Don had a love for life, sailing, laughter, serving others, his friends but mostly an extraordinary love for his family and his son Hunter that will never be forgotten. I really don't remember my childhood without Don being a part of it. He was a dear family friend, but that word "friend" doesn't seem like it's close enough. He was FAMILY & we loved him as such.
My favorite memories were as a child & teenager sailing on our boat, the "China Cloud". It seems like Don was always part of our crew- at least the majority of the time.
He was sweet & salty, honest (good or not but loved him for it :) and he had such a great, great laugh. I can still hear it in my mind because it was such a joyful sound.
I think my sister Michelle & I were his trial run on kids- or getting used to them in close quarters for long lengths of time, haha. He got to experience A LOT with us girls. Like I said, we were like family- so we were all "real with each other".
He had such great depth and even at our last meeting when we celebrated my parents 50th wedding anniversary, I felt like I had just seen him a few days before. The connection never missed a beat. He flew all the way to Nashville just to surprise them. They were so excited to see him there! That's the way he loved. He showed up... We had some wonderful times, laughter, talks about old times and hugs, great great hugs...I remember the last one vividly and glad I held on a little longer. I thought it was just for a short goodbye- hoping to meet up again soon when I came to Tampa. I'm glad it was a good one.
Don left an amazing legacy for all who knew him in addition to an incredible impact on his community. That makes me so proud.
However, I will remember us sailing, listening to steel drums & of course Jimmy Buffet, getting some sun, drinking punch and working the sails out on the open sea. These are precious memories I will never forget. Love those close to you well and make memories with them while you can. I feel like Don was taken from us too soon, but I do believe in God's timing as much as it hurts. I have to trust in that to find peace & I pray for that peace that surpasses all understanding to surround his family and all who loved him as well. You made the world a better place Don.
Until we meet again....
I will love you forever Don.
~Kristy