I met Cody in Provo Ut in March 2016 and I unfortunately only knew him for about two weeks until I moved out of state and we parted ways. I wish we had stayed in touch more. Over the years I’ve always looked back at how much I enjoyed being in his presence. At that time I was in a very dark place and he always made me feel like I was safe and cared for. Cody had a tremendous heart and had no shame in showing it. He was so fun and silly, he could make me laugh when I was in tears. He showed me so much kindness and love in those few days, and I just wanted to share here that he will be remembered fondly in my heart as a very good friend. My life may have gone down a different, much darker path if I hadn’t had the pleasure of meeting him when I did. My sincerest condolences go out to his friends and family, Cody will be missed, and he will be remembered always for his kind heart and his beautiful spirit. 

Cody Apodaca came into my life in a rather strange way, under very hard circumstances as some may know. Cody played many roles through out our relationship, most times it was us against the world .IVe spent the last 6years 7months 22 days with this person in my life we shared good times, struggles, separation, loss, addiction, happiness, but most of all a very deep unique connection friendship and love. Cody taught me something very important ....how to love AND how to accept love!! We expirenced rejection around every corner due to our meeting and getting involved on a personal level and never expected others to understand or accept our love for one another....but we never gave up we only grew closer in heart the love I have for cody is priceless it's never ending....we taught ourselves and each other what it ment to trust, forgive, love, and believe . ..cody james apodaca gave me a reason to care to want to live and to try harder when I felt like giving up!! He was a wonderful, loyal, compassionate, honest, tender, loving boyfriend and friend!! I find myself lost with out him helping me to navigate our life! The one thing I miss the most is how everyday when he saw me it was like the first time he ever saw me ..with pure love and admiration I have so many wonderful funny memories with this guy and my life won't be the same without his presences. Cody and I have two children a son zach and daughter molly 3 and 4years old and the bond of my daughter kimberly. I just want to share with his family that doesn't know me or who didn't get to see him recently how truly amazing and wonderful he was and a blessing in my life. He told me about each and everyone of you, his mother father brothers sisters aunts uncle cousins baby mamma and son and childhood friends he loved and missed everyone of you!!!  Thank you for sharing him!!! God bless you all!! And cody this isn't goodbye, it's see you later my love...  Untill we meet again I love you!!!!