April 22
April 22
Happy Birthday dear friend.
--Jav
--Jav
This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved James "Chip" Escar Moore. We will remember him forever.
2024 April - sharing the link to Chip's remembrance video that was compiled last year. See below for time stamps. Much love, Charissa
CHIP IV on Vimeo
2023 April – 10 Year Remembrance. This year makes 10 years since Chip transitioned. To honor his memory, I decided to put together a 30-minute video featuring our close friends and family. This compilation highlights their fond memories. Listed below is the timestamp outline. Thank you to everyone who participated. Chip was an inspiration to many of us and he continues to be remembered for his integrity, kindness and big, loving heart. Much love, Charissa
CHIP IV on Vimeo
Intro Music (Chip’s guitar played by Casey)
00.10 Emily, Javier (friends)
01:36 Nimone (friend)
02.57 Chet (father-in-law)
04.11 Margaret (mother-in-law)
05.11 Mika (friend)
06.49 Gail, Jeff (friends)
07.28 Kate (friend)
08.13 Olga, Javier (friends)
09.41 Uri (friend)
10.44 Alexis (niece)
11.28 Kevin (friend)
12.34 Danielle “Dany” (niece)
13.34 Brooke (niece)
15.14 Dolly, Sophia (sister-in-law, niece)
16.22 Fred (brother-in-law)
17.48 Patrick (godson)
18.32 Vida (friend)
19.52 Alex (godson’s brother)
20.38 Uncle Ranjan (friend)
21.19 Sharalynn (friend)
22.22 Yon (friend)
23.25 Casey, Kim (godson and wife)
24.48 Andy (brother)
26.02 Carrie (mother)
26.27 Charissa (wife)
29.24 Casey playing Chip’s guitar
29.49 Tyler (godson)
2022 April. CHIP….He knew that the full Windsor was classic but noted that had gone out of style. He subscribed to GQ, Whiskey and Cigars – stayed current but classic. He had the old brush and shaving cream, just like my dad had when I was growing up in Africa. He didn’t care for fluff, relished everything about life. He was interested and fascinated by the stars, anything physics, all kinds of religions, beliefs, people. He used to tell me that he could people watch all day. Just sit and watch. Loved games with skill and thought. His mind was always busy, always doing something that used his mind. He loved working with his hands. He took pleasure creating, making things beautiful. Loved woodwork, he loved working with wood. Patient and impatient, with great attention to detail, great pride in the work he did with his hands. He loved history and things that were old, but he also loved gadgets and the newest of the new. Always went for quality, not anything cheap. “It lasts longer if it’s built right Reese,” he would say, so we’d spend a bit more $$ and get quality.
He came from a state that had and has big pride. He went to a ‘labeled’ school, something I never got to do and always wanted to. But that didn’t affect his humility and sense of real – but he had pride about his upbringing, his schooling, how he lived. He treated everyone with love and kindness. He talked people up, made them feel like they were something special. Humor, he was so funny. His humor was dry but super witty and smart. Never mean to anyone even self-deprecating in his humor. That took a special kind of talent and empathy. He was so kind and funny, so funny. Movies. He loved the most bizarre, disturbing ones to things as light and mindless as Clueless; from off beat B flicks to the heavy Reservoir Dogs, and Clockwork Orange. He loved music and his taste in music was as diverse as his interests in movies. He was comfortable to be around and with himself. But he was actually a very shy guy, but that added a lens of real and caring. What a wide spectrum and he stayed current too, in music and the latest video games. He loved the ocean, he loved swimming. When he was in the ocean, he’d be lost in another world of discovery with all the fish, sea creatures and plants. Looking through his eyes, were looking at something through eyes of wonder and newness. I swear he was a fish in another life. If he had gills, he’d live in that underwater world. He could stay there for hours exploring. He lived in the now every single day.
