "how's your team doing?" kind of thing. He was interested in Beck's experience of the activities ... what it was like for him to be able to do this or that. For Leslie and me, while we have known a lot of people who have stayed in school a long long time, we've never met anyone who exemplifies the term 'lifelong learner' more than Bill. We both thought of how he would move around following a Passover or Thanksgiving meal with a small scrap of paper and pen in hand asking everyone what they had read most recently that they liked. Then, usually the next time we would gather, he would talk to the person about the book, sharing his thoughts on it having read it. He really showed us that age is just a number as I have never met anyone so youthful in aspect and with such a joy and excitement for new experiences and insights. My family will miss Bill immensely and we feel blessed that he was a part of his life. We feel comforted knowing that there is no one more interested in his next round of experiences than Bill. Our love to all the Rauschbergs. Robert, Leslie and Beck Urofsky
May 23, 2016
May 23, 2016
Mr. Rauschberg was a frequent patron at Clover Hill Library. He always greeted me when he entered our library branch and even greeted my Wife and daughters when they picked me up from work one day. He was very nice to other patrons and enjoyed reading the newspaper. I will miss his smiling face and our almost daily conversations.
Jeremy Robarts, Library Assistant, Clover Hill Library
May 23, 2016
May 23, 2016
. . . a man who had room for everyone;
     his brother-in-law, I was treated
     like a brother.
  . . . very gratifying.
             Michael Staub
May 23, 2016
May 23, 2016
... an instantly likeable man;
   I enjoyed his acceptance of me
   and his warmth.
               Elaine Stowik
May 23, 2016
May 23, 2016
Dear Carol and Family,
We are so saddened to hear this news although comforted knowing that Bill was allowed to die peacefully, painlessly, and with dignity as his family and close friends stood by his side and others held him in their hearts. We have so many fond memories of Bill and feel so lucky that we have had multiple opportunities to spend time with him in Europe, Virginia, California, and Washington.  His sweet, gentle, and quiet ways made each moment with him very special. His lust for knowledge and his adventurous spirit enabled him to live life to the fullest - and to share so many experiences with him was our fortune! 
Our love and thoughts are with you,
Barbara, Randy, Jaime, and Alex

I am not gone
I remain here beside you
Just in a different form
Look for me in your heart
And there you will find me
in our love which forever lives on
In those moments when you feel alone
Look for me in your thoughts
And there you will find me
in sweet memories that burn strong
Every time a tear
Forms in your beautiful eyes
Look up to the heavens
And there you will see me
Smiling down from God’s glorious skies
~Injete Chesoni~
May 23, 2016
May 23, 2016
Mr. Rauschberg was a regular patron of the Clover Hill Library and we are all very sad to hear of his passing. He was very kind and staff remember all the times we spent talking with him, helping him find materials, or just a smile and a wave as he quietly read the paper. My thoughts and condolences are with his family and friends, we all will miss seeing his warm smile around the branch. Margaret Howard, Branch Manager, Clover Hill Library
May 22, 2016
May 22, 2016
Didn't meet Bill until sometime after Carol moved to Richmond--remember the first time I saw him, happily splashing around with his daughter in a blow up baby pool--knew almost from the start that he was a special kind of guy--over the years, we bonded over long conversations, golf, movies, and shared dinners--I considered him family, like a 4th brother--it's hard to accept that Bill is no longer here and we won't see him again--but I'll cherish always the memories of my time together with this good and gentle man.
May 21, 2016
May 21, 2016
Dear Bill:
   I will remember Friday, May 13th, 2016, for more than a day of bad luck. That is the day you left for your next journey.
   As your younger brother, it has been a lifetime of "follow the leader".
From my elementary school days (your high school days), when I tried to be in your clique of friends to this year, when you led Carol, Ben, Joan Nancy, and I to what was going to be a fun day in New York City, you were the leader.                                                          Now its time to say good-by. I will always miss those annual trips to New York City.  


