You know whats a great feeling is after someone that you love so dear to you dies? Its running into people that I never met before but knew  who you were  because Joe would talk about you and would say, hey ur Joe's sister right? Yup how did u know? Oh cuz he told me that he had a sister named desiree, then I would start up a convo with those people and not one single person EVER have anything negative to say about Joe, they all had a story to tell me about him, a story about a time that Joe helped them, how funny he was, or how he always excepted people for who they where, how he made friends with everyone he met or how someone came to work and was having a bad day Joe would be the first one to make them smile:-) listening to stories about my brother will always be the highlight of my life cuz they are always uplifting stories so if u have a story to share about Joe plz share it with us!!!    -Desiree

TRUE !!!

This is so true,  this is what our family feels EVERY SINGLE DAY, Most of us or all have experienced a loss of someone that was very dear to us and that alone is painful enough, but when a husband, father, son, brother, a cousin that is more like a brother  or someone that means the world to you is taken from you by the hands of other people really takes the pain to a whole new level that could never be put into words so these words in this post gives an idea of how our family`s life is now and will for along time!!! Thank you everyone for your stories, memories and feelings about Joe!             -Desiree (joes little sister)

somedays it's just unbearable...

I think this is what Joe would have to say ...

Omg he would scare me all the time on purpose and then would laugh his ass off , one night he was whipping around Fargo ,he could see me holding on and says "it's ok Momma I'm A cab driver " I said" what the hell does that matter " he say "it don't I'm just saying" Dam kid was such a smart-ass lol...