2021 April. Earlier this week, I came across a picture of Chip and one of his colleagues Gil, at ENGEO (see Gallery tab photo 8, ENGEOBowling 011). It was at a group bowling activity taken exactly 1 day before Chip passed away. As I looked at the picture, I kept and still keep looking at it thinking to myself, these two look so happy and content like everything is fine. Who knew that 24 hours later, everything would change? Just like that, in a blink of eye, life changed completely. Chip always lived in the moment. #livefortoday#foreverlove
2020 April. Sometimes, it's the simplest of words....
❤️ Chip, my heart, my love ❤️
2024 April - sharing the link to Chip's remembrance video that was compiled last year. See below for time stamps. Much love, Charissa
CHIP IV on Vimeo
2023 April – 10 Year Remembrance. This year makes 10 years since Chip transitioned. To honor his memory, I decided to put together a 30-minute video featuring our close friends and family. This compilation highlights their fond memories. Listed below is the timestamp outline. Thank you to everyone who participated. Chip was an inspiration to many of us and he continues to be remembered for his integrity, kindness and big, loving heart. Much love, Charissa
CHIP IV on Vimeo
Intro Music (Chip’s guitar played by Casey)
00.10 Emily, Javier (friends)
01:36 Nimone (friend)
02.57 Chet (father-in-law)
04.11 Margaret (mother-in-law)
05.11 Mika (friend)
06.49 Gail, Jeff (friends)
07.28 Kate (friend)
08.13 Olga, Javier (friends)
09.41 Uri (friend)
10.44 Alexis (niece)
11.28 Kevin (friend)
12.34 Danielle “Dany” (niece)
13.34 Brooke (niece)
15.14 Dolly, Sophia (sister-in-law, niece)
16.22 Fred (brother-in-law)
17.48 Patrick (godson)
18.32 Vida (friend)
19.52 Alex (godson’s brother)
20.38 Uncle Ranjan (friend)
21.19 Sharalynn (friend)
22.22 Yon (friend)
23.25 Casey, Kim (godson and wife)
24.48 Andy (brother)
26.02 Carrie (mother)
26.27 Charissa (wife)
29.24 Casey playing Chip’s guitar
29.49 Tyler (godson)
2022 April. CHIP….He knew that the full Windsor was classic but noted that had gone out of style. He subscribed to GQ, Whiskey and Cigars – stayed current but classic. He had the old brush and shaving cream, just like my dad had when I was growing up in Africa. He didn’t care for fluff, relished everything about life. He was interested and fascinated by the stars, anything physics, all kinds of religions, beliefs, people. He used to tell me that he could people watch all day. Just sit and watch. Loved games with skill and thought. His mind was always busy, always doing something that used his mind. He loved working with his hands. He took pleasure creating, making things beautiful. Loved woodwork, he loved working with wood. Patient and impatient, with great attention to detail, great pride in the work he did with his hands. He loved history and things that were old, but he also loved gadgets and the newest of the new. Always went for quality, not anything cheap. “It lasts longer if it’s built right Reese,” he would say, so we’d spend a bit more $$ and get quality.
He came from a state that had and has big pride. He went to a ‘labeled’ school, something I never got to do and always wanted to. But that didn’t affect his humility and sense of real – but he had pride about his upbringing, his schooling, how he lived. He treated everyone with love and kindness. He talked people up, made them feel like they were something special. Humor, he was so funny. His humor was dry but super witty and smart. Never mean to anyone even self-deprecating in his humor. That took a special kind of talent and empathy. He was so kind and funny, so funny. Movies. He loved the most bizarre, disturbing ones to things as light and mindless as Clueless; from off beat B flicks to the heavy Reservoir Dogs, and Clockwork Orange. He loved music and his taste in music was as diverse as his interests in movies. He was comfortable to be around and with himself. But he was actually a very shy guy, but that added a lens of real and caring. What a wide spectrum and he stayed current too, in music and the latest video games. He loved the ocean, he loved swimming. When he was in the ocean, he’d be lost in another world of discovery with all the fish, sea creatures and plants. Looking through his eyes, were looking at something through eyes of wonder and newness. I swear he was a fish in another life. If he had gills, he’d live in that underwater world. He could stay there for hours exploring. He lived in the now every single day.
2021 April. Earlier this week, I came across a picture of Chip and one of his colleagues Gil, at ENGEO (see Gallery tab photo 8, ENGEOBowling 011). It was at a group bowling activity taken exactly 1 day before Chip passed away. As I looked at the picture, I kept and still keep looking at it thinking to myself, these two look so happy and content like everything is fine. Who knew that 24 hours later, everything would change? Just like that, in a blink of eye, life changed completely. Chip always lived in the moment. #livefortoday#foreverlove
2020 April. Sometimes, it's the simplest of words....
❤️ Chip, my heart, my love ❤️
2019 April. I am continuously reminded that this journey of grief is not linear. After 6 years, I entering a space that feels even less clear. This continues to bring up emotions that create moore questions in my mind about this life path and what's next. The emptiness, anger is still present. I ask myself, 'why am I given this cross to bear?' Not a question that I've found an answer to...still. I do what I've learned to do...lean into the grief...scream, laugh amidst the tears, and pray for peace.