                       love, Frank
May 20, 2016
May 20, 2016
Mr. R. "Bill" was such a helpful, happy, kind gentleman to everyone at Enon Elementary School. He would go above and beyond to help when needed and would do so with a positive spirit.  He was super conscientious and it made missing school seem much less stressful when I knew that I had someone who really cared about my students to be there in my stead. In addition, he often subbed for my son's teachers and always cared about him throughout the last 12 years in school and as he is enters college. He regularly gave my son fun mind games to ponder and solve. My family and coworkers remember Mr. R. fondly and he is absolutely missed by all.
Sincerely, The Glunt family and the Enon Faculty and Staff
May 20, 2016
May 20, 2016
We're so saddened to hear of Bill's passing. He will be greatly missed as we considered him one of our Alberta Smith Elementary family! He was a joy to work with with and impacted everyone's life that he came in contact with. He always shared wonderful stories of his family, may your wonderful memories keep him close. Love and prayers from the Alberta Smith Family!
May 20, 2016
May 20, 2016
Our dear Mr. "R" will forever be in our hearts in D-3 at MES. Mr. R was a true gentleman and cared so much for our students. I always will remember the interesting book chat, especially the history books! Mr R. Had the best sense of humor. He will be missed! My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Rest in peace, our dear, friend.
May 19, 2016
May 19, 2016
Mr. R. was one of our "go to" substitutes at Matoaca Elementary. He showed up early with his briefcase in hand and eager to find his way to the coffee pot.  He loved days we had faculty breakfasts or lunches. He shared in lunch time conversations and would always remind us of how many years he had been substituting. He will be greatly missed as we considered him one of our Matoaca family members! Please know that we send our love and prayers.
May 18, 2016
May 18, 2016
Jean and I have known Bill and Carol for more than thirty years. I have been a fellow Rotarian in the Chester Rotary Club with Bill and have enjoyed a long friendship with him playing golf and having endless conversations about important things in life. I have known Bill to be a man of great integrity with a loving and generous heart. We could always count on Bill to help with any community projects. He had a wonderful sense of humor and quick smile. We shall miss him but we will cherish the memories we shared.
May 18, 2016
May 18, 2016
What a kind and decent man ! I know how much all of his family and friends will miss him. I will certainly miss him too...
May 17, 2016
May 17, 2016
Bill and I became work associates and close friends when we were both 24, in the administrative department of a large hospital in New York City. Since I was a year ahead in our studies program, I was assigned to be his "mentor". We shared an office, as well as lived in the same apartment building close by. It was easy to connect strongly with Bill, since he had all the qualities that describe a good person and a good friend. He was and continued to be easy going, good natured, kindhearted, funny, comforting, and had every other positive quality that a special person has. We remained friends, through the years, along with our spouses. Eventually, we did not see each other often, but my feelings about him, and his image in my mind never changed. My memories of Bill are vintage and vivid, and will live on with me forever. Bill will be immortal in his friends' and family's minds and hearts.

Rest in peace old friend. Norman and I send our deepest sympathies to your wonderful and supportive family.

Love,
Marilyn
May 16, 2016
May 16, 2016
Being a jerseyian born and raised in Roselle , I enjoyed his company. God Bless. Great man. He will be missed from his Greenfield family.
May 16, 2016
May 16, 2016
I had the pleasure of meeting Sarah's grandpa at our girls' softball games. A little quiet, at first, but then he was such a joy to talk to and told some great stories. Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. There will be something everyday to remind you of him. May you plant "his" garden every year, Rachel, and know he will be watching over it and all of you. 
Love, Susan, Bert, Anna, and John Weltens
May 16, 2016
May 16, 2016
Billy and his family moved to Maplewood, N.J. in 1954, and when we met in 5th grade we instantly became best friends. For the next 8 years, through high school, we were inseparable. I remember him best for the happy days of our childhood on Summit Avenue. In college our lives took us on different paths, but over the next 60 years we kept in touch and at times got together with our wives and families. About 7 weeks ago Bill and Carol came up from Virginia to New Jersey for a visit and to see New York City. On March 27 I was with Bill when he took his last conscious breath, a moment that will haunt me for the rest of my life. Over the next 40 days I came to know my oldest and best friend in a way that I had never known him before: through his legacy-- his amazing family. I saw their unwavering love, devotion and loyalty to my buddy. I witnessed their incredible strength and courage through weeks of waiting and hoping for him to recover. And I saw their grace and class as it became more and more clear that what they so fervently wished for, was just not going to be. Mere words cannot compare to the tribute their deeds gave to their husband, father and brother. As painful as those 40 days were, I consider myself privileged to have witnessed the love which my friend received from his wife, his daughter, his son, his brother, and others. 

Bill, you did well. Rest in peace.

Love, Ben
May 15, 2016
May 15, 2016
To our brother, friend, and mischief maker....thank you for all of the memories we have shared, and the fun times we have had over the years. You will be missed so very much, but you will be in our memories daily. Peace  Love you, Cyn and Michael
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I remember last time I talked to Bill I just finished a book on the Kennedy assassination and Bill and I sat down to talk about it so I loaned him the book. Well by the time he was ready to leave he almost finished the book wow! Happy birthday Bill you are truly loved by so many and will always be missed. Wish there were more of you in this world. Love Bob Dease Jr



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May 17, 2016

It is incredibly sad to be writing this today. I met Bill about 3 years ago when I joined the Chester Rotary club. He was instrumental in getting me to join after having visited. I remember the excitement on his face when he found out that I was a golfer. Bill and I played in a few tournaments with Rotary, but the most enjoyable times were with me and Bill at Brandermill Country Club and Birkdale Country Club. Every Wednesday at our Rotary meeting we greeted each other with "you want to golf this weekend." We played a lot of golf in the short 3 years that I knew him. A few times we would end those rounds with a beverage in the club house, Bill with his Cherry Coke and me a beer. I will miss these golf rounds with Bill very much. A great Rotarian and an even better person. I dont make new friends very easily, but Bill was one of them. He will be missed.

Joe

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