ForeverMissed

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, J.C. Lavering, 19, born on June 8, 1992 and passed away on September 10, 2011. We will remember him forever.

November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
What’s up bro been a min I’ve said anything and just got to say you been on my mind lately and just missing you and thinking about you about high school and that time you stayed at my dads house and then took you to your GF house and us messing around and playing video games almost all night lol and too when I went to your moms house and we where sitting in the dark eating cereal lol damn bro miss you so much love you
June 8, 2019
June 8, 2019
As I remember a long weekend of your mom's labor then waiting at the hospital for you to arrive, you finally made it...& I was there! Happy heavenly birthday, sweetie. So proud to be your grandma.
June 17, 2017
June 17, 2017
JC my man, I miss you brother. I'm sorry I missed your birthday.
I just want to say how thankful I am for the friendship you gave me early in my life. I wish you could've attend my wedding and be my best man, but I know you will be there. It's all thanks to you for telling me to be braver and talk to the girl that I am now going to marry. It's all thanks to your advice and help. I won't ever forget about you bro.
Thank you for taking care of me out there in the road as well, I know I need to learn to drive a bit slower and safer.
June 9, 2017
June 9, 2017
Another birthday has come & gone. I was busy but never too busy to think of you. Love you.
September 29, 2016
September 29, 2016
Jonathan Charles, you will always be my northern star. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of you. A guy like you is impossible to find...I still hear your voice call my name.
September 10, 2016
September 10, 2016
I still get a little emotional even tho I didn't know u long the little time we did spend was awesome u were unique and u had plans I wonder where in life u would be right now ....Rip!
September 10, 2016
September 10, 2016
Wow, 5 years. A horrible night. It's hard to believe. You would have been 24. I often wonder what you would be doing, where you would be, and many other unanswered questions.
Love & miss you, Grandma.
September 10, 2014
September 10, 2014
Gee, 3 years ago today and it still hurts. I wish you were still here. I imagine how much you would have grown, not physically but in personality, emotionally and those areas of life. You were already such an awesome young man it's hard to guess how much you would have changed.
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
Happy 22nd birthday Cousin!♡ We all miss you so much. .
June 9, 2014
June 9, 2014
Hey, Kiddo; I've been thinking about you all day. Of course I think of you all the time, but today would have been your 22nd birthday which makes it a little more difficult. I really am sad today, but I'm guessing you have lots going as you always did. I still love reading the notes and memories here because it shows me you were even a better guy than I thought. Anyway, it's almost 10p.m. here in California on the 8th and I just wanted to say Happy Birthday before the day is over. I love you.
January 18, 2014
January 18, 2014
JC.... I don't even know where to start!!
well for starters I recently found out the new which I'm highly upset about! I remember all the amazing times that we had and the way you used to flirt with me and that amazing smile of yours. I remember me being in your arms and you looking at me and telling me how beautiful I was and how I reminded you of a cali girl :) the one thing I do regret is not taking lots of photos of us.. I guess you showed me memories are more important then anything!!! love you tons and I regret dissapearing  on you. :'(
September 11, 2013
September 11, 2013
We all miss you buddy. Make sure to keep an eye on Eric while your up there for me. You know how crazy that guy is. Love you bro.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
Wow two years already flaqito, I still miss you a lot .you always going to be in my heart I LOVE YOU always thinking about you.
September 10, 2013
September 10, 2013
WOW! Hard to believe. In a few short hours it will be 2 yrs. exactly since I got one of the worst phone calls in my life. I wish you were here, but I have to believe you are in better place, no more problems or heartaches, I love and miss you.
June 8, 2013
June 8, 2013
Happy 21st Birthday Jonathan! I know everyday for u now is like a party but can't help but to wonder how nice it would have been to be celebrating ur birthday here today. Love u & miss u so much!
June 8, 2013
June 8, 2013
Wow, another year has come and gone. In a way it seems like so long ago, in another way it seems like yesterday. I wish you were here so we could celebrate together. Happy Birthday, Babe. I love you.
February 2, 2013
February 2, 2013
Hey Jonathan i haven't wrote you in a while...i know it probably seems i forgot about you but i dnt i always pray to you nd tell you goodnight ...its getting close to my birthday nd all I want is for you to be here or at least wishing i would get a happy birthday call from you... I miss you so much ,,every time i think of you i feel weaker....with you not around i feel im losing my self..
September 11, 2012
September 11, 2012
Hard day, hard to think that I can't look forward to seeing you here any more. I love and miss you. It seems like just a few days ago that I got that terrible phone call. But it's been a year, and I still can't believe you're gone.
September 10, 2012
September 10, 2012
Jst By Listeninq To Thiss Sonq Makess MeRemember All The Memories We Had And Our Conversation Anddd Whn Yiu Told Me How Muchh Yiu Lovee To Raceee I Meber Whn Yiu Toldd Me Yiu Were Goonna Teach Me How To Dance Tecktonik Bt We Didnt Gt A Chansee To Practise I Miss Yiu So Muchh Rest In Paradise I Would Always Have Yiu In My Heart Andd Mindd <3
September 10, 2012
September 10, 2012
Jonathan Jst By Lukinq At Yiurs Pics Makes Me Cry I Miss Yiu Even Tho We Didnt Spend Lot Of Times Togethers Bt With Those Day We Were Together With Jazmin Yiu Gavee Me A Smile And Laugh Andd With Tht Its Enough For Me Im Glad I Had A Class With Yiu I member Whn Yiu Would Fall Asleep Anddd I Would Do Yiur Work I Miss Yiu I Wishh I Could See Yiu Onee Moree Time Andd Givee Yiu A Deeply Huqq
September 10, 2012
September 10, 2012
Jonathan! I miss you so much, I can't believe you are gone, today I got an e mail reminding me and it brought me down so much... but I know you are in a good place and that you are taking care of you, thank you so much from sending me a lesson from heaven, I know you protected me when I crashed and that you talked to me from heaven telling me to not drive so reckless, thank you so much.RIP
September 10, 2012
September 10, 2012
I miss u so much flaquito I hope u r doing good in heaven, you are in my heart forever I will never forget those wonderful moments the we spent together.
August 30, 2012
August 30, 2012
hey JC i know ur reading this!!! its gonna be a year that u left to paradise... i still remember like yesterday of the day i first met you.. u and Randy put a fart bomb in Brandee Dorames backpack in Mrs. Woo's class..... im never gonna forget that:) me and Shanice miss you so much until we meet again and our chain will once again reunite<3
June 11, 2012
June 11, 2012
Imy!! I remember when I took u out on your birthdayThat was an expensive dinner!lol but it was worth!!i miss u calling angel eyes!IMiss and love you !4ever(: visit me in my dreams Hun!i wanna here your laugh n see your smile! We were crazy together but u made me a better person! You opened my eyes !n you always cared for me! I <3 jc !! I never will forget our long drives 2gether!Imiss them
June 8, 2012
June 8, 2012
HOY TE RECUERDO CON MUCHO AMOR,JAMAS TE OLVIDARE,SIEMPRE ESTARAS EN MI CORAZON.DIA A DIA CAMINAS CONMIGO,AYUDANDOME A SER MEJOR PERSONA CADA DIA,ERES UN ANGELITO MAS QUE ME CUIDA.GRACIAS.
June 8, 2012
June 8, 2012
You would have been 20 yrs old today, no longer a teenager. It is hard to celebrate Grandpa's birthday knowing you aren't celebrating yours, here on earth. So celebrate w/Jesus. I love you and miss you and your big smile, you telling me I'm old fashioned and so many other things. Happy birthday, Jonathan. Grandma
May 28, 2012
May 28, 2012
There's so many things going on... i wish i had you in life so i knew what to do, You always gave me the best advice..Treating me like a baby sister,,Always wanted to fight any guy who liked me bc you wanted to protect me,, There are always those nights i stay up crying trying to talk to you, asking for your help in the situation i'm in right now.. I know you'll help me<3I love you Flaco<3
April 23, 2012
April 23, 2012
Its gonna b 8months in a few weeks flaco...damn do i miss you..more than people think. i know youre watching over your loved ones, just know that you are always on our minds and in our hearts..i love you
December 11, 2011
December 11, 2011
3 months ago today " worst day ever" wish it never happened.. miss you :'( 12/10/11
November 11, 2011
November 11, 2011
It was two months yesterday since you were taken from us to be beside Jesus. It gets harder as each day goes by and now that the Holidays are here I know you will be with us in spirit but we will not be able to see you. It's soo tough to have to face reality. Love you so much and Miss You Lots!!!
November 11, 2011
November 11, 2011
yesterday was two months that the boys passed away, me & some friends went to the crash sight and it was the first time i had went since yall passed away. im glad i went it helped me get my thoughts straight. Jonathan we all miss you so much. we think about you every single day. there will never be any one like you & no one will ever come close.i hope your doing good in heaven :) iloveyou.
November 7, 2011
November 7, 2011
It's been almost 2 months and I see you everywhere, so many reminders. I have been so blessed to read the tributes and posts on fb. Many memories, many people. I knew you were a "good kid" but after reading all the fantastic things about you I am even more proud of you than before, if that is possible. Grandpa, too. I hope they keep coming, I want to learn more. Love you & miss you
October 22, 2011
October 22, 2011
I love you big brother. You will always be in my heart. I miss you!!!!!
Love, Shorty
October 10, 2011
October 10, 2011
its a month today papito..people say they see alot of you in me, but nothing is better than the real thing. i miss you so much, its a month today and it still feels like it happened lstnit. you were and always will be my other half, my brother, my bestfriend, my hero, and my hero
October 10, 2011
October 10, 2011
save ur life.