Every year, I reflect with family and friends, as we share memories with laughter, sadness and tears. Chip is BIG love. His light continues to shine and guide as much as is needed. He walks this journey, from above. I know I've said this before, and I'm saying it again, grief is something that will always be carried. It's part of me...through the anger, sadness, laughter, love, pain, and tears...can't bury it. It just is. #everpresent #everpersistent #foreverlove #forevermissed ❤️❤️
2018 April. Yesterday, I saw this quote: “I wasn’t’ prepared for the fact that grief is so unpredictable. It wasn’t just sadness, and it wasn’t linear. Somehow, I’d thought that the first days would be the worst and then it would get steadily better like getting over the flue. That’s NOT how it was.” I thought, how true. It made me think about the last 5 years and reflect on my grief journey. After the initial stages of grief, there are constant adjustments as the finality of it becomes “moore and moore” real. There is a heaviness mixed with the realization that life is not ever going to be the same. Chip is no longer here in my physical space. I will always carry that anchor and it is now who I am. Having said that, the bond we have, now that he’s in a different energetic space, only continues to grow. It’s a bond of love that fills my heart space and keeps me grounded. I remind myself daily to lean into the love, while staying quiet, connected, and being here in the present. #foreverlove #forevermissed #foreverwithme
2017 April. 4 years sounds long, then again, it really isn’t. This past year, as I continue my grief journey, it feels as though Chip’s presence is much more evident. His spirit keeps me calm. Sadly, I’m no longer in the “blessed bubble.” There is harshness and rawness to this reality, as I struggle to create a routine and survive. My health has been affected. It’s as if the body is reacting to the months and months of stress by manifesting in the physical. I’ve now taken a step back to refocus my attentions on taking care of myself and being calm and prayerful.
Music is once again becoming part of my life and healing space. It was such a big part of our lives before. I’m finally able to listen to music, something I couldn’t do for 3 1/2 years. “Miraculously,” I was able to get my hands on a free piano. I’m gradually starting to play again, building on 15 years of lessons. I value the time with my nieces, nephews and god children. They always make me smile. I’m grateful for friends and family who continue to show their love and support. The trips I’ve taken this past year to Sedona and Alaska were spiritually significant, as I’ve been able to find tranquility in nature. The present journey holds great significance as Chip’s spirit continues to be with me. It opens up my connection to spirituality and the path ahead. The journey continues, just in a different way.
2016 April. Another year, still can’t believe that Chip has transitioned. Honestly, I cannot say which of the past 3 years has been the worst, because each year has been pretty difficult. The first year, actually almost 2 years, it felt as though I was in a bubble, and don’t really recall much of anything. This past year, it felt as though that protective bubble started to dissipate and whoa…what a smack of reality! The way that grief is processed is so individual and there isn’t a formula to follow. I’m constantly reminded by my counselor, support group and friends, to take care of me. Slow down, reflect and lean into the pain. At times I felt as though the distraction of work, meager attempts at socializing, gave me a bit of a reprieve, but grief doesn’t really give you a reprieve, at least not in my case. The waves of grief continue and whack me up-side, affecting me at the most inopportune times. Then, I’m reminded to give myself the space and take time to just be. Take the time to just sit and be. I think about Chip and the love that continues, just in a different way. That moves me into a calmer head and heart space. My anxiety, something I never had before, is a constant reminder to release any and all control, control of anything and everything. Releasing seems to quiet the anxiety, sometimes giving me some calm. It’s almost as though Chip’s way of living in the moment is manifesting in my life now, as I work to calm the anxiety. And that’s no accident. It is part of the journey learning to live in the moment. I’ve become much more aware of energies - mine and others - which is also connected to the anxiety. This awareness has forced me to look at people with more compassion, and to look at life through the lens of love, a lens of no judgment, the way that Chip did. He continues to be present in spirit. So, the journey continues, step forward, step backward, step sideways and every which way. Got no idea what’s coming next, but it doesn’t really matter, as long as I live in the moment, live with love. #foreverlove #forvevermissed. Charissa
2013 December. It has been an extremely difficult time after the unexpected passing of my husband, Chip in 2013. He was my rock, my heart, my soul, my life, my love. He had a wonderful, gentle spirit, an extremely smart wit and a dry sense of humor. He loved life and he was love. Though I am not sure of the future, I know in my heart that he continues to be with me and continues to carry me. It was divine that we were put on this earth to be together, even though short. Some who read this will know the story of how we were brought together over 20 years ago, and understand what I mean when I say it was divine.
