My Uncle Lee always had a smile on his face and a sparkle in his eye whenever
he spoke to me as a child, a teenager, and as an adult. He had a way of turning an ordinary situation into a funny one with his dry wit which made you
have to think about what he had just said and in that pause when you were trying to decide if he was serious or being sarcastic, he would start to smile, which meant he had just sent that joke not just over your head, but through your heart and made that heart laugh along with him.
As I have mentioned before, he was the first male in my family to welcome me into my "manhood" years when I hired in at Inland Steel in East Chicago.
Once I took that step, he never treated me or talked to me like a child anymore. He chose to talk to me as a peer, not as a kid. To my Aunt Lou and
Aunt Dolores, I was always, "Billy", but not my Uncle Lee. That always meant
a lot to me and I respected him all the more for his concern for me as I entered adulthood without even a pat on the back from my own father, but I got that pat on the back from my uncle instead.
At least 5 or 6 times I tried to pry into what he did for a living. He never gave me a lot of details of what or how he did his job, he would always sum-up his job as the "one who tried to keep little old ladies in their homes". My understanding of what he did was that he would coordinate with HUD and the grant monies they had at their fingertips along with other programs designed
to help those who were on fixed incomes and help those who needed help in fixing problems with their homes so they would be able to stay in their homes
and stay out of homeless shelters, nursing homes, or forced to move in with
family members who may not have wanted them to begin with or may not have enough room to accommodate these folks comfortably. He also coordinated with contractors to get the work performed on time and on budget. His efforts to "keep little old ladies in their homes" as he would say really took a lot more coordination skills, time management skills and people skills than we will ever be able to appreciate. But, I'm sure there were many
who could appreciate the work he put in to keep them in their homes. We may never know the number of people he helped along the way. But, God knows and God also knows that when one spends a majority of one's career
helping other people, that is a Life well lived.
Thank You, Uncle Lee, for a Life well lived. A humble and simple Life mixed
with humor and that unforgettable smile. You are and always will be missed
from our midst, but never forgotten from our memories.
Your grateful nephew, Bill Walsh