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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Jerry Balusa. We will remember him forever.
April 25, 2021
April 25, 2021
Papa Jerry, It breaks my heart that you’ve left us. Not a day goes pass that you don’t pop up in my thoughts. I’ll cherish the moments that we shared. Last time I saw you was at miss Congo event. I sat next to you as we were the first people to arrive. Thank you for all that you’ve done. I’ll miss seeing your warm smile. May you rest in perfect peace, you’ll always remain in my heart. Love U Uncle x
March 28, 2021
March 28, 2021
Firstly,

I would like to mention how grateful I am that I had the privilege to experience life with you...

Our bond is so heavily inseparable that I’m still talking to you in first person because your presence still lingers.

I like how I can still hear your voice asking me “Yaya de Papa ... how are you?”

I looked up to you, a lot. As my Father and my best-friend in blood. You made it very clear that I could tell you absolutely anything and everything without “possa ah ko yoka sonny”. Cos you are my Dad and you love me regardless.

You also taught me how important it is to live my reality with courage. Hence the name Courageous.

After a particular conversation we had on the 21st of November 2020 I really saw you as the superhero to my story...

There’s not too much for me to say as we already spoke about everything when you were alive.

Thank you for stepping up as a Father and becoming the best version of yourself. I’m proud of you, always.

Lastly, I would like to show off a perfume (G-bellini: X-bolt) I had gifted you when you were alive. You told me it was your favourite and that you wanted to buy it again but life didn’t bless you with that opportunity. So, in your honour, I will sprayed it over your coffin.

May your body rest in peace and may your beautiful soul pass on peacefully.

Oam.
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Papa Gerry,
I still cannot believe you have left us , you are terribly missed. I think about how gently spoken you were you voice was so soothing and calm , I think about how you would tell me that you would always there for me if I was ill I should need you to never hesitate to call you anytime night or day and you would be there for me and if you missed my call you would get back to me as soon as possible. I’ll miss seeing you turn up on the doorstep as a surprise visit and we would sit in the lounge and tell funny jokes or stories you had a funny sense of humor, I’m glad I have wonderful memories to serve me until we meet again Rest In Peace Uncle ! 
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
I still cannot believe that you have left us Papa Jerry. I miss your sweet, wonderful smile and your serene voice. I cherish all your phone calls and voicemails that you left to check on your Nelia. I miss you so much and love you forever. Please rest sweetly in peace and prepare a place for us until we meet again
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
Thank you Papa Gerry for everything you did for me. For stepping in in place of my father at my wedding and representing me as your own. For keeping me calm when everyone knows im an over reactor lol. For mediating, for honouring my father & my mother during the wedding process. For being a voice of reason and encouragement. My heart is still broken that you went so soon. Your smile and dance moves will forever be missed! Thankful I was privileged to call you my family. ❤️ Rest well
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
Dear Papa Jerry,

Firstly, I would like to say may your soul rest in peace. Secondly, I would like to thank you for always taking the time out to come & visit us. You were always so soft spoken & had the most handsome & charming smile. The small time I would spend in the living room, you would always speak pure knowledge. I’m sad you had to go so soon. But I hope you’re finally resting peacefully. You will truly be missed by many. We love you.
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
Papa Jerry!! We will miss you! A pillar in the community who never greeted you without a smile. Thank you being such an inspiration. You will be missed TonTon. Your niece, Josselyne (Engele) Hutchings xox
March 17, 2021
March 17, 2021
Papa Jerry,
May your Soul rest in peace, you would be fondly remembered. You have gone too soon.

Adieu,
Iyo

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April 25, 2021
April 25, 2021
Papa Jerry, It breaks my heart that you’ve left us. Not a day goes pass that you don’t pop up in my thoughts. I’ll cherish the moments that we shared. Last time I saw you was at miss Congo event. I sat next to you as we were the first people to arrive. Thank you for all that you’ve done. I’ll miss seeing your warm smile. May you rest in perfect peace, you’ll always remain in my heart. Love U Uncle x
March 28, 2021
March 28, 2021
Firstly,

I would like to mention how grateful I am that I had the privilege to experience life with you...