In December 2013, Chip received an award posthumously by his employer, ENGEO, called the ENGEO-ness Award. ENGEO-ness is defined as “the willingness and commitment to ensure the success of others.” The award is the highest honor ENGEO gives, and in the case of Chip, it is a tough thing to imagine that anyone would ever epitomize these sterling qualities the way Chip did. His character of excellence in professionalism, commitment to quality in all aspects of work and service, plus that special something - it will be a rare person indeed who can ever hold a candle to Chip’s ENGEOness. These characteristics were evident in Chip’s career and every personal relationship as well. Additionally, for future recipients, the award was named in Chip’s honor “the Chip Moore ENGEO-ness Award.”
I am continually grateful for the support and understanding of many, as I continue to navigate this road. I hope you will take the opportunity to remember Chip, and when it moves you, to post a thought, phrase, story or picture.
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April 9
April 9
Missing you my friend! Thanks for being an example for all of us to emulate.
April 8
April 8
Chip, we know you're very proud at the accomplishments of all the folks you led and nurtured.
We miss you, buddy.
We miss you, buddy.
April 8
April 8
It does not seem like eleven years has passed. Emily and I still remember Chip as if we just saw him last week. My children, all grown up now, young adults, also have great memories of "Uncle Chip". We miss him. --Jav
April 8
April 8
Chip, 11 years and your smile and kindness are still in my memories. Your unique character always leave a hand print in people’s heart.
April 22, 2023
April 22, 2023
Thinking of u Chipper ❤️thankful for the day u were born because we were able to be a part of ur life on earth! You are forever missed forever loved! Wish u could’ve met Sophia.. you both would’ve been 2 peas in a pod ! She’s soooo similar to Reece u also would’ve gotten a kick outta that! Love ur baby sis Doll ❤️
April 10, 2023
April 10, 2023
Really miss you, Chip. When you left, you took a piece of my heart with you. I will forever miss you. whether it is 10 years or 20, 30, 40, or 50.
April 10, 2023
April 10, 2023
Miss you my friend Chip but will always remember you and your love for friends family and life and I continue to keep your dear wife in our continued thoughts and prayers….RIp
April 9, 2023
April 9, 2023
Chip, I can't believe it's been a decade!! Your indelible imprint is still just as strong at ENGEO. Just three days ago, Ron Smithson found and shared a memo you sent to all employees in May of 2003. It's incredible! Love you, my friend!
April 9, 2023
April 9, 2023
Chip: Happy Easter Old Friend. RIP. We miss you. --Jav
April 9, 2023
April 9, 2023
Miss you cuz
April 8, 2023
April 8, 2023
You are still one of the most inspirational people in my life. You live on through the kindness,laughter and generosity that you have instilled and shared with others. You are very much missed.
Sharalynn
Sharalynn
April 25, 2022
April 25, 2022
Your birthday was a few days ago. I remember celebrating your birthdays, many years ago. Rest in Peace old friend. --Jav
April 8, 2022
April 8, 2022
It has been a long time since our dear friend, Chip, passed. But my wife, kids and I remember his kindness and sly sense of humor. He will always be here, with us. And I am sure that everyone who knew him feels the same. Rest in Peace Old Friend. --Jav
April 8, 2022
April 8, 2022
Miss you, brother!
September 1, 2021
September 1, 2021
Hey Chip, looks like you now have a buddy up there who likes chess as much as you do❤
April 22, 2021
April 22, 2021
Happy Birthday old friend. --Jav
April 22, 2021
April 22, 2021
Hi Chip, I wish i had more to say on this day reflecting on your birthday. I do recall fondly going to your home, Javier and i, for your birthday dinner. I'm horrible with dates but I'm guessing it was about 8 years ago. A lovely dinner could only turn into a fun evening of music, some libations and dancing into the wee hours of the morning. I am so blessed to have met Charissa at Aecom and spent time with both of you. It enriched our lives in many ways. I'll never forget the fun backpacking trip we had for my birthday and again how you added life the my party. Our friendship was certainly cut short by fate and i can only believe that God or the Gods needed you. We love you and cherish you! Happy day of life!