In only a few hrs it will b A month since you left us all & it still feels so unreal, i will forever miss u cousin.. "Race in paradise" :_(
October 10, 2011
October 10, 2011
Dear Jonathan; Not a day goes by that i don't think of you & it hurts so bad to know that your gone and never coming back. I wish I could off & so sorry I wasn't able to kiss you Goodbye well "see ya later" on the hands..also wish had been there I would've done the impossible to
October 10, 2011
October 10, 2011
Well JC here we are a month later and we are still thinking and praying for you...the song that reminds me of you is, " pumped up kicks"... miss your craziness!!1
September 28, 2011
September 28, 2011
‎Jonathan,
I miss you i really wish we could have seen each other way more but at this piont i guess everyonee thinks the same way as i do. I Can't Get Over The What Happened And Its Still hard For Me To Believe In Hurt Me So Much Although I know Your Inn A Better Place Now I Cant And Never Will Sto
September 26, 2011
September 26, 2011
There are good days and not so good days since everything happened. Everyone says only time helps, I just wish that there was a fast forward button on a remote control that could get us through this faster. I love and miss you so much.
September 26, 2011
September 26, 2011
I'm having a lot of trouble with this; I can't believe I won't see you again here on earth. I love you. Grandma
September 18, 2011
September 18, 2011
Jonathan we love you so much you became a part of our family with your kindness and your big smile. were going to miss your fashion tips. you will forever be in our heart and in our memories.
September 18, 2011
September 18, 2011
I used to be afraid of dying and being alone, but flaco im not anymore, because i know that ill have 3 angels picking me up. i love you and i miss you with all my heart. two against the world ninja,we promised :)
September 17, 2011
September 17, 2011
siempre estaras en mi corazon y mi recuerdo se que estas en un lugar hermoso lleno de amor y paz tengo tantas cosas mas que decir pero tu me entiendes porque sabes lo que pienso y tengo en mi corazon que Diosito te tenga muy cerca de el que alla arriba hay mucho que hacer .......
September 16, 2011
September 16, 2011
Entonces no deben sufrir penosamente,pues todavia los amo profundamente,oren para confiar en la voluntad del Padre.Todavia hay trabajo que los espera,haganlo ahora,mientras tienen vida,ya descansaran en la tierra prometida.Cuando su labor llegue a su fin,Jesus los llamara a casa.
September 16, 2011
September 16, 2011
Queridos mios estoy en casa,en el cielo,tan feliz y resplandeciente,hay dicha y belleza perfecta en esta luz permanente.Todo dolor y sufrimiento ha terminado ahora estoy en paz eternamente,tranquilo en casa,en el cielo.Vino El,El mismo a recibirme y en el brazo de Jesus estoy.
September 15, 2011
September 15, 2011
ilove you race in paradise big bro.! <3 with all my heart
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November 16, 2022
November 16, 2022
What’s up bro been a min I’ve said anything and just got to say you been on my mind lately and just missing you and thinking about you about high school and that time you stayed at my dads house and then took you to your GF house and us messing around and playing video games almost all night lol and too when I went to your moms house and we where sitting in the dark eating cereal lol damn bro miss you so much love you
June 8, 2019
June 8, 2019
As I remember a long weekend of your mom's labor then waiting at the hospital for you to arrive, you finally made it...& I was there! Happy heavenly birthday, sweetie. So proud to be your grandma.
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Iced Coffee

