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敬愛的姻伯母

Shared by Wendy Chiu on November 18, 2020
好懷念和阿John到頣康探你,參加你們一家搞大食會的那一天,這時大家好開心,因為你的兒孫有一手好㕑藝,我又可以有機會品嚐美味佳餚,但最令我祈待的就是同你傾計的那一刻,因為你好温柔,優雅得嚟又有氣質,靜靜的坐在你身邊聽你說話已是一種享受,感謝你不只關心我的身體健康,還問候我父母,你真係好有愛,好善良,我不捨得你離開,因為我會失去一個和靄可親的長輩。
在此我特別向你致敬,送上提摩太後書4:7~8,(因為你配得上這個讚頌),「那美好的仗我已經打過了,當跑的路我已經跑盡了,該信的道我已經守住了。從此以後有公義的冠冕為我存留,」我相信一句說話''Sunset in one land is sunrise in another!“此地的日落是彼地的日出,我想此刻你一定在主 的花園開心賞花吧! 我們約好!等到某日我們會在天家再重聚!我會在你身邊再同你傾計!祝福你在天家生活愉快!願主與你的靈同在!願恩惠慈愛與你的兒孫世代同在!阿門!
你的後輩Wendy敬上
Shared by Sam Wong on November 17, 2020
敬愛的白伯母,
多謝你和藹可親的面容!
多謝你成為我母親晚年知己互傾訴! 
多謝你培育愛主的兒女,我能與他們同工!
懐念您!

黃慶殷

媽咪給了我兩次生存的機會

Shared by Daniel Pak on November 16, 2020
媽咪除了把我帶到這世界,還在我三四歲的時候救了我的性命...
那時我因為腹部突然覺得十分疼痛,便進了醫院接受治療,當時的主診醫生認為是內科問題,打針食藥就可以痊愈。媽咪以她數十年的護士經驗,覺得並不是那麼簡單,但經過討論醫生還是堅持診斷正確。媽咪不得已只好去找另一位醫生作「第二意見」,但那位醫生外於是同事間的關係,覺得不適宜介入,就婉拒了媽咪的請求。當時媽咪不停懇求那位醫生説,為了孩子一條性命,請他無論如何都診斷一次。那醫生因為媽咪的苦苦哀求,就勉為其難為我看病。結果發現是急性盲腸炎,不到一天就有機會破裂而導致腹腔炎!於是就立即安排外科手術,雖然真的已有輕微破裂,但總算有驚無險,不過還是要住院半年有多....
若不是媽咪的專業知識和堅持,恐怕我已不在人世了!
媽咪願妳安息主懷,永遠懷念您

A super hero!

Shared by Kimberly Pak on November 16, 2020
On Nov. 13th 2020 @ 10:25am, the most resilient woman, the pillar of the Pak's family, returned home to be with our Heavenly Father. She has always been a role model to us. She doesn't need to say much but when she does its a life lesson - "money in your pocket". She might have lost an arm to a stroke but have never given up and continued to do everything on her own and can even do it better than some of us can. No matter what generation, she has touched all our lives one way or another. Her wisdom, laughter, and love will always be in our hearts. A super hero! We will miss you, but also at peace knowing that you don't need to suffer anymore and we will see eachother again.

「嫲嫲的乖孫」

Shared by Twila P on November 14, 2020
This is one of the earliest memories I have with 嫲嫲, or I should say one of the fond memories that is shared to me many times by 嫲嫲 and 爹爹.
I don't know too much in detail, but from what Dad heard from 嫲嫲 was that this was how I addressed/introduced myself when I was around 5. Most likely answering strangers when they asked me who I am when 嫲嫲 and 姨婆 took me out on a stroll to the park. Either I have heard other people referring to me as "乖孫", or I know the word "乖 good" and "孫 grandchild" and I knew I was determined to be a "乖孫" not "跩孫". Either way, I told others that 「我係嫲嫲既乖孫」right in front of 嫲嫲! When 嫲嫲 first heard that, she couldn't stop laughing. As a young child, I thought I must have used the term right since it made 嫲嫲 laugh so hard and hugged me. So since then for the longest time, I kept referring to myself as「嫲嫲既乖孫」which gave everyone a good laugh every time. Even during 嫲嫲's last days in Yee Hong, she still chuckled whenever I made this reference during our video conference. Surely this would be one of her fondest and happiest memories and hopefully, I had somewhat hold up to this name.
Shared by Stanley Pak on November 14, 2020
在內,她是六個頑童的萬能媽咪,一句以德服人,教化我們成才成人。
處外,她是三十多年的白衣天使,一生以愛憫人,療癒萬千苦痛病人。
靈巧馴良,高雅務實,美貌智慧,習於一身,
相夫教子,身體力行,神人共愛,頤養天年。
媽咪是所有身邊人的祝福。

Remembering Mom’s Resilience, Independence & Self-sufficiency

Shared by Rosa Pak on November 14, 2020
To me, mom was the epitome of resilience. We chuckle endearingly every time we reminiscent on what happened back in 2016, when she wasn’t doing well and was hospitalized. Raphael, Tiffany and I drove from Michigan to Toronto to see her. She was fairly weak when we first arrived, which left us rather concerned. Somehow, in the following hour, she recovered enough that she was discharged by the doctor. That afternoon, Daniel took her to the hairstylist and she showed up for dinner at the restaurant all decked out, fit as a fiddle.

I am in awe of her independence and self-sufficiency. She never allowed the stroke she suffered years ago, which caused immobility of her left hand and arm, to limit her abilities. I still cannot figure out how she managed to cook and make big pots of soups all by herself!
Of course, I cannot not mention how she inspired me in the department of accessorizing. Anyone who knows her would have seen her impressive collection of necklaces, rings, bracelets and earrings that she wore on a daily basis. I cannot exactly recall when we started nicknaming her Queen Elizabeth II (英女皇). She was seriously the splitting image of Her Majesty with her head of silver hair, ever present jewelry and handbag. 
Mom had been the matriarch of the huge Pak clan and will be dearly missed. Our family will never be the same without her, but I have no doubt that the bond, care and love we have for each other will continue strong. Rest well in the arms of our Heavenly Father till we meet again.
Rosa




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