April 9, 2021
April 9, 2021
I find it hard to believe that so many years have passed since our dear friend, Chip, left us so suddenly. My family has wonderful memories of him. In that sense, he will never leave my family, Rest in Peace old friend. --Jav
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
Always remembering your light hearted friendship Chip..RIP brother Thoughts and prayers Charissa
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
Hey Chip,
Missing your hugs.
xoxo
Missing your hugs.
xoxo
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
Remembering Chip and hugs to Charissa.
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
Chip, you will live in my heart forever.
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
Chip,
You're in our thoughts and hearts as much as ever. Miss you, buddy!
You're in our thoughts and hearts as much as ever. Miss you, buddy!
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
Thinking of Chip is guaranteed to bring a smile to my face and in my heart. What a wonderful legacy. Continue to be kind to yourself, Charissa.
March 7, 2021
March 7, 2021
It has been years since my friend, Chip, passed away. But he is not forgotten. My family has great memories of him. For example, he was kind enough to laugh at all my jokes, even though everyone is the room knew they were just not funny. It was all those little small things that made him a great guy to be around with. We miss him. --Jav
March 6, 2021
March 6, 2021
Forever remembering your gift of friendship Chip and keeping you in our thoughts and prayers Charrisa.
Blessings
Marcus and Leticia
Blessings
Marcus and Leticia
March 3, 2021
March 3, 2021
missing you dear cousin❤
April 22, 2020
April 22, 2020
I remember being at on of Chip's birthdays. It was a grand time, brings back nice memories.
April 10, 2020
April 10, 2020
To be so fortunate to have experienced that kind of amazing love and partnership. I know your journey continues with your heart filled with love.
April 9, 2020
April 9, 2020
Remembering my good friend Chip especially today... and I know he would say "just chill out man..." I always loved his laugh and optomistic spirit... My continued prayers to you Charissa
April 9, 2020
April 9, 2020
Chip,
You're in our hearts and in our thoughts!!
You're in our hearts and in our thoughts!!
April 8, 2020
April 8, 2020
Looking at all these pictures brought a huge smile to my face today. So happy to have known you Chip.
April 8, 2020
April 8, 2020
Charissa:
Chip was a great guy. We all loved him. And you, Charissa, are a great lady and we all love you.
Wishing you the best,
--Jav
Chip was a great guy. We all loved him. And you, Charissa, are a great lady and we all love you.
Wishing you the best,
--Jav
April 8, 2020
April 8, 2020
Dear Charissa,
I miss Chip every day and think of him with great wistfulness and gratitude that he graced our lives with his warmth, humor, love and integrity. Truly one of a kind. Taken from us far too soon. A colossal loss of a truly outstanding man, friend and colleague. I will always remember his laugh, his kindness and his friendship. And I will always remember how very much he loved you.
Catherine
I miss Chip every day and think of him with great wistfulness and gratitude that he graced our lives with his warmth, humor, love and integrity. Truly one of a kind. Taken from us far too soon. A colossal loss of a truly outstanding man, friend and colleague. I will always remember his laugh, his kindness and his friendship. And I will always remember how very much he loved you.
Catherine
April 22, 2019
April 22, 2019
Dear Charissa,
We have a prayer for the departed in our Russian Orthodox tradition -
We pray for a "peaceful and blameless death". That was given to Chip by the grace of God. I pray that you continue on your journey toward peace and well being. May God protect you and keep you. Sending love.
We have a prayer for the departed in our Russian Orthodox tradition -
We pray for a "peaceful and blameless death". That was given to Chip by the grace of God. I pray that you continue on your journey toward peace and well being. May God protect you and keep you. Sending love.
April 10, 2019
April 10, 2019
Forever in our hearts... Chip we miss you ...and Charissa we have you in our thoughts and prayers
April 8, 2019
April 8, 2019
Chip,
Miss you very much, my friend.
Miss you very much, my friend.
April 8, 2019
April 8, 2019
Miss you buddy. Will be telling some of my favorite "Chip" stories today.
April 8, 2019
April 8, 2019
Not forgotten.