Our bond is so heavily inseparable that I’m still talking to you in first person because your presence still lingers.

I like how I can still hear your voice asking me “Yaya de Papa ... how are you?”

I looked up to you, a lot. As my Father and my best-friend in blood. You made it very clear that I could tell you absolutely anything and everything without “possa ah ko yoka sonny”. Cos you are my Dad and you love me regardless.

You also taught me how important it is to live my reality with courage. Hence the name Courageous.

After a particular conversation we had on the 21st of November 2020 I really saw you as the superhero to my story...

There’s not too much for me to say as we already spoke about everything when you were alive.

Thank you for stepping up as a Father and becoming the best version of yourself. I’m proud of you, always.

Lastly, I would like to show off a perfume (G-bellini: X-bolt) I had gifted you when you were alive. You told me it was your favourite and that you wanted to buy it again but life didn’t bless you with that opportunity. So, in your honour, I will sprayed it over your coffin.

May your body rest in peace and may your beautiful soul pass on peacefully.

Oam.
March 18, 2021
March 18, 2021
Papa Gerry,
I still cannot believe you have left us , you are terribly missed. I think about how gently spoken you were you voice was so soothing and calm , I think about how you would tell me that you would always there for me if I was ill I should need you to never hesitate to call you anytime night or day and you would be there for me and if you missed my call you would get back to me as soon as possible. I’ll miss seeing you turn up on the doorstep as a surprise visit and we would sit in the lounge and tell funny jokes or stories you had a funny sense of humor, I’m glad I have wonderful memories to serve me until we meet again Rest In Peace Uncle ! 
His Life

Papa Jerry's Brief Bio

March 17, 2021
                                                                  Brief Biography

Ekofo Balusa also known as Jerry was a loving, humorous, and ambitious father and grandfather. Papa Jerry was born Jerry Ekofo Balusa on the 22nd of October, 1955 in Emengeye, Momkoto Village in the province of Mbandaka, in Zaire now Democratic Republic of Congo (DRC).

Papa Jerry, Dad, Granddad & Capitaine Oiseau Blue (Captain Bluebird in French, a popular name he was fondly known as, in the Congolese community) – By whatever name you may have called him, he was an amazing man, humorous, individual full of wisdom, bravery and a strong sense of duty.

He was born to the late Papa Balusa George Nkoy his father an exemplary character in the prvince, and his mother Maman Liasa Bernadette Belongo- a devoted wife, and caring mother; who demonstrated sterling zest having raised plenty children while being a proficient homemaker.

He had his early education in one of the Mbandaka Province primary schools, and later went on to attend university in Kinshasa and Bukavu after he completed his secondary education.

He obtained his Masters in Economics and afterwards attended the Military Academy EFO (Ecole des formations des officers, in Kananga – KASAI).

He went on to progress in his military Career, getting to the rank of Capitaine, and also being responsible for the logistics, as the financial director of Military Logistics in the Military Base Kokolo, Military Barrack- his was in a position of importance showing his great sense of unquestioned belief, duty, courage and a passion for purpose while he was fulfilling his role diligently serving his motherland and nation.

He left Zaire for the UK and arrived in 1995, where he survived by his 7 children and 1 adopted child, he loved them all dearly and, most people in the community knew him, always wearing a smile. The last years of his life were spent happily with his partner the Late Maman Helen Ngoy, until he passed on the 2nd of February , 2021.

“Some people live an entire Lifetime and wonder if they have ever made a difference in the world. A veteran doesn’t have that problem.” (by Former USA President) Ronald Regan.

We Salute you Capitaine, you will be greatly missed as you Rest in Peace

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Papa Jerry Balusa RIP

March 17, 2021
As you know for a fact you are going to be deeply missed.  You were such a pioneer in this family, very helpful,  loveable,  adorable  , generous  with everyone.  You were so respectful.  We did love you always.  Sudden death has taken you away but we are still marching on.  Go and rest in love . From your appreciated nephew Christian Engele. 

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