September 10, 2014

Well, Kiddo, I've been thinking about you a lot again.  I've been remebering the day you showed me the way you made your iced coffee.  You were so excited to have me taste it happy that I really liked it.  I went to the store last week and got creamer and have had home-made iced coffee a few times since and thought about you each time.  I told Grandpa that you are one that told me how to make it.  Thanks for the coffee and the memory.  I love you.

July 25, 2013
Man Bean, I can't believe you've been gone still. Sometimes I have to remind myself that you're not here...I just feel like you're still in Texas and we just lost touch. I remember taking this picture at Del Amo park. We had so many memories there. Anyways i had a dream about you the other night it was so vivid and i miss you. I miss you like the friend you were. You always knew how i felt before i told you. I Miss that. I have a beautiful 9 month old daughter now and I wish you couldve met her. Shes amazing she lights up my whole world. She wouldve lit up yours too. I've turned my life around right after you passed. I just wish we wouldve both done it sooner maybe you'd still be here. Miss you bean.

The Brave

September 10, 2012

JC I miss you so much bro, sometimes when I hear a certain song I cry because it reminds me you are gone... but I know you are in a better place and that I will see you there, I can't wait to see my brother again! I want to share this story that it's so beautiful, you Jonathan gave me the most special gift life could give me and it was all because you pushed me to be brave and talk to this one girl.
Summer School Villa Park 2009, it was in the first week of summer school, we were hanging out with the "Crew" and one day I saw this girl that just took my heart as she walked, I told you many times about her and even showed you who she was, you told me that I could totally talk to her, you encouraged me to do it and even tho it took you about two weeks to convince me to talk to her and one day I finally did, because of you, she seemed a little shy and confused and I only talked to her for a little bit, I thougth I was never going to see her again but you gave her my number and a week after she texted me, and from there I met the love of my life, a few days ago we celebrated our third anniversary and you were part of it, I love you JC and thank you so much for pushing me, for encouraging me and for giving Bralin my number, I will never be able to thank you enough!

JC I miss you and I will never ever forget you, thank you for all those beautiful memories my brother, I love you!

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