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Remembering Chip today and his great sense of humor... Thoughts and prayers for you Charissa
May 8, 2018
May 8, 2018
Hi Charissa. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings on where you are today - 5 years past. Your perspective on the 'energy' that you feel and connect with resonates so deeply with me. I know it will continue to grow stronger, deeper and evolve with the passage of time. The relationship you have now with Chip will never end which is one truth that can comfort us. Thinking of both of you so often.
April 23, 2018
April 23, 2018
Chip, your Light is Shining in all of us, it will never fade. On this special day we send our love to you.
April 22, 2018
April 22, 2018
I have the highest respect for my old friend Chip. He was wonderful man. I still find it hard to believe that he is not here with us. I can still picture him and hear him, clear as day. I am glad to have such good memories of this great guy, may he rest in peace.
April 9, 2018
April 9, 2018
I think about Chip every day and he is still an inspiration for me to be the best person I can be, and to live with humility, humanity and grace. What an example he set in all that he did and said.
April 9, 2018
April 9, 2018
Chip your Light continues to illuminate amongst all of us. Thank you for blessing us with YOU! We will never forget your smile, grace and loving kindness.
April 8, 2018
April 8, 2018
Five years passed quickly. Chip’s ENGEOness carried on at our company. Still miss you everyday.
April 8, 2018
April 8, 2018
The memories of our dear Chip will never fade. Chip, your light continues to guide us every day.
April 8, 2018
April 8, 2018
Remembering my good friend Chip today and always... Forever missed...Praying for you Charissa that God will continue to keep His arms around you as our thoughts and prayers surround you...
Marcus & Leticia
Marcus & Leticia
April 22, 2017
April 22, 2017
I met chip in the early to mid 90's at Kleinfelder. I saw the blossoming of their relationship after meeting Charissa, was priviledged to see their joining in marriage, and so I know the beginning of their love story. It truly is a love story. He was a gentleman, kind, witty and intelligent. Yes. A true gentleman.
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April 22
April 22
Happy Birthday dear friend.
--Jav
--Jav
April 9
April 9
Missing you my friend! Thanks for being an example for all of us to emulate.
April 8
April 8
Chip, we know you're very proud at the accomplishments of all the folks you led and nurtured.
We miss you, buddy.
We miss you, buddy.
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Garbage can train pass
April 22, 2018
Charissa:
Scott and I are in the kitchen remembering when you were here with Chip, Gail and Jeff. Scott, Bradley and I were laughing how he held you upside down to get my train pass that you accidently threw away. Gail and Jeff wrote about in in Januayr 2014 but the story still lives in our memory of the fun time we had and what a special person he was! Hope you are well and know you are always welcome in Scarsdale NY!
All our love,
Sue and Scott
Oh so many stories.....
April 8, 2014
by Kevin Lecce
This one is a short one. We embark on one of many business trips, this one to Phoenix, AZ. Not knowing where to stay, not wanting to be in a bad part of town but also not wanting to spend a fortune on a place to sleep we decide on a place near the airport. We chose the Vagabond Inn. It looked clean and seem to have business people there (note this was in the day-time). Well we spent the day doing meetings, had dinner and went back to the Inn. On or way to our room we noticed a few people at the other end of the second floor cat-walk. We looked at each other and smiled, our look to each other said 'no it couldnt be'. In the room a little while later after settling down watching TV and having a Rum & Diet Coke....There was a knock on the door. Chip opened the door was aone of the women that we had seen earlier. And yes our earlier look and unspoken thoughts to each other was confirmed. Chip graciously and wittily declined the womans offer, thanked her and closed the door. We both laughed and had another Rum and Diet Coke.....
March 23, 2014
I'm not afraid to say it took a few drinks to get this out. The words seem to escape me every time i try.
As a child Uncle Chip and Aunt Charissa's house was a release. It was a vacation we took three to five times a week, where I had the freedom to swim and feed fish, and be in a place where a 6th grade opinion was always valued.
As i grew i drew myself away from others. I felt that i knew what was best for me and no one could tell me otherwise. This introversion ultimately led to my own suffering.
I got myself together too late, but he saw me find direction.
He saw my wedding.
He saw my enlistment.
I wanted him to see me become a soldier.
I wanted him to see the birth of my son.
My son will be humble.
My son will be welcoming.
My son will be charismatic and sport the witt of a thousand men.
My son will know the man for which he is named.