In honor of Dave, I want to share one thing about him that really stands out as I think of the time we shared together. I remember his wit and banter. He had a quick response for everything. He was always playful and joking. He couldn't really ever accept a compliment. He'd always turn it into a joke and side step it. Probably helped keep him humble. But when there was a moment when someone in his "flock" was hurting, with impeccable timing, he would always step in with just the right words to offer to bring clarity, love, comfort, correction. I'll always remember when my husband, Aaron, lost his job in Guate and we almost had to move back to the US prematurely, but then found a job last minute - Pastor Dave was so genuinely joyful at the news - it was moments like that when the banter and joking came down and we knew how deeply he cared for us. Another moment like that was when, upon returning from Egypt back to his home in Guate, Aaron broke some souvenir that Dave had brought back from Egypt. Aaron felt terrible. We were about to leave the country and it was one of the last times we expected to see Dave before we moved away. But before Aaron could begin to beat himself up about the clumsy mistake, Dave looked right in his eyes and told him, "Hey, don't worry about that at all. You are so much more important than that souvenir." It was that juxtaposition of silly banter that kept things light and playful 90% of the time with occasional moments of profound connection that showed the depth of love he had for those of us he pastored that really stands out to me about Dave's personality and character.
We only spent under three years together from when he arrived in Guatemala to the time we returned to the States. But no person outside my family has had such a profound impact on my life, my faith, my calling (I'm a pastor now), or my family (my husband was Saved under Dave's guidance). Our son Elliot David bears his name to honor him. I so often wish I still could call on him as a mentor. It was such a gift that our paths crossed for those two short years. He was a beloved spiritual guide to my husband and me, helping us grow to love Jesus so deeply. There is no greater gift or legacy. And I thank the Lord for his life, lived faithfully before the God, for his glory.